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All about Climax

May 19 2011

Hmmm, okay, so I wanted to ask for advice/opinion on a couple of 'climax' erm....issues (blimey, that sounds dysfunctional).The thing is this: In my life, I have only ever had a vaginal orgasm twice (yes, that's two times) and both times with my hubby, years apart and in different positions (hell, in different countries even). I've done a lot of reading about this and while I don't feel like I'm missing out per se, I would like to know whether this is something I can 'learn' to experience or does it really come down to the location of nerve endings....is my biology just lacking?I've experienced different shapes, lengths and girths of penis, with different types of lovers, but that vaginal orgasm remains elusive.The second thing is this: I can only climax with hubby ...I swear, it seems to 'run away' with anyone else lol! I still have a fab time during the playtime and enjoy it immensely but I just can't get to the end with anyone other than hubby...What's that all about???I'm all ears....(erm, or perhaps 'all eyes' is more appropriate)Thanks, Jak

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    just make sure you get yours, any way you can.I've always always ALWAYS been a clit girl. Even if someone can make me gush til them and the bed are drowning, i don't feel "done" til the little man in the boat gets his.That being said, I really really wanted to find my g-spot and make that fucker work for me, and after reading a lot, buying specialised toys and hooking one leg up over the back of my head I did manage to find it and make it work, but it wasn't the mind-blowing experience I expected, I'd much prefer to just slide my clit against someone's pubic bone while riding them for the hands-free fantastic finale.xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You are certainly not alone in this respect. The majority of women have the same problem but many will not admit it. The female anatomy is designed so that the clitoras needs stimulation. It is actually a mini penis. When a girl maturbates, she rubs the clit. She does not repeatedly stick her fingers in and out of her vagina, moan and groan and be happy with JUST that. This is also going to depend on the actual location of the clitoras. Yes I know they are all in basically the same spot but it is like a cervix...some are further back than others and some are more covered. Some are bigger and some tiny little pearls. For many women, sex is also very emotional. You climax more with your husband because he knows you and your body. He knows what turns you on, when to go harder and when to back off. You also know and trust him so can "let go" physically, mentally and emotionally. I understand that it is something that can be learned and it was described to me many years ago by an actual expert in this field but not something I am prepared to do. Message me if you do want the details how. It is a long slow and frustrating process. Just go with whatever works for you...as CNG said.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78'just make sure you get yours, any way you can. I've always always ALWAYS been a clit girl. Even if someone can make me gush til them and the bed are drowning, i don't feel "done" til the little man in the boat gets his. That being said, I really really wanted to find my g-spot and make that fucker work for me, and after reading a lot, buying specialised toys and hooking one leg up over the back of my head I did manage to find it and make it work, but it wasn't the mind-blowing experience I expected, I'd much prefer to just slide my clit against someone's pubic bone while riding them for the hands-free fantastic finale. xx Sarah Im exactly the same to a T although being made to squirt definately has its perks also. sarah id just like to add, try placing a small vibrating bullet in between your clit and the mans pubic bone while riding him and get ready for a whole new couple of round of orgasms. Works for me everytime :) cindy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    They do exist and if stimulated in the right way can lead to wonderful climaxes. As we are all different you will have to find them yourself. Take your time with hubby and experiment. Don't just pound away either, sometimes a gentle touch done the right way is all that is needed. I have 3 G spots that I found through experimenting.