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Dark vs Blonde
July 12 2015
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Seachange73
10 years ago
to make us choose. You know of course that us women dont have a chance in hell with Matt Bomer so in this scenario, will have to go with Daniel Craig. Not that he will even glance at me even if I was running past him, doused in petrol and lit on fire. Not gonna happen... However, for more realistic scenario, my preference is the stereotypical tall dark and handsome, thanks to Disney and Jesus Christ. I really wont limit myself to the stereotype as I have been attracted to all sorts of men from shortish (5'6) to tall (6'4"), from blonds, salt and pepper, dark haired to bald, fit to cuddly!!! Most important though, I am attracted to the personality, as I find some very physically attractive men repulsive if their personality is misogynistic or narcissistic, or maybe their are just plain boring or dumb. I prefer intelligent funny men, hands down. Again, it comes down to the ever elusive undefinable chemistry between two people. It just varies on a case to case basis. What is it? Beats me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Vertical... (i nearly used Initials in an abbreviation then... that might have been bad!!!) Heres my take on the tall, dark n handsome cliché. When they say tall.... they mean taller than her.When they say dark, they don't mean dark physical features..... they mean dark masculine traits. When they say handsome.... they mean handsome to her, and this is totally subjective..... even one womans' preferences change through her menstrual cycle, the white lab coat types tell us. As you noted... personal preference is more important than a cliche or label.People like what they like....people can learn to like more than what they like already.... and people can even be told what they (should) like. Although you said "aside from personality"...... TDH might get noticed, but it isn't enough to override someone as boring as a butter sandwich, or toxic and obnoxious. Personality, social intelligence, and behaviour (whether conscious or subconscious) is a farm more important factor than than just the TDH. 3c
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RHP User
10 years ago
Honestly, apart from big beards, I like tall, small, blond, dark, redheads, and fit or cuddly like Lily said, as long as they have a great personality. Laughing and flirting together, and having good conversations are more important to me than looks or hair colour
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RHP User
10 years ago
You forgot the rich part.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I makes little difference what you look like. Its all about who you like and if they like you. If you have a thing for blond blue eyes and the blond blue eyed people you know don't like you then you will not get far. There are a million people in the world, at minimum, that are attracted to you (who ever you are) all you can hope for is if you are equally attracted to them to some of them. Asking what people like is a pointless act, you should be asking, what do I like and where can I find those people.
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RHP User
10 years ago
... choose between Daniel Craig & Matt Bomer. I just can't. So I going to choose Damien Lewis :) There's something about a redhead that always peaks my interest :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'll pass on either of those, Don Hany is my pick for attractiveness. I am often drawn to darker features, probably because I'm fair skinned, with light coloured eyes, but who I'm attracted to is a whole different kettle of fish. Oh, Astrild .. reminds me what my beautiful gay friend recently told me; that strawberry blonde men have the nicest coloured bumholes. >,< I haven't been able to confirm that titbit as yet.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Someone is speaking for the women again... Who knew that by tall, dark and handsome I meant "dark masculine traits", not hair colour? Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, DG. :-P Dancer, if you asked me to describe my ideal man, he'd have black or grey hair. It's never been a factor in whether I'm attracted to a guy or not though. :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Am i the only one who has no idea who Matt Bomer is?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Josh Lucas versas Gerard Butler OMG I couldnt pick between that blonde and dark.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Totally agree with your break down of it all! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love dark hair , dark eyes and dark skin ! I find tall ( over 6'2) and dark very VERY attractive !!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Tall. Is taller than me- make me look up, it's a powerful aphrodisiac. Dark. Is dark haired, not dark masculine traits. Handsome. Is very subjective. Tall, dark and handsome does it for me, had trouble thinking of a blonde guy until Ms_Silk mentioned Josh Lucas-yummy. Never though of Daniel Craig as blond- couldn't get past his abs so never realized. However never thought I'd find anyone with a beard sexy either.....but.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
always the blue eyes blonde for me ..it seems its what i am naturally attracted to...not that i would turn down a handsome dark guy, but if i had to choose.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Am i the only one who has no idea who Matt Bomer is? He was in Magic Mike I can be attracted to blondes, but generally I find that most of the guys that really catch my eye have dark features (and that means dark physical features DG ). If I had to choose one of the men you've mentioned I'd pick Matt Bomer...Daniel Craig really doesn't do it for me. But having said that, Matt Bomer isn't really my type either. Most Hollywood actors don't do much for me *shrugs*. You're never going to be everyone's type OP, I wouldn't worry about it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
damn looks like there is a god haha
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Wild_Pagan_Love
10 years ago
- but is the tall-dark (handsome) thing the female equivalent to men preferring blondes?
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RHP User
10 years ago
... conduct an experiment. Dye your hair (or get a wig) and get some contact lenses. Who knows - it might be fun
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Am i the only one who has no idea who Matt Bomer is? he played Neil in White Collar
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Am i the only one who has no idea who Matt Bomer is? was also in "White Collar" on tv.Absolutely gorgeous he is.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'Meander' Am i the only one who has no idea who Matt Bomer is? He was in Magic Mike I don't do married guys and seeing he has a husband, any attraction from my part would seem rather pointless.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Really that short ,tubby,nondescript Hitlers ideal was a tall strapping blue eyed blonde xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just read your profile OP..you are the very attractive tall,blue eyed blonde..As long as you aren't a Baptist you will be fine 😘xxFreya ,
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't have a preference. It totally depends on the person. ALTHOUGH, I do have a soft (wet!) spot for men who are taller than 6 foot 2 ;)I've been very attracted to men who are short, tall, slim, cuddly, dark skin, light skin, dark hair, bald, red hair, blondes, blah blah blah. Mostly, it's about the person on the inside. An 'average' looking person can be SO hot if they're a good person and we click.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I enjoy all flavours and types. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I should really look at. Always been attracted to opposite to me (dark) and it hasn't worked out... So now I will consider same as me... blonde and green or maybe even blue eyed 😳😊😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Robert Redford circa 1970 in Downhill Racer...omg he was so blondely gorgeous 😍xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'morganaschild' I should really look at. Always been attracted to opposite to me (dark) and it hasn't worked out... So now I will consider same as me... blonde and green or maybe even blue eyed 😳😊😉 - Posted from rhpmobile Funny how you say that. Ive always leaned heavily towards the fairer side...... (and no, thats not a representation of my mother to the armchair psychologists in here LOL) But recently I've opened the doors a little in my genuine openness for a partner..... but a confession..... I have even higher standards for brunettes than their fairer sisters. To be continued. Maybe
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