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Can someone explain why
March 02 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
people like to talk about sex. Material for later maybe
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RHP User
10 years ago
So "they" have a ( probably secondary account ) to remain annonomous, in order to engage in conversation.... What about this is difficult to grasp? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Contact those whom appear to have similar views and/ or you can be of benefit to. What do u have to offer... The forums at least have honest responses.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
RHP forums are way better read than Facebook you can learn , laugh have discussions it's like a dirty novel People on here could be very happy just here for the forums , in a relationship or just not looking , but when you have 99 yr olds you wonder why there on here as can they get it up ? Buggered if I know maybe taking advise from all the lovely ladies on here would help the wider community lessons on how we feel and to be treated ... The men can give us advice on how the portray themselves I know I'm addicted lol Opal
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RHP User
10 years ago
To see what messages they get on both sites ie. Two different types of people? Because even if you say you're here for the forums - chances are you will get messages and flirts anyway. Or they might be here because they love sex, and love the forums or love swinging, but don't want to form a relationship with someone who puts themselves out there so much? I know - a little ironic! They might just be curious, but hesitant. Who knows......maybe message them and ask? It's a genuine question if you've picked up on someone on both and you're wondering, especially if you find them interesting. People can be very confusing 😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
plenty would be here with a secondary account. I don't tend to engage on here too much with faceless profiles or profiles without pictures. that's just me, could be anyone. Personally that creeps me out, could be the creepy guy up the road or whoever, have my fair share of stalkers, so personally, I don't trust anyone on the forum (or anywhere on the website) without pictures on the profile. Having said that, there are genuine people (with pictures) who I know are only here for the forum, love their partners, some do play but don't make the connections on here, they have other ways of connecting, real life and all that. But I like learning from other people's experiences and hearing their sexy stories, guessing they're much the same
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RHP User
10 years ago
Perhaps you could tell us why you're here without pictures?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Also to slow the messages down a bit - or have an easy out, if they're not interested in someone. I found it easier to say I'm not interested in anyone - than I'm not interested in a particular person who contacted me. Less abusive replies that way
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RHP User
10 years ago
I stay on here to keep connected to my network of friends Ive met at the meet&greets. Also I have a network of people from parties I have met, and being on here keeps me in the loop for parties and events. Plus the forums.😳 Im active on another site to meet new people. Im also on a fetish site that caters for my particular kinks. All 3 I have different profile names and use different pics. (My own of course) Thats my choice and thats how I cater to my own desires and needs. Nothing shonky going on. Its just how I roll.😋
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RHP User
10 years ago
I started here because I found the dating website I was on a bit too staid and boring. Things are more happenin' here because there are forums, scandalous topics of discussion that I have learnt so much by just reading other people's viewpoints, and one of my 2016 resolutions was to let go of obsessive planning and learn to live a bit free-er. However, I've decided to take a hiatus from relationships for the time being. The men I met were either incompatible or they had entirely different goals / intentions or they hadn't been entirely honest with what they wanted. Until I can meet someone on equal footing and see eye-to-eye on intrinsically important issues, I'd rather enjoy my solitude.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But I love the forums here and so I stay, and I've made a few friends too. It's pretty simple, not hard to understand! What anyone does with their profile is their business only, surely? Lovebitten xox - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'White_Opal' RHP forums are way better read than Facebook you can learn , laugh have discussions it's like a dirty novel People on here could be very happy just here for the forums , in a relationship or just not looking , but when you have 99 yr olds you wonder why there on here as can they get it up ? Buggered if I know maybe taking advise from all the lovely ladies on here would help the wider community lessons on how we feel and to be treated ... The men can give us advice on how the portray themselves I know I'm addicted lol Opal I always describe this place as being like my R-rated Facebook. Because....that's how it feels .
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't remember if my profiles on the 'other site' even got updated to this name or not, the other place wasn't to my liking, but this place has all my fun forum friends. My accounts on other sites haven't been used in soooo long so don't match with what I have on here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'White_Opal' RHP forums are way better read than Facebook you can learn , laugh have discussions it's like a dirty novel People on here could be very happy just here for the forums , in a relationship or just not looking , but when you have 99 yr olds you wonder why there on here as can they get it up ? Buggered if I know maybe taking advise from all the lovely ladies on here would help the wider community lessons on how we feel and to be treated ... The men can give us advice on how the portray themselves I know I'm addicted lol Opal I have to tell you, they are not 99That's just to replace their real age which for anyone who is interested they can just ask if they cant figure out from the pics and profile already. Just avoids being pigeon holed.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi yes I can understand the forum side of things which I have been reading and gaining some insight into things but as far as having multiple profiles on sites that don't have forums I am at a loss as suggested I sent a meseage on another site asking if they were looking for friendship or more as the profile clearly stated they where not looking and happy with what they have now so that as mentioned by a response to my question are they just seeing what else comes along which does not seem out of the realms of possibility anyway thank you for your responses
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi if I looked as good as what you do I would have plenty of Pics up am working hard at the moment to get myself back into shape and when I am happy with what I see then pics will be coming
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why are you on multiple sites??
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had just joined this site and I love it for the read oh and the occasional perve lol fantastic reading always interesting the varying opinions and comments - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi and yes I can say that my partner and myself had profiles on many sites and apps after getting together I myself had deactivated and closed all but my RHP account due to the forums which I find a great place to ask questions and educate myself in various topics as for my partner he deactivated some of his accounts but not all even though he had said he had when I discovered he had not closed the accounts it caused a lot of problems as I could understand being here for the forums but not why he still felt the need to be on other sites that did not offer the forums which yes made me ask if he was just staying until he got a better offer which did lead to us taking a break after a bit my partner explained that he had trouble removing the accounts as it got him through a very rough time in his life and in his words was like a security blanket he also did say that when he felt he can let go of the past he will be happy to close the accounts and in a move that surprised me gave me access to his account as to show he did not use it but just wasn't ready to let it go so everyone has their own reasons my advice is respect what is written on the profile and if you go ahead and contact them then been prepared for rejection xo Mel
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