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ASK ME on profiles
October 17 2018
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Tall74nHard9
7 years ago
easier to bypass people when all they have is a complete profile of "ask me" answers.Can't be bothered to put down a few simple details - then can't be bothered to acknowledge them. Simples...
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Service_man
7 years ago
It is most annoying --what have they got to hide ??? If they have Ask in profile fields me --I wont
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RHP User
7 years ago
a default setting, and/or laziness.
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Service_man
7 years ago
Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' a default setting, and/or laziness.If they are too lazy to enter information in the designated field--thats a good indication on how the sex (Lazy sex ) is likely to be LOL . However I can understand that a lot of women would be guarded and on the defense --
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RHP User
7 years ago
I hope you guys don't judge me that easily. 😉 You'd have to ask me why? 😎
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Either lazy or are hiding something, in our opinion. For example : smoking : ask me To us it implies that they are perhaps smokers but have deliberately kept this off their profile, and will probably give two different answers depending on whether a smoker or non smoker is asking the question. Either way we assume the default is “yes” for this one . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The odd criteria that has ''ask me'' is okay, although if ''ask me'' is in the smoking column I take that as a ''yes'', so they are trying to be vague on such details and failing miserably. When it is across the board, in every criteria, there may be a factor of, particularly those members in small towns, ''if I put too much detail people may guess that it's me and discover that I like BDSM''. I think, however, that most people find such vagueness off-putting. It seems like someone has something to hide - that is just ordinary human suspicion.
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NightToRemember
7 years ago
Presumably the purpose of a profile is to attract contact. If ‘ask me’ works for some people, then good luck to them! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’ll send a msg about an “ask me” is to clarify the unanswered smokers or not question.. that aside I don’t feel that leaving multiple spots as ask me is enticing people to send messages to ask about the ask me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Then why wouldn't you fill out the questions.If you're saying "Ask Me", with the smoking question, then maybe this is an alarm bell that you should quit smoking.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It annoys me when people have ask me for smoking Only 14% of the population smoke now Just be upfront and say they smoke Have had couples turn up reeking of smoke yet they say they don’t smoke just do when they get nervous
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s laziness But what I find more intriguing are the copy n paste disclaimers to Sydney uni etc Weird I’m certain nobody in education cares about your crappy profile 😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
Kitty_69 - that’s the worst one to leave as ask me...
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RHP User
7 years ago
You used the bisexual term in your OP. As in the same context as a chain smoker. Perhaps check your own profile where the woman is listed as bisexual. Not sure who is posting but either way l think your attitude is questionable at least, more likely fucked. Want to explain your prejudice?
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Got the popcorn ready for this.....
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RHP User
7 years ago
The original post was referring to missing information with regards to a males sexuality. It’s not being derogatory I feel not belittling. Should you have something to say further to me about this please do so via private message. Turning forum topics into shit fights is not productive for anyone. I look forward to your message to chat about this further. Having said that our profile is completed. I am bisexual. I do not have anything against anyone who is bi sexual (female or male) however we do not seek a bisexual male so find it frustrating once chat starts to find this out.of listed on the profile then it prevents any confusion as to the orientation of the profile owner.
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RHP User
7 years ago
You feel it's not belittling?As a bi sexual male, I am offended, greatly being labelled like an undesirable leaper based purely on my sexuality.Perhaps reread your OP? I have no need to chat personally. Your comments were posted on a public forum and therefore any further response you have, should be in the public forum for all to see. Bi men are tired of the prejudice based on sexuality/gender. It's 2018.Why do some people have a different tolerance level between a bisexual woman and bisexual man.Do you think if you invite a bisexual man in, he's going to try and hump your straight man? Given the choice, 99% of bi men will go for the woman if they have relatively equal physical qualities. Chances are, you have had a bisexual man in the bedroom with you but due to these prejudicial views you have shown, they find it easier to say they are straight and keep it hidden. And due to these views, there are men who are married to bisexual women that cannot explore their bi sexual feelings toward other men because they are not permitted to by the wife who is free to explore her own bi sexuality. That is a fact. I have had relations with men in that very situation who are forced to lie and cheat behind there partners back because she is so narrow minded and focused on her own selfish needs without consideration for her significant other.How fucked is that?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm completely on topic as I'm commenting on your original OP.
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
Simple solution: send these profiles an email with about 20 questions asking everything they told you to "ask me" about. Job done. :)
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