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Couples & jealousy

September 15 2018

What’s with the couple profiles who go on & on & on about jealousy, especially when they’re looking for a female to join them. I think they’re the ones with issues. As a single female, commonly known as a unicorn. I have no problems finding couples or guys, depending on what floats my boat on a particular day/night. And my fellow unicorns agree, any mention of the J word & we steer clear of them. When communicating with a couple via kik or text messages, I have on numerous occasions, so have my fellow unicorns, been contacted by the male of the couple trying to organize a private meet up, once I had a wife do the same. Don’t worry ladies, just because we choose to be unicorns doesn’t mean we’re after your man !! I’d be interested in others opinions

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RHP User

7 years ago

I dont know :D

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RHP User

7 years ago

Nice profile photo Who is it?! 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

If you're a genuine swinging couple you would have a good relationship with good communication and no reason to be jealous. Mrs B - Posted from rhpmobile

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totally_normal

7 years ago

When I was single I couldnt imagine anything less appealing than becoming emtionally involved with a man already coupled up ... far to messy and complicated. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

We've had an issue where the guy from a couple has messaged F to arrange private meet without his partner. Shut that down real quick and told him he was lucky she wanted to do it with him, to be thankful he had someone willing We are not jealous and if u have jealousy issues you shouldn't be in the scene. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

We've tried poly and swinging relationships. As a long time happily married couple, we deal with jealousy as it occurs, although I can't recall the last time that happened. Any couple would be lying if they didn't occasionally have those feelings. We communicate with each other about that and not involve the other party whether they be Male or female. My husband has chatted to women who only want him and when he's rejected that idea, they've blamed me. It's been entirely his choice, so if anything the jealousy or disinclination to share has come from their end not ours. - Posted from rhpmobile

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FeistyFatty

7 years ago

Not sure where you're getting your data from to speak for the masses. Subjective at best. Tainted to the minority at the least. I can safely comment from both perspectives, but only from my experience and not for all unicorns (HATE this term) or couples. As a woman who plays solo, cant say I've encountered many jealousy issues but as for the male of a cpl contacting separately for one on one fun.... often. Doesn't bother me. And my couples profile, yes i had to reread it, doesn't even mention the word jealousy. And cant say I notice it so often as you profess. And lets just cut the shit here people; jealousy is a natural human response to certain stimulus..... simple as that. Its how its dealt with, understood communicated, processed and supported by BOTH parties thats important. Anyone who stands here and says they have NEVER felt that little pang in their gut is a damn liar, or a robot. This includes those subscribers of Compersion and similar ideals. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I think it’s a natural human emotion to have to a certain degree & if you didn’t feel it in some shape or form at times, I would be questioning why you’re even in the relationship - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Can be contagious. Can make things appear that are simply not there at all. It spreads like the flu. Perhaps get over the flu first. When your ready then come out and join the rest with an open mind to share. Winterlust...What an awesome pic!!!

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FeistyFatty

7 years ago

"Come out and join the rest with an open mind"? Grow up and stop disregarding an absolutely basic human response. Just because a person may have a moment or pang of jealousy towards a situation does not make them narrow minded. They bloody well wouldn't be here on RHP if they were. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Quoting 'Meander' As another unicorn, I must say I'm not really seeing those couples profiles that go on and on about jealousy, and I would prefer if you wouldn't speak for me (especially since to me you're not really being sincere with the borrowed pic and all). Meander's done the reverse Google image search thingy again! We need to give her a badge. I mean that nicely by the way.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Or are more and more profiles using someone else's pics. It's getting ridiculous.

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