RHP

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Delusional?

September 08 2019

Am I delusional or I really do have dark magic to make men go crazy? I’m not talking easy & desperate men. I’m talking lecturers, bosses, close friends & married men. They actually spent time & effort pursuing me and some of them are the pickiest people I know. But with me, they let their guards down. They gave me attention they don’t normally give to chicks. So why me? And once I gave in, they try to own me and make me theirs... lots of my friendships are ruined bcoz I set myself free. Why can’t they hold a normal friendly convo without wanting to get in my pants? PS: I was wayyyyyy very conservative back then. Only joined rhp like a month ago. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yeah your hot I wouldn't say your drive me crazy but you look wild and fun :) x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    My vote is delusional 😂 no I would suggest that it also the type of person you are seeking. Often these things are 2 way streets.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Who thebfuck is Tony Robbins? A princess?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Personally...I think you think far too much of yourself and you’re merely fishing for even more reinforcement of your already overinflated ego.... I feel for you....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Beatle, we haven’t really spoken. G spot is inside the brain ;) Allsorts, they seek me :P I’m not seeking anybody. Just valuing the stupid friendship That other person, there’s sth called fucking google

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Turn me on with your - intelligence - Humour - Experience with sex. And Tony Robbert's (ALOT), Maybe that's it. You're not alone. Happens to me too. However they have to be VIPs to earn my respect and trust before I even think about removing my panties. That too conservative?? 😃 Ms Foxy

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    6 years ago

    Ms Foxy... You are super star.... Quote SuperFoxxy "However they have to be VIPs to earn my respect and trust before I even think about removing my panties. " You are absolutely hilarious.... hahahahahahahahahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Ms Foxy, I upped my standard ever since joining rhp. There are lots of gates to unlock to get through to me, like u can already tell by my profile and I added a few more requirements. And it’s Tony Robbins* btw

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You have so much to learn

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    6 years ago

    I_touch lindissima, gatona como sempre. She will learn one day. Te quero muito...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If you are posting a comment on a forum saying that people are seeking you it's attention you seek and nothing more. A forum such as this site really isn't a place to be discussing such things. You essentially are insinuating you are desirable and everyone else wants you. But you are young and you may learn.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    This would be why my search criteria is from 55 upwards. G

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Oh Anthony Jay Robbins (Princess) Thanks for the heads up to Google! The racist who has little respect for woman. Its a scandal tho, apparently. I much prefer the humble Jay Shetty for empowerment. 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    ...I received the letter from Kate Middleton begging me to continue to see her after she married Prince whats-his-face I did just quietly get up myself too. Sweetie, we are........HOT! That said, I hate to inform you that there is not enough in your dowry or royal coffers to inspire me so darn it there will be no chance of a twice blessed love-child. I like women with nice big dowries and tidy coffers you know and have my reputation to look after. Best of luck....... or something like it! 🤷‍♂️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It's hard to tell whether this is narcissism, bipolarity or an epic-troll profile, but the ego is writing cheques it can't cash - have fun with that!

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    6 years ago

    Since you asked for our opinion....😎 I'll have to address this statement "Why can’t they hold a normal friendly convo without wanting to get in my pants?" I suspect you enjoy all the attention, that you enjoy giving in to their advances. As it has happened multiple times with different types, different situations, and different men, we must look for the common denominator. Which is you. I don't think for a moment you "give in". You just play hard to get.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    Delusional and up yourself. Quite badly actually

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    MsJonesy, Respect your comment unlike some other jealous women here. I don’t deny that I enjoy attention initially but when it start ruining my friendship, that’s sad. And I wouldn’t have traded my friendship/attention or sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    For all the haters who think I’m full of myself, slow clap. Maybe that’s why I asked if I was delusional.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    This is third post I see from this profile. And I still can’t tell if this is trolling or serious.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    So men who are breaking their duty of care, being unprofessional, guys you have friend zoned and guys who are willing to cheat on their partner. So what you are saying is you get a lot of attention from low value men?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Between people has two sides we’ve heard your side, what’s there’s? What are you putting out ? The fact that your here is a clue no ?

  • Skinnydippin

    Skinnydippin

    6 years ago

    Get Over it PIXIE, THIS IS A SEX SITE.... and why most people are here, you should be overjoyed that men want you. Having said that YOU yourself ask people to talk to you about sex at least 3 times in your profile, then you offer to pose in a picture of their choosing and giving them access to your secret pics that only a few people can reach, again the insinuation is sex. And YES the brain is what makes sex work. It seems that you have a low self efficacy and are seeking positive reinforcement from others, YES your pretty YES men will want to njoy you and you them and YES some just think you are Kookie Good luck and let some guy put his cock in your mouth

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You are young and very pretty, Im sure you get lots of attention. But the good thing is, you can be fussy. Go with your intuition. It is very easy to go with the candyshop mentality, especially on here, never mind RL. Take a breather and sort out the good ones from the sleazos. And one more thing....embrace your youthfulness. I was insecure in my 20s, looked back when I was in my 30s and realised I didnt look that bad at all. Same in my 30s, thought I wasnt all that. Then in my 40s, looked at my 30s photos and realised I was actually ok! Now Im in my 50s and happy with who I am, but wouldnt mind a few twenties days back just for the fun of it

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    Pixie, this complete and utter "Look at Moi, Look at moi" attitude that seems to be at the crux of all your forums is truly laughable. I'm still not sure if you're actually being serious or just doing it for..... more attention🤷‍♀️ You are nowhere near as irresistible as you've convinced yourself that you are. And sadly, It's becoming more evident that these manifestations, are all in your own mind.

  • compressor

    compressor

    6 years ago

    I would be happy just to chat to you any time but don't think you want to chat with me lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I suspect this thread won't last long. Any affirmative answer to your primary question is inevitably defamatory.So I'll go with a cryptic, mild jibe that's probably too obscure.But I do like a bit of Time Team.And Tony's portrayal of Baldric is truly inspirational.I think it's only a matter of time until he's Knighted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Well...that escalated rather abruptly eh?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think anyone who needs to big note themselves or the quantity/quality of men they have grovelling at their feet is clearly a little delusional, I have no doubt that the majority of the men you speak of would be what many would class as scumbags looking to get a cheap thrill and are not actually the wonderful men you like to think they are. You also are not magic, sorry, we all encounter those men who just want use you with little to no regard as to how it may affect you or your circumstances..unfortunately they see what they think is an easy target, not a magical being. I’m not a hater, just a realist who’s dealt with one too many opportunistic men in my time. Protect yourself, build yourself up, their lust won’t do it for you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If I was her, Id take all the insults with a pinch of salt......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Everyone, My bad for not making it clear. These men happened before me joining rhp. I’m not here for more attention. I’m here for the truth. I rather maintain my friendships than giving in and let sex ruin literally everything. Koko, yes I learned the lesson and up my standard ;) The rest of you, I don’t care if you think it’s a troll. It does sound like it but that’s my reality. There’s a way to verify it. Goto The professional site, L, or inbox me, I posted all the receipts there. To those who remember this is my third post. WOW. you either have a really good memory or nothing to do at all except for sitting on rhp and taking notes. So have fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Delusional? No. Narcissistic? Definitely. I'm not sure how the fact that they are ' lecturers, bosses, close friends & married men' classifies them as not 'easy and desperate'? You say you're asking for advice, but nowhere do I see in your post anything beyond a not-so-humble brag? Do you genuinely have a question? If the question you want advice on is 'why do men only want to get into me pants', perhaps look at the way you behave around them and ask yourself is there something that you're doing that makes them seem to treat you as a sex object and not respect you as a person…if it genuinely every single man that you meet then you might be sending out signals without meaning to. Although based on your responses to any even slightly negative response to your ‘question’ I fear this will be in one ear and out the other… Miss Little xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Well miss little, You’re wrong. I respect your answer. But some people just give me a full on hate answer without any logical explanation. I’d say I’m the one of the most conservative girl back than. I’m from a very strict family background. It’s not very single man. It’s most of them. And the one who are very picky. Hence the question. I can also see a pattern on this forum. Most Women 45+ tend to be judgmental and full of negativity. I was told rhp forum isn’t a place I can seek logical advise but I don’t give up. I know some people here are capable of using their brain and experiences to tell me what I should know. :) And Koko, you’re a winner ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    To those who think they’re all about quality and I’m only after quantity, go convince AllSorts2019 to spend time with you over coffee, then I’ll salut you. Same with men with hate comments here, if you’re as well educated and successful as AllSorts, you can be the king :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The best way to learn is through your mistakes. You're doing just fine 😁

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    It is not the place to seek logical advise because posters here are not free psychologist. Sorry you feel dissapointed. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If you have all the answers, why ask ?

  • honkytonk

    honkytonk

    6 years ago

    so ho hum

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Foxy... There IS a forensic psychologist amongst us.... Maybe if he wasn’t so busy he might just lend a hand here for this poor little flower ??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Pixie... Anyone can see how many topics you’ve started....there’s nothing really that stalkerish involved.... I’m surprised though Tony never told ya...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    That you give people a choice between delusional and a super human being, and when people have chosen delusional, you call them a hater for it... Why is that??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Sdy. If you can actually read, I did response nicely to people picking “delusional”. Haters are those commenting sth like who the fuck is tony. And when I said there’s fucking google, I am disrespecting her...umm???? Telling me my ego is overinflated when all the facts in my question are simply FACTS. Have not exaggerated anything. FFF told me all of my shit is laughable. Her name alone is so fucking ridiculous. I suspect I’m delusional and actually looking for someone to convince me so but my real life experience indicting differently. As for my standard, it’s AllSorts2019 high :) So i wasn’t counting desperate men in my question.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Rereading your op, you openly say 'once I gave in', with friends and married men, not limited to but you probably have a reputation for being an easy target. Nothing to do with dark magic. As has been said, they are sleezy opportunists (okay I added the sleezy bit), not the picky classy men you claim. If you refuse to believe this, you will see the light in time. Meantime enjoy your delusion

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If you don't want to hear the answers, then don't ask

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    You're pimping AllSorts2019. 💁‍♀️🤷‍♂️ Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Pixie... Your facts, are unverifiable by anyone here.... Facts are truths that are easily verified...that’s what make them a fact...because anyone at any time can check... Personal experiences are not...personal experiences that you say are men throwing themselves at you can’t ever be verified.... Your post solicits us to take you on face value, mixed with the wording of your profile, and one gets a pretty clear picture of someone that is elevating themselves upon to a pedestal of their own making because it seriously lacks humbleness on more than one platform. If you think it doesn’t, I’m sorry but we’ll disagree, and it will be a disagreement without resolve as no one here expects you to change, but we do expect that you accept all opinions(even those who think you’re batshit crazy) as being just that ... an opinion...not a personal attack....

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    The only dark magic at play is the thing between your legs. It's been known to cause men to do amazing/stupid things. Maybe you have tamed and come to understand how to harness the incredible power it holds. It takes great knowledge on the exact timing to drop your undies to maximum effect/gain

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Syd. I respect your disagreement. But facts do not necessarily mean that are easily verified. Where did you form that belief? Was it easy to convince people the earth was not flat? I will accept opinion. But not harsh ones like I’ve boiled their bunnies or stole their husband. Here, my question is a multiple choices. A. Delusional B. Dark margic. So adding that my ego is high up there is a personal attack. And like do I have to put it out like that for you mr and mrs know it all to understand that it was a multiple choice? Ummmmm I’ll be mindful next time ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Apart from the fact that can't resist a sexual connection, most find it awkward or unusual to have a standard platonic (non sexual) relationship with a lady (unless they are gay). That inability is magnified a hundredfold if they find that lady particularly attractive and I don't just mean in appearance. You obviously stand out as both physically attractive and have a warm, friendly, innocent nature that makes you especially desirable. If I was you I'd take that as a compliment and just keep that in mind when being with any guy. A thoughtful guy will want to be with you as a lover or fruend, if that is all you need at that moment. Hope that helps.. Happy to be your friend and chat more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    *men can't resist.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Andy, Thanks. And I don’t admire you for calling me attractive, but for making that comment knowing that the majority people who read my post are against me and my *VERY delusional* ass. So unfortunately you might be losing a chance these chicks here (or lucky you ;)) I do take it as a compliment but like I said, it’s dark magic. Dark is negative itself. Those men stayed friends for as long as years...then sex just ruined things for us. Some of them are guilty to have sex with me like I forced them to. Some of them never got sex from me so they retired pursuing me. I do find it hard to be just friends with men. Hence the question.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Thanks Pixie.. I'm attracted to very positive people, so unlikely to be missing out in anything. When a guy already has a on intimate partner it's that much easier to have non-intimate female friends. We had a 22 year old lady start a work a while ago and I ended up doing all sorts of friends things with her. Took her out to help her buy a car; took her out to celebrate her 23rd birthday; lunches together, we'd share good music we found etc. People started rumours at work because of the time we spent together but we we only ever, and all I was happy being was her friend as already was in a relationship. But I must say in general it's super hard to do those sorts of things as a guy already having a partner due to trust issues. And if I didn't have an intimate partner then my focus would have been more on getting one. Hopefully you can understand a guys thinking from that example a little better.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Andy, I get the general idea... thanks One of My cases is very complicated tho. I think I’d talk to you more. But as of now, nobody is able to give me an answer on a married man I was involved with. I trust only Tony would be able to :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Just.. 🤣🤣🤣

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Oh and why do you assume I am a hater? Very odd indeed. I'd like say, in my defence, your behaviour is odd, it does not mean I dislike you. But anyway.... we are all bit odd.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It's all about the vibe. I remember first experimenting with the vibe at 19 years of age. I was quietly delighted to learn that when I put my vibe out anything was possible. Later in my life I learned that turning off the vibe, in my interactions with men, also attained the desired effect. So I guess what I'm saying is that your vibe, that you're putting out there, is strong and men are responding. In your topic you have discussed that these men are pursuing you, you're aware that you might have the capacity to make them go crazy, they let their guard down for you, and that you give in to them. This suggests that the vibe you are transmitting is that you are available, you are attracted to them and a you are a conquest for them. Isn't the chase the best part? Don't we all love the 'game of love'? If you really don't want to be pursued by men and you genuinely want only to have their friendship, then don't vibe. If you really want a mate/boyfriend/ husband that can, as number one, be your friend, then I would say, 'isn't that we all would ultimately like'? ... And 'good luck Pixie'.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Love the odd. Fight first and be friends later. And SexyBliss, I knew there are people like you out there. Thank you! And I must admit I was young & dumb to give in. Didn’t realise it would ruin the friendship. Didn’t know how the games work. Now I got better ideas ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Actually like I said, I was very innocent/inexperienced/shy/conservative back then. Idk what vibe I was sending. I never even dressed sexy. So I guess those men are attracted to an innocent child like myself?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    in aisle 7 😁 Wish someone would come and clean my place 😉 On topic, no I think I've just about covered it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    What bothers me about this and your previous post is lecturers, bosses and married men.Older men in positions of trust and authority.And this occurred when you were younger(than 23 which is still pretty young to most of us).Have you considered whether these men pose a threat to other young women who may be more naive and less able to look after themselves than you?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Cat, I think I’ll attend something better like Tony’s seminars for $8000 :D but thanks! Thequite1: and what do u want me to do with them? Ain’t I the victim?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The "Is "sex addict"real or just an excuse?" thread.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Wouldn't you want to make sure there are no other victims?

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    6 years ago

    about people, and the nature of attraction. That applies now, as well as when you were a sweet innocent thing. There is a certain type of man who loves pursuing innocent, inexperienced, shy and conservative young things, because they love to corrupt and control. If you reflect on their behaviour after you "gave in", which you stated was "try to own me and make me theirs", they were indeed trying to control you, and mold you to their own. I think you would benefit from widening your reading choices to include more than Tony. As much as you admire him, I humbly suggest you need to objectively assess the motives of a speaker who charges $8000 a ticket. 😨 Oh, in case you're wondering, I do know his writing and his methods. He was a big motivator in the real estate (& other sales industries) when I was in those industries. This was before you were born. His generalised platitiudes and motivational mic grabs have probably run their course. And certainly don't offer much to guide a young and naive person embarking on their first significant forays into sexual exploration. If you believe I am wrong, feel free to share some of Tony's work you feel relevant to the topic.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    MsJonesy, Well I’m here to learn. In regards to Tony, I can’t say why for sure but this is my understanding. He has been charging that much for so long and his tickets are always sold out. I think he is filtering the audience. Some would pay $100 or $200 to just go and fall asleep in the seminar. Tony doesn’t want that. He wants to recruit and teach people who are hungry and actively looking to breakthrough. The profits from his seminar is also going to charities. Different type of work that he does. There are poor who can’t afford his tickets and that’s how he helps them. I haven’t been to any seminar. But I would share what I learned once I’ve learnt them. Thequite1, I still don’t know what you want from me. How do I look out for other victim? Is posting my experience not enough?

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    6 years ago

    I’ve been perplexed how to respond to this post. I remember many years back when these sites first started, the forums were a great place for people to openly discuss things they usually wouldn’t and there was a nice comradery vibe and everyone was very polite and accepting. This was a time before the notion of “internet trolls and keyboard warriors”, it was just exciting to hear what others think. These days we are over bombarded with what every single person thinks and everyone thinks they have a right to air their opinions about others without any decorum. Now I’ve read the OP’s post and I think she could have formulated her post better but ffs it’s a swinging site not a University submission paper. I then also remind myself that a string of words written on a page can quite easily be read many ways especially between different ethnic cultures. And then there’s age, when someone of a tender age is being berated by those 20+ years her senior one has to wonder who is actually the mature one. What happened to the idea of exploring in a fun and safe place? I care less about whether the OP’s post has any merit worth answering to than the disgust in the vitriol she receives from those decades her senior. The forums have definitely gone to the dogs!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Eloquent and thoughtfully written..