M54
An element of doubt...
March 13 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are a lot of women who want more 'attention' lol me included. Currently being discussed in another topic thread, so I wouldn't imagine your profile would be looked at in a negative way. You sound like a very giving lover. I'd probably suggest adding more pictures but your face picture is great and makes it easier to trust the man behind the profile, at least for me anyway. Also good you put in you are willing to travel. End of the day, it just comes down to attraction and individual preferences. You should do well, good luck
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RHP User
10 years ago
generic in nature of course....... Anyone That Has A Genuine Profile Has Nothing To Worry About :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
On the woman and what she is looking for.If she doesn't want a conversation then that kind of profile may not appeal. But physical attraction is as important as your intellect and interests IMO xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
No
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks S.S and Stirry, Having read some of your posts prior it is felt that your responses are aligned with the objectivity you have expressed previously. And it a curiosity as to whether, like you point out S.S, individuals let previous experiences around trust, dissapointment and deceit define how they are generally or whether they look to learn from the lessons within the negative experiences and so look to be more optimistic with regard to what the individual looks to invite into their life from that point on. One looks past gender for the most part ( as well as race, religion etc) and considers those that stand aside as individuals. Yet it is felt that there are times to bring back the notion of Gender for discussion, when one considers that women may still (as any individual may come to feel) feel disempowered by the lack of trust in themselves as equals. This being generated by a gap from a way of thinking that a bias in our society still exists where men may be more empowered in levels "over"women. Therefore it is my hope that all males within RHP consider their female counterparts as equals, in order to consider a woman's empowerment along with their own. Along with all individuals having opportunity to explore their issues of Trust within and work constructively via whatever means. Regards, Nathan
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RHP User
10 years ago
No from me
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RHP User
10 years ago
of the time no. I have read a few that had the factors you mention but then something alarming. Other than that I appreciate a well written profile above any other factor.It shows me you've taken the time to consider how you would like to come across and gives me a snippet into how you tick. If someone sends me a thought out message, and has a personal profile but they don't meet my criteria, I always take the time to write a personalised message back - i.e. don't use a template.Because I appreciate how hard it is to put yourself out there in words.Your profile is great - just a little thing. You've got "is self while mainting" - you might want to fix that up ;)I will say that if someone is after a quick fuck - it usually won't appeal. The thing is - if thats not what you're after it doesn't matter. If you want quality over quantity - a well written and thoughtful profiles speaks volumes to those of us who look for the same.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you SoftandCurious, For the pick up of the typo for one, yet more so in the expression of recognising the courage taken to express verbally. Perhaps the challenge for us all is to validate our own truths at any stage of our journey, learning to be content with who we are at any given stage and so to develop an internal dialogue from honesty. As we know, there is always scope for further development, yet recognising and accepting our vulnerabilites as part of us, feeling safe in that knowledge and so being comfortable for the most part to express from that place must carry some weight in interacting with both like-minded souls and those not quite there yet. For it is not from Judgement or Assumption that we may come from as such, yet perhaps time given toward understanding where that which stand beside may be. And not to assume of you by any means SoftandCurious, though to put trust in your expression that you do take the time from consideration of another from how it resonates within.....oh like-minded soul. Ta, Nathan.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
at face value.Learn as I go and valuate the whole thing. But there are some that use the words to tell people what they want to hear, not what the person actually means. But if it is lip service, that soon is apparent in the messaging. One needs to walk carefully in the paddock. There are plenty of landmines. They may not blow your foot off but it takes some work getting the shit out from between your toes............
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RHP User
10 years ago
???
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RHP User
10 years ago
No. But it pays to have a degree of preparedness to qualify the profile owner. After all, a profile is effectively an advertisement written by the product selling itself. And some products make some.... let's call them..."bold".... claims. The bigger the talk, the smaller the walk.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' generic in nature of course....... Anyone That Has A Genuine Profile Has Nothing To Worry About :p - Posted from rhpmobile Exactly!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' at face value.Learn as I go and valuate the whole thing. But there are some that use the words to tell people what they want to hear, not what the person actually means. But if it is lip service, that soon is apparent in the messaging. One needs to walk carefully in the paddock. There are plenty of landmines. They may not blow your foot off but it takes some work getting the shit out from between your toes............ Love it ! Well said.
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Service_man
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' at face value.Learn as I go and valuate the whole thing. But there are some that use the words to tell people what they want to hear, not what the person actually means. But if it is lip service, that soon is apparent in the messaging. One needs to walk carefully in the paddock. There are plenty of landmines. They may not blow your foot off but it takes some work getting the shit out from between your toes............ You have also got to watch out for the bull in the paddock-- otherwise you will be searching for the nearest fence until the dust settles LOL
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Well that is more of a rarity here than commonsight. No, I appreciate a well thought out profile and simple message. It shows decisiveness and creativity and some sense of thoughtfulness adn insight to understand what people on this site are here to make a connection at different levels and most times, time is at a premium. Personally, a template profile or a two liner profile will not engage me regardless how hot his pics are. If they outline what they want and a little bit about themselves, it is my opinion that they respect the other people by not wasting their time in gauging if there is a potential for any connection, may it be mental, sexual or intellectual other than the physical which can be blatantly obvious by the profile pic or two.
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RHP User
10 years ago
beginning with "It is felt that these profiles of depth" etc, to be quite a interesting statement, who feels this ? Has this been your experience or is it your perception ? I approach every profile I look at with positivity and always remembering there is someone behind that profile, they are real, and are projecting what they want us to know. However I admit that those profiles that have little wording, templates, ask me's, no pictures etc, I do pass by because I find that they are doing little effort to "sell" themselves. I know I am judging but that indicates to me , that is probably how they address many other issues in their life. A harsh judgement, but also my experience to date. Personally the more in-depth a profile is, the more interested I usually am, for either sex. At no time do I ever regard it to be fake or dubious, in fact, I like it that they are sharing a little of themselves, the same with their pics. But my own experience so far, has been, that for the most part, the female profiles I click on, usually have more detail, and are more well thought out. The ladies make it quite clear what they are seeking and usually their photos are incredibly artistic.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You just went straight to the "can we just be friends" file. Nice but boring.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't treat those types of profiles with any more doubt than I would usually give a blurb written on the Internet by someone trying to achieve a specific goal. I do tend to appreciate them more than the "I can make you squirt/cum/etc" claims that seem to pop up with monotonous regularity. And 50wetfigs, speak for yourself ... One person's boring is another's potentially interesting encounter. ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
not at all
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RHP User
10 years ago
I always speak for myself, have you not noticed ? ;-)
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Boring for you but not for us looking at the responses above. Welcome to the forum OP. ☺
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RHP User
10 years ago
If soft_touch has a 3way with Touch and Soft.....😆
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't break the TMI ruleAvoid sounding like Nelson Mandela.Leave something to talk about when you meet.
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RHP User
10 years ago
now we're talkin lol I'm practically celibate, some action would be mighty fine
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RHP User
10 years ago
This Soft is still in her one on one stage of exploration - still learning the ropes 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
We are dubious of all male profiles. Hope that helps.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilybethyname' Boring for you but not for us looking at the responses above. Welcome to the forum OP. ☺ Not boring for me, I don't give a Fig, I hope for the OP's sake I'm wrong. I'll look forward to the Naa na na na nah, I got laid message.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Though there is scope for a lunch date toward the end of the week with a particular individual that has an interest in Philosophy, Psychiatry and Skinny Dipping. All the while having great taste in shoes it seems (having appreciated one's initial message containing a compliment toward such taste). So perhaps no fellow posters, dubious is not the right word (Acknowledge though Adelaide3some)Hesitant may be more fitting, while providing opportunity to have us ask why either hesitation or caution exists. Is it that Us males have exploited trusts so often that there still lies responsibility toward addressing that. Or is that an indiviual may be marred by negative experiences, regardless of gender, and so looks to be empowered in order to not have that dubious nature exist further. Having asked the question not only for one's own sake, though also for all the other male profiles that one has found that seem to portray have an element of depth, it seems there is scope to consider our perceptions, regardless of the gender fence. And it is the beauty of an open forum that is hoped to be appreciated by all that engage, with respect to all input. Ta, Nathan.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry I didn't generalize enough. Dubious of all profiles (except those female profiles in their 20's hot as hell bi and want a pounding with pictures from 25 other websites) until proven otherwise, regardless of the effort put in or validations. It's the internet, anyone can start a profile and fill it out there are no safeguards even verifying an account proves nothing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
And that is a fair point Adelaide, That while one can be motivated from a place of truth, one must not take for granted the many that are not necessarily so. It generates thoughts of having been in loving relationships and felt either that there is an inabilty to speak of one's own truth for the fear of rejection, the hurt it may cause etc. and how one's partners have been perceived as perhaps unable to determine their truths of how they think or feel or share similar fears. So if that is what may exist within an apparent loving relationship, how may it alter or differ outside of such a dynamic. Hence the motivation to be open in as much as striving to determine where one may still be closed in other aspects of their psyche, internal dialogue, beliefs etc. Hope your search Adelaide is destined to include many with the right motivations and which resonate with you. Cheers, Nathan.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting '50wetfigs'You just went straight to the "can we just be friends" file. Nice but boring. Quoting '50wetfigs' Quoting 'lilybethyname' Boring for you but not for us looking at the responses above. Welcome to the forum OP. ☺ Not boring for me, I don't give a Fig, You just contradicted yourself when you said his profile is 'Nice but boring' and then 'Not boring for me'? . So what is it are you trying to say then and with clarity this time. And if you dont give a fig, why even mention it?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I said going in the "good friend" file was nice but boring, for the op.Which means it's not my problem, which is why I don't give a fig.And why did I comment ? Because it's a forum lady and diverse opinions/comments give the op more to chew over.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just read this! Intense!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' The first two pages of new female members this morning, 6 fakes with stolen pics, all between 18 and 25. I find it funny though.... the usual suspects lining up with their friend requests of these, to me (and you) obviously fake profiles.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Firstly, I am real and heaps of RHPers will testify to that. OP, you asked, "pretentious" is what first comes to mind SS, I'm well aware of the meaning of the word. Go get a life. Happy Easter everyone!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Quoting 'Adelaide3some' Sorry I didn't generalize enough. Dubious of all profiles (except those female profiles in their 20's hot as hell bi and want a pounding with pictures from 25 other websites) until proven otherwise, regardless of the effort put in or validations. It's the internet, anyone can start a profile and fill it out there are no safeguards even verifying an account proves nothing. The first two pages of new female members this morning, 6 fakes with stolen pics, all between 18 and 25. Seriously, the 21 year-old who described herself as a "nice young lady" may as well have shouted she was a middle-aged man. Just my opinion, obvs. Where do you see the new members?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hence my private message to you. Now it's not so private, let's continue shall we? Yes I had a go at your online persona. Then you posted something that reminded me that you are, in fact, a human. So I sent you a massage to apologise for being a cunt to your online self. And this is how you responded. Much love, from a very apologetic me, U xcx
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RHP User
10 years ago
For the record.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wanna see "the kiss" now that they've made up :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
My hat off to you for your graciousness.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Stirry, msg me pls. I used all mine today apologizing to SS.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The women that believe this aren't worth anyone’s time. Its as simple as, u can't judge everyone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe by not refering to Summer as SS would be nice. 👍
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