Couples and single men

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  ...makes an effort to write something nice...we will make the effort to respond...even if he isn't who we're looking for...it's not that hard:) We don't bother with the " hey how are u?" messages though😳

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  yeah am with u mate be more polite to say no thanks then block

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  YOU: is it me you're looking for? THEM: nope Got it? Good 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Haleakala

  8 years ago

  Sometimes you see profiles with seeking men ticked but the text part of the profile then says 'no single men'. Sometimes in a way which makes it obvious they are sick of messages. Rightly or wrongly if you have seeking men ticked, you will appear in searches and recommendations and men will contact. That's not to say you won't get contacted by some even when everything points to no men! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  A better point might be that many people have seeking men in their listed criteria but have not seeking men written in their actual profile. Short answer is when you do a manual search, you can only search my the database fields, and not your written text. If you're not seeking men at all you would probably reduce unwanted contact by removing the "seeking men" check box. Yes they should read and abide by your written text too, but it's a very easy fix to avoid confusion. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I like the clear and succinct explanation ... it finally actually made sense for me ... I'm a slow learner. Mary xx

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I'm here to help. And help comes in many forms 😎

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  People block for many reasons, one of which is they might know you in RL? Obviously if you can see their faces, with yours showing, that wouldn't be the case, but just an example. I do understand your frustration though. I never block at first contact unless something offends me, but to block just because I wasn't looking for a certain type, why? I don't understand that. I've had guys flirting with me on and off for a few years now lol doesn't bother me, I'm flattered. I don't see any reason to block them. I've only done that once or twice, when they were wildly outside my criteria, way too old or whatever, and only then after a long period of time. For the record, I wouldn't be turning you down 😉 Their loss, move on to those who are interested and enjoy them 😃

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Is couples that view my profile, send me a flirt and then don't respond to the message I send them. I always try and write a decent message that shows I've fully read the profile in question

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I DO take requests..... .... but they come at a cost. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I'm with you there. Not just with couples though. If I/we get a well thought out or polite message from someone within who our profile says we are looking for who I/we choose not to meet then they get a reply. Those who don't or send a short shitty message don't get a reply. But when they send the flirt and you respond thoughtfully and appropriately... one can only guess they aren't really looking for what they say in their profile. No problems. Move on. Does make you wonder sometimes though. Maybe they are the single guys here hiding behind a couple's profile??

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Letting an avatar get under your skin says lots about you instead of it saying lots about their reply..... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Nice work everyone.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I change and think I'll try a single guy again. Then they start communicating if you can call it that and I un tick it again! My response to a single guys message is generally polite but can get the gist of who they are in the few initial messages! I do find it irritating when I have been polite and say no thanks which is always met with why not?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I can see where he's coming from, especially if you're being respectful and polite. People shouldn't select it if they don't want the possibility of contact... Of course, not selecting single men doesn't always seem to have the desired effect... single guys are regularly looking at our profile and messaging us, despite the fact that we aren't looking for them. That's just not sexy, and shows a bit of ego and/or they just aren't reading our profile... score 0/10 for those attempts. - Posted from rhpmobile

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