RHP

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Asking for pics...

September 10 2018

It seems that couples and women will ask for pics before chatting (which is fine) but if a guy asks for pics it either ends the chat or you get abused. I realise it’s most likely because of ‘pic hunters’ however us guys need to see who we’re talking to as well haha. I’ll just add I’ve never asked for ‘dodgy pics’ simply just access to see private pics or a pic if they have none. Can any ladies or couples shed some light on this please? Also I know that it also means they’re potentially fake or catfishing. But I’m just curious. Thanks - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hi, on all the forums I,m on as a member and have been for some years quite a few, I have in most just one nicely dressed one of myself and in most case,s I,m seen in my Edwardian wear 1900 to 1914 style , I have been asked to show myself in the nudy or similar , I,m not happy in doing so , so I refuse maybe I,m naive plus I,m not interested in showing my body, I,m very well known world wide and I,m just not prepared to do it, and I have never asked any one to show me photos of them selfs in a way that could compromise them all I have asked is they show just one of their face and I don't ask for more,plus all I ask is don't lie about your self or be fake as I cannot abide scammer,s .and my name is real not a false name, ...noeleena...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    If I ask for face pics I will also open my pg when I send the message. And also say at the same time I do not want cock pics just body pics. Its rude to not return the favour. Yes I like to see who I am talking to as well. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Only ask if there is no visible face pic. I have one readily available, and I like to see who I'm talking to..not just a blurred cock pic, chest, back, etc. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    Most pic collectors, in this site, are male we believe . And most of these pic collectors are not wanting to collect face photos but rather porn / nude photos. And most couples get lots of messages from males / the male half of a couple. So when a male messages us, wanting to see pics, we assume that he is after nude pics. So if you, the male asking for pics, get an angry response ( from the person you are asking) then this may shed some light on why. If we ask to see pics, it is always only face / fully clothed photos. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Supernova

    Supernova

    7 years ago

    We are expected to chat for hours, sometimes DAYS before we are worthy of seeing a face pic from the ladies, and yet it's a regular demand that we reveal ours within the first message or won't even get replied too 🤷‍♂️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • happiestcpl

    happiestcpl

    7 years ago

    especially when/if you state upfront that you only have non-nude photos ? can't people just surf porn sites, or amateur pics available online? It's really hard to understand if dynamiccouple are indeed correct in their comment?

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    7 years ago

    Since opening a couples profile, it seems they have no problem with asking for photos in their first message. And obviously don't read profiles thoroughly either. I have never asked for pics. If you want to send a message with yours open so be it, don't expect me to do the same. In saying that, if people are asking for your photos then they should be doing the same.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks for the replies. I always state I just want a face pic or a clothed one. I never ask for nudes or stuff like that.. unless the conversation has been going for a little and it’s part of it... but it seems sad that others have ruined it for the rest.. and yes I only ever ask for pics if there isn’t a clear one in the bio.. or if I feel it may be fake. I always open my pg if requested as I don’t want to just open it straight up. Only new to all this so still learning the ropes. Again thank you - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I get pix requests from guys who have no pix on their profile. Dodgy. If a friendly, polite, chatty dude asks me I will open my pg to him. Case-by-case basis, OP. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    There is a time.... and a place. And when both are right, it goes easily and no big deal is made of it Simple simons - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    As a lot of couple profiles only have photos of the female. Couple = 2 so should be pics of both.

  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    7 years ago

    Seems like you are making a fair request, and this situation does happen both ways. I gave up on the long chats and messages back and forth then asking for a face photo only to find that this person was definitely not our type. Now before proceeding any further its face / torso pics, messages and a video chat before arranging a meeting. I recently decided to put a face photo on public gallery (unfortunately I'm not famous lol) and if someone recognized me/us (which has happened) well they are here for the same reason. I thought about putting one of us both up but we have enough close friends and validations that it's not a priority imo. No necessity to ask for a look at our private gallery. Our profile clearly states not interested in porn pictures. As I said in other forums in here. No pic, no video chat, no meet, this goes for men, women and couples. MrsH - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I only ever request a face pic only if it's not visible in their profile. I sent a message to a woman recently who had viewed my profile a few times. She asked to view my private pics which I did and asked to see a face pic in return. I never heard from her again.