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Cant Take No For An Answer!
October 10 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I even got accused of being a fake profile set up by RHP!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not quite sure on their logic though...Do they think that abusing you is going to make you re-consider? Just click 'report abuse', hopefully their profiles get deleted... Less people like that on here the better :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
there are a lot of guys on this site some nice some not so nice,all these people together its like a living organism that has more then one asshole, if they get abusive then you made the right decision.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Simple solution for that one taby, it's called block. For those that continually annoy you it is a very valuable tool. If someone asks you why they are not your type that is fine, answer them...if they then continue to harass you block them. No more problem. Be fair though if you answer properly they should not be still asking. If you just say they aren't your type and your profile makes it look like they are then it is fair to assume they will ask why. Give a proper response like you want someone closer, or you think they are too fat, too old, you want someone with a bigger dick, they are just plain ugly, you want a blonde, someone taller, you just aren't attracted to them, or they look like a creep are far better reasons.
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RHP User
16 years ago
happens alot to meI don't see their logic... wouldn't you be a slut if you agreed to fuck everyone who messaged you?just ignore them, they are just annoyed they dont get a peice of the action... losers
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would say it's because you're young and gorgeous and that many many boys are very very stupid. After reporting the abuse, and blocking, if I were you I'd sit back and feel very proud of myself that you made the right decision in telling these idiots that you weren't interested in the first place! Bullet dodged :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Taby.. some men are just dumb.... plain and simple.... lol 2b :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sophie is spot on - "bullet dodged". Such childish abusive behaviour- showing their true colours as spiteful dickheads. You were wise to see through them. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think I've been called "slut", "fake" or "time waster" about fifty times. I tend to eiher automatically block guys who I've said no to or delete their reply without opening it.I've NEVER understood the guy logic of calling someone who won't fuck you a slut lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Their not even worth it....seems like alot of them can't take a no... Ladies, all I can say, just block them and report them... :-), less of those on here the better... :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
well said tool88, most of them are just dickheads if they cant take rejection. if u cant take dont put it out there to be shot down n burnt. most of them probably still live with mum n dad. haa haaaa taby001 its there lost as u might have chatted to them if they weren't rude, n u might have been there friend but u go girl stuff the rude pricks.
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RHP User
16 years ago
+1 for the crowd view, if you can't be respectful and call a member of the opposite sex every name under the sun when you're shot down then your not worth the time or effort.I personally make a point of sending something polite and wishing someone well when I might not be what they're looking for - at least it gives them a positive experience... and you never know they just might recommend someone to join up who I click with.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with the crowd on this subject too, its got to be pretty low of someone to abuse people on here. You wouldnt do it to their face in real life. But in saying that, i would have actually had very few females actually write back negative, they just dont respond. I actually appreciate females saying they arent interested rather than just ignoring. we take the effort to write, so a simple templated "sorry your not what im looking for." seems pretty easy. Maybe thats why some guys think there are more fake profiles then there actually are. I know that the females prolly get loads of emails to reply to as there are more guys than girls here, so its kinda understandable. Just my opinion.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree. They wouldnt do it in person, so why on here, or if they did it in person im sure others around would have something to say about it. In saying that though, i have not recieved many 'no' emails, rather just get ignored. I actually appreciate being told no. Maybe the lack of responses from some people makes some guys think there are more fake profiles then there actually is.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Taby,Sorry to hear that it's happening. Take Tool and Sophie's (both very smart girls) advice! So many stupid boys! Just know that you are a strong independent woman, and definitely don't need to listen to those guys! You have only ever been lovely in your correspondence with us.Sar.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can understand why the guys would get so pissed off. After all they took 3 minutes of their precious time to send you a message and you had the gall to reply with something other than a "Yes YES YES come get me now !!!" How else should they respond? Mind I assume most pretty women on this site are fake - why would a woman want to be on a site with the expectation that she likes to have sex and might consider someone who emailed or chatted to her as a potential sex partner. Attractive women are beating real guys off with a stick at the gym, coffee shop, work, club even in the street. I can only assume the few young attactive real women here are bored, maybe a little lonely (do pretty girls ever get lonely) and possibly have found that not everyone out in the real world has a healthy, positive attitude to sex and sexuality - even if they are cute and successful in other ways - but then I am often wrong about these things.
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RHP User
16 years ago
it's hard to find people like that, and you'd think being here, there would be more, but I've come across many here who aren't, they're ashamed of being here, and look down on others being here. They hold fast to the stigma that online is for the desparate, the ugly, the sleazy and the socially inept losers with no life. and they're the exception because they're just here out of curiousity... you get all sorts here. that's what makes it interesting and a lot of times annoying, but interesting nonetheless.
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RHP User
16 years ago
we are tired of being abused when we say no.....in all honesty we arent going to go somewhere with someone that we wouldnt pursue in real life, this whole thing is about pursuing desires and fantasies, and we will not settle for something thats not up to par.if the guys (and couples) who get nasty because we say "no" were "outed" the rest would begin to behave like the "adults" they portray themselves to be.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hell yer know what you mean and think it could be full moon coming never had so much problems tilll lately or they think cool see them and cool then they think they theres and there slaves gees guys have to realise girls have lives too and not at there beaken call and run gees no wonder alot are still single and still searching for the girl that will be the sucker.lol yes there is block and hope they rack off site as im sick of it there are nice guys out there just have to sift threw them dammmmmm
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RHP User
16 years ago
the guys should move the hell on if they are denied... or realise that the site is still a bit like being at a bar and gettin shot down!I agree with Jengirl, if they say no, move on...
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Haaaaa.....They are just sore loosers, that can't handle rejection !...... you are a little Hottie Though ! xo Tam
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with tam they are just sore losers!!! man up boys if abusing women because they knock you back makes you feel better then that part of your personality is prob whats getting you knocked back. I would however report any abusive messages to RHP as guys like this put people off the site!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
slowhands what on earth are you talking about? 3 minutes of their precious and and you expect the YES YES YES reply? gwwadddd....And you suspect that most here are fakes. hmmmm.... . Yes.. pretty girls do get lonely. I know some pretty boys that get lonely..lol. I must be in the wrong town cause I just get guys perving on me and won't approach me at the sports centre, coffee shop or even the Sunday session at the pub.. Must be a country town thing lol. I am with casava well said hun!! I get the abuse..Guys who have awesome bod pics and then you get access to their PG and well...Let's just say they are not my type. I find that fake.! And then when I decline ..rare occassion I am abused. I found most times it is how you respond. Wording is the key. Saying that..I have messaged guys telling them bad form to request to be added to my friends list as I have not a clue whon they are not even a flirt..lol!!!. Had 1 guy respond saying that I had issues if I didn't not think we are all friends that have just not met..... But I don't want to meet him..rofl.!!! And I have been called old bag...old meat.no wonder your on a site like this cause your old...ppfftt..42 in my sexual prime..silly boys..pmsl.....people can be nasty and just canont handle rejection. In real life or cyber life we all at times will be rejected. 1 of the things that makes us to be a wonderful soul is to handle rejection and learn from it. Take a look at ourselves...Ask why? How can I maybe improve on myself if this is happening 1 time too often. Ask your self why are you here. Put that in your profile. I am here to explore...Don't know where this site will take me. But I am happy that I joined. I am open to finding my life partner....Just that he has to like to swing..hahaha.. Taby01 ...Just enjoy yourself and use that lovely block button. Remember what sophie said. You dodged a bullet. Good luck sweetyxxxx kisses sweetpetite41
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RHP User
16 years ago
thats discusting how dare someone call wemon on this site sluts, theres probally more male sluts on here then female ones. Just block them if they get abusive, i had a guy call me a fake and timewaster, and i'm not even looking for a bloke, all hetro here. So just bloke and report them thats my opinion... yokal_19
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RHP User
16 years ago
thats discusting how dare someone call wemon on this site sluts, theres probally more male sluts on here then female ones. Just block them if they get abusive, i had a guy call me a fake and timewaster, and i'm not even looking for a bloke, all hetro here. So just bloke and report them thats my opinion... yokal_19
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think Slowhands was joking
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RHP User
16 years ago
What I find amusing is Jengirl is on another site listed as a couple wanting a 3sum with her bf.... What I can't stand is girls pretending they're single to get girls for their bfs lol seriously!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I get accused allot for not being me. Which is odd, surely if i wanted to pretend to be someone else, I would have picked something better than a chain smoking, average looking painter???But no.haha I've been here 5 odd years (under different but similar names) and i still see profiles from 5 years ago, same picture, same age (1 i can think of right now has never been updated but is always online and is still 20! back when i was 21!) So either these 'people' aren't really people, or they are clinging to the past something cronic.As with you poor ladies predicament, alot of guys cant handle rejection. It makes them feel tough or 'right' to then have a go at women and accuse them of all sorts of things, Its the hurt ego thing, reply back with 'lol'thats it, nothing more, just laugh at them, instead of being upset
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gorgeous Sweetpetite - do I need to mark sarcasm in italics or something. Yes - jengirl you got me. Guys perving on a pretty girls is an every town thing - chances are they are already involved, gutless or clueless - or most likely - all three.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some men just can't take rejection no matter what forum of life - whether it be in a bar or online.I'd like to apologies on behalf of the male populous of RHP that seem to be dimwitted and shallow, i promise that desipite it seeming that we are single minded - there are some of us who have an idea of how to communicate our feelings properly and treat women as they deserve to be treated (with respect and equally... of course!).And there are two options - you can block the person. Or you can report them for abuse.If you were to ask me i'd say don't just simply block them but report them because if they do get reported then there's the chance that they'll be taken off the site and it leaves one less ass making a bad name for the rest of the good men that are on here.Just a thought.Cheers, HH
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Taby, don't take it personally, I get it all the time, some guys just have fragile egos. The worst are the ones who get upset when I tell them that tatts and piercings are a big turn off for me. Most guys are find with that as I say it politely, but a few get very upset and say all sorts of awful stuff. Some of the 30 something guys also get a bit abusive when I say I'm not into older guys, I mean why even message me when my profile clearly states 18 to 25. Just be patient and true to yourself and you'll find some of the true gems on this site,SF
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey SF long time no chat, hope you're well, your blue boys did well this year, no Kuta though, you must miss him, lol. Ah but to the topic... Taby, the reason why there are so many jerks on this site is partly because there are 10 times more guys than girls and they are getting frustrated and lashing out. If they were like me they probably got told about this site by a mate who told them it was easy sex, you sign up for a guest membership get 20 flirts from girls in the first week asking for further contact. So you pay for membership and then get ignored for the next month, what the... I went through the stage where I tried a lot of different approaches, and reading back over some of my template messages, I wouldn't reply to me, lol. So it's not you, all the girls are copping this and it's just because there are too many guys and not enough girls. I also think there are a lot of guys who don't know how to be real men, and they take rejection personally and see this site as their last hope instead of just having a bit of fun like the real swingers on here. As a result they get bruised egos very easily and take it out on others. I was like that once, so I got help, and now I find that I have a much better sense of humor and my success rate have gone way up to the point that I only keep this account to join in the forums, I may upgrade again one day, but no need at the moment. So chin up Taby, and keep reading the forums, it will help toughen you up, lol cheers Mark
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