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All Good Things Come To An End
July 03 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
Love reflecting, I never forget them and never will, so many dirty little secrets to take to the grave with me, but thoughts of them warms me on these cold winter nights. A special friend contacted me today after a long time. I thought I'd never see him again. He was one of the first guys I ever hooked up with and amazing. He's so warm and intimate loves kissing and lingering, both ends and has the talent to go with it, so i have a very big smile on my face. We've shared some amazing times and we can hook up quickly, it's always good. I feel close to him, and he does me. So with him, he ghosts me until he's ready to see me again (little fucker) and the last period of time had me worried, I thought that was it, happy now. I will say I don't allow this with a lot of guys, they have to be good, damn good, and they have to really be into me, love me in the moment. He does. He makes me feel like I'm the hottest thing on earth So from him, I'll always see him, and there have been others like that, but some who choose to go down that path and find they don't get a reply from me, I then ghost haha Sounds stupid but I have to admit, I've turned into a ghoster myself, it's either fun or it's not, for one person or the other, I want fun and I want it to be fun for them also. If it's not for either party, then we move on, much as I miss some of them. And I hate the suggestion that we're 'grown ups' and we should discuss things like grown ups. I don't intend being a grown up anytime soon and have ghosted guys for that very statement. They can go right ahead and be a grown up, just leave me out of it. Anyone tells me how I should behave or express distaste for my unique qualities, they're not for me, I move on. Ghosting might seem hurtful but words can do a lot more harm in my opinion. There is one guy though I think about every day, every waking moment I think, long to hear his voice again, it still hurts, but I carry on, lurking about at Bunnings looking for a sausage
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Came to an end just before the huge change in my personal life took place. I don't know why it ended, as it was not a discussed and mutually agreed decision. We just drifted apart naturally (literally without exchanging any words) when his and my circumstances changed. I guess it's good in a way that we broke away from each other like that, so no hurt was launched at either side, no hard feeling and we still maintain sufficient respect for each other, as he still sends me his regards once in a while. I used to have a FWB, half a decade ago, who ghosted me all of a sudden while I was in overseas. We had made plans for me to visit him (as we lived in different states back then) when I return from my trip, and we maintained close contact with him texting me every morning to say good morning and every night to say good night. However, towards the end of my trip, the man suddenly went cold and asked me to cancel my flights to his hometown, and his excuse was he had to travel interstate for work in the weekend that we had actually planned and agreed together! No doubt my mind went buzzing with suspicion the second I received his text about the cancellation, but I maintained my dignity and let it be. Then everything just went deadly silent from that point onwards. But about two months after I returned from my trip, the man texted me out of the blue asking for a catch up. I must say, I have grown a lot wiser in choosing a partner because of this man lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have had health problems I haven't seen my FB for months but we do keep in touch Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's all about maturity, i meet 2 couples on rhp ,i had really good time with them,one of my regular couple moved from wa but we still keep in touch, it's purely about sex but need to be friends first, everyone have different thinking. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
No great loss to me. All good my end. :) Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
One guy i caught up with for years got jealous when another guy left me a validation I wasn't gosted but explained we weren't exclusive to each other and parted company Another tried to get in between hubby and myself so I just cut all communication there and then - Posted from rhpmobile
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aussian43
10 years ago
Most of mine ended when she relocated to another city. Also had one end because she fell into a monogamous relationship. I am still friends with most of them and chat on a regular basis. Have had one ghost on me, she was already in a distant city, and all I had was her email. Her number was in my old phone, so a good chance she no longer uses that address. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
nearly all have ended in ghosting and not on my behalf. I would much prefer they let me know so therefore I would not ghost myself (except for one time when the guy was dangerous)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hotel room tonight in scabs who's keen - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
After 2.5yrs and the tyranny of availability he decided to renew his loyalty and faithfulness to his wife. We're down to wishing each other a Happy Birthday 🎂 We tried to set up a rendezvous in May but I needed the blessing of my current significant other (actually thinking I'd get it!!) who then acquired his number and threatened him 😳. He's regretted it since because it did change the dynamics of our relationship but the damage is done. In a way it helped seal the ⚰. He's said I can find someone else BUT FFS it's nigh on impossible finding someone who floats my 🚤 and vice versa. Finding a fuck is easy enough finding mutual lust, chemistry and connection is something else. I had another guy but he was convinced he had too much baggage and went on his merry way. There were one or two who wanted to stay but you know how it is when you "friend basket" someone. 🤔 Anyway, onward and upward. 👍🏽. Indy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hope that you are in much better health now. Hopefully, you'll get to catch up with your FB soon too!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ouch! Wouldn't it be much worse if he were to really tell you that? :-P Yowpers... Listen to the sound of my breaking heart!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've been reading your posts and know that you are going through tough personal struggles atm. I hope that your situation will improve soon and that a great man will find you and treasure you for the gem that you are! Please take care of yourself! Caregiver stress is very real.
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RHP User
10 years ago
definitely hearing you there. Fucks are easy to find yes, but the whole package for ongoing, damn hard. I was just thinking about that, the really great ones are irreplaceable. You wanna come hang out at Bunnings with me, lurk around looking for a sausage
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RHP User
10 years ago
They ghost! It's so cowardly and even if you weren't super keen, you're left wondering what you did wrong. I've never done that myself - I will go silent and if they go silent as well then that's that, but if I go silent and they reach out to me then i'll tell them that i'm no longer interested. The silence on both ends is often the way it tapers off - when we could both sense that it had gone its course. Miss Little x
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I'm learning that here's so many new terms out there being used to meet people, like hovering, benching, zombieing. Ms Foxy
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Very recently ended my good thing. For 12 months we fucked hard and loved hard. But we fought hard too. We tried again and again. Rekindled several times but we both agreed the magic had gone. So we hope to become friends out of all this. Maybe wingwoman for each other at events in the future when we have settled. We both shared several firsts from the fucket list. We taught each other many sexual things. But both positive from it all and move forward with great memories. And isnt that what it is all about?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am working on it 😘xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have fantastic memories of a concurrent relationship with two married scorpio women lasting over 10 years. The first one took my breath away...........euro asian....beautiful and she wanted more than our FWB relationship. Our connection and attraction was amazing. She decided to stop our relationship and resume her unhappy relationship with her husband. we are friends and she contacts me when she requires me. The second scorpio women wanted exclusivity and transgressed from a love hate relationship to hate. Fruit loop
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Just think to yourself they obviously realised they were punching above their weight and wouldn't have been into them anyway 😘👍🏽😎 ~ Indy
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Is now my boyfriend, my friend, my gentleman, my lover, my Dominant and my Daddy. We have reconnected after 12 months apart, it's been a wonderfull reconnection and I couldn't be happier to have him in my life. It's hard to find someone who gives you what you need, what you crave, that takes you to where you need to go and I've found all that, I won't be giving it up any time soon. Im feeling extremely lucky, grateful and loved. 💋
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On_Safari
10 years ago
When I go to Bunnings sausage is the last thing on my mind.....it's usually stainless or brass, d-shackles, barb gauge, lengths, hessian or cord and of course zippy ties.....sometimes I lash out and head off to the Feedbarn for other stuff. So no not interested in a sausage trip, besides I have a gastric lapband and sausages are one of the things I usually regurgitate ~ Indy 😇😈😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
I still talk to my ex FWBs. We laughed, we loved, we fucked, and now we are still friends. Why should it end? xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' When I go to Bunnings sausage is the last thing on my mind.....it's usually stainless or brass, d-shackles, barb gauge, lengths, hessian or cord and of course zippy ties.....sometimes I lash out and head off to the Feedbarn for other stuff. So no not interested in a sausage trip, besides I have a gastric lapband and sausages are one of the things I usually regurgitate ~ Indy 😇😈😎Have I taught you nothing, not that kind of sausage I just go in there to flirt, seriously, I do. Wear my skins in winter, shows the outline of my pussy, float in, act casual ahaha then hover at the battery stand, ask for assistance. Funny, I had this young guy ask me what I wanted the batteries for one day, innocently, but he realized within seconds and went bright red poor thing. I just smiled. God, so you have a lapband. My cousin had one of them and it sounds awful, like a constant battle to balance, quantity I mean, so you don't bring it back up. She lost an enormous amount of weight though. A tough way to do it but good for you. Actually I met another lady years ago, I was only in my 20's and was doing a computer course at the time (back in the days before the mouse, showing my age, MS Dos with all the F commands, God that seems like the dinosaur age looking back now) but she put all her weight back on, and she was morbidly obese. She consistently ate too much, threw up, and repeated the process, until her stomach stretched again. Anyway, that won't happen to you because I'll be setting you other tasks to take your mind off food and teaching you important life skills, for example, you don't go to Bunnings to actually buy stuff what's with that?
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Thank you for your kind words, as well as your acknowledgement of the stresses that associate with the caregiving role 😙 I believe in fate and destiny, so it is my destiny to walk the path that I'm currently walking and I am moving forward with no regrets, but with a big bright smile, no matter what! 😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I really miss my last fuck buddy, we were a couple for a while but it didn't work out despite the best sex either of us had ever had. She was also the first squirter I'd ever met, and after the first time she squirted all over over my cock I was hooked on squirt. We still shared a house together after we split up which was a bit awkward because we didn't talk much and lived our own lives. About 4 weeks after we split up, I walked in to the lounge to find her with her top around her neck, her bra on the floor, one hand squeezing her huge tits and her other hand was inside her panties as she fucked herself with 3 fingers, I watched as she started slowly and slowly got faster and faster, then she started squirting her cum over her fingers and through her panties, while she was recovering from the massive orgasm, I quickly jumped between her wide spread thighs and sunk my hard cock balls deep as she screamed in fright before realiseing it was me pound into her, she had the biggest squirting orgasm I've ever seen, a huge gush of juice sprayed out as soon as I took my cock out, she must have cum nonstop for at least a minute. We have been fuck buddies from that day until only a month ago when she moved overseas for work. I still have our best memories in the wank bank and a couple of times we have both masturbated as we told each other what we would love to be doing if we were together, some awesome wanks have been had. I MISS MY FUCKBUDDY, who wants to be my new one??
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RHP User
9 years ago
Bunnings is the most appetising Sausage Sizzle, Every Weekend...........................................Customer Satisfaction Guaranteed every time! Staff suggest "Would you like to upsize your sausage sandwich today".........the customer replies "Mmmmmm yes please" July Promotion - WINTER WARMER SPECIAL- Order One Now on Entry, and be rewarded with a Special Take Home Order on Exit(N.B........The Special Take Home must of same or similar value of the product range purchased)Disclaimer, the customer reserves the right to not accept any product of poor quality Sorry just got caught up in the Bunnings replies to Op. Now back to Op Post.....I would like to think that any encounter/connection/bond ends with an appreciation of the time shared together, and the chapter closes nicely. Its best to smile at fond memories of what was shared than to feel pain that it ended. Some Lovers come into our lives for a Reason, Some come and go for the Season.Some Lovers give each other a lot of Pleasing, And some hurt, lie and sting like Treason The last line, usually slams that chapter shut. Sometimes the whole book. Stay tuned for the sequel of new beginnings!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well folks mine isn't a fling but a marriage that lasted for 19 years 😪😪😪😪😪😪😪 He got confused and wasn't sure if he wanted me anymore. Wow that hurts. But maybe it's time to find me again and find some new friends x
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Very recently ended my good thing. For 12 months we fucked hard and loved hard. But we fought hard too. We tried again and again. Rekindled several times but we both agreed the magic had gone. So we hope to become friends out of all this. Maybe wingwoman for each other at events in the future when we have settled. We both shared several firsts from the fucket list. We taught each other many sexual things. But both positive from it all and move forward with great memories. And isnt that what it is all about? In my opinion it's all about experiencing and exploring together, while having each other's back and respecting each other, always. It's not about being called a freak by someone you thought you could trust. You asked, my 2cts. My bad for oversharing as always but that wont be happening any more on here. I've learnt the hard way and my personal life will never overlap with the forum. At least after this post............. As that event was discussed after, my interpretation of being called a freak was different to hers. She called me a freak because a meeting that was supposed to be a 3some evolved without our knowledge in to a 4some. The extra person was not considered attractive enough for her to play and my girl called stop. We left without question.We talked about that on the way home and i indicated that I would have still played if she had have wanted to proceed.She was offended that my taste would have allowed me to play and thus she considered me a freak to be able to have sex with someone like that. Although that word was not uttered that night.There were other variables at play that night as well. The guy confessing he was married as we were on our way to his venue and other events that wont be explained here but overall, our vibe was not there and we should have aborted the meet.She was not to know that the word "freak" had history with me. My TG girlfriend was horrifically bashed by a homophobic man and as he bashed her he kept uttering the word freak to her. She did not survive the episode and due to circumstances, I blamed myself indirectly for the incident.So in the aftermath of what my gf called me, we each explained what she meant and how that word affects me.I apologised for taking it out of context and she apologised for using that word to me. I also apologised for posting it on the forum.And I explained to you Summer, in a personal message how I had forgiven her and asked for your understanding. But you obviously are unable to forgive her. Strange because I did and I was the one that was hurt. I moved on. You haven't.And you unfriended me because I forgave her?I thought you were a friend. Friends don't judge. I apologise for oversharing the dirty laundry for the last time. But you brought it up with your 2 cents. As l said above, the relationship with her was intense and deep. She did more for my female personality than anyone else in my life for 40 years. I taught her a lot about trans life as well. Together, we sexually experienced more in 12 months than a lot of people do in a life time. I think I explained that to you as a reason to forgive? I am an adult and able to make my decisions about my relationships, good or bad. No one else can for someone. As I said, I blame myself for oversharing and my Annie half is still learning in the fast lane on here. Sorry all. Out of respect for that relationship and the memories, I do not wish to talk about it here any more
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Sorry.Missed the Memo on that one................
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RHP User
9 years ago
I did see Summer's post about the friend's list. I have recently cleared mine altogether so I now have none showing. Not sure why i did that just fancied a spring clean haha but since I did, and as more time elapses, I'm not keen on putting anyone on display, it becomes less important, although I haven't made any firm decisions and might change that tomorrow or next week, I just don't feel the need to share who I meet anymore, like I once did
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RHP User
9 years ago
My latest FB 'ghosted' me recently...now I am just elated to know the act has a name! Haha..... It took me a couple of weeks to realise what was actually happening to be honest, as I had never encountered this sort of behaviour from any of my other playmates. Have always ended on good terms and remained friends, total respect. I'm with LittleGiant....I don't like it either...at all. At first it made me feel dismissed and wondering what I had done wrong...I quickly realised that it said more about them and their character than it did me or mine. I figure its a very small world you just never know when you might run into the other, or someone who knows them, life has a morbidly ironic sense of humour after all - easier and more liberating to know you have nothing to apologise for or be ashamed or guilty of should that happen ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Most things come to an end... but from experiences the good things evolve into something different... I have several dear and trusted friends who used to be my dearly cherished submissives. Why did the end... some because they grew up and moved on... others because I could not beat them hard enough (I am a softie realie). One wanted the child I could not give (vasectomy) and went on to IVF and parenthood. One found an Italian stallion who was a nilla man... but was 100% devoted to her and her daughters. I have one former Mistress (Domme) who became a business partner and went on to marry the man who held her hand through breast cancer (I just got to shave her head and cry). C'est la Vie!!! Life goes on... It is better to have lived and loved than never to have lived...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm still carrying my bags. Hi, ho... - Posted from rhpmobile
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