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July 21 2026

What is it you look for? A vibe, personality etc? What are thoughts on tapes sent too? Personally it’s a must to see what im dealing with… thoughts?

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  • M_R_T_T

    M_R_T_T

    2 days ago

    Defined a vibe, and personality. Some people (in any area of life) you just fall flat with (in terms of connection). I don’t push it with friendships, and I wouldn’t push it for the sake of an intimate encounter. Also for me, having that vibe and a good rapport, can enhance the physical attraction. Don’t need tapes / vids, but recent pics yes. And a real life pre-meet to confirm the connection.

  • M_R_T_T

    M_R_T_T

    2 days ago

    Sorry that should say…Definitely a vibe…

  • OpalRose

    OpalRose

    2 days ago

    Tapes? Tapes of what?

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 days ago

    I need to know if one can hold a conversation and is fully fuctioning, before one expects me to hold anything else. If you get my drift. Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 days ago

    Tapes? Are we talking about the 80's cassette tapes being sent in the mail or humble bragging photos of a dick with a measuring tape next to it, to show length? Ms Foxy 🤷

  • nutsundae

    nutsundae

    2 days ago

    note to self. Stop sending everyone pics of the old half roll of kinesiology tape at the bottom of the gym bag. May improve chances of response. Worth a shot.

  • PandaAndBri

    PandaAndBri

    2 days ago

    I need to chat with someone first before I think about meeting. This will also require recent non spicy photos. We may then share a voice message through Pie, before a meet and greet is scheduled. I do need to find a connection of some sort. I don’t just meet people just for the sex ever. If the meet and greet goes well, then a date is planned. Thanks BRI Ps would never request or expect filmed encounters at any point. Spicy stills maybe depending on the connection

  • lunalive

    lunalive

    2 days ago

    Vibes, looks, respect, no users Don’t like videos being sent to me It makes mr feel icky

  • Pocketrocket602

    Pocketrocket602

    2 days ago

    1. Respect - this is non negotiable. My respect for people starts here 👆 their behaviour and actions will depend if that changes. 2. Personality - if you have the character of a wet sock we won't get along. A relaxed candor, not pushy or demanding of my time or attention. A quick wit, sharp tongue, dry SOH, intelligent intellectual topics, top tier banter with a little bit of good natured roasting, and confidence over cockiness is the way to build chemistry for me to even be interested in possibly pursuing someone. If all those fall into place, it's more than halfway there. 3. If convos beforehand are going well I can usually tell if I want to meet. 4. Discretion - if you're talking about those kinds of tapes, it's a no. From a single female perspective we don't want to see it. Ask first, always! And if you're one of them that need to see what they're dealing with before meeting, my feeling is you're not worth meeting. There's far too many men who could definitely audition with us and never get a spot but we'd never ask to see what you could do first because we already assume most of you don't know where to find the doorbell. Besides, if you were a gentleman you'd let the lady be in charge 😝