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Age Difference

December 19 2020

Hi Sexy RHPs, there's a considerable age difference between us of 14 years, and this is not to say we don't have awesome sex, but we sometimes think this could be a factor in other couples not being interested in us. There's no lack of interest in Mrs as she is absolutely gorgeous, but we think the blocker could be the older man. What is the consensus out there? Appreciate your feedback. Saltandpepper x

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pizzadogs

5 years ago

We have the exact thing

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funtimescouple1

5 years ago

We don't see any problem at all. There would be plenty of couples out there where Mrs likes more mature men and Mr likes younger women or the opposite. Variety is the spice of life! We've played with couples who are considerably younger than us. It's all about connection, not age. Some more public pics might help and not sure how long you've been on here but validations will help too. If you're coming to the Gold Coast,sometime please message us.

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FeistyFatty

5 years ago

Agree. For me personally it'd be a swipe left. Couples with a sizeable age gap will be a hard sell to other (some*) couples. Its hard enough getting 4 people to ALL have a mutual attraction enough to be intimate. There's quite a few couples with the same dynamics as you on RHP though.... maybe reach out to those with similar circumstances. Best of luck.

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teamaj2

5 years ago

S & P We don’t overthink our age gap of 19 and a half years . We are blissfully happy after 15 amazing exciting years together , we have an amazing sex life and are truly blessed . If people aren’t into us because of our age gap that’s 100% okay . People not wanting to connect with us or yourselves could be for any number of reasons . Being patient and waiting for like minded people where the attraction is mutual is surely worth the wait . Goodluck A x

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Sawadee

5 years ago

Unfortunately ' there will always be small minded people with age phobia ... Personly ' age is a non issue for me if l like the person..

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ReyandJean

5 years ago

Don't get hung up on the idea that the age difference is the issue. It may be in some cases, but won't be in other cases. It makes a world of difference to meet people away from the keyboard, where judgment is on presentation, rather than profile stats.

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RHP User

5 years ago

You're profile doesn't state you are only looking for other couples for swapping. If you're into playing separately then you might have a better chance of finding matches, and you could mention that in your profile. The 4-way dynamic is so much harder to find. My longest partnership was 14 years older so definitely not a problem for me.

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NewCouple2020

5 years ago

There’s an 18 year age gap between us and we’ve never had an issue.

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RHP User

5 years ago

Doubt there would be an issue with the age gap, that’s not uncommon As others have said, more pics! If you’re going to go the whole hog and list as ‘very attractive’, show us. x

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AnnieWhichway

5 years ago

Cant see a problem. Some focus on numbers. Its about the person and how they relate to the now. I've been surprised how well some older gents perform compared to the younger bunch. Its also a generally socially thing for the guy to be older and 14 years is nothing after you pass late 20s. But factor in the shallow people, they are the ones that will reject you by numbers

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SpicyKale

5 years ago

Not even remotely a problem with us and others we know! While we've never met with a couple with a large age gap, we've gone on dates with people twenty years older and ten younger than us. A connection is a connection and I think that mindset also takes a while to come for some on here (if ever) Annie might be onto something, there's plenty on here that select by pics and filters, not that there's anything wrong with that approach. Going on your profile you're interested in the social side of the lifestyle.... I'd be surprised if don't have a stack of luck going down that path. If you're anything like us and don't really enjoy clubs there's people out there that run events for dinners, cocktail parties etc... maybe a bit harder to find, but once you get your foot in the door with a few like-minded folk you'll be fine! We've gone with the approach of finding the occasional great match rather than playing a numbers game, if it means we only meet the very occasional new couple so be it, a selective group of friends can be a good thing😊

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LibraLovers

5 years ago

My (F) preferred age is 10-30 years older than me, so it wouldn't bother me at all. In my experience, people here are generally open minded - we have a 13 year gap and had zero issues. However on my solo profile I do get declined a lot due to my age. Maybe try checking the profiles list a wider age range that you both fall into. Have people told you your age gap is the reason? I wouldn't assume so otherwise - lots of rejection is normal, and people have all sorts of personal reasons. I think it's likely not about his age, but more so because women are in higher demand. No matter what you write in your profile, plenty of people will approach with interest only in the female half hoping she'll play alone. Mutual attraction becomes less likely the more parties you add to the equation, so there's always going to be less interest in both of you than there is in her. Maybe if you're struggling to get matches you could ask the forum for profile/messaging tips. If you're battling a lot of incorrect bias due to the stats in your profile (e.g. age, race, etc), it will be easier to meet people by attending some events in person. I think a more human interaction where you're taken at face value, will represent you better than a set of stats.

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RHP User

5 years ago

We have never had a problem, however we do mainly get approached by older couples . We prefer more mature couples anyway as they tend to be more social .

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SlvrFox_Godess

5 years ago

We have an age gap (20 years), but like anything with attraction, everyone is into different things. Whether it's age, height, build etc, you'll find people who are into what you have and people who aren't. The couple or person who are right for you as a couple will be into you both!

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Freaky_Fun

5 years ago

I don't think 14 years is much at all. And going by your photos l wouldn't have thought there was. Both attractive people, l think most people make the mistake of thinking things will happen quickly.

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RHP User

5 years ago

We basically sit in the same boat with an age gap op 10 years. Mrs is beautiful. However Some couples age ranges either just falls in or out or our range and that makes it hard to sell us. We’re both attractive people, but have not had straight off the bat good solid responses. When they see our facial pictures then wow ok cute. But it’s to get that initial attention that’s difficult. I feel age is but a number ...!

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RHP User

5 years ago

There is that old rule of thumb of half your age plus 7 years, but that seems to be a bit young nowadays. I generally think that 10 years difference is about right now. It's so different online because our ages are prominently displayed, but in a face to face meeting in a social situation age is much less relevant and attraction is a bit more natural.

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Richoman81

5 years ago

I see no problem with it. Speaking from the perspective of someone who's had a casual partner for the last 9 years; she's now 70 & I'm 39 - 31 years difference. For us, the age gap is a turn-on. Although she knows I see other people, she's a 'one-man woman'. So unfortunately, swinging or sharing isn't on the cards when we're together.

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