A Question for the Girls!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Do you mean as your selection criteria on RHP ? First things I look at is.. * From the pics - Face / eyes (I would forgive a lot as long as I like the face) * How they write and if we connect that way * Arms and chest and ass * I am short so height not an issue really *Age - always thought I preferred younger men but was recently converted - love the feeling of being dominated / protected that you get when you with someone older than yourself. That's not to say a younger man couldn't make me feel that way too. I am still looking. LOL In person...... * If their eyes speak to me - I think they call them bedroom eyes - I am a goner. * Personality - make me laugh and is confident * Arms, chest and ass all the things I love to kiss. xxx Meeka

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I mean my selection in every day life and rhp life....!!! I too like the eyes, talk to me talk to me...I think women are more into minds of the opposite sex, the rest is a bonus.. In all honesty I don't advertise to yearn the young ones, although many have pleased me in mind and body...go figure.. xxx hot new pic btw xxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  A Brain!!!! Pusscat xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Yes a brain is a must - doesn't have to be Einstein though Has to be independant & confident too and turn me on with words as well as a saucy look.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I like it when they play a little hard to get - if they are too keen it just turns me off. I suppose I like a little bit of a challenge - especially when I have to beg. LOL Oh - turned on now.....

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  The eyes! the window to the soul! together with a warm, cheeky smile! And good body language! And a great sound! Good Conversation! And of course put that all together with physical attraction! Thats what I Like! xxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I like the eyes, the chest, the arms, the thighs, the arse, hair. I like a bit of hair. Dont mind ink, not into feet at all, they are usually covered for a while anyway, hands. I do notice hands. Yep I can be quite visual...even down to the general shape of thier penis. But what gets me most is the mind. Oh yes. Stimulate the brain, fire the imagination and the rest of the body will follow. Then the voice. Warm and dark and gravelly over the phone at midnight.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  It's the liitle things I notice....all in the detail. What they say, how they say it...... How they are dressed makes a huge impact on me...but not just that, it's what sort of shoes they wear for example, how they have looked after their clothes (or not) and then personal grooming, complexion, if they smell good....you can tell lots just by meeting someone in the flesh for half an hour and they don't have to say a word. There's more but I won't write an essay here. Eye contact, how they carry themselves (nervous? low self esteem? etc), how they speak to waitstaff in bars, cafes for example. Small gestures, how somebody listens, asks questions............ok I'm getting too detailed here. I like: manners, intelligence, eye contact, good conversation, nicely dressed or at least made an effort, love nice hair, nice eyes and good voice. Oh, and hands...big fan of nice hands.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Age is only a number it is irrelevant if the connection between the people involve transcends time anyway... It depends on what you believe and that depends on what you have allowed yourself to experience in life and whether you allow what yourself to experience to remain true... Two of the best matched people I know are over 10 years apart in age-they are both highly intelligent people-she would terrify any man of her age as she is so self assured and strong and he is quite youthful in thought and looks so he felt out of place with women of his age-that were so old in the way they lacked the enthusiasm and vigor of living with passion-jaded and cynical. Over 10 years of marriage later-they are a formidable force-their partnership stronger than ever... One day she walked into his life and he changed everything to be with her....it happens...don't let the sad sacks on here tell you it doesn't-it does. You may also be less than 10 years chronologically apart-life events also affect how mature you are by a certain age-death, war, illness, abuse-these things are not on profiles or immediately visible unless you have been through them or witnessed them you can sense it in another-these can make a 40 year old man 30 or a 30 year old woman 35 so there's still going to be an age difference. Love or the initial lust or desire that is beyond the physical that manifests into that powerful love that feels like a tidal wave and sweeps all you have ever known away-doesn't really care your age-because it comes from a place beyond the superficial-as it is not usual-you can't help but treat them that they are special as your soul knows when you have finally met that person-it is a supernatural force that cannot be vanquished or ignored-as much as one or both may try to ignore its presence. You can laugh-you would if you are a monkey and lack capacity to understand or ever feel it. However if you are not a monkey you know exactly what I am talking about. It's not about being lovestruck-it's about being unable to be happy being apart from this person-the connection that is so obvious in old couples that are devoted-what you see didn't just happen once Norm turned 60-that sparkle in his eye for her had been there for over 30 years before you saw it. Often it doesn't make sense-they may occupy places in different worlds-however neither finding their soul's match in where they are, so it is inevitable that their paths should cross in the most unlikely of places.... One may be tempted to pursue a superficial attraction for either party, believing oneself for whatever reason has made you popular previously puts you at an advantage to attempt to separate this union-however you're fighting a losing battle if you try to step in its way...kind of like trying to step in front of a moving train expecting it to stop for you-messy and tragic outcomes-for you. Call it astrology call it chaos theory-it happens for a reason and when you feel it happen or see it happen with someone you know you can attempt all the cynicism you like-it will not affect its outcome. Or erase the reality of its existence-having heard an old man speak at his wife's funeral about how he was over 40 and he'd given up of ever meeting anyone-until the day she walked in, again some years younger and how she changed everything-changed him-made him want to be a better man even more as he couldn't work out why she so beautiful and full of life wanted to be with him-sad, grumpy and lonely. She said it was because he made her laugh in a way that no one else did and he obviously needed her more than anyone else, made me realise how although for years my friend's father was quite a reserved and grumpy man from the West Midlands the reason my friend has such a wonderful sense of humour and is so beautiful as a person was that she had grown up the only child of two people very much in love despite their initial differences. It's funny how people don't look anything alike however you meet someone new and they remind you so much of someone else-I can only guess it's so in the new person's absence you have someone that reminds you of the person you are missing-to make you think of them more fondly. The first thing I'll notice is... their brain...it controls everything else...and it's more visible than you would usually perceive... in their clothes and their tattoos it's not taking one thing and making a snap judgement-it's about being able to assess the whole rather than it's parts....anyone can have had a disaster like their friend's kid vomiting on them necessitating that they be currently wearing a Celine Dion t-shirt or maybe they have a warped sense of humour-however it's a t-shirt however-if you have a historical monument, quote or coat of arms inked on you-a lot more thought has gone into than some t-shirt... Why would you want to even deal with anything else if there's nothing worthwhile to drive it...like having the Enterprise with two guys on exercise bikes trying to get it up to warp speed...it's pitiful really...it's never going to take flight...it's just going to go splat as they pedal ever faster to try to keep up.... You can tell how big their brain is by looking it's how they look back-there's not a vacant "let's f***!" monkey stare...there's desire but there's questions and answers in their glance... How they tilt their head to listen...as they are not too stupid to comprehend the language let alone the suggestion...the response times and how they respond...how often they make you laugh... How they move when they walk over...you know you are not going to be disappointed as not only have they mastered walking upright they do it with pleasure... When they speak there are no holes in their story... as the truly clever ones know there is no point to lie as the truth is always discovered eventually- especially by me...and if you have no credibility it doesn't really matter how hot you are, how good you taste or how big your c*** is...I will never look at you or want you in the same way... It doesn't help at all make the woman you are with be as giving in bed...the lounge room floor...the kitchen...the lounge...the bathroom...the hallway...the club...the cab...early in the morning...late at night...anywhere...anytime... Give me a man that without reserve or hesitation says "I stopped thinking with my c*** long ago" or "You can not willingly or knowingly hurt someone you love...and the emotion of love concentrates above every other...including fear. That is why we die in battle...love and honour" They can also work out not everything in life is permanent...so should you find yourself through no fault of your own really having to stretch to reach the top shelf where you are used to being, to try to reach the something you really want they're not the ones that are going to stand behind you to try to stick it in, cop a feel or leer at the first opportunity... They'll be there behind you but it's only to steady your footing atop the mess of the boxes of stuff you've previously assembled which has failed to try to get yourself back on top...anyone can move in on the weak or vulnerable-clever guys only put the moves on someone that's ready...as they are smart not acting clever...which is the most attractive kind of person there is really... Everything else can be modified with surgery or pomades....their brains....well what exactly do you think you are licking when you are down there? I really like to lick a clever man's brains...sometimes by giving him an eargasm...sometimes with my tongue... All guys like the Simpsons...it's like shooting fish in the barrel with that...but you have the ones that go "ha ha funny man fall down" and then there's the one's that get f***ing is great but at some time there may be something more if appropriate to be enjoyed and appreciated....in varying degrees The wisdom of Homer... Kirk: Singles life is great, Homer. I can do whatever I want. Today I drank a beer in the bathroom.Homer: The one down the hall.Kirk: Yeah! And another great thing, you get your own bed. I sleep in a racing car, do you?Homer: I sleep in a big bed with my wife.Kirk: Oh. Yeah. -- Bringing up painful memories, "A Milhouse Divided"Almost lunchtime... Does that make me a love zombie now? No cause they dis-member(s) and swallow all things quite randomly...dead inside but forever feeding... Bad fairy...bad fairy....don't be mean to the other creatures cause you're all cranky at a particular wolf...it's not your way...you're not greedy and remember you have wonderful friends... Some are very powerful with an extremely hot voice...deadly skills...wielding justice and quite volant. Much smarter than your average bear...but then again that's what is appealing about wolves... The difference between wolves and a dog is that old dogs really can't learn new tricks and will try to convince you no one else can either.. A wolf is always learning something new...and they will teach you a lot.....you can't train them... so don't kid yourself....they don't respond to voice commands...you can only at best coax them... Wild creatures can't be kept in your backyard-it is the surest way to kill their spirit...and have them turn on you... However you may get lucky...if they think you've learned your lesson they may just turn up on your porch for their regular irregular visits. In the gods and the lunar cycle we trust.... *smirk* NymphetamineDrm

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  As a 28 year old I think I know exactly what I like in a man... actually I have no idea, I just tried writing a list and cant do it hahaha. Ok try again these are all sexy traits to me - Height, I like tall men its not hard to be tall to me though cause Im only a midget lolz 161cm Humour Compassion Smile Ability to perform well in bedroom Eyes General fitness Tattoos Extreme sports Musicians

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Smile Eyes Tall Sense of humour Great kisser Gentle yet passionate After he's naked: Chest hair (but not too much) Arms A nice big, thick cock preferably uncut Beautiful balls and not too hairy (neatly trimmed, NOT shaved) And finally a sexually satisfying spirit that says "I'm going to make your sexual experience with me the best you've ever had". Believe it or not, I've found him!

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  15 years ago

  Quoting 'sweetwithdesire' Smile Eyes Tall Sense of humour Great kisser Gentle yet passionate After he's naked: Chest hair (but not too much) Arms A nice big, thick cock preferably uncut Beautiful balls and not too hairy (neatly trimmed, NOT shaved) And finally a sexually satisfying spirit that says "I'm going to make your sexual experience with me the best you've ever had". Believe it or not, I've found him! Oh Can you please clone him thanks xxx Happy for you xxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Jensta just described my hot man with whom I've shared a wondrful 14 years with. I am a very lucky girl !

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  a cheeky disposition, smiling eyes and a hard cock ;)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If you ever need help with reasons you may be alone... Men are generally pigs. Would you ever have em any other way when it comes to crunch time & he is licking parts of your body that secrete you... Spare a thought. Some of my biggest orgasms came from target shoppers. I dont mean any disrespect. You have high standards. Rare these days. Hey ... hang on. I just realised that you must be of affluence & and breeding. I should have flirted with you instead. Doh,

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