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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 days ago

  No judgement, followed by judging people for how they choose to manage their own inbox. If there's one thing this lifestyle has taught me, it's that everyone has different reasons for blocking, replying, or simply moving on. None of us are entitled to someone else's time or explanation. There have been 1000's of forum topics on this very subject. Ms Foxy

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  Nightglider

  3 days ago

  RHP is an interesting place. Everyone has their own way of doing things. We all try to do what works for us, and that can create situations like this, where the way we operate doesn’t always align. To me, it simply highlights a misalignment, which I’ve learned is often doing me a favour. My years here have taught me to lower my expectations. If I don’t expect too much, then anything good that comes along feels like a huge bonus.

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  TattooedLife

  3 days ago

  Common courtesy has gone right out the window these days, to easy to swipe onto the next one in line. I find it hard to believe

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  NewOldStock

  3 days ago

  There could be many reasons, people are loaded with unknown variables They come with different concepts of morality, courtesy, etiquette and adherence to/or knowledge of "unwritten rules" as well. Some may think a clean break is best, they may not want to get into long replies of explaining their decision This will just be a step in finding people who do align better

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  selfless__lover

  3 days ago

  Have you ever dealt with some of the fragile egos in this world? I've tried the polite route in the past but then copped abuse about myself or my partner at the time. Most of my single female friends on here and on dating apps have experienced the same. There are many different reasons why people choose not to reply or just block. Don't concern yourself with the why and just move on.

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  LandR202

  2 days ago

  I have to admit it’s a different kettle of fish doing this as a couple… I was on here a number of years and experienced my fair share of “thanks no thanks” responses … but I’ve definitely developed a much thicker skin since starting a couple profile!! I don’t mind the quiet block tbh. I get everyone has their own approach to how they Rhp and I prefer the silent sidestep. It’s gentler and less complicated. I don’t need reasons or reassurance…

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  PartnersnCrime

  yesterday

  I thank these people for showing their personality earlier and not wasting more of my time 😀 much worse in my view if they fake polite

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  Stickybuns69

  yesterday

  The whole 'blocking' thing,. especially after mutually agreeing to share photos, is totally mystifying to us too. The more adult way to handle things, ( in our humble opinion) is just to say 'sorry, I don't think you suit the vibe we're after'. We've said it to others, ( and have had it said to us) , and it's the most polite and respectful way to clear the air. Blocking seems juvenile, and we suspect a lot of people who do it are just picture collectors. I think we were a little spoiled by the European scene, which was much more honest and direct.

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  lunalive

  yesterday

  Because you are not their type or they know you. They don’t care if they hurt your feelings. Not being rude here but I think that’s what it is. You ok?

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  Touchtasteenjoy

  -5 hours ago

  I worry with this after I grant access and immediately blocked that same are fake profiles, using pics etc and this is no recourse for us to raise concern with RHP as the history is fully deleted .

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