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Dating dealbreakers
November 07 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think you pretty much summed up alot of my deal breakers!* deeply religious = GOLD* std = HELL TO THE NO* guys who play games & lie = FLICK* arrogant = PISS OFF* shit in bed/lazy lover = NO CHANCE* unfit = NO* stinky/rotton BO = GET AWAY FROM ME YUK:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg? Could not care less2-They're married? Absolute dealbreaker3-They're deeply religious? Dealbreaker4-They're really untidy in a house? Fine with me5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) No problem 6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? I can live with it if they can7-They're deaf or blind? That depends on their attitude, but not a dealbreaker8-They're not very intelligent? Dealbreaker9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? More is fine, 10 kilos less may be a dealbreaker10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? Sounds like me hehe, so can't judge11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? Been there! Separate bedrooms are underrated So, 3-4 dealbreakers. Think I'm not too close minded.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Had all those I would still fuck him Depends on the man and how much you connect with him, every one of those can be nothing if you love someone. My deal breakers Racist Cruel to animals shit father Drugie and not wanting to change that Bully both mental and physical and Tight arse! I hate stingy stingy penny pinching people,
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RHP User
13 years ago
Crap... I have never thought about it in those terms Braveheart.. umm I guess for me: Arrogant, Addictive Personality (complete with said addictions), Bully (mental and physical), .. I'm with TR.. Tight Arse, Unkind, Lacking in Intelligence, Lacking in compassion. The rest is negotiable.. I think I am hard to please..
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RHP User
13 years ago
But I have to agree with all of Tuscan's deal breakers. A few more: Smoking Being disrespectful to others (I'm acutely aware of how a date speaks to a waiter for example) Badmouthing others/ calling them names (including his exes) Not respecting the fact I need alone time
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg? Not here or there2-They're married? No3-They're deeply religious? No4-They're really untidy in a house? No5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) Not faced6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? No7-They're deaf or blind? No8-They're not very intelligent? No9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? Probably No10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? No11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? NoBy No I mean deal breaker......And I will add a list of my own:12 Heavy smoker13 Heavy drinker ( on a daily basis)14 Really bad breath15 Un caring of personal appearance 16 Lack of humour17 Controlling , abusive, aggressive attitude18 Lack of passion, sex drive19 To materialistic20 Drama QueenI guess that for somebody with a profile name of NoFuzz, I am quite fuzzy.....but this are deal breakers for relationships .....wright ??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Braveheart you've gone the full core this time and lol @ you saying you're shallow lol. Great idea as a topic but i feel sometimes they can get you into trouble. So in relation to a relationship..... 1. fine 2. obvious dealbreaker 3. fine if the religion doesn't dominant life itself (no scientology issues please lol) 4. fine...its an issue that can be resolved or fixed 5. i'm sorry but dealbreaker 6. fine...no reason why it can't be resolved with medical help (of course depending on what type of STD) 7. fine 8. i'll say fine because it depends how you define intelligence lol 9. This may depend...could be a dealbreaker 10. fine...i love exercise so she can just sit back and let me do all the work lol 11. i'll say fine because i don't think many drool lol How good am i....only 1.5 dealbreakers lol....Mr uncomplicated lol (I'm not counting number 2. because i think it speaks for itself) This will probably bring out all types of judgements about each other. I don't think i'm a judgemental person but anyways......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Had all those I would still fuck him Depends on the man and how much you connect with him, every one of those can be nothing if you love someone. My deal breakers Racist Cruel to animals shit father Drugie and not wanting to change that Bully both mental and physical and Tight arse! I hate stingy stingy penny pinching people,Sheesh TR, mine was just a random list, where I fessed up which of the list would be dealbreakers for me. Now you're listing your actual dealbreakers I (almost) feel compelled to list all mine. We could be here a while ... I'm a fussy b*tch :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg?... Unknown until I experience it 2-They're married? ... if it don't bother them,, it don't bother me .. 3-They're deeply religious?... definite deal breaker4-They're really untidy in a house?... unfazed .. but an untidy bedroom is a deal breaker ,, 5-They don't shave legs/underarm (woman), face (man)... Definately for women ... and ideally prefer a clean shaven for the guy ,, 6-They have a sexually transmitted disease?.. deal breaker ,,. 7-They're deaf or blind?.. unfazed .. but again .. haven't experienced it .. 8-They're not very intelligent?... definite deal breaker ,, 9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you?,,, unfazed ,, 10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all?... depends on how unfit they are ,.. 11. They are arrogant ... deal breaker , 12 They are shit in bed/lazy lover... no second chance ,, im not into teaching , 13 stinky/rotten BO ... definite deal breaker ,, 11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep ... semi tolerable .. 12- Racist.... Deal breaker 13 -Cruel to animals... deal breaker 14 - shit father... had one of them .. definitely deal breaker again 15 - Drugie and not wanting to change that... defiantly deal breaker 16 - Bully both mental and physical... definitely deal breaker 17 - Tight arse! I hate stingy stingy penny pinching people, ... definitely deal breaker 18 -19 -20 -I am probably considered hard to please
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RHP User
13 years ago
Married-cya, smoker-cya, shit parent- double cya, bad/lazy in bed-depends why, if they're inexperienced that's one thing but if they're legit lazy then stuff 'em. Unemployed-cya, don't drive-cya, living at home with parents-cya, STD- depends what it is but most likely as long as they were upfront from day 1
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg? - As long as they can still trust it's not a problem 2-They're married? - Not a problem, unless she wasn't aware. I don't do betrayal. 3-They're deeply religious? - What are they doing on RHP?? Someone who is deeply religious would not touch me with a 10 foot pole4-They're really untidy in a house? - Deal breaker :o5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) - I love facial hair. 6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? - To be honest, a deal breaker especially if it is a none curable one.7-They're deaf or blind? - If they're blind my beauty will be wasted and if they're deaf they can't hear me talk dirty to them. Deal breaker8-They're not very intelligent? - Deal breaker. I don't need a genius, but I can't deal with uneducated bogans 9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? God who cares. My husband weights 30 kilos more than I do 10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? - Deal breaker11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? - My husband snores and I drool. No issues with that MrsSplicey
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg? - no problems2-They're married? - as long as their partner knows and is OK with it3-They're deeply religious? - Not a deal breaker necessarily, but we'd probably argue a lot :)4-They're really untidy in a house? - not a deal breaker, but a turn off. That's what hotel rooms are for I guess. :)5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) - deal breaker (damn I feel shallow for saying that)6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? - deal breaker7-They're deaf or blind? - not a problem8-They're not very intelligent? - deal breaker. I can handle someone who is different or disagrees with me, but as long as they do so intelligently. I can't handle someone I can't have a decent conversation with, however. 9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? - That would be a heavy lass! (most likely a deal breaker, unless she was 7 foot tall)10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? - Probably a deal breaker. Somewhat hypocritical, seeing as I've only embraced fitness and exercise in the last 18 months. 11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? - I do both on occasion, so I can't say much there. :)MrSplicey
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RHP User
13 years ago
And if one of your dealbreakers is someone who talks first and thinks second, or doesn't proof read their forums posts. I'm not your gal MrsSplicey
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'missopenminded' I think you pretty much summed up alot of my deal breakers!* deeply religious = GOLD* std = HELL TO THE NO* guys who play games & lie = FLICK* arrogant = PISS OFF* shit in bed/lazy lover = NO CHANCE* unfit = NO* stinky/rotton BO = GET AWAY FROM ME YUK:) He cant stink but is allowed to be dumb as a box of blunt tacks
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RHP User
13 years ago
kind ,caring,generous of spirit and is emotionally intelligent.I don't have a long list,I could care less if they are short .tall ,one leg or two is just fine,fat or skinny ,doesn't really matter,it's all about the buzz,the zing.x R but as Mae famously said,''a good man is hard to find,but a hard man is good to find''.
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg?Can't really say as I've never experienced it, and nor do I know anyone with an artificial limb either.2-They're married?Definite deal breaker.3-They're deeply religious?Dea lbreaker4-They're really untidy in a house?Meh, I'm ok at cleaning :)5-They don't shave legs/underarm (woman), face (man):Definite deal-breaker if a woman!! Not fazed if a man as I'm a sucker for a man edging into unkempt-ness ;)6-They have a sexually transmitted disease?Deal breaker7-They're deaf or blind?Yet to experience this, so can't say.8-They're not very intelligent?Deal breaker. I want someone who can understand me when I go on one of my D&M rants.9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you?Wouldn't be fussed as to more. A little concerned as to less as I'm not heavy and I don't want to crush anyone in bed...lol.10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all?Deal breaker11. Snore loudly/drool in their sleep?I'm such a light sleeper so going to have to say deal breaker to the snoring :(And a few others:Stingy - I respect people who budget and save, but dividing a bill exactly in half, down to the last five cents is just petty.Cruel to animals, young children, those that are less fortunate/privilegedHas an extremely low level of personal hygieneDrug user/alcoholicPoor manners - slurping/farting/belching loudly in public unapologetically. I'm not always a 'lady', but I do believe in keeping up appearances when I'm out and about.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i love how so far everyone has said deeply religious sis a deal breaker..form my way of thinking ,you wouldnt get that sort of person on site like this or date anyone out side of their church. but then i dated a girl when iwas 18,her family was deeply religious,which lead the daughters to be dirty little fuck bunnies,,so mabe religion not so bad after all
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg? Honestly, I'm not sure 2-They're married? If I were single and they were attached - deal breaker 3-They're deeply religious? Deal breaker 4-They're really untidy in a house? Dirty-deal breaker, untidy is fine 5-They don't shave legs/underarm (woman), face (man) Fine if it's neat and trimmed - I couldn't do a zz top thing 6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? If they told me and were treated, fine. If I found out because I caught something from them - Deal breaker 7-They're deaf or blind? Honestly, I'm not sure 8-They're not very intelligent? Deal breaker 9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? Deal breaker 10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? If they still look good and have stamina, fine 11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? FinePLUS Racist Abusive in any form to anyone or anything Bogan/stuck in a previous decade Has an addiction Tight arse/financially challenged Smoker/heavy drinker Poor hygiene/styleInsensitive/rude Unemployed No license/transport Doesn’t have their own home/apartment/unit (I’m 40, would be different if I was 20) Dishonest/unreliable Boring/set in their waysLack of manners/disrespectful I’m sure there are more, I'm a judgmental cow
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RHP User
13 years ago
POOR MANNERS- perfectly said. Agree 10000%
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RHP User
13 years ago
Didn't DG meet a woman once that put her artificial leg on the table in the middle of their date? Or am I thinking of someone else? Help me out here DG.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What it is I see in their eyes. All is revealed then.
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RHP User
13 years ago
gotta have a good hand ...and if he aint a good wife that's defo a deal breaker!
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RHP User
13 years ago
3 and 8. Flat out. (Personally, I think 8 is a given if 3 applies. Lol.) 2 is a deal dealer if the couple are not open/poly. All of the others have too many "whatifs" and "buts" to give definitive answers to, so I'll go with the theory that they are not dealbreakers, but sometimes problematical. Guess I'm not as much of a picky bitch as I thought! ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Racist Posessive Controlling Cruel to animals (unforgivable) Conceited No interests outside of the relationship Codependant Unhygenic I'm pretty accepting of people.
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RHP User
13 years ago
comedian Adam Hills and his articial foot...hot or what.x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Damn - guess this means Im off your list - I dont drive. I suffered panic attacks when I got behind the wheel of the car when learning to drive so I havent bothered since then. I have no issues getting where I need to go and see no point in getting my license even now. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
My list is long 1.smells bad , BO, breath, or cock 2. Small cock , this is a play site for me not dating so sexual interest is a must 3. Lazy in bed, this also means men with no sexual stamina 4. Not willing to give me oral sex ( met one man like this, booted him out of the hotel ) 5. Tight arse - generous men usually have a generous soul 6. Drug fucked - I need you to be present with me 7. Too serious - laugh a little, love funny guys 8. Bad kisser - tells me he is usually bad in bed I don't mind one leg, honesty about std's, relationship status ( as long as its open) blind or deaf would be fine too ! Hairy is fine too , not that particular as long as its big :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lovely iPad not allowing me line breaks! Sorry about that painful read !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris'My list is long 1.smells bad , BO, breath, or cock 2. Small cock , this is a play site for me not dating so sexual interest is a must 3. Lazy in bed, this also means men with no sexual stamina 4. Not willing to give me oral sex ( met one man like this, booted him out of the hotel ) 5. Tight arse - generous men usually have a generous soul 6. Drug fucked - I need you to be present with me 7. Too serious - laugh a little, love funny guys 8. Bad kisser - tells me he is usually bad in bed I don't mind one leg, honesty about std's, relationship status ( as long as its open) blind or deaf would be fine too ! Hairy is fine too , not that particular as long as its big :p I do not want to sound 'cliche' but after reading a lot of your posts I keep thinking how come we haven't met.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The whole driving thing is a recent sore point for me, under normal circumstances I wouldn't care, but my most recent ex basically turned me into her taxi. Happy to help where I can but when it becomes an expectation then I get narky. FYI, I'd probably have a panic attack driving in Sydney traffic at the moment. I haven't driven in 6 months because i was naughty, oops
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RHP User
13 years ago
1. Dishonesty/ liars. 2. Effeminate (men). 3. Shallow and haughty. 4. Religious. 5. Bad hygiene. 6. Dull and uninteresting. 7. Mind games. 8. Manners. 9. STD (especially the in curable ones). 10. Lack of ambition and drive - in and out of the bedroom. 11. Abusive mentally or physically. And quite a few others. Now I know why I'm single...
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RHP User
13 years ago
overweight, clearly doesn't care about appearance or their healthselfish (as in wants everything but will give nothing)smells bad/poor presentation/lack of effort/poor personal hygiene alcholic/drug fuckedsexually boring (had a few who thought doggy was fucking caaarraaaazy man..)cheating on someone - if I can't trust you why would i invite you into my home and fuck you.STDsLazyCheap/Tight/GreedyBland personality..I'm sure there are others.. oh obvious emotional instability/text stalking or abuse or other forms of instability BIG fuckin no no.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Had all those I would still fuck him Depends on the man and how much you connect with him, every one of those can be nothing if you love someone. My deal breakers Racist Cruel to animals shit father/mother Drugie and not wanting to change that Bully both mental and physical and Tight arse! I hate stingy stingy penny pinching people,
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
Just have to say,a person is born with their intelligence,we have no control of what we are given from birth. STD's,sometimes we can be the innocent party. It is the person you are,thats what matters
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have read through all of everyone’s responses to this and agree with most and just added a few of my own: 1-They have an artificial leg? Well I would still do Adam Hills2-They're married? Dating no, what’s the point anyway, not like it can get serious 3-They're deeply religious? Probably not, coz i would end up just taking the piss out of them 4-They're really untidy in a house? Unclean deal breaker, Untidy is all good5-They don't shave legs/underarm (woman), face (man) If a man shaves his legs that’s a deal breaker, his face all good either way!!6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? Depends7-They're deaf or blind? Not sure8-They're not very intelligent? If they seriously have no common sense and have limited conversation then deal breaker.9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? Non-issue 10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? Maybe, I like the idea of fitness being something to share and encourage.11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? Hey I snore, so I can’t bitch But definite breakers for me for people in general………Racist, intolerant, bad parent, alcoholic, full on druggie, bully, selfish, self-centered, Conceited, lack of hygiene, insensitive, rude, Unemployed, no license/transport, Dishonest, Lack of manners, disrespectful, Possessive, Controlling, Cruel to animals (unforgivable). Most importantly, lack of understanding that my child comes first…………….and if Johnny Depp comes to town looking for me its over!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Use you as a taxi? Hell no! Theres a whole industry for that and those people want to earn a living too (though I will admit my neighbour is known to take me to the club or pub on a Saturday and keeps telling me to call her when I am ready to come home - that I have never done a taxi late at night is better than calling her - she considers it a fair swap for me letting her use my lawn mower and my washing machine to do her blankets in - mine is industrial size) I wasnt learning to drive in Sydney but in Toowoomba and had a freak occurrence where I almost hit the side of a (then) McCaffertys coach - so not going to happen again. After my near miss I just couldnt get behind the wheel again. Sure I could seek help and work on my problem but Im quite happy the way I am. Naughty man huh? The best kind Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg? ......no2-They're married? ..........yes3-They're deeply religious?........ no - depending spiritual vs religious - religous can reflect arrogance so then yes4-They're really untidy in a house? ........ no5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) ..... NEVER yes lol6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? .... depends7-They're deaf or blind? .... no .... I'm a little deaf, that is a progressive disease - but I promise I'll still be worth your time ;) - half blind is definatly ok ;)8-They're not very intelligent? ..... duhhhhhhh haha yes9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? .... God they'd be tiny - midget or very sick ... ummmmmmm???10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? .... no11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? .... snoring arrrrrrr maybe - drool, I catch myself sometimes12. Lack of humour13. Inattentive14. Demanding15. Co-dependant16. strong silent type; passive aggressive ..... arghhhhhh YES!!!! fucking running
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was getting to know a lovely man. I got a few tiny hints that maybe he was a bit narrow-minded in some ways, so I led the conversation around to some trickier topics. I discovered that he would disown his own son if he found out he was gay. I was horrified. I probed a bit further and learnt that he would maybe allow his son to come to dinner occasionally, but his boyfriend would never be welcome. Further chat and lo and behold, he's completely OK with lesbians because hey, they're a sexy fantasy for all blokes, right?! WTF? I had no words, no ability to comprehend. I quickly said goodbye ... dealbreaker right there.
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Letsgetwhoopee
13 years ago
2-They're married?3-They're deeply religious?4-They're really untidy in a house?5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man)9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg? Not a deal breaker unless they are Heather Mills2-They're married? Depends on the situation3-They're deeply religious? If they live up to their religion Ok but if they break every rule in the book then a deal breaker4-They're really untidy in a house? Deal breaker5-They don't shave legs/underarm (woman), face (man) Maybe a deal breaker but could have fun working on this together. 6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? Can work around this if they are upfront about it.7-They're deaf or blind? Not a problem as this can mean that other senses are heightened.8-They're not very intelligent? Deal breaker as I need some form of conversation9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? Depends on height to weight ratio a little padding is OK10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? Deal breaker11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? Second wife snored so definitely a deal breakerThen I agree with Freya someone needs to be kind ,caring,generous of spirit and emotionally intelligent as well as having manners.
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RHP User
13 years ago
1 - Thinking she's god's gift to men / vanity2 - Thinking she's something you haven't had before3 - Druggie (habitual user with no signs of stopping)4 - Unemployed5 - Married / attached6 - Judgemental7 - Strictly religious8 - Clingy / suffocating9 - Boobs bigger than her brain10 - Playing hard to get... THE fastest way to getting booted onto the highway!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg? undecided2-They're married? ...???3-They're deeply religious? not a snowballs in hell.4-They're really untidy in a house? lived in ok, shambles forget it5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) legs not shaved..forget it6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? as long as i know before hand.7-They're deaf or blind? probably gunna pass, don't really know.8-They're not very intelligent? there's intelligence and there's intelligence and ability to reason.9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? case by case10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? could care less11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? who doesn't extras dealbreakers12- has a cat, or has a pet that needs to be indoors.13-socialist,or greens supporter, could be to many arguments.14- member of an enviro or aa type ngo. 15-doesn't like loud music.16-does illegal recreational drugs.17-clingy/needy18-prone to making emotional irrational decisions.19-can't deal with sometimes coming 3rd behind work and the farm.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil'1-They have an artificial leg? undecided2-They're married? ...???3-They're deeply religious? not a snowballs in hell.4-They're really untidy in a house? lived in ok, shambles forget it5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) legs not shaved..forget it6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? as long as i know before hand.7-They're deaf or blind? probably gunna pass, don't really know.8-They're not very intelligent? there's intelligence and there's intelligence and ability to reason.9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? case by case10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? could care less 11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? who doesn't extras dealbreakers 12- has a cat, or has a pet that needs to be indoors. 13-socialist,or greens supporter, could be to many arguments. 14- member of an enviro or aa type ngo. 15-doesn't like loud music. 16-does illegal recreational drugs. 17-clingy/needy 18-prone to making emotional irrational decisions. 19-can't deal with sometimes coming 3rd behind work and the farm.Being a woman's a deal-breaker for you then?? (Refer point 18!) :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Perhaps prone wasn't quite the right word, as it doesn't really elude to regularityin so much as to make thosekind of decisions on a frequent andpredicatable basis.I think everyone does on occasion.The antitheses of point 19 would be strong,in control and rational woman, are you sayingyou don't think they exist?Cheers Felonious
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avidmale
13 years ago
Yes for dealbreakers1-They have an artificial leg? No2-They're married? Yes 3-They're deeply religious? Yes - I find deeply religious people, tend to push their religions on you.4-They're really untidy in a house? No5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) Yes - probably constantly dry reaching 6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? Yes7-They're deaf or blind? No - but i think the opportunity to meet and properly be in a relationship with someone either/or would be very slim8-They're not very intelligent? No9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? No10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? No11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? No/Yes - i dont know how much this would annoy me12 Heavy smoker Yes - heavy heavy, a regular i can handle 13 Heavy drinker ( on a daily basis) Yes - but im probably again thinking of extremes14 Really bad breath Yes - unless they can change15 Un caring of personal appearance Yes - Dont know many women that arent, so i dont think it quite applies for blokes
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melbcpl01
13 years ago
1-They have an artificial leg? as long as its not the middle one it will be Deal 2-They're married? coupkes yes attached singles on own NO DEAL 3-They're deeply religious? no deal 4-They're really untidy in a house? your meeting them not thier house so who cares deal 5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) unimportant Deal6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? No deal7-They're deaf or blind? not important so deal8-They're not very intelligent? No deal9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? Deal size shouldnt matter 10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? join the club lol 11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep?on here your meeting them for sex so if they snore means they are asleep in the act LOL No deal
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' Perhaps prone wasn't quite the right word, as it doesn't really elude to regularity in so much as to make those kind of decisions on a frequent and predicatable basis. I think everyone does on occasion. The antitheses of point 19 would be strong, in control and rational woman, are you saying you don't think they exist? Cheers Felonious I'm not saying they don't exist. I do think femininity has a natural chaos and vulnerability to it, so when a woman is ONLY strong and in control and rational (note I said only), I think she's a little distanced from her femininity. It's like the ball-breaking, shoulder-pad wearing power tripper women of the 80s. Not awesome. Though of course, I expect my statement above is about to be shouted down by a 1000 women :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
can be strong,in control and rational,men can be weak,out of control and irrational,it has nothing to do with gender.The problem is that sometimes women think they have to be mini men to succeed and totally get it wrong. However who afterall admires a weak out of control irrational person,nobody I would suggest.x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Married people are worse than stds it seems
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RHP User
13 years ago
And nowhere do I see someone saying manipulative is a deal breaker. Interesting?It's all a bit general, but for me;3-They're deeply religious10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all.Racists I hate, but they can be educated..Poor smell/pheromone connection would be a deal breaker..Smoking I hate, but if she thought I was supper hot.. Then I’d go and buy some fags.. ~laughs~
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RHP User
13 years ago
I actually like the idea of a date with an amputee. Who's prepared to have surgery for me?What Peter Greenway film was that in? The crazy lady that kept having parts of her body cut off so she could try sex a different way?
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jezebel_jj
13 years ago
JJ here:1-They have an artificial leg? Wouldnt stop me, if shes a runway model that got hit by a car, shes still exquisite even without a leg2-They're married? I dated a married woman for several months. She was separated but still legally married3-They're deeply religious? Been there done that. Some religious types are freaky in the sack4-They're really untidy in a house? It does bother me, but using Sheldons positive reinforcement technique i could train it out of her.5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman)? That does put me off a little. I dont mind a little bit, but a full bush. Id ask if they could shave wax it...probably a deal breaker for me. But if she was awesome, id try very hard to chnage her mindset.6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? Another deal breaker, but it also depends on the STI. If its treatable than no worries7-They're deaf or blind? For example the young lady who won The Voice was legally blind, she was stunning and her voice was magical - so yes i could go there.8-They're not very intelligent? Are we talking average, below average or intellectually handicapped? Ive dated less intelligent people before and it wasnt an issue. But handicapped is probably a dealbreaker9-They weighs 10kg more (woman)? I dated a woman who weighed more than me only about 12 months ago. She was 6"1 shapely, busty and friggin strong. Not fat at all. Would i date someone 5"0 and 100kg....probably not.10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? Bit similar to the question above, my ex hated exercise and wasnt fit. Didnt make her unattractive or fat11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? Ex had sleep apnoea, i was with her for years didnt bother me. I just spent more time with my head between two pillows or with headphones - nearly strangled myself one night though.
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RHP User
13 years ago
well heres my thoughts .. 1. not sure carnt relate , and it depends on the situation and personality ..2.. had exsperience and its a no but mabe ..3..religion well its each to there own i believe in god but im not religist so if the person no the bariers i dont mind.... ..4..house work is a disaplin and theres untidy and there grouse so im sure the person would change so mabe..... 5..well every one lets them self go a bit in the shaving department and its a ok 6..apsolute fuck off and a duble fuck of if they tell you after sex , i believe getting check out regarly is nessary as no one wants std or want to pass it on as it would be exstemly devistating, for both partys... ..7..well its fine as it would be if you persue a person noing there deaf or blind as it must be ok if you new first up , but never have so mabe.. ..8..well , there intigents and then there others that just have a prob with spelling or tech so it can be over looked . ok....9...well personality is a key for me and humour as long as there not extremely over wieght becuase there just cluttens but if it a desease where they carnt help the prob its ok if i persue or mabe.. but i do like fit women ... ..10.. fitness is a disaplin and not every one has the need to excersise or have time becuase of work commitments .. so not real a issue as long as there not going to drop dead becuase of there health .. 11.. there ear blugs and remedie for such conditions ...so ok with .. here one or two of mine ..12.. nagers becuase its something to do .. ..13 god digger ..14 after comiment to each other cheating ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
number 13 is gold diggers not god diggers ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
in an attemptto participate positively withinthe RHP e-communitysphere,here is my two cents.just opinions...(do you have changethat you could spare?)1-They have an artificial leg?who doesn't,have one?if not a leg,then a personality traitfalsely advertisedon an RHPtype place.(that's been my experience)2-They're married?if an artificial legis of no consequenceto me,then why would a marriedperson be perceiveddifferently?that being saidi don't think i shouldeven though i couldmy mother 'learned me' good!3-They're deeply religious?PRINCE reminds usthat sex & spiritualityis intertwined.!inseparable &bound at the feet,if you will....he is clearly The Messiah!yes! Paisley Park & his Highnesscome GETT OFF with me,we's goes DEEP!4-They're really untidy in a house?sorry.symmetryis an important feeling(to me, at least)5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man)um.can i phone a friendor ask the audienceto jump in?what kind of odourdo these peopleemit? 6-They have a sexually transmitted disease?um...meye inglichid no guude.pleasesay again?full disclosure is graceful, dignified and builds trust;for me, it is strictly a no no,but i can dance for youwhile you bring yourself to joy!7-They're deaf or blind?oh my goodness!what a fcuking turn on!teach meabout mepleaaase!tell me what you thought i though you thought i thought.*pleasant sight*8-They're not very intelligent?if doing sudukowhile i climaxwas importantthen YES!9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you?symmetryfor meis important.10kgless or moreis being too petty.10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all?once again,what type of odourdoes their body emit?what colourdoes the scentremind you of?telllll meeeeee!11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep?hahaha.snores loudlyANDdroolswhen they sleep?what a treat!now where the helldid i leavemy new galaxy 3?
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RHP User
13 years ago
There are a few others on the original list but sounds more like a shopping check-list for a life partner more than anything else to me... 1-They have an artificial leg? I usually promise to at least try to do them until they can't walk anyway,what's the big deal? 2-They're married? Married couples are fun and really, I don't judge so who cares. Some of the nicest folks I've had the chance to spend time with are married and often bring their best game,at least they're being honest with themselves. It's up to them to sort out the rest of their life if they can and sometimes there's a very good and plausible reason why that's not possible. 3-They're deeply religious? WTF? You think they will be here if they are? I'd write them off as full of shit for that alone. 4-They're really untidy in a house? Hire a cleaning service and get on with life. 5-They don't shave legs/underarn (woman), face (man) Share a tub and a razor as foreplay, it all grows back anyway. 6-They have a sexually transmitted disease? Definite deal breaker, there is no such thing as 'sex to die for'. 7-They're deaf or blind? I'm better looking if they're blind, like the braille system of getting to know you and don't listen anyway either. There are lots of ways to communicate and those are only two of the senses. 8-They're not very intelligent? Dumb people are fun, I like playing strip poker with someone that believes a pair of threes beats a full house or a woman that thinks $10 is a lot of money. Intelligence is relevant, an academician is a student of life and some of the most intelligent people I know struggled to finish a formal education. 9-They weighs 10kg more (woman) / less (man) than you? No way although I don't like anorexic looking people or morbid obesity. If someone is short and built like a brick shithouse or tall and weighs more than me I am not about to suddenly become a 'height-ist' and blow a good thing. 10-They hate exercise and aren't fit at all? Maybe, but only if it effects their health or they aren't willing to change a few habits along the way. I really could care less if they are a marathon runner or have a perfect body as long as they are willing to loan me the parts that I like from time to time. Buy a $1 million life insurance policy on them in your name and well, you get the point here I'm sure. 11-They snore loudly and drool when they sleep? Shove something in their mouth if they are snoring that makes you smile and make sure what they are drooling was something you put there. If all else fails, put your head under the pillow or take one and cover their face. Just make sure you are careful with the last one if you want that life insurance money. Biggest deal breaker of all is a lack of a sense of humour or not being able to enjoy life as it comes your way. If anything here has offended anyone then here is the disclaimer: Who cares?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Laziness (physical and intellectual) Religious (got plenty of time for godly folk but it wouldn't work in a relationship) Homophobia (I'm queer and so are all my ex girlfriends ;-) Racists Sexists (anyone who has an issue with me being smarter, earning more money etc) Breeders (I have a calling and it's not procreation) Married (since lying, cheating and duplicity is very unsexy) Low IQ Referencing Brave_Heart, I'd definitely date a guy shorter or lighter than me, definitely date someone with an artificial limb and definitely date a messy person, since I don't cohabitate anyway ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
1. A bit wired so not sure.. 2. Really, isn't this a swingers site! Isn't that what they do.. Play up with anyone! 3. If they're deeply religious, then God gave them a clitoris... 4. As long as they make their bed! 5. Hairy tree huggers- nup! 6. Std NO. 7. Hearing wouldn't matter, if they're blind you could say you're hot! 8. Not intelligent.. Who's the genius judge? 9. Being over weight is not a turn on if you yourself respect being fit & healthy 10. As above..
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