RHP

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Dominating a man

September 06 2017

I think I might be a dominatrix. I seem to like it when men yield to me. What the heck is with that.... feel like i have gone a 180 in my personality after an event that happened tome about 2 years ago. But I wouldn't misuse it I want my sub to be guided not controlled. R guys into that.....what can I read.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    but good for you, happy days, there are so many men who want to be dominated. Now I need to bugger off and hear from them 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Providing a woman can pull it off. Last woman who said she was DOM made me laugh my ass off and did not take her seriously at all. Why? It was a combination of low grade porn and overkill. In other words not believable. So I sent her off to a dungeon with a real and l paid for a DOM to teach her how to pull things off(pardon the pun) a bit better.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have a fascination with powerful women, but I won't be subjected to humiliation, take control sure, have your way with me please, but respect me. And I'll do the same for you.

  • compressor

    compressor

    8 years ago

    I would let you play with me however you wanted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    some sort of shame or fear of that, that prevents men posting about this? If so, there shouldn't be. I've had plenty of men approach me who like to be dominated. Although I didn't meet them, I'm a sub, it made me aware of how many do want that. It's all good, I'm just surprised more don't share their experience 😃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    That sounds like an interesting proposition to me and something I might be easily persuaded to try. Not sure how the dynamic may work without the control though, but then again that could mean different things to different people. What does that mean to you OP? Can you provide some sort of examples for my interest?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sorry OP that didn't sound quite right... I understand your post wasn't a proposal looking to find a partner. When I say interest in the above that should read curiosity.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Im fairly dominant in work and life, so being dominated is a turn on, lo e a woman to make me her bitch lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I suppose id switch lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    but not humiliated. A recent encounter with a particular girl was hot. She definitely took control and it was great. Controlled but included and I could see she was really getting off on it and when she came oh my the shudder was amazing to see. In complete bliss she was.

  • WishingWell

    WishingWell

    8 years ago

    I myself enjoy switching roles, depending on the situation at the time. Sometimes I enjoy handing over my pleasure to a man who knows what he's doing and can control our play time. Other times I enjoy when a man will surrender to whatever I feel like doing to his body at the time, can be quite creative.. There are a number of men who have approached me wanting to submit to me and be guided what to do. It's all playful for me and nothing too heavy or serious. Enjoy redrouge and have fun XXX

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    8 years ago

    She's much younger 23 and I have bought a strap on, we did this very brief scenario about 2 years ago. I have a flashlight and she's eager to fuck me and use that on me too. I'm normally dominant, I'm pretty kinky so anything as such is fun. She won't be gentle either

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sounds devine x

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    8 years ago

    It was fun, she was scared of hurting me thought lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I_touch_myself, there's no shame whatsoever, from my point of view anyway. I embrace being submissive to a dominant woman in the bedroom. Only hot if she loves doing it, but when she does, and the mood is right, I'll pretty much do anything she desires (thigh high boots and strap on preferred 😈) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I certainly like to switch, I am dominant in the workplace and for me I like to dominate in the bedroom but also like to be the sub. I like being the sub because I get to feel what is like for the ladies, I like someone to take the lead and ultimately tell me what to do. I like being the Dom as well but that is the rare occasion I Dina a lady who likes to be submissive, I am also on fetlife so that is an indication of what I like. Dave - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Previous post correction Occasion I Dina = I find a lady - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m a bit surprised by the lack of interest from the ladies ! 😮

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Ladies what are you thoughts ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    i was going to comment but between the censorship and the bigotry it’s all rather pointless trying to have a discussion. Enjoy the movie.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yes I'd definitely call what I like more guided than dominant... I'm not into humiliating my partners or causing pain (even if some pain is considered pleasure by my partner)... It comes from having someone trust you enough to let you explore and that feels deliciously powerful. I'm sure its similar for men who aren't normally more dominant.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Wrong forum 😀

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Oops, done it again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    All good... it's like your trademark (kinda)... makes me smile 🙂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    My male partner thought it a turn on to be dominated by me. He had some experience whilst I was a willing novice. We discussed before hand the roles we would play. I enjoyed blindfolding and binding my man, having him before me to toy with. It was liberating to have the freedom to do whatever I fancied and to know he couldn't touch me back. From my bag of tricks I chose various toys and lubricants, working on every part of his body, mixing pleasure with some pain he soon was begging for release. This I gladly did with the aid of one of the toys I'd gotten him. It was orgasmic for him as he came with my hands around him. We lay together to savour the moment. Since then we've introduced collars and leads, whips, handcuffs etc. We want to learn more and hope to meet up with like minded couples to teach us.