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Dildos?

February 24 2011

My girlfriend has hinted to me a few times now that she'd like me to surprise her by buying her a dildo. She's never used one before and I have no idea what she'd like. I was wondering if any girls on here got have a suggestion as to what's a good dildo? I'm thinking my price range is up to $70.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It wont be that great for that price but ones with a clit stim on them as well are the best. Or just get the good old silver bullet.......very versatile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Go the rabbit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    or you will be out of a job, dude

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983'or you will be out of a job, dude I still much rather the real thing than my rabbit. He sits under lock and key ( nosey kids) until there is the occassional dry spell

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i have been called a dildo on several occaisions. i'll happily do your missus for 70 bucks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    rabbit all the way! toys just add a bit more fun to the bedroom, you dont need to worry that ur girl will replace u with a dildo as fionabee said the real thing is always better but no harm in playing around every once in a while :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    When all else fails and confusion sets in, find a good quality adult shop (one without the cubicles) and ask the shop assistant what the most popular one is.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    you might want to double check whether she was looking for a dildo or a vibrator... dildos don't have a motor! so i'm guessing she was probably thinking vibrator - and in that case, i agree with MistressT. go to a good quality adult shop - the good ones are happy to take them out of the packet and demo for you (on your arm, that is!). you want one that vibrates smoothly and ultra-quickly rather than feeling clunky and slow. other than that, i don't think you need to spend a fortune... i've had awesome toys that have lasted forever that cost me $20, and $100 toys that i burned out in a few months. ahem. oops.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Those pearl beaded ones look sensational but they don't have the lasting power.... I seem to manage to burn one out in a week or so.... nope... Go for a decent standby.. the simpler it is mechanically the better... so a jelly dong slightly larger than your own cock.. with a vibrating function... 4 AA batteries.... plus a bullet vibrator (they take hearing aid batteries lmfao).... because they're great for her to hold on her clit while you are busy burying the other one deep inside her ... you know... for a bit of simulated double penetration.... Oh... and for when you get a bit weary... aka.. droopy... and need a spell... I find these gadgets help keep the momentum going for round two or three or whatever. All guys should get one.... excellent back up cock... and it is fun teasing the fuck out of her with one (or two) of those things damn it!HUgsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    for sure!! it's affordable and one of the best :) I have one myself heheand it won't put you out of use don't worry !! she will like both of u :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    As recommended...there are a lot of up market adult shops with bright lighting and no shoes stuck to the floor. Most of the time the staff are more than helpful. | I would ignore any comments about being replaced...that's what happens if the batteries run out or you blow the motor in your Hitachi when it's set on "kill" rather than "stun", just like any good cosmic blaster you have to be careful with the things. Just remember...don't panic, they prefer organic. | Get her something nice...read the instructions and have a play, then when she is feeling playful just say "surprise".... | ...you may get one too.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love your thoughts on gadgets & teasing!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I broke my rabitt uh I mean it broke, I miss him soooo much!!!!!!!!!!!! A good quanlity one with pearls ofcourse

  • sexslaves

    sexslaves

    15 years ago

    why not use your head and make your own a lot better then a bit of plastic

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hes not so broke after all!!!!!!!!!

  • CalmTides

    CalmTides

    15 years ago

    Why be cheap..Go in there with $500 and go to town...Take her home a showbag and see who gets the most fun out of it!!!

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    15 years ago

    Makes for great foreplay as well. Make a plaster mould of your dick and make one for her. I am sure that with the constant attention your dick will be getting you wont have a problem keeping a hard on...... You can buy the silver bullet for her as well and use both. If it doesn't work, you can always buy her one as well. At least you would have had fun trying :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee'Go the rabbit Or the dolphin

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    She may want to use it on you so get the double ended one and you both would be happy or go shopping with her in SexyLand, many to chooce from for both of you, babe.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    She may want to use it on you so get the double ended one and you both would be happy or go shopping with her in SexyLand, many to chooce from for both of you, babe.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    im considered by my mates to be the "queen of toys" i say you can never have too many and i always want my man!!!!!! u can get a wide range at a range of prices. i agree with others as in good shop and ask for advice. if u r too shy there a heaps of great sites you can buy from as well. most of them have top seller sections where u can see what people (girls!!) are wanting. have fun : )

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    after using cheap vibes for years i finally went and splurged and bought myself a rabbit..... O.M.G best vibe ever : ) if u dont want to go into an adult shop there are plently of good online stores.... or why not get her a voucher so she can pick it our herself? then when she gets home she can show you how to use it on herself : ) xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh he knows how to get you coming and keep you coming....I have a cosmetic bag full of wonderful toys that I never leave the house with it... I find that some guys get really turned on watching a woman pleasuring herself for him and then it gets him soooo hard when you ask him to help you explore your body...If I ever want a gang bang all I have to is empty my bag on to my bed and let the games begin ha ha Happy Hunting

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983'or you will be out of a job, dude He's right. You put your job security at risk, certainly, although two can enjoy a good rabbit ... Quoting 'theone1983'i have been called a dildo on several occaisions. i'll happily do your missus for 70 bucks. I suspect it may well be the best $70 (and 30 seconds) either of you ever invested! Mwahahahaha!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    do u want a job? as my marketing manager. or pimp. 10% for u. we can tell people 'im like a zyrtec. fast, but it works.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    There it goes again, the old 'Man Vs Dildo' syndrome with the girls declaring they prefer the real thing, and the guys hoping it's true. If the Dildo finds employment and turns out to be a more responsible individual, then a man can protest. . About the acquisition of a Dildo: Some girls don't like the 'realistic looking ones' (Jeff Striker replica for example) and I must say they can look like a artificial limb of sorts. So get her fav colour and go for 'Cyber Skin' brand as it's a type of latex that feels amazing to touch. . For a laugh, tell your partner you saw a blow up doll at the shop and she's called 'Candy the six hole street walker with 9 realistic voice sound effects' .... and you would like her to buy Candy for you!!! . If you dare!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The ones that rotate as well as vibrate and have the rabbit ears are great... but they are more then $70

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Your funy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Just wait until sexpo is in your local city and go on the last day. very big savings. this allows your missus to get an amazing gift and you to only spend $70 (+bonus points with her)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    You can never have enough toys in the bedroom.Just experiment and have fun with them.The rabbit is really good by the way.Sarah x

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee'Go the rabbit AGREED!!! The Rabbit is the way to go. ;-) (MRS)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Haha, my partner has many toys, and they keep growing, can make you feel a little redundant at times, I'd still get her one though, i went a larger size than me, and it works wonders, but don't worry she will still prefer the man meat when its availiable

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Haha, my partner has many toys, and they keep growing, can make you feel a little redundant at times, I'd still get her one though, i went a larger size than me, and it works wonders, but don't worry she will still prefer the man meat when its availiable

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Definitely a We-Vibe (version one is fine, that's what I have). I always wanted a vibrator or toy of sorts, and it's only with my current partner that I felt comfortable about it, and we went in and brought it. Best thing I could have ever brought. All about the clitoris stimulation! Have fun :-) PS: You wont be out of a job - I love my partner touching and playing with me whilst I use my toy, makes it sooo much more fun ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    RABBIT ;)

  • Skippy78

    Skippy78

    14 years ago

    Mate all i can say is they fun if she lets u play with it on her. For 50 u can by a wileless one with a 10 speed remote it about the same size as a tampon she can lever up there and u can make her go off and she can go out and be happy walking around

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The rabbit is the really good, but you will proably pay more than $70. I had a friend buy me one. It was just a plain dildo, nothing fancy at all, but boy did it vibrate good and wow it was fantastic, so you can still get some good ones for that price. The best is to just go into the adult shop and ask them, as they have a big variety and can help you. Remember as well though, that a dildo is an enhancer to add to the act of excitement, pleasure and fun of sex, not to replace it. I'm glad to hear that you are open minded enough and mature enough to realize that it is an enhancer of pleasure and not a replacement for you. I do know some men who get very upset when their partner wants a dildo, cause they think "what's wrong with me".... or "I'm here and you don't need a dildo".... silly men. I use my dildo on men on their cocks to vibrate them and they love it too. The rabbit with the clit vibrator which rotates as well as vibrates is good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    if your choosing between the rabbit and dolphine, get the Dolphine my FWB luvs it (shes got both and numorius others) and dose not chew the batterys as quick and while your shoping get yourself a decant cock ring with vibrating clit stimulator ive got one that has the removable silver bullets which means double the pleasure for everbody

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Try something a bit different.   I don't know what it is called, but we bought a toy a few months back that was exactly $70 and worth every cent! It stands out from all the other toys due to it's ability to be twisted into a right angle, with two very functional ends. At one end it has a shaft with a little lip that can be leveraged into the perfect spot. The other end is egg-shaped and great for external stimulation. Both ends vibrate right to the tip with multi-functions for variety, endurance and a real tease factor - allowing you to play with it for ages. Using it without the vibrator is just as amazing (but different!). This, in turn, builds her up for a mind-blowing orgasm later. The right angle feature makes the toy easy to manouvre into exactly the right spot. Get her to show you all the ways she can enjoy it and you will get a fantastic show! Try it yourself too and you may find you'll be fighting over it. Lucky the battery is rechargeable! It's purple. Trust me, go and get it! (we got it from Libido, but you can buy it online as well!).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    look on different sites on the web... i would say something waterproof.... soft and flexible well has abit of give... and not a odd shapemaybe more smooth? or still with the penis bump veins and all that on it.... suction cap is good for new things or stick it on the wall while she bangs it she gives u headthere is water proof ones with a good vibe in it with a clit tickler on it like them bumps... not like the rabbit.... i found in the sex bag which is in a box that is now full of toys lol the rabbit broke lolthen the silicon lube tube burst.... and killed it lol and also make up silk sleeves to keep the toys in

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You GOTTA get the rabbit great bedroom tool give your partner a big O while your getting off only fair There are PLENTY of ways to use a vibro to get the both of you hot n sweaty Trust me they take it to a new level

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    well, mine is one that plugs into my iphone or ipod and i love it :) and it was less than $100. I can listen to my fave tunes and get off at the same time so it's multipurpose fun. My ex bf introduced me to toys when I was younger and I wouldnt be without them - it made our sex life even more exciting and we could try lots of different things - go in and try em out or shop online - i havent been disappointed in any of my gifts or choices so far :) enjoy xxx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Go the Whole way for your girl mate! And get both she will LUUUUUVVVVVV you for ever Just say SOD the expense she is worth it !!!!!! Beau

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I have been facinated with sex and sex shops well before I was legal. My wife and I have a healthy collection of toys but her favourite one is a silver bullet as mentioned above. Having owned an adult store before it made it less expensive to trial all those wounderfull things that couples like, or don't like. A good dildo/vibrator is like a good power tool, buy the right one and you will have it for life and enjoy many hours of pleasure with it either as a couple or your woman alone.Which brings me to my point get your wallet out and don't be gouverned by price be guided by want and quality. I know $70 will get you a nice wrapper with some hard plastic shit inside but is that what you really want. Sit down together and brouse online to get an idea of what she may want. Go to a store look and feel and then be prepared to pay the price. Don't buy a bad tool.