BDSM Basics

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Now Masterbillie not having much luck here are you Sir ! It is a little vanilla around them there hills and the world is a little flat here ! I think this is probably more your fetlife topic but I am now and then suprised at what pops up ...... we had a great little breath play topic going on here for a while but the idea of spanking for others is just down right unthinkable! naughty disgusting stuff ! OH dear and the trouble with biting or pinching nipples ..... mention a breast mangler and wooooowho it'll get hot in here ! Now I for one thou are interested where you got your St Andrews cross from ? Looks nice and I have been looking around for one I found some in the usa but hell the postage was enough to make me think of switching ! (now now PBG I am just saying its not for me ..... nothing against switchers its just not my cuppa) Ahh the Gorean lifestyle we have a semi regular poster here who I know has a slighty more than passing interest in the Gorean lifestyle. Are you going to come out and chat Sir ...... hmmm Woof ? He I am sure can answer any questions ...... ahhh but can the world of Doms all get a long or will it all be too much for us ? hmmmmmmmm So I am not sure what will happen just may end up you and I chatting to ourselves ! Brae

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  There are a number of international BDSM sites that thrive and have many members on all levels. The "Story" writing ones may be a good place to start. Basically people submit their own short stories (and long too) often involving known people as their characters within. They all try to be original and can get pretty rank as a result but if you read up, you'll discover a world of deviant information from the sublime to the ridiculously improbable. Germans seem to have mastered the equipment side of things (had to take up something radical after WW2). They know and have all the suspension data and hardware, for example you can browse tensioned springs depending on weight characteristics and rate of travel required for your gizmo in the attic/basement. Over there it is not taboo like here, but an adult passtime. Ropes are best to be of the climbing-type as they are slightly elastic and don't kink/knot-up and won't snap. Pricey but a worthy component (get a hand-book on sailing knots too). Chains are all the go and easily implemented as you know. Get reading and join with others on the Net to assemble all the knowledge you mentioned. Have fun.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  As a female Domme I have always been enthusiastic about disseminating information on BDSM. I believe that if more people understood what it was all about they wouldn't be so scared of trying it for themselves. I now live the lifestyle almost 24/7 and wish I had done it years ago. I too would be happy to answer questions so feel free to ask me. And I am always more than happy to chat with other Dom/mes and kinksters. Lets hope we can all get along with each other Brae and maybe get around to chatting one day. T. x

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Domina I always looooove your perspective on this topic always sensible practical dare I say sane ! I am hopefully only joking about all getting along as you and I know we get along ..... I can get along with almost anyone .. almost ....... but I have sadly heard here some herendous stories of Dom's acting like out of control male dogs marking territory ! I would love a Femme's perspective ! Lets see how us delightful kinksters can collaberate and have some fun ! Love to all kinksters I say ! Brae

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Thank you too all that have responded so far, and like me, if there are a good few of experienced people out their for those needing info on or about the sene or BDSM in general. Master BillieP.S i have received a few emails via my profile for info, i am getting to these, so those that email, please be patient as i like to answer your questions as completly as possible, whih means sometimes i have to read and re-read emails to get the atual question. LOL, mind of a goldfish!

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