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Angry young men!

March 03 2010

Am I wrong or are there more and more angry young men with bitter attitudes finding their way into the forum. I know both sexes have their fair share of problems but so many guys here keep bantering on about how awesome they are whilst laying shit on everyone in sight.Are there any engineers in the audience? Can we please build a quaint little bridge over all the bitterness and get all these fellas to walk on over it and start posting their interesting insights into their life experiences with a little more respect for others. How can one respect themselves if they don't respect what's around them? Maybe some are just born perfect?C'mon guys, most of the ones I'm referring to seem to have a modicum of intelligence, let's use it in a positive way hey?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Very true Puppy..The forum should be for open fun and opinions,some  banter throw in some flirting..There is some sarcasm on both sides though..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    And we have the right to choose whether we read their rants or not...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hey Puppy,   You are 110% correct.   I am fed up of the complaining as if I OWE every man a fuck !    Ohhh and don't get me started about the chat rooms.  Some nights I'd rather be naked on the front lines in Kuwaiit !!!  The other night, one angry guy said I was a "fucking joke".  Sure I could have blocked him but that's too easy... I'm not going to allow any man to vent his anger out on me.    If a guy has an issue I am more than happy to discuss it in private via a message.  Don't hide behind the chat rooms and the game of blocking.   Don't you just love the, "why do you fuck all the losers but not me ? " comments !  Oh boy... lets just go back to the dark ages and have the men fight it out for the right to fuck a particular RHP woman.   xxx The always loving and affectionate Miss Saturn

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Didn't realise you were handing out IOU's I have a theory-i believe these "Angry young men" are probably gripping to tightly-Boys you just gotta relax the grip a little, and stroke a little slower, maybe try sniffing a little bit of lavender while you're at it hehenahhh i've got nothing, just rambling

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ...now that nearly tempts me into the chat rooms but I try to avoid them, they make my eyes hurt!!!!Miss Saturn, when you've done with all the guys and want to move up, come a coupling with us! Let the uptight single guys whine about another gorgeous babe lost to the couples haha!Roughfukr - entertaining as always!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hey Puppy,   I have another lovely Sydney couple who have also suggested I come visit.  Now that I have two offers... the temptation is getting great.    Perhaps you'd like to drop by and watch me on cam sometime.  You can then decide if you really like what you see !!!   Ohhh I was never a cam girl until an RHP guy persuaded me to give it a go.  It's kind of fun if you can cope with a pack of hungry, aggressive dogs (camming during the day is more friendly).  I try and ignore the dogs but some nights they really get to me and have almost left me in tears !    Hugs, Miss Saturn

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    maybe they wouldn't be so angry if u girls put out more.   just sayin'   * ducks for coverrrrr *

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Lolz Miss Saturn. I like watching to see if I can predict who you have on your cam... hehe. You're very entertaining... But I keep getting blocked! Lolz The attitude that the world owes anyone of us anything at all is what troubles me about a lot of people on RHP. Big chips on shoulders here and there. But Nothing a decent dose of reality won't fix. Yoga classes for Rhp members.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i am angry as well. angry that i cant have spankrock. angry he looks like he lives with his mum. i want that lurvely boy to come live with me. spanky why are you always in bonds. also why arent i in them with you. just asking.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think we need to run a broom through the place... get rid of some of the young knobs who have popped up recently. I made a similar post a little while ago. I'm finding myself getting mad at these dickheads too (I hope you don't think I'm not one of them... haha). I don't usually have a bad word to say to or about anyone, but lately? Geez.   With you all the way Pup ;)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ..see Nick I knew you were with it enough to realise that you were indeed one of the guys I was eluding to and mate your reply here is commendable for it's honest and also exactly what I was asking for. For sure air your views, they are interesting as I am sure you are but you've just proven you can do it in a respectful way. I feel for you mate but also want to say that even though you've had it harder than most around you that you should still feel quite privileged to be where you are. The Whitsundays is not a bad place to be, sure you've been fucked around by family, by doctors who don't seem to know how to diagnose a real problem when they see it let alone be able to treat it competently. But there are much, much worse places you could have been born into where your needs would get even less attention. At least you've been able to grow up and form a mind capable of free thinking, a lot don't get that chance.I'm not going to try and compare my life to yours but suffice to say I've had my fair share of challenges and have many more ahead to try and get/stay on top and I sympathise with all of what you're saying. Let me put my "fix it" cap on and have a stab at a prescription... I reckon you should take a break from the people that are doing your head in (ie women it seems) and concentrate on what I think our society is really missing out on, FRIENDSHIP! We can all survive without sex for quite some time but having friends who truely care about you is something we all go crazy without. Take a break from all those messed up women (if they are really that messed up maybe you should also empathise with them?) and focus on your mates, not the dickheads, the ones that are honest and open and there to help you out or pull your head in when need be. These are hard to find, I can honestly count my true friends on one hand (and a bit maybe). These people are my family, they choose to care and nothing beats them. Without them I wouldn't have had the head space to find one of the most special women on this earth. Give it a go (oh and girls can be great mates too (if you can keep your hands off them)).I caught a movie the other day that I saw when it cam out and I was just into high school. If you haven't seen it have a look at "Cry Freedom". This shit went down in my lifetime, god knows what's happening in other far flung parts of the world where people that don't look like us live so we don't really look too closely. Can't wait for the movies about the noughties come out to wake us all up.I don't profess to know the answers but do think that empathy for others no matter how bad our situation is kinda a defining point to allow us to feel we are a cut above other animals. If not this then what?OK enough of my therapy session, actually call it a mateship session :) all we need is a couple of beers...Cheers!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Geez I ramble!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    was checkin out the forums and she spotted these angry young fellastoo and they weren't even chasing gasoline...  the world gives you want to you want to take,into your mind, your heart and your life.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahaMAX

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ...am loving this thread... lots of the people from the forums that I love to read are here... all together... offering friendship, sex, opinions, advice, philosophy, therapy...  all good... all great... but where can I join the "sex" queue? lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'miss_sophie' ...am loving this thread... lots of the people from the forums that I love to read are here... all together... offering friendship, sex, opinions, advice, philosophy, therapy...  all good... all great... but where can I join the "sex" queue? lol queue? why on Earth would you queue Soph, surely its more fun to just pile on in...What is the cutoff age for these angry young buck? I prefer the sound of being one of those calm and collected gents?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    To the angry young men.................   If your old enough to be on here your old enough to know the truth. Get over the less than perfect childhood. Obviously you have enough brain cells to know it was less than perfect but it's time to take responsibilty for your own actions and for the type of person you want to be. Free will is a wonderful thing

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    well said

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    well said

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    LOL Soph... you'll have to get in line behind that grasscutter Bob by the looks of things.   HUgs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'bitemebob69'i am angry as well. angry that i cant have spankrock. angry he looks like he lives with his mum. i want that lurvely boy to come live with me. spanky why are you always in bonds. also why arent i in them with you. just asking.   Hey bro....im actually only on RHP seeking a Bonds sponsorship....u live in the eastern suburbs so u must know somebody in advertising/marketing, riight? Hook a brother up lol. This is afterall a networking site, not a sex site ;)         Quoting 'stalky' LOL Soph... you'll have to get in line behind that grasscutter Bob by the looks of things.   HUgs Stalky     Plenty of room for everybody mate, Sophie can come to the front of the line tho...Stalky and Bob, u guys are aight....lets go for beers afterwards and get drunk and angry...we can get emo together and talk about the struggles of being men in 2010. lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    1 - anyone can say anything they want on here, it's up to us to read or not, respond or not.  If you don't like it, ignore and move on.  Angry young men are just trying to get attention.  What they probably need is some guidance from more experienced people.  We can argue and rant at them, or maybe someone could say ... Look mate, I've been where you are, here's what you need to know ....2 - don't take things personally ffs - unless you have actually met someone or spent significant time chatting to them, anything they say to you on here is nothing more than them having a brain fart and totally unrelated to you.  If they abuse you in chat - ignore them or BLOCK.  Do not give attention to abusive, ignorant, obnoxious people - don't debate, reason, argue with them.  Don't be upset because they have treated you like shit.  They haven't, they're just behaving like shit because they want your attention and you've fallen straight into their trap.  Just block them.  Ask yourself why it bothers you that they have been mean - what on earth does their opinion actually mean to you.  Hopefully, nothing.  3 - nice men becoming bitter because they're treated like crap - what utter rubbish.  Nice men are bitter because they can't get laid or find a meaningful relationship (whatever their poison is). The problem with nice guys is they're too nice - no balls!  A man need to be a MAN.  Decisive, action-oriented, knows what he wants in life and goes after it, knows how to say no to a woman, knows how to grab a woman - tenderly of course - and let her know what he plans to do with her (I could go on and on).  He needs to be nice about it, of course, as in have some inbuilt sensitivity and awareness.  But for all those guys out there spending all their time just being nice, you're forgetting to be a MAN.  You have to be both.  If you're both, you'll get laid. Plus, if you're a MAN but not nice, you'll get laid, because woman are seduced by that kind of confidence (at least initially, until said man chews them up and spits them out.  If you're NICE but not a man, you ... won't ... get ... laid.  It's pretty simple really.  And if you need some help being more of the man you want to be, stop waiting for women to blow smoke up your ass about how great you are because you're so nice - puppies are nice!  Men are strong, capable, competent, confident, sexy as hell - and they don't whine.  So go do something about it.  If in doubt, read 'The Way of the Superior Man' by David Deida4 - I absolutely agree with Capital (I often do).  Women, you need to get busy being women.  Don't be hard and cold and bitter and mean.  Be soft and feminine and loving and kind-hearted.  You can be all that AND be the CEO of a multi-national, with a vocab that would match a truckie and the ability to match Ali in the boxing ring if you want.  But you must be a woman.  Ask men what they love about women - softness, love, joy (when they dance, laugh), seeing them smile.  The very fundamentals of attraction between men and women are Masculine and Feminine energy.  If the man holds a lot of masculine energy and the woman a lot of feminine, then cha ching!!!  This doesn't mean men want dumb women.  It doesn't mean a woman needs to be a servant to a man and live her life around a man.  A woman can be smart and soft, capable and feminine, demanding and loving.  The point is, you need to be both, but most of all, you need to be a woman.  What happened to us that we decided being woman meant being independent, in control, needing no-one, fiesty etc etc?  What happened to loving, giving - the divine feminine?  When woman see a baby, or a puppy or something that melts us, THAT'S what a man wants to see in us.  He wants to take us in his arms and feel us melt, not be stiff and resistant and testing him and punishing him.  So if the balance is wrong, don't worry about all the things the man needs to change.  Focus on returning to your feminine and watch the balance shift beautifully and instantly.  5 - women, you need to get VERY clear.  What are you on here for?  Do your ACTIONS on here match what you SAY and what you want for yourself?  For example, if you want a relationship, are you having sex with men casually and expecting something different to come of it?  If you are happy with casual sex but want it to have some class, are you making yourself too eager, available and therefore sending a different message?  Men treat us how we let them treat us.  They also take us at face value.  If we say we're happy with a casual thing, they believe it. If we tell them we want to be treated better and they don't do it, they are never going to do it - so time to move on.  It's pretty simple.  Maybe there's a chance for you to change how YOU approach the situation.   6 - occasionally, I like to have a rant (see above :P ).  fussy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Spankkrock as graceful as ever.... but nah mate... I'm sure my idea's better... I think Bob is a bit of a surprise package and it's probably a good idea to make Miss Sophie wait in that growing que.. I mean, she always talks about the excitement caused by the build up of anticipation :p hehe.   By the way... it's Stalky's meet and greet night tonight at Newtown. It's listed in the events page under private events... you can come along if you'd like and you dont even have to talk emo!    Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' By the way... it's Stalky's meet and greet night tonight at Newtown. It's listed in the events page under private events... you can come along if you'd like and you dont even have to talk emo!    Hugs Stalky       Hey man, yeah i have noticed that being talked about and listed in the events...i had thought about going but i can't anyway, i'm going to a gig tonight so already have plans....hopefully it's a success and there'll be a next time. cheers.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well thanks mate... the next one's gunna draw a crowd ..... bet you can't wait to see the headline.. hehe!   HUgs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Fussy, that was the most beautiful thing I have read on here. FFS why do you live so far away?   To Nick, I believe there is only one thing that can change the set course of matter through space and time, and that is Thought, ie blowing up an asteroid hurtling towards earth, for an extreme example.   You live in a world of your own devising, and if you are happy being an irascible prat, then that is ok. But if you are truly unhappy because the world is a nasty what poked you in the buttum all your life (boohoo) your only way out is in your mind.   I do find most of your posts outrageously entertaining but for fuck's sake, if you are so disillusioned about the intentions and motivations of women why the hell are you here? Where the fuck is your joy? Depression is only ever a motivation for more depression. I just don't want to read in the paper you did a Hunter before you grow a brain.   Random   PS maybe catalogueing all your dates in financial and positional terms is robbing you of the joys of experience. Just being with a woman (or man) and kicking back in the moment without indexing their body language or reading between the lines of their statements might be nice? Why can't you lose yourself in their eyes, in their smile? They smell nice and if you stroke them the right way they can go off like a firecracker. In their heads. Life is Mental. Next date you go on maybe try not writing ANYTHING down about it EVER.   God I should stop here or I am going to go on for ten pages ffs!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Great post Fussy, hmm does the sight of these Puppies make you melt?? HahaI really think you hit the whole male-female kinetic on the head there, I haven't seen a better description of the wonderful interaction between man and woman. I happen to be married to a woman who is smarter than me, sexier than me, earns more than me but is the sweetest, softest little thing you'll ever cuddle up to. I'm a pretty "nice guy" kind of guy but I also take control and become the Rock when needed. I'm sick to death of pop culture telling us we need to be everything, celebrate the differences and work to your strengths and let others work to theirs.Oh Random, an apology I replied to one of your posts mistakingly thinking you were one of these angry souls but think I was mistaken.Miss Sophie, you are still at the top of our sex list, we just have to tie you down long enough to jump on you!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    thanks folks!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    please take that bow facing away from us so we can perve on that gorgeous butt a little more!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    nice arse darlwoooooohoooooahahahahaahahahahahahaha MAX

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i cute boy am with stalky. once again he is right. you are graceful. more reason to jump in those bonds. i cant sell your story bebe i want you all to myself. the market is there for a u cutie like spankie.