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Being human.

June 19 2016

On my journey I have learnt to accept my good and bad qualities, as it has shaped who I am today. I am blessed to be loved by some truly awesome people! I am honest to a fault, love with all my heart, and accept everyone just the way they are. But. I drink far too much and my farts could wipe out an entire city. Literally. In this forum I invite you to tell us your best and worst qualities x

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    BEST: I'm a saggittarius which means, I highly value my freedom and independence. I'm very strong willed, determinded and have a very strong desire to travel and travel.Therefore makes me very inquisitive about the world, cultures, people and places. So if I enjoy your company, you're more than 1/2 way there. WORST: Take any of the above away from me and you'll soon get to see the worst in me! Ohhhhh did I say, I'm very strong willed, so I will not back down till I'm ready too, not when others are or say so. So don't bother telling me, cause I'll probably tell you to get stuffed (in a nice way). Give me heaps of space, and well get on just dandy. Okay :) Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Best : I have a very Caring nature, and usually put myself to forward helping someone out, as a priority to my own plans ( whether it be helping them move house , being a sounding board or a shoulder to cry on, or even friendzoning myself when I feel a more physically friendship may be detrimental to them ). Worst : While I am all the time looking for love, I find myself using rhp and other sites and groups as a way to fill the void of a lack of closeness that you usually get in a fairly regular ( using a social norm description here ) relationship while I partake that journey. I still have only met a handful of women that I would happily start a trusting exclusive relationship on here, and thats a big step from a couple of years ago. I usually form close bonds and friendships with the people I share my intimate side with, and that I see as a positive nestled in with the negative of finding it hard to trust as deeply as I once had regarding exclusive relationships.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My best qualities are: That I'm caring, loyal, forgiving, funny. I love (romantically and platonically) with everything that I am! I give to a fault! I'm a perfectionist in everything I do :) My worst qualities: I don't suffer fools and I'm impatient as fuck! I'll hold my tongue, mostly, but when I need to I'll be brutally honest (and may need to repair relationships). I cannot stand mediocrity or apathy and you would know about that very quickly! I wear my heart on my sleeve, I can get hurt often :( Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Best - I'm kind, generous, accept people for who they are, I work hard, I'm honest and love animals of all descriptions. Worst - a little OCD about tidiness, need to be a little more honest at times (don't like to hurt anyone's feelings), I eat way too much, and waste water with long showers. I'm sure there are more but that's it for now. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    and in "Personality plus".. I am about a 32 Choleric ..Mt strengths are wonderful... and.. the traits YOU ALL call weaknesses..are even MORE strengths...."What can I say...?"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    best : compassionate , always believe there is good in everyone, loyal, independent worst : bit of a neat freak, not standing up for myself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Best: passionate, loyal, wicked sense of humour, compassionate, a helper, I'm a heart on my sleeve kinda gal Worst: I eat for three, sometimes I shut people out when I'm overwhelmed, I over analyse, I'm an open book which often gets my hurt

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When I first read the tag line on SFs reply I thought it said ... ''I have a crack''... no doubt wonderful and a true strength! Strength - A sense of humour albeit sometimes mistaken for sarcasm. Weakness - A sense of sarcasm is not always mistaken as humour. Strength and weakness - I've a ''give a shit'' attitude.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' and in "Personality plus".. I am about a 32 Choleric ..Mt strengths are wonderful... and.. the traits YOU ALL call weaknesses..are even MORE strengths...."What can I say...?" You obviously forgot to mention you're also modest to a fault Tall

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Definitely. I normally wouldn't get stuck into personal characteristics, because we are all a really complicated set of instructions, and a few words here'n'there aren't really going to do anyone justice. But in the spirit of the subject, I'll try and throw a few things together. The good:- Honest, truthful, loyal, diplomatic, wicked sense of humour, passionate, eye for detail, very strong willed (typical Taurean - don't mess with me unless you have the facts), determined - and will generally see things through, knowledgeable, helpful, loving. The bad:- mmm, really ? Just kidding. Can be lazy when it suits me. Can take a while to complete projects. Stubborn - depends on what side you're on. Also don't suffer fools, but will give them plenty of berth before I'll make something out of it. Can be quite analytical - don't rush me. And I'm sure a few of you will have a few others to add to the list. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Handsome , built , big dong , personality plus , highly sought after , and ever so humble... What else can a man say ? 😎

  • LeMerovingien

    LeMerovingien

    10 years ago

    Pros: Smart, Loyal, Apreciated Cons: I copy DJ khaled

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The good: I make an awesome FWB (and girlfriend, I hope!) because I don't do jealousy and I love to share. I haven't 'given up' on my childhood dreams and am still working towards making them a reality. The bad: I am terrible at verbalising what I want or talking about 'serious' feelings and I freak out easily when it comes to commitment. I get restless easily in both relationships and life so I have found it hard to stay in the place or with the same person for too long. I am terrible at saving money and am an impulsive shopper. Miss Little x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Modest to a fault..nah just kidding.How can we objectively view ourselves? Most of us are delusional after all.one persons confidence is another's perception of vanity...kindness can be viewed as patronising posturing. Who am I what am I ? I am the sum of many parts,a chameleon ,blending in to the social landscape just like everyone else 😎Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Me? I'm emotionally intelligent, generous, charming and very outgoing. I'm a settled, level headed type and I'm a great mum. I'm good at making people comfortable and getting the most out of them. I see the world in moods, poems and shades of light. I do genuinely look for the beauty in all things. I feel these are all good. My negatives, plenty! 😬 I swear like a trooper. I'm impulsive and dark. I like my space in acres. I shut people down quickly if I find them dis-ingenuous. I can be superficial and I smoke when I'm nervous or drink. I have no temperament for drama. I eat three helpings of anything good. I'm the type that would kill one to save many. Emotional types get my goat. I'm told I'm cuttingly honest, unfortunately I feel I'm very restrained. 🐐 I think I'll go and eat some worms... 🌹 -longest. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    that's for me to know and you all to take the time to find out! LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That's for me to know and for those interested to take the time to find out LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Pros: Im honest, self reliant, generous - to a fault sometimes. I love deeply, Im funny/sarcastic 😉 and so many other things.. Cons: Im honest , I call a spade a spade. Im self reliant, I find it extremely difficult, in fact just about impossible to ask for or accept help. Im generous, Ill give away my last dollar even if I need it. I love deeply but dont wear it on my sleeve therefore it sometimes seems I dont care. Im funny/sarcastic, generally for self preservation xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Seriously flawed. Im like that devine beautiful piece of artwork that was destroyed by thieves. However you can still look at me from a distance and mavel in the beauty, once you have an appreciation. ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Best: Good rootWorst: I can be your worst bitch

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But I know I get a few laughs from people that I meet....get a few eyes rolling too lol But I gotta say I haven't really sorted out or thought about what I'd say my strengths and weaknesses/bad qualities are... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Fuck swearing less....it's totally fucked being all proper and fucken shit lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Painfully shy and awkward so I spend a lot of time alone and because of this many misinterpret this for aloofness and coldness.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I always find the positives hard to identify (about myself at least!) - so I'm considering this a personal challenge! I guess I would say I'm compassionate, generous, and thoughtful. I love to recognise and celebrate the positives in others, and I think I'm really good at making people feel special and valued. I am fucking EXCELLENT at my job. And I'm passionate about the things that inspire me - if I love it, you'll know about it. My not-so-positives? I have a tendency to overcommit myself because I don't like saying no, or disappointing others, which means I sometimes end up letting myself down. I don't give myself enough credit. And I do a terrible job at being a responsible adult when I'm home alone - I tend to eat more like a teenage boy while his parents are away rather than a mid-40's mother! And I suck at time management - the last minute is my friend.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    I also prefer to 🙈🙉🙊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I run hot...I run cold...and I know how to deal dirty people

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The good, Im funny (I think) The bad, Im too funny (when I dont think) :DAnd the ugly, I try my best to avoid, reflective surfaces and mirrors in daylight hours. 🙉🙈🙊

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    BEST - I am able to - Communicate with people from different walks of life and can get along with anyone as long as they don't judge me. - Walk away from fights (verbal and physical) shake most negativities off. - Overlook the value of money when it's necessary to spend some money on myself and spoil myself. - Adapt into all sorts of new environments and/or circumstances. - Take criticism and improve on my weaknesses. - Not afraid to learn new things and can laugh at myself too. WORST - I can be: - Slow, at times, to pick up/understand the message behind a message. - Slow (again) in learning a new language and can take a long time to get better at it. For example, I am still struggling with understanding English grammar and my vocabulary is still limited! That means, I still have difficulty in expressing myself properly at times. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    "Each time you want to know what to pursue or what to avoid, look to your highest good, the aim of your life as a whole. Everything we do ought to be in accordance with that aim. Only one who has the entirety of his life in view is in a position to arrange life’s particulars. Even with paints all at the ready, no one can render a likeness until he has decided what he wants to paint. That’s our mistake: everyone deliberates over the parts of life; no one over life as a whole. If you want to shoot an arrow, you must know what you are trying to hit: only then can you direct the point and steady the shaft. Our counsels are all astray in that they have no mark to aim at. If one doesn’t know what harbor to make for, there can be no favoring wind" - Seneca, Letters 71.1-2?

  • Grouse33

    Grouse33

    10 years ago

    Pro: I'm a really nice guy. Really Con: May not be as nice a guy as I claim I am. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    👲 Confucius says being human is being a human being :S

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Grouse33' Pro: I'm a really nice guy. Really Con: May not be as nice a guy as I claim I am. - Posted from rhpmobile perfect, you're a genius. I'm the female version of that. Really nice person, but I can be a real asshole when it's required haha oops I'm not suggesting that's your self analysis

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm a good root

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I'm a good root What utter shameless self promotion. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I'm a good root What utter shameless self promotion. Tall that's what we're here for isn't it? Well it's what I'm here for

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Strength and weakness - I've a ''give a shit'' attitude. And that fits for work and play. There are pro's and con's to giving a shit. 😕

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    What can I say but

  • lesuiresuitlad

    lesuiresuitlad

    10 years ago

    Love that name. it can be any which way - Posted from rhpmobile