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Chick questions??
July 29 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Was the question "Do you think Chanum Tatum is HAWT?". If so, I completely understand his reaction.
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RHP User
13 years ago
"What are you thinking?" Ugh. Such a chick question, and it's the worst. Ladies, do you ask it? Do you know any guys that do?Do people hate it as much as I do?Presumably it's something to do with guys not expressing emotion blah blah blah, but the eldritch horrors of my mind are for me and me alone (and the occasional internet forum I choose to share them with.)I should not be made to reveal, or lie about, how I've had better!
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RHP User
13 years ago
if it is something about a topic 'that only another guy would understand' then its a chick question. For example: 1. Why do you constantly scratch your balls? 2. What is your fascination with "insert sport or type/model of vehicle here that they never play or drive" 3. What is it with men and always wearing a belt with long pants / jeans? Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
... or scoff at it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
OMG... I can't see my own profile photo because I am a guest!!! Did it work? Am I there in my black Fishnet outfit??
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Does my arse look big in this? Maybe it was a question that he thought the answer was obvious and the question was one you should know the answer to?
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RHP User
13 years ago
May be you aked a question that he could not care one bit about or it was a question to be asked face to face not by text.The best one i ever was asked was when I was in deep sleep,she wakes me and says " Honey are you awake" ?
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
Is a chick question one where the male feels an impending doom if the answer could be a loaded gun to be used against him?
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razor2000
13 years ago
If we knew what the question was we could give a better response ;) Yes your profile pic in the fishnets is there and you be looking hot in them, was that the question? Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm not sure this is a chick question as I've failed with this question as well. And I hate the question. And I'm ashamed I've asked it.. Though it's been many many years since I have.But Meeka.. Lets have the question? I'm curious now. I'm also surprised your buddy did not reply with some sort of rebuff in the first place. I think ignoring a question is worse than asking a shitty one.. ~grins~ Quoting 'neptune_drift' "What are you thinking?" Ugh. Such a chick question, and it's the worst. Ladies, do you ask it? Do you know any guys that do?Do people hate it as much as I do?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'studlylover'May be you aked a question that he could not care one bit about or it was a question to be asked face to face not by text. The best one i ever was asked was when I was in deep sleep,she wakes me and says " Honey are you awake" ?Usually ask by a husband as he is shoving a his broom handle at the small of your back.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MrsTri' Was the question "Do you think Chanum Tatum is HAWT?". If so, I completely understand his reaction. Just saw magic mike today HOT HOT HOT
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'neptune_drift'"What are you thinking?" Ugh. Such a chick question, and it's the worst. Ladies, do you ask it? Do you know any guys that do?Do people hate it as much as I do?Presumably it's something to do with guys not expressing emotion blah blah blah, but the eldritch horrors of my mind are for me and me alone (and the occasional internet forum I choose to share them with.)I should not be made to reveal, or lie about, how I've had better!But on a different levelNot so much who was or was not better every situation and location can have its own arousal, tension or release of...that make certain experiences a whole different ball gameThough the one "what are you thinking" to me is more not due to me thinking any thing bad well naughty bad maybehowever it is more I like what goes on in my mind, if the person is opposite me and my mind wonders of into sexual thoughts then it is still for my mind to where I am looking to lead the conversation...if it gets there I can tell her later where and what my thoughts where prior but to ask at the time may put a stop to every thing, a damper on the situation or takes away the element of surprise either way I find some things are better for all parties concerned left unsaid till a time when they can come out.I don't hate it but some things should be left for the mind to allow further and deeper thoughts to arise from them before they are released preferably in action than in words, though I like saying nice things if i like the person, I also like talking in sexual innuendo's if I can squash a few in here and therelolIf we meet the first time or second etc and in my mind I am thinking my your lips look so full and luscious I'd love to see you go down on me, or I am thinking i can't wait to taste you then the female asks what are you thinking? - just isn't right to say in some situations also the lady in question may hate oral or maybe other things my mind brings up so here i may say a white lie depending on the strength of the relationship as much as I hate lies but hardly going to shoot my self in the whatever part of me if i feel it is getting closer to a more enjoyable moment for what I think and feel for both partiesMeeka as others say a hint to the question would be so much more beneficial even if you PM'd it to a selected few of your friends to get an answer as here we are all going of different thoughts...maybe
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RHP User
13 years ago
Super sexy new profile pic!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can't figure out a way of saying this without giving too much away. So how about this scenario.... I am seeing a guy who I have become very good friends with over the last few years as well as lovers. He is in a poly amorous situation. (is that the right word?) meaning he has two main relationships and they all know about each other. They all have an arrangement that allows them to play away from home as well. I know! Greedy boy! Anyway, one partner doesn't want to know any details but the other partner is more open I think. So I was wondering, since he and I have been "friends" for 2 yrs now, if the more open partner knows about me. So I asked. And that is the response I got. That is such a chick question I am not even going to answer it. :O Is it a chick question? Does chick question really mean trick question?? What? LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Do my tits look big in this... Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm just guessing here, but hear me out. Guys are super-sensitive to clinginess, as we girls all know. A guy in that kind of situation could possibly construe your question as an indication that you want to matter enough to him that he's told one of his partners. Or perhaps that you're about to get all girly and ask a bunch of questions like, how did she react, what did she say etc. Make sense? I could be way off the mark :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
If anything, his response sounds more evasive than anything, which is a bit odd. The situation is probably confused though because it's via text, so all intonation, body language, cues as to motivation behind the question etc. are absent.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My opinion is he is arrogant where women are concern,look what he has,all these ladies,why wouldn't he assume your question was unworthy of an answer. Treat him mean and keep him keen,don't let him thiink you need him.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh... But we have been very good friends for a few years now. I think I have shown marvelous restraint actually! LOL. Would he really think that I would get all clingy now? And tease goddess, never said they were both women. ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Does not mention, fishing, footy, cars, beer, motorbikes then yes its a chick question. If it mentions feelings of any kind, including are you are cat or a dog man, then yes its a chick question. Asking do you want a beer? after a fuck is the ultimate chick question that he is happy to answer Amd your tits look HAWWWWWWWT in what your wearing
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RHP User
13 years ago
I just had an epiphany in the shower. A chick question is a question that if you give an answer or acknowledge it in any way will inevitably lead to another 10 questions you don't want to answer. Etc etc. Am I right boys? Or am I right??
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RHP User
13 years ago
PMSL Meeks you just hit the nail........and rove it homeYep...because as soon as he answered yes...your next question would have been"so what did you tell him/her exactly, and how much does he/she know"which is technically already another two questions..He's a smart man, and knew this, because he knows you
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'OMG... I can't see my own profile photo because I am a guest!!! Did it work? Am I there in my black Fishnet outfit??Uh huh! mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Do my tits look big in this... Lol After much perusal, research, polling of various communities, and extensive statistical analysis, we have come to the inevitable conclusion that yes, in the particular outfit in your profile pic at present, your tits look big.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' I'm just guessing here, but hear me out. Guys are super-sensitive to clinginess, as we girls all know. A guy in that kind of situation could possibly construe your question as an indication that you want to matter enough to him that he's told one of his partners. Or perhaps that you're about to get all girly and ask a bunch of questions like, how did she react, what did she say etc. Make sense? I could be way off the mark :)Ok, Mr Tongue's view here, to give a male perspective. Angelic, you're sort of on the mark. I wouldn't say it's about perceived clinginess necessarily (although it could be) , its just that many women (not suggesting this is you Meeks, just that you may have accidentally tapped into this) just have to know EVERYTHING about past or other partners. In contrast, most guys I know, either don't want to know, or don't give a shit. Just one of the Mars/Venus contrasts between men and women. Every single girl I have been in a relationship with has wanted to know everything about every previous partner - boob size, how quickly they came, how good they were at giving head, favourite position, I mean EVERYTHING. I've never felt the need to know anything in particular, doesn't really hold any facination. Not arguing one is right or wrong or better than the other, just an observation.
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Wild_Pagan_Love
13 years ago
Haha, thats a cool perspective Meeka, but your over analyzing it! Just like you gals, we can't speak for the rest of our sex, so unfortunately have no idea what he meant. Being able to interpret his response if you told us the question, - thats another story, :) Quoting 'Meeka100' I just had an epiphany in the shower. A chick question is a question that if you give an answer or acknowledge it in any way will inevitably lead to another 10 questions you don't want to answer. Etc etc. Am I right boys? Or am I right??
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RHP User
13 years ago
By Jove I think you have worked it out for yourself!...lol How is the old bugger?Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
The old bugger is good! But I am doubly curious now. Will have to tickle it out of him one day. :)
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razor2000
13 years ago
Not a chick question in my book.
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razor2000
13 years ago
More a silly question or a reaffirmation of the obvious lol
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razor2000
13 years ago
"Do my tits look big in this... Lol" More a silly question or a reaffirmation of the obvious lol Oops, forgot to add the quotes the last post,doh
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is the same question in as many disguises as you can name but stripped down to it's basics is "Do you want to fuck me?"Answering in the affirmative is usually fatal and will consign you to the good friends parking lane for all of eternity.Once answered the female will usually be in a conversation with her peers within hours asking the eternal question, " where have all the decent men gone"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes you look hot in the fishnets and yes you have answered your own question.HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Yes a chick question is one that leads to more questions on things guys are not all that interested in answering. Mike next?
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RHP User
13 years ago
But DGT, if he knows me so well he knows that his response is only going to make me more curious! He could have come up with a response that could have satisfied me without giving anything away or even leading to further questions (maybe) I mean it isn't like I sprung it on him face to face. So now he has to know that I am going to ask him that again at some point. \(><)/
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is one with no correct answer. Often they are a trap, and sometimes they just lead to a lot more questions. Sometimes they just lead to a lot of potentially dangerous analysis and speculation - even when we dont answer!Sounds like the sort of guy that would be at home on the RHP forums btw. Sure he's not listening in?Mr C
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RHP User
13 years ago
Better not be chickcara! Lol. Did I mention that he is totally hot and spunky and loads of fun, witty & wise and just too cute for his own good? I am pretty sure I mentioned that above somewhere. Hehehe
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Oh... But we have been very good friends for a few years now. I think I have shown marvelous restraint actually! LOL. Would he really think that I would get all clingy now? And tease goddess, never said they were both women. ;-) Well tell him to share,lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
and now just like a chick you are pondering his response,instead of asking,why didn't he answer the question? Because your question was really"How much do you value our relationship? Enough to tell your significant others about me?'' x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hit the nail on the head
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' I'm just guessing here, but hear me out. Guys are super-sensitive to clinginess, as we girls all know. A guy in that kind of situation could possibly construe your question as an indication that you want to matter enough to him that he's told one of his partners. Or perhaps that you're about to get all girly and ask a bunch of questions like, how did she react, what did she say etc. Make sense? I could be way off the mark :)what is so terribly wrong, with wanting to matter, anyway?she's been doing the guy for two years now....i personally would hate to think, that i have been sharing my body with someone, for two years...and i am not even allowed to ask, if i matter?guys need to suck it up sometimes, i think...if making a woman feel good, (that this guy has been playing with, for two years,btw) means that the manhas to get in touch with his feminine side, for two minutes....then do it!(after all, we women try to understand/tolerate all the "guy things"...and i don't remember, ever saying to my husband...when he asked if i loved gagging on his dick/wanted to be his little sex-slave/sharing him with another woman..etc...that babe, that is such a "guy question" to ask...i won't even reply)i personally can't stand guys, who put their heads in the sand, when confronted with something uncomfortable...and just keep ignoring the matter till it goes away!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Chick Question Is a chick question one where the male feels an impending doom if the answer could be a loaded gun to be used against
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RHP User
13 years ago
So ... Did you end up getting an answer Meeks? Technically, it's not a chick question in the true sense of the situation, but it's one I am not surprised he didn't give up an answer to LOL ... Pfft! Men! So predictably painful *eyeroll*.Flirty x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why? Why wouldn't he give me an answer to it Flirty? Seems odd. And no I have asked him again. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
its about asking the same question in a different way - that it doesnt seem like a chick ? to him perhaps...- just a thought....
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RHP User
13 years ago
you could say''what was so and so's reaction when you told them about me?''x Hugs H
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