RHP

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Do men read profiles

July 27 2019

I think not. I think their penis instructs them to be a dick and blindly fire off messages. Yes there are exceptions but the fine print doesn't seem a priority much of the time. I've taken to asking what they liked about my profile or me, what specifically grabbed their attention 😉😁 and the old 80 yr olds saying they're 65, then hitting on me with my upper limit of 45? There comes a time when they need to just stop creeping women out. Maybe look for sugar babies lol or go down to your local bar and ogle women there. Hmm did I have a question? 🐒 Nope just a rant

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think 45 seems a bit older for you I_touch.... you should lower your limit ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    😁

  • Cucknshells

    Cucknshells

    6 years ago

    The majority do. I have been back a week and have had over 1000 views but only been sent about 10 messages. My profile says don’t waste your messages on me. So not too bad. However there does seem to be more men on here than I thought. Shells.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Do couples read couples profiles????

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    6 years ago

    Why ?? From what I have noted in the past, there are actually a good deal of the men that do really take the time to read profiles - myself included. But you can never lump everyone in the same general categories - we are all individual with our own ways of doing things. As you have no doubt experienced, there are men who do indeed do the right thing, and others that put their fingers into gear before the brain has engaged. What can ya say ?? Hope you have a good weekend I Touch. Tall

  • Samnite

    Samnite

    6 years ago

    I guess many men think in terms of the Law of averages. The more flirts, messages, etc they send out increases their chances of getting something in return.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    6 years ago

    Sadly many males don’t Perhaps they don’t think clearly, before they send that first message ? Perhaps they are aroused and thus being controlled by their erections and truly think that such opening lines will be acceptable just because this is a sex site ? Yes couples can do the same, but we feel in most cases that it’s the male of the couple that’s doing the messaging in any case.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If that's the mindset, they have no hope. I state in my profile a no reply is a no, please don't keep messaging but some obviously either don't read it or think they'll be the exception. Perhaps waiting for me to have a quiet week lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Wow that's really good they've respected your wishes 👍

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    6 years ago

    I can say for myself. I do read profiles but all so believe that: if i think you are gorgeous/beautiful i will just pay you a complement. With no intentions or interest behind. Is that wrong to do so?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Even at my venerable age I still get messages and flirts..incredibly I am just what some men are looking for..bless em. Hugs Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yes I agree with all of that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The ones that do take the time to read the profile are most likely the ones that don't send messages! 😂Because the majority of messages I receive (and it's not in the 100's like a lot of women claim), ask me what I'm looking for when it's clear and concise in my profile. I get messages from guys in their late 50's & 60's though my age range preference is not left open-ended, it clearly says to 45. And there's still the odd married/attached guy that wastes a message on me when it's in my profile more than once that I am not interested. I had a message yesterday and it was word for word (cut & paste) the same message he had sent me a month ago (that I hadn't responded to). That makes me wonder how many women have received that exact same message? 🤷‍♀️

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    .. it's the selfish few who make it bad for the majority? I always read profiles unless it's a war and peace effort ... then l move on to someone less self absorbed..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Yeah one did the same to me, exact same message about a week later. Oops 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Personally I think there many men that find it hard to spot disingenuous profiles which result in the whole throw themselves at everything regardless in the hope they win the hook up lotto.... Apart from the percentage that will more than probable stick their dicks anywhere they can...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    When I actually had a profile here my favourite dish was war and peas..so yummy:$ Hugs Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Love your comments 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Single men message me all the time , they even message me asking to accompany me to events .. 😑 there's only so many polite ways to say fuck off Couples I'm interested in however if I'm not I've had messages and flirt sent to me from the same couples knowing full well I'm not interested in them It doesnt matter if you reply , don't reply, let them down nicely , let them down not so nicely. Some just come back 🤣 My block list is getting lengthy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It comes down to man want women (cave man primal behavior) For example: if there is 120 woman online, I bet my left but there is 300 single guys on here looking. After weeks of getting rejected, man thinks fuck it. Sees something he likes and try's his luck. TO MANY DICKS, NOT ENOUGH MICS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Absolutely 100000000% I do! Obviously the picture gets my attention then I decide if I’ll send a message.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    I'm 100% in agreeance with LittleBlackHeels; couples are way worse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Of course not...men want to see boobies and a tidy paper cut if possible? Now then...about your photos, sunshine? Show 'em if ya got 'em. ʗɱ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Meh? Heh? Hmmm🤔

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    They probably read them but just don’t care, they’re selfish & ignorant with zero regard for what you need/want. It’s all about getting their rocks off, we’d be fools to think anything more at this point.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Phoenix_Rising' They probably read them but just don’t care, they’re selfish & ignorant with zero regard for what you need/want. It’s all about getting their rocks off, we’d be fools to think anything more at this point. Crikey Phoenix, somebody's been having a bad week huh?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Maybe one in every hundred. Ive changed my profile to social atm as I am working every weekend and have little time to meet anyone, but Im still receiving the same messages informing me they are all night stallions and could service an older woman quite efficiently. Its as though we should be grateful for their attention. I may be in my 50s but Ive yet to take a pity shag However, there have been a few men who sent friendly and humorous messages first off, these are the ones I replied to

  • LustAndLoveXoX

    LustAndLoveXoX

    6 years ago

    Most of the time we don't. We surely do if you answer our message tho. If you are not interedted there is no reason for us to read what is your favourite dick size. I hope you udnerstand that most men get literally zero replies for months and reading profiles of people they will not ever have an interaction with it is not really the best use of anyone's time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Okey.. Not at all, I just don’t see the point in being coy about it. There’s zero respect out the from some people, no point asking yourself why. Just write them off as not worth bothering with and move on. Why do you assume that my lack of desire do deal with people like that is because I have had a bad week?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think some do and go ahead anyway. Just from all I read in the forum. Happy to say my personal experience though is that any messages I get recognise the limitations in my profile and they're very respectful about that. 🍑

  • Miss_J

    Miss_J

    6 years ago

    Wow Casanovax, that’s a totally different take from a guys point of view. 👍🏻 As a girl I don’t message unless I’ve read the profile and like what I read. If there is no profile (or a brief lame profile) and no face pics I tend to just move on because I don’t want to start a conversation and find it’s with someone who isn’t compatible. It would never occur to me that a guy wouldn’t message me back 😱 Looking at it from your point of view I don’t think Inwoukd invest too much time reading profiles of my message was going to be ignored 😳 Q - love you comment too, so nice to see the guys are still giving you so much attention at 100years of age 🤣🤣👍🏻 Both of your comments really showed the other side of the street for males and females. My thoughts, guys should put more time into your profile page because girls do read and want pics. For me, I don’t want your dick in my face straight away 😳😳 I know you all have a penis, and it’s beautiful but I would love to be looking at more than just a dick for 5 pics 🤣🤣 The more information in a guys profile page, ie hair colour, eyes, piercings, what you like, the more pics I see and the longer I spend on your profile the more I’m likely to message or flirt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'Phoenix_Rising' Okey.. Not at all, I just don’t see the point in being coy about it. There’s zero respect out the from some people, no point asking yourself why. Just write them off as not worth bothering with and move on. Why do you assume that my lack of desire do deal with people like that is because I have had a bad week? It was just that one word Phoenix - ''some'' that was missing from your first reply. Like ITMs topic, it's a blanket statement.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Come on petal, being a bit precious aren't you?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Then why have a go at what I said and not the OP when you first commented? And to be so condescending as to suggest I need a Bex? Who do you think you are exactly and what is your problem? I didn’t miss the word “some”, I was just foolish enough to think people would understand I was only talking about the type of people mentioned in the OP who don’t read profiles and message people anyway. Now, go give your attention to someone else, I don’t want it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Come on petal, being a bit precious aren't you? Not really - if I were to post a comment or topic on here saying all women do is whinge about the men folk, I would be rightly corrected.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    That would be fun. Give it to us 😀

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    He shouldn’t say all, most would cover it. 😜 We all know there is a double standard, women own it men wear it. Insert some most or all where appropriate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Where did I say 'all men'. If you're oversensitive and not able to read between the lines pfft

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Actually touchy... Women do whinge a lot about single men...and so do couples...not altogether unreasonable though.... It’s really not that far from the reality of it...which is why sheds were invented 😂😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Haha 😂 yes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We can tell you’ve spent plenty of time in the shed by the way you just nailed it 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I know a guy who is in a troubled relationship, and spends most of his time in the shed

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If we want to...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Actually I posted a topic after our little exchange, giving men the opportunity to bag out on us 😁 no surprise it hasn't seen the light of day, yet anyway, but I doubt it will. It appears we can man bash but woman bash is not an option lol Disclaimer: no reference intended re physical abuse

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Maybe I worded it wrong. I should have given examples like holding the fork the wrong way or eating with their mouth open, or talking while they're eating ☺

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Had one this morning who obviously hadn't read my profile, fired off a template message, then must have decided to have a read. Clearly stated not what I'm looking for. He had blocked me by the time I saw the message. Seriously, any hole is a good hole? Don't you care what the person is like? I do. I think men need to be more discerning. If we women get the feeling you've thrown a dart at the rhp profile dartboard, as well as half a dozen other sites, guaranteed you won't get to spend time with me. Oh and it helps if you give your phone number to a woman, that you actually remember who she is when she contacts you 😂 unfuckingbelievable. That's what happens when you cast your net too wide and treat us like a number

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Some men do and some men don’t xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Hi 😁 Were you aware that guests can't access the phone number you have listed? 😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If I look at a profile, I firstly read if I fit the prerequisites as written. If so, then I read it all. If it’s all attractive to me, I’ll think about sending her a message. I don’t always get a response, and thats okay, There could be 100 good reasons for that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    “Okey Actually I posted a topic after our little exchange, giving men the opportunity to bag out on us 😁 no surprise it hasn't seen the light of day, yet anyway, but I doubt it will. It appears we can man bash but woman bash is not an option lol Disclaimer: no reference intended re physical abuse” You know the mods are all women right ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

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