EVER BEEN SPRUNG

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  But the word did get out somewhat that I had the snip (for last relationship, no kids), which went down like a lead balloon... But I'm thankful I'm a male, as women tend to get judged much more harshly than we do, and gossip can kill what were long-lasting friendships, not to mention the possibility of affecting their job. As for couples and their children, depends how conservative/educated the children are. By the time they're capable of understanding certain activities, they might be up to other types of casual mischief themselves. But all this does make me think of at least having an anonymous profile pic sometimes...

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  To cut a long story short, following my phone with rhp app on being stolen whilst supervising a teenage party someone decided to print out my whole profile and forum comments which was then posted which teenage daughters opened. Despite being young adults its not something they are mature enough to be able to coprehend or cope with. Weeks later they still won't talk to me. I am sure adult friends would view it more maturely but my advice would be keep it from your kids at all cost, regardless of age. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Hottie1

  11 years ago

  We have two children, a 15 year old girl and an 18 year old son. My daughter and I shared the same iMessage account and it wasn't a problem till we started swinging. She had received messages from a playmate who described in detail what he was going to do to me. She was very mature when she told me about the messages. A couple of weeks later she asked 'are you swingers?' I said yes and asked her if she had questions, NO she didn't have questions ! 😁 Our son on the other hand overheard a conversation and told his dad (hubby) that I was cheating. Hubby quickly pointed out that I wasnt, but it caused a small rift in my relationship with my son. I forced the issue and had a conversation with him to provide the opportunity for him to ask questions. In the end , we have challenged his notion of monogamy, but I talk a lot about being monogomously in love with his dad but that we share ourselves with other people. He struggles with the idea but we don't talk about it daily, if he has questions he can ask me. He at least no longer asks 'where are you going?' 😎 They don't need explicit details but we are really open parents and they can talk to us about anything. I tell them to have such open minded parents like us means we also approach many things in our lives in a non-traditional open minded way. All the best Mary xx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Always very careful to keep my private life exactly that. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  LifeUnscripted

  11 years ago

  But not by our kids thankfully. Unfortunately all of my siblings either know or suspect. I (Mr LifeUnscripted) am the eldest of nine kids. I have 4 sisters and 4 brothers. One of my sisters was visiting us and apparently saw something on my computer. She went home and told the rest of the siblings. Fast forward to a little while later when three of my brothers and I went to Vegas for a weekend, and while we were there they flat out asked me, and told me about the suspicions. I told them that we were swingers, I guess I was pretty drunk at that time. As far as I know they haven't confirmed it to the rest of my siblings. They are all cool with it...one of them is fine with it but doesn't really understand, and another is jealous as hell, lol. Honestly at this point I don't care too much of it is confirmed to the rest of the siblings, since out of 9 of us we are by far the ones with the best marriage. Let them chew on that. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Must be something with 15yr old girls Mary :) my daughter asked if all my new friends were 'swingers' Just like that...boom...no lead up, no covert questioning, nothing...and then added 'it's ok mum, they make you happy and you should be happy. I know YOU don't do anything' hahaha bless her, acceptance with self preservation. My question is 'how the heck does she know what swingers are???'

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