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Cock Rings

February 14 2011

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I recently purchased a cock ring out of curiosity as I have never had a guy use one during sex with me before. I was wondering if you just come straight out and ask a guy if he would wear one for me during sex or if this may offend him because he may think I'm implying that he cant stay hard or last very long... What to do? Also do cock rings in any way make sex better? As previously stated I am curious because I have never had sex with a guy who was wearing one. It also seems to be that guys dont want to wear them Taby

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Taby, if a girl as hot as you asked me to wear a tutu and tiara, it would be on so fast it would make your head spin.In saying that, a lot of guys out there might feel as though their 'masculinity' is under question if asked to undergo any kind of "penile enhancement". These are probably not the sort of guys you'd want to hook up with anyway, as they are more concerned with their own pride than a mutually pleasurable experience.I wouldn't say that they make sex any better or worse (unless it has a clitoral stimulator or something attached) , but it should allow a guy to stay at his hardest.One thing to note: You might want to let your guy choose his own. Too big, and it won't work... too small, and his manhood may drop off!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    to much Tabs, If the guy has never used one he would be up for the novelty factor, and if he has used them them clearly he won't take issue. What sort of Cock ring did you get?Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I like them. As far as I know they only come in the one size anyway and they do have clit stimulatords. It is not a matter of him staying hard long enough as he will be feeling the vibrations as well and probably cum quicker. It just adds somethhing extra on occassions. Like all toys, dont use them all the time or your sensitivity is less. Experiment a little. Use the experimental factor as an opening line. Swing_low_82 it is not a penile enhancement at all. It is a clitoral stimulator.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Dohhhhh....old timers disease kickin in again. We experimented with them some years back, both the ring type and the leather band with studs type, but yeah they can make you harder, but they can also annoy the bejesus out of you by pulling on your skin and moving, or being to tight or loose, getting one thats fits just right is probably the trick.We don't bother with em anymore think they are just laying in the bottom of the toybox these days.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    When I wore mine my gf didn't say it was any better or worse, just "different". I got a stretchy one that gripped around the back of the balls as well. I think it might be silicone or similar? I'd recommend those. Before it I tried a water-resistant fabric band thing that was useless, I ended up wearing it as a bracelet instead!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I am the proud owner of at least half a dozen cock rings , some people collect spoons I like cock rings ! Fi cock rings do in fact come in sizes and I agree with swing low its best to let a guy choose his own. Yup they can come with "stimulation" attachments but they also just come as pure cock rings. ahhhh and they also come with stimulators for boys bits as well ! HELLO!!!!! I have a few leather a few rubber and a few metal. Some are looser and some are (voice goes up a little ) very very tight ! I love the sensation of having a cock ring on and yes it does slightly increase the mass of your "manhood" but essentialy only a little and not in length. For me it purley the intense sensation. For beginners try starting at leather clip ons , then go perhaps try rubber , maybe then and I draw breath here go to metal ! Metal is NOT for the faint of heart and boys best you know what your doing before you pop that sucker over your man meat bebe! As many would know I have frequented a (coughs) few swingers events. I have no end of gals telling me how much they like them and asking me questions ......nooooooooo it doesnt make me want to wear it more at all ! OH and remember take that little sucker off we dont want you anyone having any "tiny" accidents ! Brae ........ going off to count !

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    A good fitting metal cock ring is a great aid to keeping erect and prolonging your stamina. as stated above you need to get the right size - there are plenty of on line guides but when you have the right one he's your friend !!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i think each ring should be exclusive. Used em on one then discard. Bit like saturns post on re using toys and I am sure stalky will clarify. BUT I think any sexual toy unless used on self or excluive partner should not be used on several people. Never know what hangs around. Maybe I am anal, but one on one for many reason is for me. Cheers One71

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ah ok so there are different sizes I had no idea. The one I purchased is rubber although no idea what size lol (even more confused now). How do you tell what size it is?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Oh yeah, there's different sizes, different thicknesses, different materials, different colours Usually they come in imperial sizes for the internal diameter: 1.25, 1.5, 1.75, 2 inch. Depends if it's to go in front, or behind the balls.For a beginner, i'd suggest silicone - it's more stretchy than rubber, and infinately more forgiving than metal.Check out a brand called Oxballs. They seem to be targeted more towards the gay community, but I can't deny how comfortable they are! Only problem: they don't have any with clit stims... Those selfish cads!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sax leather they have a online shop , I have used them they are pretty good. Look up cock and ball toys - dry the dome splitter. I haven't got one yet but heck I look at it and it makes my eyes water !!!!!! I am a pretty average size and I go for about a 40 - 45 mm ring (metric). Have fun ! Brae ...........

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    When first starting out with experimentation I used the standard leather ring with press studs, this takes the guess work out of size etc. I found them comfortable and when fitted correctly have the desired effect of reduced blood flow from the cock. The do however sting a little when removing. I have recently branched out into heavier metal rings, my favourite has a large chrome ball on the perimeter, this also adds extra pressure to restrict blood loss but also can act as a clit stimulator as well. Highly recomended... As with most rings it is designed to fit over cock and balls, putting them on can be tricky at first but after a while you get used to it and they go on very easily. I can explain my mthod if you are interested. Anyway, hope that helps...

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I've used them and they're great fun ;-), lets be honest, how couldn't they be?.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    A good metal ring of the right size works well and they can be cleaned easily

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Straight to the point, are they a plus or a minus overall with you girl's. Would like to know ARIES 3850

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    you can get disposable silicon ones that vibrate, silicon is the easiest to use because it's stretchy, and at $5 or so each you can throw them away after or gift them to the wearer when you're done, and because it vibrates the guy usually sees it as something fun for you rather than an affront to his masculinity. . Definitely worth a try, they're lots of fun. . Enjoy xxx Sarah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    They feel pretty good to use, some girls love them, i've had mine bought for me in fact and after telling other girls they have loved seeing me in them. So just go get one and suprise your man, I bet he'll love the fact, you can even put it on for him.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Because I'm such a cheap bastard.... sometimes I just bight the end off a condom and stretch that over my cock and balls.... works a charm... always available.... and some of the more excitable guys turn quite pale coming that close to having the head of their dick bitten off. hehe.HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    are used primarily to slow the flow of blood from the penis....ie to make an erection last longer. the ones with bits on them for the girls are not 'cock rings' as such. they are ticklers and the like. cock rings have been in use for centuries, but its only fairly recently that the woman's stimulation became part of the design criteria..............

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel'are used primarily to slow the flow of blood from the penis....ie to make an erection last longer. the ones with bits on them for the girls are not 'cock rings' as such. they are ticklers and the like. cock rings have been in use for centuries, but its only fairly recently that the woman's stimulation became part of the design criteria.............. it's what womens lib was looking for all along.. :P

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I can vouch for that! CuriousNewGirl busted one out on me this afternoon. I didn't find it emasculating, it was just fun! :D

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    your outcome will depend on how you bring the cock ring into play, if he knows how much trouble you went to just for him then fingers xed he might like it and use it as often as possible

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ..with a little bullet vibrator on it. I've never used it - the instructions aren't very clear, and quite frankly, I haven't had the opportunity arise to give it a go.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Remember I told you over Xmas a girl I know (as a friend) bought a cock ring. She was also curious. We got onto the topic of cock rings, and asked if I'd ever used one. I told her I had, and loved it! She said she had never tried one.... so as a joke, I said, well, I will use it on you if u like! Much to my surprise, she said OK then. That night, I went to her house, we had dinner and a few reds to break the ice. She left the room, and came back in with some stunning lingerie on...... my god, I'd never seen her look so hot. Well, she orally got me hard as hard could be to the point where I nearly cum! lol. So, I stopped her, and orally pleasured her till she couldn't take anymore! She then got up from the couch, and got the cock ring from a draw. This was a hot cock ring too, pink, latex, and a vibrating rabbit type head/ears to stimulate her too. When she put it on me, it felt sooooooo good, nice and tight around my shaft, when she pushed the vibrate button.... my god! She sat on top of my throbbing pole, and slide all the way down. She wiggled back and forth I'd say till the cock ring 'ears' made contact with her clit. She thrust her hips back and forth enjoying the sensation of not only my huge, hard cock in her..... but the stimulation of her clit. She got off so quick, and chose to get off and finish me orally. We went again another 3 times during the night, everytime with the cock ring. So Tiff, to answer your question, I don't see any reason why a guy would mind you asking him. I think if he is going to have the opportunity to pleasure you, he would probebly enjoy the experience as much, if not more with a cock ring. Enjoy the ride. Brad xx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I made a decision to try them out last year. It took me 3 purchases to get one that I liked, and the right size. It does take time to get used to, and putting it on over your balls can be a bit un-nerving at first. However now that Im comfortable with it, I really am a fan. My cock stays hard for longer, is harder and thicker. I can last longer. When I cum it's more intense. Also another plus after I come, my cock stays hard for heaps allowing me to continue on way past normal. Taking it off also takes some practice. I'm yet to graduate to a metal ring, will take some more nerve to get to that level. I have a rubber one, that has small round balls along the edge. These make it easier to grasp and put on and off. IMO it took me three rings, and experimenting before I was comfortable with it, so I guess having one sprung on me so to speak would of been tricky. I guess the reason they have been used for centuries is they work, and I can vouch for that :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    quite enjoyed using cock ring, although have yet to use one with vibration.it kept me harder longer which we both enjoyedalso, shaving the hair, especially around the base of his rod will make it easier to remove.as for bringing it up, whenever feels comfortable. during foreplay, after coitus snuggles or for a good bit of fun, take him to a sex shop and buy one together.... that's always a lot of fun and you never know what else you may walk out with!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    When I was first trying to give anal sex I found it hard to get it started, you know, and then stage fright/lack of stimulation would set in and I'd often lose my erection. If I'd only thought to spend $3 on a rubber cock ring I might have succeeded in those attempts! Hot damn!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'super_33'I can vouch for that! CuriousNewGirl busted one out on me this afternoon. I didn't find it emasculating, it was just fun! :D It was this thread that made me think of it that day.. xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    They're great! Must tell of one time put one on too small , too restrictive and irremovable once erect. I nearly fainted and was sure I was going to bust a vessel or worse... all my girlfriend could do at the time was roll about laughing coz i must have been funny to observe in this dilemma. Looking back it was amusing, but since then I know the size required and variances of tension to never reach that point of no return like i did that day. ROFL acronym may have been invented that day too?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    work in a pinch..not that I would know of course

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i use them all the time i have a metal one and also the gates of hell which is 4 cock rings on a strap

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    not being an egotist, but the one bought for me was too tight and i found it extremely uncomfrtable. plus the vibrating bit made her a lazy rider so wasn't much fun for me at all

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'swing_low_82'Taby, if a girl as hot as you asked me to wear a tutu and tiara, it would be on so fast it would make your head spin.In saying that, a lot of guys out there might feel as though their 'masculinity' is under question if asked to undergo any kind of "penile enhancement". These are probably not the sort of guys you'd want to hook up with anyway, as they are more concerned with their own pride than a mutually pleasurable experience.I wouldn't say that they make sex any better or worse (unless it has a clitoral stimulator or something attached) , but it should allow a guy to stay at his hardest.One thing to note: You might want to let your guy choose his own. Too big, and it won't work... too small, and his manhood may drop off!CAN I HAVE THE PHOTOS UP FRONT? hehe

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    vibrating cock rings are good fun and cheap as chips!