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BEING " FAVOURITED " on RHP
July 28 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
I only just found out about favourites the other day, seems shit to me that we don’t get a say in whether or not we want to be someone’s favourite. Also, I’d like to know how having someone as your favourite benefits you? Do you get notified when you favourites comment or are online? What’s the point of it?
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RHP User
6 years ago
...and quite harmless. They don't "mean" anything to anyone other than the mug that put you on the list. No one can see them as such so......care factor zero. Kids shoppin' for lollies...up to you if you want to give them one. ʗɱ
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RHP User
6 years ago
You can't remove yourself from their list. If you don't want them to be able to see your profile or contact you then just block them. Problem solved.
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MissBEEhaving
6 years ago
Take it like a grain of salt We have contacted people who have added us to their favourite list and still no reply
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RHP User
6 years ago
I had lots of people on my favourite list when I was single and as a couple mainly because I use the mobile app and I've got big hands meaning I sometimes hit the wrong button. Also we've on occasion used the favourite button just to short list couples we might be interested in messaging. Doesn't mean anything and I think you have to be pretty self absorbed to be offended by it.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
As others have mentioned, we occasionally use it as a "bookmark" That way we can remember a profile that grabbed our attention and get back to it when we've got the time to send a decent thought through message. We also use it as a way of remembering interstate people that have contacted us, just in case we manage to travel kid free😳 We've noticed others doing the same with us. We also have a stack of interstate singles that have us favourited, we just take it as a compliment. I think there's only one that's ever grabbed our attention and we used it as chance to contact them. We assume the others just pop in for a perv😎
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RHP User
6 years ago
Apparently I am on five "favourites" lists..one in California..woo hoo ..lucky 'ol me:) Hugs Q
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Why does it bother you so much?
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RHP User
6 years ago
I really don't see the problem 🤷♀️ 282 people have favourited me and it doesn't affect me at all. I favourite people who take my fancy that I might contact when I have more time to play.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Why bother ..? By simply blocking the person who favourites you the problem is solved... Seriously.. first world problems
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RHP User
6 years ago
I use it primarily as a way to bookmark people for later that i kind of like but dont know if i want to talk to. So its more like a 'hot but maybe'.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Use the short list function if you want to check out a profile again at a later date...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Interesting...thanks for the info everyone, I doubt I’ll ever go through them or bother to block anyone but at least I know what it’s all about now.
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MissMellow
6 years ago
Thanks for the replies and suggestions. Was merely a question I wanted an answer to. Not a self absorbed or easily offended woman.... More that i didnt get the one sided favourite aspect, by people whom I have no mutual interest in is all. Suggestions taken up. Many thanks for tips Happy Sunday 😊
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
I use it to remember a profile with the idea of possibly making the time to write a special message in the future. I know there is a shortlist function but I haven't been able to find it lately, I thought it might have disappeared with an upgrade of the site? I think both lists did exactly the same function just had a different name. I could also write down the username/s on a piece of paper (which I do for sites that don't have such a function). But we live in a digital world don't we? (PS would you still feel the same if I wrote down your username on a piece of paper?)
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
I like BrisbaneFun's mansplaining..... "Hot but maybe"...... true👍🏻😂
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MissMellow
6 years ago
Mmm....i shall check our your Brisbane tip. Thanks sweetie 😊
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MissMellow
6 years ago
Thanks to all for the various comments and advice. Quite new to this medium so great to ask those who know, and get great answers back. Cheers 😊
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RHP User
6 years ago
As a couple, we put someone on our favourites so our partner will look at them. If they leave them on, we message them and take them off after we message them. That is our system. I believe when someone is blocked they cannot see you even if you are on their list.
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Sawadee
6 years ago
Personally I dont think anything if im on a favorites list or not. If someone likes something about you or your profile and its a saver for them , so be it. No harm done.. ive tucked ppl away on my favorites list and i forget theyre there ? Storm in a teacup...
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Does it worry me? No not at all. I'm not fazed at all by it as it is not something that is a priority to me on this site. Ms Foxy
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
Pro: Dosen't bother if the reasons are for what the list is intended for, at least I can block if needed.CT your hack for keeping track is a good idea. :).. Con: The other year I had some unsubstantiated posts hurled at me the scenario was like one of the old black and white movie scenes ie; 1944 movie Laura scene with the detective interview, fortunately he does turn the spotlight off..During that time I found myself feeling very uncomfortable/daunted due some to posts posted after mine at the time it didn't feel right the posts were antagonistic, at the time I was not aware I was on the persons favourites list it wasn't until I checked my lists (which I hadn't done in ages) and found myself on the persons favourites list ( I definitely was not a favourite ) and said wtf then blocked. It became apparent a while later after reading a post by the poster that I was being followed whilst I was on their list I responded to that post the response back was a load of codswallop..Lesson learnt : Check favourites list more often...Pro: Being able to block.
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
I think people use them as a favourite they may want to message or contact later on. Seems alot of people really don't like others profiles besides their own and hate messages and flirts and being contacted in general and the way they put it out on these forums is like... eww a human took interested in me .. why? That's so wrong! Type thing And if they're like that then why are they on a swingers dating app/site? Be more friendly peeps.
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
Currently 6 profiles have favourited me. 2 of these are women or couples from the same state.
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' ..Pro: Being able to block. Meant - Pro: Being able to remove and block.
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MissMellow
6 years ago
Nope....just a wee question. Answered. No drama. Thanks
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Least said detective poster has been behaving of late after causing mayhem in the forum. I credit her with driving many posters away and degrading the forum.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
I'm on several pages of favorite list. Take it as a compliment. The only favorite l have is myself so l can see my activity on my stream and know where I've been. A handy tool
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' detective poster Detective x 2 + two more (after a 180% turn) = four (some with IP not me ) equalled unpleasant posts implying untruths about me.PM's I sent that were a waste of my time.I don't intend to go down that rabbit hole again.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
If you have included me in the 180% turn it had nothing to do with me in doubting who you were. I just did not want to go down that rabbit hole either. Sorry OP for going off topic.
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RHP User
6 years ago
The Favourite List used to be the Hot List. The Hot List is a lot like the Friend's List that it keeps us up to date on when profiles sign in and out and allows you to follow their posts. It was on a thread about stalking that forumites pointed out the stalking ability of the Hot List. I was one who very loudly rallied on that topic for the ability to block more effectively by finally closing that loophole. Welcome to the forum Shandy where topics and old news are flogged to death to satisfy the need for drama that is lacking in our lives. 🍑 😇😈
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'LetsFrolic' I think people use them as a favourite they may want to message or contact later on. Seems alot of people really don't like others profiles besides their own and hate messages and flirts and being contacted in general and the way they put it out on these forums is like... eww a human took interested in me .. why? That's so wrong! Type thing And if they're like that then why are they on a swingers dating app/site? Be more friendly peeps. The problem is a large percentage are generic blank profiles with either no pictures or dick pics, so to me they're not people, they're avatars and I find them creepy. They could be anyone. I get your point though. It must be hard for men to hear us women complain about too much attention lol I guess I'd feel the same if the tables were turned
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RHP User
6 years ago
as for this rose lady crap, put pictures up and be verified if you are indeed genuine. Simple solution. Stop whining about it
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Rubyt25
6 years ago
touchQuoting 'I_touch_myself2' as for this rose lady crap, put pictures up and be verified if you are indeed genuine. Simple solution. Stop whining about it Thanks for your input I shall take it with a grain of salt, I follow the beat of my own drum much like yourself and many others here. Your entitled to your opinion of course but when it comes to crap you're no role model.
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Seachange73
6 years ago
That's flattering to be thought we stand out and thought to be special enough to be on anyone's favourite list. No issues here. Thanks to those who appreciate my written profile and pics enough. I'm definitely flattered looking at the number of pages I've been included in.😍 Enjoy your time on here. 😊
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RHP User
6 years ago
I am on several senior citizens favourite lists. I block anyone over 45 who looks at me anyway. But then there are the others that favourite you but have no balls to contact you.
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