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Bagging out guys
January 16 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
i just go with the flow, if they don't like who I am well then it was never going to happen anyway Rich
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't have a 9 inch shlong and I only go down on girls I respect, if that makes me less of a man then your a shallow person in my opinion.
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RHP User
16 years ago
The statement was a reflection of the recent forum posts...not my opinion But now have I have yours!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would think that most guys prefer simple rather than overly complicated women. If one has to negotiate a labyrinth of prerequisites then the whole thing becomes too hazy. Water seeks a course of least resistance from the high ground to the low ground. So too with men if they have the option. They do the hard yards when they have to. Most chaps here are more likely to be looking for an easy root than a wife or ones with special needs. Though there are those willing to accept a challenge, if they are not already spoken for. Whilst the women here are in more demand... they will hold the bargaining chips. That makes it more competitive for the guys whilst the girls call the tune. Culls a lot of short dicks and inconsiderate pricks.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is simple a function of supply and demand. There a are far to few woman compared to men on RHP so woman have the ability to be picky. No time wasters etc is all about opportunity cost, woman (also man) want maximum return on effort.Now we could talk about the law of diminishing returns which is what happen when the woman pick the wrong man but that is another story.ciao Hermes
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok, what happened? Sounds like someone had a bad night on the tiles last night perhaps? If so, sorry to hear that. But to answer the question - Yep, I like pushing mental buttons. Intelligent women are extremely sexy to me, and I love an intellectual challenge. A girl with brains is handy in situations where you're NOT in the sack. You may even be able to take them home to meet the parents. God forbid!! So yeah, I'll gladly push her mental buttons all night long... provided she has some. Brains and class are my two main prerequisites. Not that I'm full of myself, but without those two attributes, I am quite easily bored. Just as a side note, but still on the topic (not aimed at you OneBrightStar, I have read enough of your posts to know that you're rock solid and a genuinely nice lady)... Women also need to realise that when THEY turn up for a date, they can't go in with the attitude that they have done the man a favour simply by turning up. This business about the man having to put on a show to "win" the lady is a little bit degrading. I'm not saying this is all women, but it's quite a few in my experience. It just seems that the more attractive they think they are, the less effort they think they need to put in. I've walked out on dates for this reason in the past, and will continue to do so. I think this post really swings both ways. Women need to realise that just because they turn up, it doesn't necessarily mean they're gonna get laid or get a second date if that's their desire... They have to work for it and impress us guys as well. Maybe WE like our mental button pushed too :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I Like it ;) Definitely applicable to this site.
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RHP User
16 years ago
time wasting is about sending messages, emails, texts, chatting on msn...without first saying that ya don't wanna meet up...ever...mind games?...hmmm...really falls into a similar category...saying yeah, yeah, let's meet upand then when the time comes, ya go and cancel...or no show...or some excuse...and the best one?...having a gal sending me flirts...and having her profile locked...like wtf???....lol...go figure that one out...On the other hand, i think it is great ta have interstate friends...i mean, it's somewhat unlikely that ya ever gunna meet...so...why not chat and flirt...hehe...now...where's that email you were gunna send me, huh?...warm hugs jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I fully agree with what Hermes said, it is basically a numbers game here. Lets be honest, there are women on this site that some men would not look twice at in the street, would not approach at a bar etc. Yet because they are on this site, men, whether in the chat room, in the forums or in msgs will chase that same woman like she is the personification of perfection. And the sad thing is, women know this and some get a very screwed view of their own importance and men will gladly go alone with that, they will do anything to get noticed. The woman know they have the upper hand and can be as choosy and as cutting as they like. They know that whilst they might piss off one or two guys, the rest of the males will gladly go along, doing anything just to get noticed. Personally, if I read a profile and the woman is demanding a 9" cock, rippling abs etc, I will immediately disregard her. Apart from not meeting her criteria anyway, I wouldn't really want to meet someone so shallow. Lets face it, if a guy was that specific in his profile he is lambased and rediculed (just look at poor Whitehawk and his 18yo Barbie girls), yet it is condoned if a woman is even more specific in her demands. Why, simply because the majority of guys will not say anything that might incur the wrath of the women here. Mooka (who just destroyed any chance of getting to meet anyone from this site lol)
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RHP User
16 years ago
*pmsl* "I only go down on girls I respect..." wtf? Me too... if I don't respect them I will only let them have anal, if that make you think less of me, then you will have to put up with anal. Someone should make up more shirts with quotes from here on them, but back on track.... Any profile that says "no time wasters", "no mind games" "no tyre-kickers" goes into the too hard basket. Not because it's going to be too hard to get a root, but because I couldn't be frigged proving I'm not wasting their precious time or playing games with their incy wincy minds. Plus it's too hard to get a root! Do we want to do the hard yards? Nup. But I for one am happy to do the yards, but I like getting to know people, whether I want to have an easy root, a hard root or no root with them. The added bonus here is that most people have a more interesting streak in them when it comes to the bedroom (or park, beach, train). I don't think this is the spot for an easy root, sure if you're a Ken Doll (where is Whitey anyway?) and you and Barbie are attracted to each others pictures - maybe... but your success rate would be far better in a pub/club at 2am using one of Ridge's patented pick up lines - and at least there you know what you're going home with (Chlamydia!)... here you might be meeting 4 burly guys who want to beat the shit out of you, or Bonnie and Clyde who want your wallet, or worse still.... Mrs Nobody.
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RHP User
16 years ago
If time wasting is chatting, flirting, getting to know people then we are one of them. We aren't desperate for sex - we have each other and its very good. We have to know people very well and be suited (but having a break at the moment). So any profile with "No time wasters" on it is instant turn off for us. Regards SR
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RHP User
16 years ago
Apologies for the first paragraph in my response... I misinterpreted you. Oops. Sorry
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gotta say Im with the blokes regarding the so called 'time wasters not welcome' routine. Encouraging to know there are some RHP residents who enjoy and partake in the art of communicating. Things are looking UP onebright!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Actually...I prefer to coverse with those some would call "time wasters"If a guy wants to meet me in 5 and fuck me in 10...then he isnt the guy for me.Gimme a man with a brain...coz a good brain gets me toey-er faster than rippling abs do.And I dont care how big his cock is...its merely one weapon in his arsenal.But if he thinks it's the be-all and end-all to him being a great fuck...then seeya.I want a guy that loves doing all the stuff we did BEFORE we started fucking.Nothing like a night of pashing and fondling...mmm.Anyway...it's not just women that have high expectations on this site.But its ok...coz the ones that take the time to get to know me...and I them...are the ones I keep around anyway.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'eunuch'I would think that most guys prefer simple rather than overly complicated women. If one has to negotiate a labyrinth of prerequisites then the whole thing becomes too hazy. I'm curious to know the characteristics of a simple woman and an overly complicated woman :p I consider myself a complex woman, not over complicated but certainly I know how to touch nerves and confront. This is perhaps perceived as intimidating and demanding. I am a numbers game in reverse. No Ridge, I had a great night "on the tiles" :p I spent it with a male friend (buddy) who needed to grieve. He chose me. I listened for 2 hours without saying a word until my bum became numb from sitting and I had to get up. But being the thinker that I am, realised that for a change I demanded nothing from him. In a funny kind of way, him opening up to me pushed my mental buttons. I was no longer in "defence mode"...but rather allowed to be the warm and compassionate person that I like to be. As a single mum, I have to be demanding because I am my kids voice. In an advanced career position, I have to be demanding because I have to make it work. In the cyberdating world, demanding is my defence mechanism to be heard. It got me thinking about why I demand of men. And what I demand of them. I don't so much demand of men in terms of "measurement"..meaning cock size, car, income etc. Although I do prefer tall (that whole protector type thing ;p). But I do demand of men in terms of qualities. I need my men to be honest and respectful. Because that is also what I expect of myself. Hermes mentioned the Law of Diminishing Returns...this is what happens when i don't "waste" enough time getting to know someone...lolz So where are the guys who want the hassle free root? Yeah, yeah I know...we ALL want that. Mental buttons...the difference between good sex and GREAT sex. It would seem perhaps that the guys who just want the hassle free sex are also happy to settle for just 'good' sex ???;P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I find it becomes harder to bother spending time with a message to someone these days. With so few responses it becomes easier to give a short message just to see if they are interested. No that doesn't mean a message along the lines of 'lets meet so I can fuck your brains out". But something asking them to check me out and let me know if they would be interested in chatting. If there is a reply that's when you can start spending the time with a better message. Having sent over 430 messages and having met 3 people from the site the odds aren't great. Probably the 1st 100 messages I sent were well thought out, thought provoking, applicable and all the goods. At that stage I met no one! So as for pushing mental buttons, it's too hard to do that in a first message.The profiles that state they want someone with a 9 incher or have to be over 5'10 or wont consider anyone over the age of 30 I generally have to leave alone. Why bother when I don't meet their criteria, I can be rejected by enough that I do meet it. Besides I've message everyone within a 100km radius of me that I fit the criteria so desperately need some new women to join up. Would I push the mental buttons...depends on what is required. Some women are just far too much work for little or no return. Do I want a hassel free root? I'm up for anything. Happy to have that and happy for it to lead to more with any luck.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like you! You sound like a pretty good chica :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Ridge_Forester' Women also need to realise that when THEY turn up for a date, they can't go in with the attitude that they have done the man a favour simply by turning up. This business about the man having to put on a show to "win" the lady is a little bit degrading. I'm not saying this is all women, but it's quite a few in my experience. It just seems that the more attractive they think they are, the less effort they think they need to put in. I've walked out on dates for this reason in the past, and will continue to do so. Oh too true Ridge, oh wise one... If you keep this up, it won't just be the ladies on here going all googly eyed. Holy shit... I think I'm turning. Last week I bought a La Roux CD, and now I have a mancrush on Ridge!
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RHP User
16 years ago
my days of waking up next to someone and remembering what they sounded like last nite and wanting to chew my own arm off to escape went in my 20's. you got a brain and converse then i'm yours as long as you want me there. ridge is spot on man. hugs, Earl.
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