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Been caught out

January 12 2019

Has anyone been caught out swinging by their friends or family ? Or have you ran into someone you know on a date or at a party? What happened and how do you deal with it ? - Posted from rhpmobile

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justmehere72

7 years ago

I was at a swingers club with my girlfriend at the time and I meet a work college there with his wife. We were both taken back that we were both there however we had chatted and laughed about it. Ended up being a fun and interesting night. :)

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blondes6365

7 years ago

Being caught out is bad part and parcel of lifestyle you just have to live with it Only people who don't no with us is parents

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RHP User

7 years ago

I have seen a couple of people I went to high school with though. Don't worry, I won't tell!

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RHP User

7 years ago

if that happened to me. Water off a duck's back. But I WAS slightly concerned at the time when, many years ago, I was visiting my then boyfriend in jail one weekend and ran into a work colleague there who was also visiting her boyfriend who was locked up.LOL.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Theres a couple on RHP we know through work, we dont think they have worked out who we are but I'm not overly concerned if they do. Mrs A x

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MsSuperFoxy

7 years ago

As for being "caught out", no. Ms Foxy

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RHP User

7 years ago

A couple of my work mates have found us in this site. At first Ibaa oh s#*t here we go but it turned out to be no dramas.

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intheswing

7 years ago

We have had it happen ohh shit is the first thought but we have found almost everyone in this lifestyle is discrete I know we would not ever say to anyone hey saw bill snd mary at a swingers party who would have thought lol and would be very surprised if any of our friends admired to anyone that they met someone at a swingers party etc

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ElectricDreamers

7 years ago

We told our long-time friends once we could see the lifestyle was working for us. The decision there was around not hiding things from people we have always been open with but also in the beginning there was the desire to talk things through a little. Family - we were busted, won't go into the how but our parents took the stance of its no-ones business and whatever makes you happy, 1 sibling was shocked and disapproving... Would love to be open with everyone now the most important people know but just worry about having people project misguided sexual assumptions on us. The long and the short of it is it's not the end of the world.

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RHP User

7 years ago

At the end of the day, your both at the same venue doing the same thing, at least you now know other people who are open minded, enjoy and make the most of it

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RHP User

7 years ago

Quoting 'MrandMrsB79' A couple of my work mates have found us in this site. At first Ibaa oh s#*t here we go but it turned out to be no dramas. This is why I don't have a face pic (I did for about a month then took it down) - I know work colleagues that sift through dating sites looking for people they know so they can have a laugh at their profiles and show others so they can also get a laugh. No worries if you just have a ''plain vanilla'' profile, if you are after something different though, potentially embarrassing.

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SexyDeviants

7 years ago

Most of my friends know, some of my partners work friends know... It isn't really a secret. It's kind of like my sexuality, i'm only going to admit what it is when I'm asked. Personally I don't see the need to be embarrassed about it, but at the same time, I wouldn't want everyone at work knowing as it could become an issue with safety... Especially from the men I work with (being creepy and disgusting). That's the reason for no face pics. But if we were 'caught out', i wouldn't really be all that bothered. Ms SD x

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RHP User

7 years ago

My ex got caught fucking a guy at work in the disabled toilet, I found out about it at her work Xmas party, 600 ppl at her work and they all knew!!

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JohnAnn2227

7 years ago

We have been caught out a few times. A friend of John's saw me in the city when I was on a date and we were snogging. The next day I came home to him being at our home telling John what he had seen and saying he was there to support him. John and I had to come out and tell him we were swingers and I wasn't cheating behind John's back. After the initial shock he hugged us both and said he was so happy as he didn't want us to ruin a great marriage. He and his wife have since started swinging with us.Another time we were going out to a party and my cousin was babysitting for us. I was walking down our stairs ready to go when I slipped and fell in my heels. My cousin ran to help me only to find me spread eagled on the floor wearing a mesh dress with no knickers or bra under my coat. Once she saw that I was ok and helped me up she wanted to know what we were really up to. I had to come clean and and tell her we were going to a swingers party. She was actually really cool about it and made me tell her about it all when we got back.All fun!

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Sawadee

7 years ago

If they see you at a swingers party' doesnt that tell you they're there for the same reason..? I think id just laugh and make a big joke about it.. What else can you do ...lol.... But to answer the question have we been caught out ... No... but if we did, i dont think id be too concerned.. l think ? lol...

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curiousnhorny05

7 years ago

I hope I never do to be honest. Unfortunately it would never go down well (please don’t judge). It also means we have noone to talk to about stuff that comes up, that others wouldn’t understand. We did bump into someone else we knew at a club. That was scary but worked out well.

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