F40
Always comes at a cost
September 10 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think the first line in your profile may be your answer.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah...... I think we might have found a clue, Scoob.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Have u thought about meeting up with a guy that is not normally someone u would meet with?? Change can sometimes be a good thing - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is when you write on Facebook a status update with little or no explanation, it’s obtuse with no content That’s what I found reading your forum You’re upset about the way you’ve been treated but haven’t given us enough for us to thoughtfully comment, so I say People can only treat you like shit if you let them At any time you can say No and walk away
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tcm70
7 years ago
Of your profile name! Is it- Miss in control Or Missin control?
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Change your circles? Sometimes you have to experience what you don’t want to help you understand what you do? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
think I understand what you're talking about..because I find the same thing. That's why I stopped putting in my profiles that I want a FWB. The "benefits" is all anyone sees or wants anyway.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting '0z_boy' I think the first line in your profile may be your answer. First line was well and truly enough.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have made friendships on here that aren't conditional on my availability for sex. And those where it is, are simply not my friends.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your profile kinda paints a different picture. Anyway good luck, sure you turned me down haha 😕 - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Maybe you're seeking out the wrong sort of friends. Ive made some wonderful friendships over the years here, and we dont centre our interactions on sex in any way, we lunch and coffee and chat about our lives..... that's the definition of a true friends with benefits. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AKAHunk
7 years ago
You're after someone to be a friend only, and you're looking for that on a swingers website? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
to be honest i have found the same hence my profile is very upfront, if people are not emotionally intelligent to read the plain blunt English, then they enter the ring at their own cost, im very easy to be around but i find this gets taken advantage of and more is wanted and suddenly you seem to be owned, and the word complicated takes hold, with both sides wondering how this fucking happened in the first place lol.does anyone else find this???? ,i avoid profiles that state .'see what happens',' lead to more etc', because i respect those boundaries and they are not for me. i have no problem being friends either without using the person or if there's a hidden agenda i usually suss it out, sometimes though you have to be really blunt on your profile to attract those right types from the getgo. that way there is no confusion ,and the trick is ,,,,,,the person thats mature enough to understand it actually doesn't get offended by it, best filter ever is your profile,,,,,, be clear ,concise and state FWB or whatever it is your after, i appreciate there are open minded free people who are willing to explore relationship wise but its your own fault if your not clear about this at the start and thats to all on a site, i agree with you totally, sorry if i expanded it a bit but totally get where your coming from.......ieMen and women need to understand this about each other, its evolution in its raw form.men want to fuck everything around therm lets not be silly about this, most can do so without any emotional attachment, sad part is alot of women will try not to have any feelings for a person but 'do' bond with a person whether they like it or not after having sex.its from evolution ,noones fault just be aware of it its not derogatory just how it is the way we are made, women do exisit that can eat shoot and leave so to speak but are rare. so in a nutshell us men always want the fuck whereas women love the social aspect even if it is just friends, i dont speak for the whole world here and others view it differently based on their own personal experiences, but the complications that arise from friends versus fuck buddy are obvious to those with open eyes like you ,,,,
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RHP User
7 years ago
Can people not make up their own minds about things in life,That they have to ask about it on a sex site?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
"..read the plain blunt English"...."be clear ,concise.."I don't mean to be funny...much...but that's really hard to read to the end. The spacing is a killer.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your first line says it all. I've made friends with people on here with absolutely no expectations of anything sexual occurring between us. It's all about how you present yourself and the first thing people read in your profile is probably the reason why you have this problem.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Tamed or untamed?
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RHP User
7 years ago
🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’ve not had any problems maintaining friends I’ve made in here. Some platonic, some play and FB, FWB and now a couple! All depends on what they and you are looking for and what you’re open too. For me chemistry is king. Kinda hard to just be another notch that way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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