RHP

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DP's

September 09 2010

Hi everyoneI wanted to get some opinions regarding having a MMFIs it better if the two guys know each other first so they feel comfortableor does it work better if its two guys that have not met until the time where the girl knows them both

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If all are comfortable and just go with the flow the sexual chemistry comes to the fore. Just enjoy it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey MsCurious mwahs and kisses and hugs to you, miss you!!! well let me tell you about my experience, a fb of mine escorted me to a function and was gonna bring his mate, i said am I going to get spoilt, he said mmm he's my mate and it will be up to him....There's the awkwardness. He felt awkward "going there" with his mate.. Mind you I never got to meet his mate. Later in the evening he was happy and I was too to hook up with another couple we had just met that night. Was all "not in the neighbourhood" kinda thing. I think it is better if they don't know eachother...ground rules need to be set...in my rule book...I don't want guy touch guy but guys both touch me...and they love that..!!!! fyi I don't have a problem with guys who touch guys, I have watched that porn, it's awsome!!!!!! There you have it, Ms open minded but rules apply blackstilettoes xxx

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    15 years ago

    Mr here...for what my opinion is worth..it doesn't bother me if the guy or guys I'm sharing a lady with are regular friends or not. I've been in that situation with strangers & with friends..it's just all fun..nothing more nothing less. People in this scene that have any kind of hangs ups when it comes to sex or being naked with other people maybe should find another hobby?? LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    My recollection is.. You walk in Have a drink, have a dance You're now in a good mood Walk up and say "you- and you!" If they know each other-I guess-you only have to walk up to one table.. NymphetamineDrm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Would love to meet two guys who are comfortable enough with there own sexuality , to realise how much pleasure they could give and receive from a woman if they took the time to enjoy themselves and not worry about accidentally "touching" each other.Doesn,t matter if they know each other or not.

  • deviatedan

    deviatedan

    15 years ago

    DP is a contact sport the guys need to be comfy with mm touch-dont have to get off on it-but comfy with it dp is all about giving a lady a wonderful experiance the guys dont need to know each other but it works better if they do have a good working relationship as its not as easy as it looks in the movies two_men4you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Being male, at least the last time I checked...I would suggest that the guys might want to know each other beforehand. You may want to be sure that your M&M's come from the same bag and will stay on the same page as you. Best to avoid uncomfortable situations before they happen. Sometimes it's hard to tell an "M" from a "W" without a scorecard?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Lol, nymphetamine* which Sydney pubs/clubs/venues/whathaveyou do such delightfully bold girls frequent? I must've somehow missed that place, or maybe I didn't have a wingman along that night... (did Top Gun teach me nothing?!) Back OT, I think you're equally likely to have guys get a dose of the 'but it's gay if our balls touch'-itis whether they know each other or not, unless you're somewhere the audience is a bit more open - swingers clubs, or a sports team at a bar on a road trip :p * = why on earth does my spell checker think nymphetamine should be 'nymphet amine'?!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Best if the guys either know each other or are at least bi or bi friendly so they have no problems with their genitals touching each other! Some guys are very funny about that aspect of it! If you find 2 bi guys you have the added bonus of watching them too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Enjoyed my first DP recently and was fortunate to be with a pretty cool calm couple. I agree completely with SWEETIEPIE's comments above - depends on the people involved. This couple were so calm and relaxed that i had a great time right from the start and got right into it. Don't need experienced or bi guys just calm and relaxed people who are not too pushy or trying to compete with each other. If you have the right girl there is plenty to go round!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    as a straight guy, I have to say its better if you don't know the other guy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I may be unusual, and I've never been in the situation to be sure, but I'd prefer not knowing the other guy.While I am not bi, and don't actively want to touch other men; I'd be much more comfortable doing so if I didn't have to look the guy in the face the next day in our day-to-day lives.Seeing cocks in porn doesn't bother me at all, and a threesome or DP to me is more of a porn experience than sex... If I see a cock and maybe come into contact with it in the process, that's fine, but I don't want to be reminded of that each time I see the guy at work or whatever.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I want to thank you for your responses so farcheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    For me I have been in this situation with unknown guys but before anything happened we did chat and get to know each other. In the end we were all comfortable and that makes for a great time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Have had experience with guys I knew and guys I did not. Both situations worked OK. As many of the posts above mentioned - as long as both guys are comfortable with bits touching and are more focussed on the lady and the situation it seems to work fine :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    doesn't really bother me since i'm bisexual anyway,plus if i'm giving the girl more pleasure the why not