Couples and Vanilla life

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  We live in a country town. It's pretty normal to keep this lifestyle completely separate to vanilla life. One day we walked into a party and here was one of MrsC's oldest friends. Um what are you doing here? Ah same as you LOL And our experience is you would never guess the people who enjoy this lifestyle. Always normal everyday people.

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  Alex_Lover

  2 years ago

  We keep our vanilla rather separate from the chocolate... most of the time. But every now and then, some flirting goes on. The young hot electrician who's been to our home a few times caught Margo's eye. She flirts hard with him. But I'm not sure what she'd do if he responded in kind 😱😆 When we travel away from our home City we're more comfortable being more out there 🔥🔥 - Alex

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  Sawadee

  2 years ago

  Good question.. We dont find it hard at all ' our vanilla friends only really know us one way... Theres one couple who suspect something , but they're not sure as l sometimes joke about things we've been up to .. Then laugh it off as only joking... Besides ' we believe if you fuck your friends , theres a good chance you'll lose them.. So we keep it that way..

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  QueanBnSir

  2 years ago

  My partner and I have lived this lifestyle for some time now. We have had a variety of scenarios where we keep kink separate but some have naturally evolved onto our vanilla life too. We had a playmate that became a very good friend. No flirting in front of kids or immediate family was allowed but in front or our close circle of friends that know and support our life style... game on. We have amazing communication so if anything happens that we are uncomfortable with, we speak up and we work out a way that we can be comfortable. Otherwise whatever it was simply ceases if we can't find a comfortable ground. Our biggest 'kink on hold' rule is - on his first and last night home as well as one date night during his R & R it's us/family only time (he does fly in fly out for work) I cant say we struggle to separate the two. It all came so naturally to us. I guess it's because our communication has always been rather on point, apart from one or two bumps in the road. Which, in my mind, only helped strengthen the weak spots we had in communication.

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