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Brain V Beauty

January 31 2010

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Something happened the other day that really got me thinking about how i relate to women these days. A friend was watching pornos and drooling over them. The Woman was sexy and hot but it never got me going. Pornos are all the same, first a blowjob then the two or three positions followed by a cum shot and when you have seen one you have seen them all. Then another one started with the woman fully dressed and holding a conversation and that got my attention big time until they got into the routine of blowjob, position, cumshot. Now i will be the first one to admit that i would love to bend a Megan Gale look alike over and give it to her but the truth is i would rather have a good conversation and get into a womans mind that is half as good looking as Megan and then have mindblowing sex with her.   I find that sex is far more satisfying if you actually get to know the person first. Why do we rush into beauty and wander why the sex was lousy(not all the time} and you are in a rush to get away. On a number of occasions i have been drawn to a hot looking woman only to lose all interest the moment she opened her mouth to speak.   I am firmly on the side of brains and the the fantastic sex that goes with it

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Brains beat beauty hands down... there is nothing worse that seeing a cute woman at the bar/cafe/shopping centre and introducing yourself and finding they are as shallow as a baby pool.   I find a relationship, sex and all the bits in-between is better when you can converse with the other person on a more intellectual level.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Anything is possible Contendedone !   Why not be BOTH beautiful AND smart... SHIT, FFS, roll me over and dip me in chocolate and 100s and 1000s...the combination IS possible !!!   I like my men attractive (not models), preferably toned and fit, AND intelligent !  I don't want conceited or arrogant but there are some incredibly attractive men who I find very HOT.  They are propably average "Joe's" but have brains and can hold a conversation.  I find these men very very attractive. They look after themselves when they aren't working hard and getting all sweaty (YUMMY),  are aware that eating meat pies and McDonalds are not the best options when you are over 40 and they can discuss more than just footy and cricket.   There are many HOT women on here with brains too.   Why not go for both ? Sure if I HAD to choose then it'd be brains first BUT seriously I have not been with one ugly guy off RHP, every one has been attractive !  AND every one of them has brains too !!!   Sorry ... it must be my drinking wine before I've had breakfast (yep...it's 5pm and no food yet...too busy) but re the porn part... intelligent women can make HOT porn too !!! Watch out for Miss_Saturn online soon ... he he he !!!   Better go eat my porridge now...or wash the 100s and 1000s off!!   xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I will add my 2 cents worth here..Miss Saturn , i agree with you ..I would rather my woman can hold a good conversation and did not have any sesame seeds in their teeth !!  Teeth preferred of course..lets be truthful here we are all attracted by sight first..

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    um, especially the 100 & 1000's bit heheSeriously though-Miss Saturn, you are attracted to brains in a bloke as you just mentioned, so would that not make nearly every smart bloke, just that little bit better looking in your eyes?You may start with an average joe who you would never look at twice, however when he opens his mouth, he turns into a bit more of a spunk.I think Contendedone, was maybe talking more about the flip side, and i hear you Contendedne, i really do.I remember seeing this cute little thing on site one day (Female tradie), awesome body, smokin hot face etc etc.Then. It. Spoke.And it hoiked up loogiesand....and.....and.......I was terrified, So yeah, i will definitely go for an "average" girl with manners, class, and brains over a super hot brainless bimbo

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Oh brother....how many times have I heard that a guy just lerves a femme with 'brains'? Speaking from the perspective of a woman with a moderate amount of working brain cells AND, despite a few runaways possess a reasonable face (lol)...the majority of men I've come  across both professionally & personally....find a woman posessing a decent vocab and ability to communicate on any level... intimidating. The reasonably smart ones just wanna get competative and the moderately blessed intellectuals just look at me with a blank face and mumble..'so u wanna fuck or wot'? Thank God I have a good sense of humour....at least I think I do....lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I agree with Myname.  I have been told upfront by a couple of men that I am considered intimidating because I refuse to pretend to be dumb.  Its the same as when you are an assertive woman, the words that get bandied around are aggressive, ball buster, dyke.  If you are a passionate woman, as I am,  angry is often a descriptor. Contendedone, good on you for appreciating a woman's intellect.  Don't be surprised though if women seem sceptical. Wildly hoping its true

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Tis true, intelligence = intimidating, however if a man is secure in himself then the brains are not so intimidating.   Both brains and beauty would be a blessing for both man or woman... I only have one half of the equation unfortunately.   Will go back to my corner and dream of 100's and 1000's... mmmm chocolate.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    any guy who is intimidated by a cerebrally enhanced female needs to evolve. i've quoted it before, and i'll quote it again, intelligence is the greatest aphrodisiac. oh, and if you combine that with breathtaking aesthetics, and a playful,cheeky demeanour... i'm getting hard just thinking about it

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'christopher79'any guy who is intimidated by a cerebrally enhanced female needs to evolve. That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.  Getting smart is hard.  How about these cerberally enhanced females dumb down a bit.  My suggestions - giggle - twirl your hair - phrases like "Oh Jean... you're so smart *giggle* and hot *schoolgirl giggle*" - adjust cleavage   What you're suggesting dear Christopher sounds like it will require studying... I know what's easier.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'WildTassieGypsy'I agree with Myname.  I have been told upfront by a couple of men that I am considered intimidating because I refuse to pretend to be dumb.  Its the same as when you are an assertive woman, the words that get bandied around are aggressive, ball buster, dyke.  If you are a passionate woman, as I am,  angry is often a descriptor. Contendedone, good on you for appreciating a woman's intellect.  Don't be surprised though if women seem sceptical. Wildly hoping its true I joined the army during as a young student (field medicine was my passion) first question I was asked by the guys  so...what are ya...a dyke or a nympho? Apparantely they were the only choices ....then I opened my mouth and they soon shut theirs....just went downhill from there...name calling was rife but...behind my back. Yep WTG....dyke, ballbreaker and many other lovely terms, continues today ...out of uniform and worse from the private sector! Ahh.....intelligence...gotta love it!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Nympho... now there's an appealing nickname right there!!  Oh yes... sure.... all the "scary" ladies with their great big brains that go to mush at the first sight of a vase of flowers...... or nipple twist... either/or...   but give me a woman with brains and balls I overheard Jean say.... hehe... now there's the perfect description of a bed wench right there. :p    Army Lippy? Just doing my research. Woo Oop. :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I actually didnt mind the name calling..sorta had a 'legend' thing going on....the boys with their big guns were scared....particularly when I had their bits in my hands...LOL The white collar boys with their big pencils...well...just call me 'the eraser'! (even bigger LOL) Oh and hey...mushy and the dreaded V word can be good... keeps us human...u do remember what that was like dont ya?...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I only know how my brain works.  My brain absorbs like a sponge.  It doesn't like the mundane or the routine.  It has vision and perception.  It confronts and exposes the truth.  It nurtures and protects.    But in finding suitable longterm partners, I have found this difficult and I outgrow them. They could have a string of academic degrees behind them, but unfortunately this does not make them SMART.  Smart people are the people who are AWARE of their place, what they are doing and where they are headed.  Smart people are ready to use the opportuntities in front of them and run with them.   So guys that tell me they have a have been to uni a million times...so what? ...yeah sure they have brains, but are they smart enough to use it?  I want to know what their dreams, opinions, and stories are.  I love a good story teller because they use "life" to describe their thoughts.    And when all else fails - gag me, spank me, tie me up...I might just be smart enough to enjoy it :p   Jx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    give me someone with a brain and a good sense of humorandyou'll find someone who is secure in themselvesxoxoxheymumma

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    No way has to be pretty to even have attraction. Without attraction=Friends..I am not saying she has to be drop dead gorgeous, but attractive..If she is not the smartest person on the earth but is honest, loyal, faithful and a good mother then that is enough for me.   I am lucky my wife has it all.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'christopher79'any guy who is intimidated by a cerebrally enhanced female needs to evolve. That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.  Getting smart is hard.  How about these cerberally enhanced females dumb down a bit.  My suggestions - giggle - twirl your hair   - phrases like "Oh Jean... you're so smart *giggle* and hot *schoolgirl giggle*" - adjust cleavage   What you're suggesting dear Christopher sounds like it will require studying... I know what's easier.  hehe, always with the snappy witticisms. i'm not talking about book smarts either. which, yawn, can be tiresome. i value street smarts more than book smarts. i hope you have'nt mistaken me for some stuffy, wanker intellectual thats about to look up his own transcending colon jean girard. someone who is intoxicated by the exuberance of his own verbosity(if you will).because my friend, it seems we share two character traits. laziness and procrastination. and i prefer to work smarter, not harder.but generally speaking, if i'm to find a girl attractive, counting to ten is a prerequisite. p.s the most ridiculous thing you've ever heard? massive call. cos i've heard some doosies in my time. and some of my prior posts were  far more ridiculous than this....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ...sure it can be but usually only when the intelligent person is trying to be intimidating. I know a lot of extremely intelligent people and the ones that stay my friends are the ones who can talk on a  higher level amongst themselves and still talk to a bozo (like me) without making me feel less of a human being. Intelligent and Aesthetically pleasing? Mrs Pup has it in the bag and is nice to boot (but she really can have her blonde moments too)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    if i could find both, well what can i say except i would be dipping her in chocolate and 100s nd 1000s lol.  Lips and Gypsy i am sad to say you are both right but remember the people who are intimidated by your intelligence are generally insecure and do not know how to behave with you and therefore try to put you down. Attack is the best form of defence and name calling is the easiest way to deflect from there own inadequacies I am new to rhp but i am sure there lots of hot women with brains on here (in fact a few of them have contributed to this thread) i was just trying to say that a woman with brains is one hot sexy mama that i would take any day over a super model that thinks africa is a country somewhere in south america

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thats really hard to find? A bloke who is smart and has a really really big dick! Oh okokokok..I'll get off that subject...BUT thats the problem...I wanna get on it! Ooops, amazing how intellect can be there one minute and gone the next...... I'm not smart...I was just built that way.... (lol)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Thats really hard to find? A bloke who is smart and has a really really big dick! Oh okokokok..I'll get off that subject...BUT thats the problem...I wanna get on it! Ooops, amazing how intellect can be there one minute and gone the next...... I'm not smart...I was just built that way.... (lol) It is all to do with the availability of blood for the brain to function.ergo large penis take large volume of blood and hence affects the availability of blood to the mans brain.LOLHermes

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    this is true mynameonourlips,intelect is only there when we are not occupied with more then one thing at a time,as soon as the mention of sex is spoken most blokes go into drule mode , the brain switches off and the blood flows the other direction

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    now theres a though  One bright star, gagging ,spankin and being tied up ,all give a bloke a rush of excitement

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Thats really hard to find? A bloke who is smart and has a really really big dick! Oh okokokok..I'll get off that subject...BUT thats the problem...I wanna get on it! Ooops, amazing how intellect can be there one minute and gone the next...... I'm not smart...I was just built that way.... (lol) you want....a man who is good-looking, intelligent, and a big cock?...Does it matter if his ears are all pointy like mr spock and his skin is green like yoda's???...Because if not, i'll point ya in the right direction...gigglingcheersjose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'COMEANDGETME68' Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Thats really hard to find? A bloke who is smart and has a really really big dick! Oh okokokok..I'll get off that subject...BUT thats the problem...I wanna get on it! Ooops, amazing how intellect can be there one minute and gone the next...... I'm not smart...I was just built that way.... (lol)you want....a man who is good-looking, intelligent, and a big cock?...Does it matter if his ears are all pointy like mr spock and his skin is green like yoda's???...Because if not, i'll point ya in the right direction...gigglingcheersjose... I want: a reasonable looking, hygenic, good humoured employed, over 40 ear breather with sufficient blood flow in either direction at any point in time. but hey...if u know someone who fits your description then Im sure I can relax my standards..just this once evil mwuahahahahaha

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    my posts are taking 24 hours at least to get through so this thread might slow right down by the time you read this but i have to ask this question. What is wrong with your ex. Has he had a head injury to leave you for someone with a better body? maybe they should check his eyes along with his head because from what a read of your posts on other forums you sound like well grounded smart woman with a great personality and a very nice body to boot. I wouldn't worry about him you can do better and he is a perfect example of what i was trying to say. He went for beauty and found he lost mental stimulation in other areas

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'firefly0901'this is true mynameonourlips,intelect is only there when we are not occupied with more then one thing at a time,as soon as the mention of sex is spoken most blokes go into drule mode , the brain switches off and the blood flows the other direction On ya fire! You are a brave man indeed to openly declare a blokes single mindedness when sex is on the table Just one problem tho....as the subject header suggests....where do I fit in that equation?.. Don't tell me Im turning into a dude??? 'checks my bits'

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I agree with you customeranywayup  ..If the girl has the passion and enjoys what she is doing to her lover than oh yeah , thank you very much.. Firefly i have enough blood for it to keep the heart pumping brain ticking over and rise to attention..No blue tablets needed !

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ...between us we just about have all the bases well covered....hang on, Mrs Pup has em all covered on her own so what the hell can I offer? Oh yes I'm a great cook!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Just a bunch of grey cauliflower lookin mushy stuff filled with facts, figures and whatever else it collects over the years. Common sense....and sense of humour...now THERES a delicious combo!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You are right lips maybe the can put the combo in the drive through at kentucky and we get the franchise rights

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Seeing as how you reside in the suburb of one of my fave tv shows (a coupon for one lick sip and suck if you can guess the show)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lips you got me excited until i realised you talking about a drink

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Oooook, if you say so contendedone (wtf does that mean anyway?) lol but u didnt guess the ABC show that stars kath and kim....so u get NOTHIN....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love a sexy mind..one that is open and seeking.  When it is coupled with the right package..magic is possible. Note:  Perfection of body and mind not required, just curiosity and playfulness  - enquire within.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lips i knew the show but was sidetracked with talking about lick sip and suck that i forgot to put in the post. One coupon gone begging.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hey customer i just knew there was a serious side to add to you sense of humour. By the way i agree with you all the way

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Why does it have to be brain VERUS beauty in the first place? I mean isn't beauty in the eye of the beholder? And given each of us is different in our tastes and all, doesn't that mean that we're likely to see each partner differently from someone else?   Me - I find the connection strongest with someone I can converse well with. I find it easier to relax and be myself if there's a mental connection there to start with... sex is far more fun that way too :-)   hugs Wayne