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Can a long profile be too boring to read?

July 05 2018

Sorry if this topic has already been posted several but I think that many men have the same issue with attracting attention of potential partners. With a very large male/female ratio, standing out is obviously a priority. I have included in my profile what I believe to be details about myself with photos that seem ok and I always add more details in messages I send to women or couples, depending on what I can think of in the moment. I manage to keep an element of "surprise" that is not mentionned in my profile somehow. Still, this does not prove successful, meaning a low to very low "return on investment" so to say (not very elegant and sexy way to put it I agree) and makes me wonder what is/are the wrong thing/s with my profile and what could be improved. I am not only looking for women's feedback, anyone's is welcome as we are all at different learning stages of the best way to introduce oneself. In my case, I believe an issue is the length of my profile and the fact that it could read a bit pedantic. I've looked at other men's profile, it tends to be much shorter, but I always believed that women don't mind doing a bit of reading. However, if they receive a lot of solicitations, they may not spend the time to read the whole lot? Or do they look at the pics first and then read the profile? Obviously, it's different with every woman. I cannot do much about the photos though, it's just me, often with a smile on. Thanks for taking the time to read this long post and giving me some feedback. O.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Aren’t about length....they’re about the personality that’s writing them... No different to a book writer or a newspaper article.. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Lose the speaking on behalf of most guys shit.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    However I cant forgive the French for knocking the All Blacks out of 07 world cup with a forward pass ...other than that good luck.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Oh look something shiny 😛😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Old age size debate? 😉. There’s no one size fits all. We all look for different things when perusing people’s profiles. Be articulate, be polite, be able to form sentences - remember it’s a persons/couples first insight into you so think about how you want to come across. Whether it be short or long is then up to you. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Long anything's are boring. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Long anything's are boring TO READ** 🤣😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Bluesteel73 Man 44yrsPerth Cool profile... However I cant forgive the French for knocking the All Blacks out of 07 world cup with a forward pass ...other than that good luck. 🤣🤣🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    7 years ago

    Even that first part you wrote on this post I scrolled past because it was too long - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Dont see anything wrong with your profile. Imagine it's just the laws of ratios and attraction in here. Maybe it's just my cynical nature that the post here coincides with your trip to Brisbane for some response from the locals

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Lucky you corrected yourself there ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Oh trust me I know lol Bullet dodged😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Yes . Dont like it when its to long. Rather meet and get to know them. Have meet a few people who didnt have much to say about themselfs on there profiles. And have been very interesting , awesome jobs, and very out going. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I like that part about return on investment...fk that's awesome...gotta get our moneys worth all right when paying the big dollar!...must admit the last few days I have been a great return on my investment...you know what I now forgive the French for ripping me of in 07..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    That’s not a long profile.... THIS.... is a long profile 😄 https://redhotpie.com.au/MemberProfile/ProfileView.aspx?memberid=1183146089071

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I've made comments before on this subject. Long-winded profiles scream "I'm perfect" & "I'm not settling for anything less than my idea of perfect" **News Break: No-one is perfect. No-one What is wrong with a clear photograph or two (from THIS decade!), tick a few boxes and a few words that give us a hint of your personality. If I like what I see, this is where I'd introduce myself in the hope of learning more. This is the perfect profile, to my mind. It's like how we might meet at an outing, where you get to look at one another, learn a little about them and decide then if you'd like to take things further. Beautiful. Thrilling. Exciting... But, if that person you've introduced yourself to begins by telling you everything they want in a partner and then by telling you why they are so deserving, are you gonna stick around? Not this cat.... We all deserve the right partner, but some humility and acceptance of our imperfections (& excitement at learning about someone new) should lead to a better outcome.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Looks like I've shot myself in the foot, with that LONG rant!! Sorry 🙂

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I see what you did there 🤣🤣

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I am into reading but a long profile at times will turn me away from reading. Shorten it instead of lots of sentences use just one word description. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    7 years ago

    Personally I like a profile that shows that the person writing it has put in an effort. If people don't want to read all of it they can skim read or just look at the pretty pictures. I'm more likely to skip over a profile if there is very little information about a person, and if you can show that you can put a sentence (or several) together then that's a big tick in my book. I guess, just with all things in life, what will be a turn on for some will be a turn off for others. I figure if you're true to yourself then you'll attract like-minded people. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks for all your critical constructive feedback, I've taken some on board. Agreed that content matters more than length. I've added a short version of my profile to the long one, to fit most tastes. - Posted from rhpmobile

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