Bisexual men, what’s the turn off ladies?

April 03 2026

So I have been looking for a specific situation which I’m starting to think looking off this app might be the place to go. It seems trying to find two bisexual men to play with is tricky because they get quite negative reactions from more ladies than not, so they hide or act straight. I know this sets me apart from what I have heard. But I want to know ladies; Why does a man being bisexual turn you off? Why have they been made to feel like they have to hide?

Comments

  • Tones303420

    Tones303420

    2 months ago

    Hey I'm not hiding... m straight 45..

  • BarberBoss1981

    BarberBoss1981

    2 months ago

    I love bi men...its my preference to date bi men...its always so fun to share a cock with a partner!!!

  • Sescalinata

    Sescalinata

    2 months ago

    If you put bi mmf as a preference in your profile, you will find them. I've had bi partners, I found one on a bisexual platform. There's definitely a stigma there, although bi women are considered hot. Just like the married men and women debate, double standards. I've seen bi men being called out as gay in the chatroom. I honestly think it's down to insecurities and dormant thoughts in men who are scared to admit who they truly are. Gay, bi, straight, it doesn't matter one iota. Be true to yourself.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    2 months ago

    In the early days I was put off bi men because I thought they’d be too promiscuous for me. But surprised it’s still a concern as single people hook up all the time. Swingers hook up a lot. (Ok not all people). It’s no different in that way. And if anything, I had thought bi Mmfs were a growing interest for the ladies 🤷‍♀️

  • BiAsianBottom

    BiAsianBottom

    2 months ago

    Hey, bi mmf's are so hot. Sharing a cock with a female is such a turn on. Let me know if you or anyone else are interested

  • Lingerieluvr

    Lingerieluvr

    2 months ago

    I feel like this is definitely a question I ask myself. Ive been lucky enough to meet one special lady many years ago. But sadly never got the chance to experience anything aside from sharing a double ender. So lots left on the bucket list. I know when I’ve talked about my sexuality to other women, most get turned off, one was freaked out and made me feel uncomfortable. Some are super chill but are purely curious about my adventures. Hard to find people for play.

  • SugarSugar69

    SugarSugar69

    one month ago

    Best sex I’ve ever had was with a bi MMF omg the memories

  • Smutlover

    Smutlover

    one month ago

    I love bi men and have had the privilege of meeting some through this platform. I think it's super hot personally 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one month ago

    Just get a gay male friend to help. He’s not thinking of being competitive because he is attracted to you but he will be protective of the idea and your safety. Some 3 ways I had in different dynamics were awkward as fuck. Some were funny. None were more awkward that an FFM I brazenly organised. A FFM I think one girl needs to be the queen and also be in a vibe with the other. Depends on if it’s straight FFM or not. The idea usually doesn’t match the reality. Imagine getting in in there and the time to create everything just ends up with some energy that’s not any way full of true passion and no performance. Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one month ago

    I will more than happy to help you out

  • James3088

    James3088

    one month ago

    I’d love to help if I lived closer

  • Biguyplayer

    Biguyplayer

    one month ago

    Being a bi guy is a lot of fun particularly when the ladies enjoy a bi man , have played with a number of couples and ladies who really do luv playing with bi guys , l totally understand and respect guys and girls who choose not to play with bi guys, it’s not for everyone, being bi is a choice and l love the lifestyle.

  • chestylarude

    chestylarude

    one month ago

    I love bi guys! They’re generally just so much more comfortable with who they are. I once had a FMM Threesome, with my bi guy friend in the middle, being fucked while he was fucking me. It was hot as hell :D

  • MrsEyes

    MrsEyes

    one month ago

    Bi men are a turn on for me. I would never judge someone for their sexual preferences. I do find it extremely hard to find two men to play with. Maybe men feel they arent masculine enough if they admit they like being with another man. They feel judged for it as its always been a "taboo" subject. Double standards if you ask me, quiet acceptable for two women to play....

  • Smilemaker

    Smilemaker

    3 days ago

    As an older guy who has come late to bicuriousity I'd ask for folks to focus simply on the act of one man sucking another or one man fucking another or on those who enjoy both. I think many older men who were socialized to regard cock sucking or man to man anal sex as "wrong" need to be encouraged to just do it! If ya don't enjoy, it's all good. If any guy in Sydney wants to make love to my cock with their mouth Or teach me to suck a big thick monster is encouraged to message me.!

  • Mangomuncher

    Mangomuncher

    26 minutes ago

    Why do women hide their profiles from guys who put down that they are Bi...?