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Bi-curious
December 23 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
approach to sexxx.
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RHP User
11 years ago
In my opinion sexual orientation isn't a kind of video game where you have to play a certain amount of times before you can progress to the next level. There are obviously no rules.Bisexuality is simply a romantic or sexual attraction or sexual behaviour towards both males and females. You can be bisexual without having ever had any physical contact with both sexes, as long as you're attracted to both to some degree. Just like people can identify as homosexual or heterosexual even before they have their first sexual experience.Notwithstanding, I think most people prefer to have a few encounters with the same sex before they decide to 'label' themselves as bisexual. In my opinion, bi-curious = I'm curious about the same sex but haven't decided whether or not I'm attracted to them sexually or romantically yet. Bisexual = I am confident that I am attracted to the same sex in a romantic or sexual way. Just my 2 cents.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that bi-curious is someone who's happy to go with the flow in a threesome/group situation but won't participate in sex with the same gender on his/her own. A bi-sexual person will happily play with and even form a relationship with a person of either gender. That's my definition anyway, I also think your 68 example is a good one.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Then I knew for sure.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' A bi-sexual person will happily play with and even form a relationship with a person of either gender. I love having have sex with both genders, but don't think I could ever be in a relationship with (just) a woman. Being bisexual and being biamorous are two different things. Some other good therms (apart from Heteroflexible) I just came across: Bi-comfortable, Situationally Bi and Bipartisan (from someone who loves parties).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why to make it complex... What is wrong with liking a cock as much as a pussy... lol.... you are all sexist :P hahahaha.... On a more serious note the human form is beautiful in itself. Male or female does not matter... and as long there is attraction... chemistry and affection... there is no need to define , make it a terminolgy and put it into the coffin of a relationship... Just take it as it comes and live in the moment :) Cheers OP ..... good on ya!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bi curious equals your more comfortable with some one taking the lead. Bi sexual means you know you like it and quite comfortable taking the lead.. You have to split the two between sexual and relationship. For intents of this site ide use the sexual meaning of Bi curious and Bi sexual. Maybe Rhp could add a couple of extra categories to their relationship details that remove doubt between the two. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If the definitions in this thread are more or less correct, I'm way off in what I thought it meant. I would've thought that the term 'curious' was a dead give away. That is, while I have never expressed any bisexual desires or engaged in any bisexual acts, I am curious (interested in) about expressing and engaging in bisexual acts. Of course, you could also ask whether you need to engage in bisexual acts to be bisexual. After all, don't most people know what their sexual preferences are prior to ever having sex? If the latter wasn't true, wouldn't we see far more people experimenting with people of varying sex and gender?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I class myself as bi curious. I'm married, kids.. But just want to suck on some nipples and have someone give me a sensual massage... Maybe lead to more...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why does it matter.,just be in the moment, sexuality is not fixed,if you have an open mind and heart you might surprise yourself..Labels are really only useful on jam jars xx Freya
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
Who cares what it's called.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Do you have to even label it at all...... If I had to label myself at all, it would be "experimental"..... I'm experimenting with life......💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
Means you are interested in something but you haven't tried it yet.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Lovinit. Sure, we can leave the labels for jars, packages and mouth breathers who can't tie their shoelaces. Or, we could use labels as guides to understand what people are looking for emotionally and sexually. That is, if you don't label yourself at all (even though you did -- 'experimental', which is, nonetheless, quite vague anyway), I have no idea what that means, as it seems to cover an infinite sexual spectrum. Likewise, you'd have no idea what I was looking for if I referred to myself as 'sexually experimental'. I'm quite confident in saying that you would not be comfortable partaking in every sexual caper that I'm into and vice versa. This whole site is based on labels, which is not necessarily a bad thing. As crude as you think they may be, these labels help us save time and assist us in finding what we're seeking. And if you were going to abolish one set of labels, why not all? Why not get rid of age, sex, gender, physique -- the whole caboodle! We could dispense with them all and base our selections on how lovely we think someone's profile nick sounds as it rolls off our tongue.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am an older male and as a younger man the thought of being sexually interested in another male was not even a glimmer of a remote possibility. However as I got older and lost some of my shyness and inhibitions and experimented a little with swinging , threesomes and even a little group sex , lo and behold I found myself being sucked by a man and even sucking a cock or two. So I guess I would call my self bi-curious as while I still don't find my self sexually interested or turned on by men I know that given the right circumstances I am curious enough to try almost anything. Oh and with age I have developed a fascination with transvestites and transsexuals and am curious about men who cross dress. I guess I agree with most posts and see labels as not being very necessary or helpful. I think we could even live a little dangerously and remove them from jam jars.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The OP asked a genuine question, and I'm not sure responses like "Who cares", "Why label it", etc. are answering it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
ive got a thing where I love my wife using a dildo round the back while we fuck missionary but I don't want a man to penetrate me that way.she pleads with me to try it and reassures me that shes going to grab his ass cheeks to control the act
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RHP User
11 years ago
which sex orgasms you faster???
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is putting bi-curious in your profile a way to improve your number of dates. Had an experience where the bi curious lady in question wasn't too curious. Poor wife loves lady love but loves it more when they love it back;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
When you know youre attracted to both, youre bi. Testing out both sexes is just a way to be sure. I've known people who are 100% gay (and othres 100% straight) who just happened to meet the right 'one' and they swapped. Just stick by your guns. if you're interested, you're interested.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me bi-curious means I'm comfortable with a lady... approaching, doing and receiving... but would not want a romantic relationship with a lady. It's not about "haven't done it yet" or "owe you one"... This may not be a Oxford definition but it's my definition so I guess we all have our own...
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