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RHP User
6 years ago
Depends on who you are and what you’re in to...
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lookin4lady
6 years ago
definately a turn on with the right guy it is one of my favourites I need it at least twice a week
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RHP User
6 years ago
In what way?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ask your partner at the time...?!? 🤷♀️🤔Everyone is different and has different sexual likes/dislikes.
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Playful2looking
6 years ago
For us sometimes.. its on but sometimes its off...depends on the mood and arousal level.. its never totally off the the agenda though.... Is it a turn on for you as this is question to ask yourself
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RHP User
6 years ago
Its way down the bottom (sorry) of my list of favourite things. I see guys have "giving" on their profile but will baulk at the thought of taking it themselves. Should be give and take if its on the menu, and has to be with a partner, not just a fling. Thats just me, though.
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lindos
6 years ago
Lately it has been a really big turn on for my wife. Don't know what changed but had some really good sessions lately. Possibly had to do with her recent play friend who she let him have anal with her. I suppose I have him to thank for our recent sessions.
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RHP User
6 years ago
....the people involved are real assholes then it's bound to bruise a few egos. In that case, it's definitely a no fly zone. ʗɱ
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RHP User
6 years ago
I love it. I love having my arse fukked. But I'm not so into fukking guys, pegging with a strap on or fingering etc. So I guess it's both. Depends who U ask.
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RHP User
6 years ago
It's a big turn on for me. I love giving and receiving anal sex.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Oh I forgot rimming, that's just as big a turn on as anal sex for me, again love to give and always happy to receive :)
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RHP User
6 years ago
I love meeting a woman who finds anal a turn on but there is no turn on for me if a woman doesn't like it I'm curious to know if women feel pressured by men to try even if they don't like it? Obviously like a lot of things in sex, we do things to turn our partner on even if it isn't the most erotic for us...but where is the line drawn?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Like all sexual activities, it's a matter of personal preference. You either like it or you don't. I find it a turn on as I do with rimming, both giving and receiving. I have met women who find anal sex to be a turn off but find being rimmed a turn on.
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Yes there is often pressure and for me its not something I would do with just anyone. Definitely not until I knew them well. Also a lot of men (any maybe women IDK?) have no idea how to do it. I think it comes from watching porn and they think no preparation is needed. So they try to rush in and then its not enjoyable. So please guys if you want to do anal with anyone read up on technique and educate yourself. You can't just shove it in. It can be enjoyable when there's good communication and partners are turned on and listen. You will most likely get a much better reaction if you take your time and make sure your partner is ready.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I completely agree with you Earth Queen. It needs to be done carefully and gently. Men need to understand that when they do put it in, a woman's anus needs time to adjust and you have to wait a few minutes before continuing. When I have had 2 to 3 hour sessions with women and have been able to cum a number of times, they have told me that they prefer to do anal first, as a man's cock is hardest before he comes the first time. The harder the cock, the least painful it is for them.
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RHP User
6 years ago
It's a very personal thing. If you have the right partner, being touched there can be very lovely. But it takes a good deal of trust. Personally I have not met a woman who likes full-on anal, but as another place to touch and play with using fingers that seems to be something women sometimes like.
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RHP User
6 years ago
What position do you find anal the most pleasurable? I know one woman that enjoyed it more so then vaginal penetration but liked to lay over an arm rest of the couch to take it. Towels down of course haha. I like many others have hopefully learnt from our rough 1st attempts at the deed
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RHP User
6 years ago
If you want to satisfy a woman with anal the best thing you can do is receive it, then you will know what it's about.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Very true and gives one the inside on how to go about it in careful fashion. Bit like women when they try a strap on to peg someone, they are amazed at how hard it is to keep going with it
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RHP User
6 years ago
we say right time right place right peeps anything is possible but we love it
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yep entirely subjective....some arseholes are likeable others not so....
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Verypicky
6 years ago
Yes anal 100 % But I didn't like it until after 40, then I became a anal lover and I ask hubby to fuck my Arse most sex sessions now. Aswell as vagina
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RHP User
6 years ago
"The four most overrated things in life are champagne, lobster, anal sex and picnics." Christopher Hitchens.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Quoting 'non_such' "The four most overrated things in life are champagne, lobster, anal sex and picnics." Christopher Hitchens. I agree with that on the basis that Christopher had never 'received' anal.Personally as a giver, vaginal is so much better. I'm not sure why guys are so into giving it unless they have no option ie as in gay orientation
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Verypicky
6 years ago
Anal is a must, but I didn't like it 5 years ago , now love it
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Playful2looking
6 years ago
If you are a giver as in love the rear entry..you should also be prepare to take it as well..offer your bottom up .. bottoms up lay over the arm of of couch and ..hmmmm do it
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RHP User
6 years ago
Its definately on my menu and will order it from time to time. Its a huge turn on to switch roles and get the opposite point of view.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Wow. That’s interesting. I’m in a four year old relationship with a very sensual and sexual woman ( and I love her). Anal sex with her was initially tricky. My penis is big and she isn’t. However, I got the feeling that I was not the only one that wanted to have my cock in her bottom. For s year, she asked incessantly for bum massages which would descend into her pushing against my cock so that it entered her, I came instantly and so did she, convulsively. Now, though she is away, we end up having anal sex 3 or 4 times a week and it gets noticeably more intense each time. She comes two or three times but we really never talk about it. It appears that we like the same thing but I can say for sure that the idea of it, even me stimulating her beautiful ass with my finger or tongue is as arousing as vaginal penetration.
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RHP User
6 years ago
There is nothing sadder than a woman doing something like having her ass devoured when it’s not her thing. I think that giving it a go is a good idea and being open to a surprise sensation but if you are very aroused by it as a male and you’re with someone who isn’t, it has to take a back seat. I love it but do not enjoy it at all if it feels like a favour. There are so many others pleasures to share with a woman.
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JohnAnn2227
6 years ago
Anal is a turn on for both of us. I really enjoy it so long as the cock is not too big. Doesn't hurt as we really take our time and use plenty of lube and toys first.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Love it
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RHP User
6 years ago
Giving a girl snap is a turn on for me, Also love a hard cock inside me Id like a woman to watch me get it deep n hard from a guy
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Verypicky
6 years ago
Anal is the best , took me ages to love it , i was so against anal for like 20 years , it was a massive no no. But really wish I tried it early its now my main sex , i live for anal. Its the ultimate sex
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melbbeachboy87
6 years ago
Women who are turned off by anal or don’t like it are really missing out. It only takes a minute or two to clean/douche your butt. Love women who treat anal like normal sex. If it feels good why not use it.
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