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Dressing up
February 13 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
As much as u girls would expect us to make sure we're groomed and well dressed!
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RHP User
13 years ago
depending whats planned of course
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like to take care of my appearance & expect same . Slobs don't turn me on . If you don't make an effort to look appealing , then will you make an effort in the bedroom ? First meet is sorta like a job interview . As for sexy underwear , etc ... I appreciate it but only for a few seconds , then it's all gotta come off ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wouldnt expect it, But i think it depends on the situation, Meeting at someones house or a cafe for a couple of drinks or coffee shouldnt require dressing up. But going to a classy resturant wouldnt really suit track pants and a singlet either lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would hav thought the rest was normal day wear if out or at work.... maybe not always the makeup every day .. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Depending on the nature of the meet, you might wear casual or dressy clothes, but either way they'd be good quality, stylish, nicely put together etc, wouldn't they? If a man turned up to meet me looking like a scruff, no real effort made, he's not likely to get a second chance ... circumstances depending of course :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
In my experience, 95/100 dudes who hint at or even blatantly ask for the stockings, suspenders, heels, etc turn up in shorts and a t-shirt :/
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RHP User
13 years ago
But I always make an effort..................its about me feeling good and comfortable as well... and I wear scrubs all days..so I like to girl up every so often...:) And always the heels.......always............hate being short :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Op, I just dress to suit whatever we are doing. Nice dinner = dressed up, pub = jeans or casual dress, music festival= shorts and a tee. I always go with nice undies, it makes me feel sexy; except those times when it is necessary to not have any.
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RHP User
13 years ago
But to what degree depends on the venue of the first date and perhaps if you are strictly a "play later" girl or not.Miss Sarah,If it's 38degrees and we're meeting at Little Creatures, sure I'll wear shorts, besides, I have awesome legs and bum !
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RHP User
13 years ago
to be yourself. If you don't dress up normally and wearing makeup, heels etc. isn't your style, then don't do it as you will feel self conscious and uncomfortable.* ALWAYS be yourself, not the person you think they want you to be!Personally, I would feel self conscious and uncomfortable if I didn't dress up and by dress up I don't mean formally. I dress for the occasion and what makes me feel sexy, but this always includes lingerie, hair, makeup, nails, perfume...all the feminine girly touches.If you feel good, you will be confident and confidence is sexy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
No need to dress to impress to the extent of stocking, exposed boobs etc for me. If anything it might turn me the other way specially if it boarders on tarty..Keep it fashionable, chic , tidy, add a nice personality and I will take notice... It's always nice to unwrap a well presented parcel. Once unwrapped, you never know what you gunna unleash.. As always, the mind is our biggest sex organ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
We put time into our grooming to meet potential playmates, therefore we do expect that they will "prep" for the occasion as well. If you feel sexy in your clothes then you will be more confident. Doesn't mean you have to wear a tiny dress, ha good luck getting Ms Otori into one (unless someone else is wearing it). But matching knickers and bra, some make-up (not caked on layers) and smart-casual outfit goes a long way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' In my experience, 95/100 dudes who hint at or even blatantly ask for the stockings, suspenders, heels, etc turn up in shorts and a t-shirt :/ I've had this happen... it's quite funny, I love to dress up and feel sexy yet when the counterpart shows up looking a tad more than dishevelled with obviously zero effort (unlike the lead up to the meet!) is when I pull this face:>>>>>>
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RHP User
13 years ago
DG Could've said it better..loved your wording..agree 100%.. "I AM WORTH IT!! You should be too" However if a guy asks you to put on lingerie, suspenders and sexy underwear, corset etc for first meet and greet....makes me question what is HIS intentions...??? If you want a knooky go for it. The other posts are right...Confidence and positive attitude does = SEXY. MEN adore a well groomed woman but not a Fake women..as in Orange Fake tan, cemented on make up, big fake boofy hair etc etc...a A-La-Natural look is appealing to their eye so is a little class.. :-) FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I meet a guy and NO effort put in to his grooming(unshaven, not showered and smells vile) with bad dress sense (stained ripped clothes) and bare foot I automatic have visions..... EEEEEEEEEK poor personal hygiene and I ain't goin downstairs or anywhere near back door.. Time for Foxy to run to nearest Exit... So therefore I believe men would think the same regarding about women dressing up..??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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swifttall
13 years ago
Undressed is just fine...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'swifttall'Undressed is just fine... I wear long skirts, and a top thats about it for my first meeting and if I am attracted they are off in ten seconds. once they become a regular lover then yes, out comes the stockings heels though I prefer to dress up for play when I am in a hotel, i like go go there first and prepare for the feast. I just cannot be bothered to wear heels and sexy stuff, how would I know if I want to go there unless there is chemistry if he is attracted to me as my ordinary self then thats what counts.
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RHP User
13 years ago
nah...come without makeup, in flip flops, trakkie daks and that singlet top you spilt yr coffee on last week..... and you'll surely impress us......not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes I am my corporate self on the outside,....and the underneath is only there if there is a connection.... Or sometimes it is not there. Suspenders yes panties no But I have had very successful first meetings of the beach at swannie. Nothing's hidden, no make up,..wet hair ... It's me for me..... Each to their own.....but effort for subsequent plays is important too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Combine the advice of Ms Poppins and M-Lad and you've got my views. There is something sublime about having their fresh, sexy scent in your nostrils later... and it 100% cuts both ways. Be you, but make it a good you!I got a haircut today... drinks meetup tomorrow ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me it depends on where we're heading. If we're going for a drive, shopping, zoo, picnic, go-karting then no not really... Well maybe some sexy panties for the picnic .If we're going to dinner, a club, a show etc, then yeah I'd expect a fair bit of effort because I'd be making sure I looked dapper as fuck haha.Actually on reflection it looks like the difference between night or day. Night time: Yes Day time: not so much Hopefully I've left you sufficiently confused lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I expect the basics to be right. nothing over the top. Cleanliness is important. makeup not so much.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd love you to dress up and I would reciprocate in my finest suit. The allure and excitement would be the stronger as the imagination and desire would build. Dressing up is what would make the meet all the more exciting and passionate...
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playful4u
13 years ago
Presentation is everything
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RHP User
13 years ago
Definately depends on the meeting place. But as has been said, make an effort- within reason. Don't over do it, but don't come across as a slob either. Also dress comfortably, nothing more absurd than watching a woman in heels falling over like she's never worn them before. newborn giraffe look :-p
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would not look twice at someone, who makes no effort It doesn't take much to look a million dollars I like a well dressed men ... nice shoes Clean & to smell Delicious I Myself make an effort to dress well for me a Dress, matching bra & panties & quality shoes a little make up & accessories to Match ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
....when I wake up next to a woman whose face has been left smeared all over the pillows and sheets, I've thought about using the nylons and suspenders to hang myself in the bathroom. I'm typing with one hand so can't really afford to chew another arm off and sneak out the door.Just be the best possible you that suits...always carry an overnight bag.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wear blue demin jeans, black T shirt and work boots. Why? Because that is who I am. I want the lady I am meeting to be herself also. I have told a story before on another thread about a lady who I was spending time with.. I rang her up just before her birthday and asked what she had planned. She said.. I was going to invite my friends up to my place, but, none of them wear jeans.. and I am not sure how they will view you. I solved that problem for her straight away. and havent seen or heard from her since :) There is the other side of a story too I guess. And I have been told this is selfiish. I work in industries where there are women - Yes! even in construction, AND in mining. I had a lady who would wear nothing except trackies at home.. not well tailored ones either. Now, I went to work, and only saw women well dressed and well presented. The only time I got to see my lady dressed was the time she was getting ready for work, and this wasnt often, as I always left home when she was still in bed. So, I would be home, she would come in.. dressed from work..and I would want to enjoy this moment.. "No! I feel grotty.. I need to change" (NOT SHOWER AND CHANGE) Then she would come out in daggy trackies with a flanno shirt, and her hair in a rough pony tail.. Therefore, the ONLY well dressed and well presented women I got to see.. like EVER.. was those I encountered at work, and in the shops, and shopping centres, or where ever I went. Even getting her to go out to dinner was one hell of a chore. WHY did i often think of the presented women I saw daily elsewhere.. and who sometimes even flirted with me? Ok, I understand some of you may take the fact I wear jeans and T shirts out - But, they are Levi jeans, clean, folded properly. My T shirts, whilst black, are clean, folded well and of good quality. My work boots, are a new spare pair that I don't wear to work. My hair is clean and brushed - as is my beard. When I got in from work.. the first thing I would do was shower, and groom, clean the teeth, gargle and try to make this old caveman as presentable for her as possible. Was it too harsh for me to want, or expect the same? *shrugs* Not that it really matters I guess.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Do what needs to be done to keep things fun... upon your wildest fantasy and craving for the day ! we are not promised tomoro so as a brand new second is born so is the will to change -
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have worn makeup exactly once in the past 12 months so I wont wear it to meet a man. Ditto high heels. I do shower, make sure my hair is good, brush my teeth, wear deoderant and clean, tidy clothes. This is me guys. Like it or find someone else. I am not about to give anyone a false impression. I am who I am and if they are looking for Barbie...then they may have to move on. So far, no one has said "Oh I am sorry, this will Not work because you are not dressed to the nines, no makeup? See ya later" In fact the opposite has occured and men reaslly do not like the taste of lippy anyway. .
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love to dress up and look my best, but it seems rather over the top to wear a party dress when you're just having a quick drink in the evening. So what I do is I dress up, then when I turn up, say I just came from a party/am going to a party afterwards
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you have taken the time to get to know me and are giong to meet me. I will dress to impress. It is in my nature. You efforts will not go unnoticed or unappreciated. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Because I like to, it's not about what they want, that's the kind of woman I am;) nails, toes, wax, hair, always lingerie, look appropriately classy/sexy. I'm not an in your face type whore style dresser (well not in public). Though the other morning at 6am when I had an urgent need at my hotel , I had to race down in my bath robe to let said visitor up to my floor, naked underneath of course;) *cringe* Minxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have what has often been described as a split personality. I love love love my heels and sexy dresses, a hint of cleavage, nice makeup, long soft wavy hair, and cheeky smile. But I also love jeans, sandals and a singlet. And even more so, I love my cut off shorts and bikini tops, with bare feet, no make up. The second and third option are my comfort zone so while I like to dress sexy I'm much more likely to meet a man in jeans, given a chance. Nicely made up, yes, but not OTT - there's no point pretending I'm someone I'm not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
may I suggest,style a la Cavey.You cant go wrong with jeans ,white or black T,and boots Make sure that everything is the very best that you can afford.Add a beautiful jacket for winter, oh and a plain cashmere jumper...ladies will not be able to take their hands off you if you wear that...just the thought of it makes my fingers tingle.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The way you describe jeans, a tshirt, boots, jacket, sweater - I'm weak at the knees.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks everyone for your comments. I would definitely make sure I look nice :) plus I love doing my hair and make up x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dress with style, add a little make up to highlight your best features and you can't go wrong.... and oh chin up and tits out helps "Dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman" (Gabriel Chanel)
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RHP User
13 years ago
one of the things i like most about my wife, is that she doesnt leave the house without her hair done, her makeup applied, and her nails freshly seen to....she dresses impeccably regardless of where it is we are off to, and always leaves the best of impressions....so much so that she has me now doing the same...i wont head out without shaving, dressing in clean, ironed clothes....and wearing cologne and proper shoes..cant say i've always been so 'civilised', but can say that i absolutely love it...
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RHP User
13 years ago
And it's a must to dress up according to the place and time of day...Other wise why it took you 30 minutes or more to show up :p. And of course I am doing the same. Well if it is for coffee before noon then I will come with smart-casual look. It will be totally different for lunch or any other occasion. And of course I am also late to my dates :P. And yes for the first couple of minutes my eyes will work like scanner and they will focus on details... Is it bad to tell the truth ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's not like you are going outside to wash the car and feed the dog? So don't turn up looking like you just did! Making an effort speaks volumes about your own self respect and for your prospective date. Choosing something that looks smoking hot on you in a fabric that feels beautiful to wear is the way to go. To me, getting ready is all part of the process!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I myself love to dress up sexy,i expect the people i meet to be tidy,not in thongs,shorts and singlets,un shaved,Big turn off
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RHP User
13 years ago
you have STYLE,then you are always dressed for passion,it's not what you wear,it's how you wear it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The scene (to us anyway) is about dressing up/trying new things/meeting new friends/learning/laughing and even some hot sex. If you dont make an effort...nothing gets better :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' you have STYLE,then you are always dressed for passion,it's not what you wear,it's how you wear it. That's such a sexy statement!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Granted it can come down to the situation and social setting but if you ask the question, "would I fuck me?" before you walk out the door and the answer isn't a resounding "yes!" then go back and do something about it...
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RHP User
13 years ago
High Heels r a must! Not just any old high heels either, they have to be classy & sexy! Dressing up and the occaisional role play to go with the outfit is a whole lot of fun! When your partner dresses up for you, she usually is doing it so she feels sexy to and it amps up the arousel level for both! My gorgeous girl could wear a sack and put a pair of heels on and she would look great! Sexy high heels accentuate the female body and look classy but while they look great on when we're playing in bed, we have gone thru a couple of sheet sets lately and I've managed to get a few scrapes and bruises from my wifes evergrowing great collection! It's a small price to pay and wouldn't have it any other way! Dress ups for us everytime we play! J & S
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RHP User
13 years ago
It doesnt hurt anyone to show some self worth , Appearence is good , but maybe not for all , im all for dressing up :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Truthfully, I'd feel a little disappointed if I went to meet someone and our intentions were clear but they put on their sunday morning pyjamas. Dressing sexy is a huge turn on for a man, so I usually ask if they'd like to wear something.I do ask if there's any way they'd like me to dress, only fair. Short answer: yes. Why meet someone for sex and dress like your nan?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love dressing up no matter the occasion. I dress appropriately to meet & exceed corporate standards at work; I dress appropriately for the beach and leisure; I dress appropriately for potential sexual encounters (depending upon where we are meeting). I am a sensual and creative soul; how I dress is important to me, as I enjoy dressing to artistically reflect and enhance the current situation. Ultimately though, everyone should adorn themselves as they are most comfortable; as it is this ‘comfort’ that supports true ‘character’. Disclaimer: This should always include a high level of personal hygiene. I believe people should dress according to what suits them and their beliefs, not a potential playmate.
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JessicaRabbit
13 years ago
But i love getting dressed up for a meet. If its casual, like lunch, ill still throw on some sexy lingerie underneath. I've even worn a corset with stockings under jeans and a casual shirt to a first meet before and he was none the wiser. But i knew, which makes me feel more confident and sexy. Dida Xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you are going to a cocktail ball then hell yeah. If it's just dinner etc tidy casual. Dress how you wish to be portrayed. Over do it and we may just think you will be high maintenance. Underdress and we may think you are poor and the 'ol gold digger alarm bells ring. Too underdressed and we may think you are homeless
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