M45
Email etiquette
April 05 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
hello baby boy, I would have thought you would be inundated with "Yes Oh God yesssssssssssssssssssssss"If they fit my criteria and the message is more than hello my number is ..... I answerPoints to me The rest though get read, I roll my eyes and press deleteDev
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RHP User
16 years ago
i get what your saying flirtatious, i try to reply to all my mail even the wonderful *wanna fuck* ones that i get hehe gives me a chance to be rude back lol but some people iv heard just get way too much mail to reply to everybody so maybe thats why your not getting anything back you need to pick uglier women from tassie *hint hint* hehehe roxxy xxx oh and can i say...Flirtatious, you are far from horrible looking
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RHP User
16 years ago
I reckon there are heaps of really really good looking guys on this site saying the same thiong. :p What's with all these women who need to have a good hard look at themselves... I mean.. you wouldn't normally give them the time of day but you know.. in teh interest of community spirit a guy tries to be nice and what do you get in reply??.... nothing. fffftt. How about a little common courtesy. :p Hugs stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
The crude messages I won't reply to....I am the same..I just roll my eyes ..block and delete.. Never ceases to amaze me how many guys offer their phone numbers on their first mail..Worst still if they live in another state! seriously....they really think their 6 pack body is going to make me waste my time and money calling them?..I think not! ....DEERRRRRR BOYS! We girls just sometimes get tired of all the lack of respect.... Give respect and you will get respect in return. Huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks guys and gals for your valued input I guess patience really is a virtue :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
the only ones i dont reply too are the ones that in the first sentence say "do u swallow?" and can i cum all over your face! i delete those, and if they insist, block them. have also been offered money, too which i responded with if you want too part with cash, go too whore house. Flirtacious, i WOULD respond nicely too you xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
i love the rude and crude ones...thats when i get nasty hehehe men dont like to be abused for being dumbarses...its fun lol there you go flirtacious...thats 4 ladies so far that will msg back lol roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol..I got a good one for ya! His message to me...Can you message a tranny for me as she and I are guest members ( This guy lives in Bunbury and I dont know him). My message to him....No way! I paid for my privi to message people so can you..How rude!. His message to me....You rude slut! my message to him.....No sweety you are the rude one and only lowering yourself abusing others..All the best. hehe...He never messaged back. I WIN! lolz sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
@ sweet petite sweet...1 morons...0 beautiful lol roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Is it really that difficult to reply to an message sent?? Probably not but again who gives a fuck if they don’t reply ... Shit no skin of my nose. As for the flirts .. well maybe they can be overlooked but hey don’t get too worried about it all would be my advice most of them are just time wasters anyway ( oh no I will pay for that!!) That’s me done
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RHP User
16 years ago
How boring are those losers ! why do they waste their time ? Anyone want a root out there !! See thats the way you sell it !! Lets start a want a root campaign..If the subject line says Wanna Root then read further at own risk..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its hard to concentrate let alone respond to an email when your ovaries are pulsating and theres drool dripping from your gaping gash...aka mouth! Took me twenty minutes to compose myself long enough to pen this reply....and Ive got pegs on my nipples to keep me focused!!! You could at least help matters by removing your pic...which BTW..I've not seen in my box...TYVM! Sheesh!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Its hard to concentrate let alone respond to an email when your ovaries are pulsating and theres drool dripping from your gaping gash...aka mouth! Took me twenty minutes to compose myself long enough to pen this reply....and Ive got pegs on my nipples to keep me focused!!! You could at least help matters by removing your pic...which BTW..I've not seen in my box...TYVM! Sheesh!!!! OMG - you are hilarious!! I looked in my box and he wasn't there either :(
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RHP User
16 years ago
too young for you...just the right age for me lol but your right its very hard concentrating when he is looking at you like that...with those eyes and that smile and that cute little nose and the dimples and the....... hang on a tic...what was i talking about...doh roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
What am I going to do Roxxy??.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
They're....dammit... uhoh...me finks da lack of sexi bisness is ahfekting my abilatee to spell agin..HALP!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just as a matter of interest - I ask one of the charming young men who sent me a note asking "Wanna root call me on 04xx xxx xxx" how oftern that actually works.He says he gets a postivie response from one in 10 emails. Particularly at 3am on a Friday or Saturday night.Oh he also reckons he has a donkey dick - shame it was on his head. Meeka
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Its hard to concentrate let alone respond to an email when your ovaries are pulsating and theres drool dripping from your gaping gash...aka mouth! Took me twenty minutes to compose myself long enough to pen this reply....and Ive got pegs on my nipples to keep me focused!!! You could at least help matters by removing your pic...which BTW..I've not seen in my box...TYVM! Sheesh!!!! Absolutely agree - message me I would absolutely reply, even if you are out of my age range.........and geographically remote.....I'd still reply. Too cute to ignore
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips'What am I going to do Roxxy??..... dont they keep telling us age is just a number???? maybe they are right...go for it myname, the man is perfection hehehe roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I tell you what, you lovely ladies definately know how to raise a man's spirits :-) Have had a crap week, then I jump on here and bam!!! I have all these lovely and very lively comments, hehehe special thanks must be given to 'myname' for her vivid message of course. I will get right on to sending the ladies who have been kind enough to offer advice a message regardless of destination, age and/or interest, just bare with me. On a final note, if you thnk the dimples and smile are cute you should have seen th while I was reading the replies in here :-p
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RHP User
16 years ago
yes roxy, age is just a number,, when a guy is as hot as that gorgeous speciman is, numbers go out the window. so do morals! oooops.... i never had morals too begin with! pmsl. flirtacious, come too melbourne, come too mama, i will take care of you huni child xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
you have a very good point there...i am now a firm believer, that age is just a number....after seeing this hotties pics if i come to melbourne too...can we share????.... roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
well, i am greedy, and normally wouldnt share, but as i read your profile, and like what i read bout you, im sure we would be friends, so yes, i will share. hope he has his weeties, he will need the energy! lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
...but I so agree. However if you are right and they are inundated with messages perhaps it might be a little difficult. What I am saying is perhaps you need to cut them some slack, just in case it is not their intention to be rude. ...but if they are intentionally being rude...best you move on anyway. Generally I have found some genuine sorts here, who really are trying to make their way in this world, and preferably not alone. After all who wants to be alone ? Best advice I can give you is don't give up, whatever you do just don't give up. Not ever. David
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RHP User
16 years ago
I see we have a pic now roxy. If thats not a come to bed look in your eyes then ive never seen one. Very nice with a touch of evil. Would you like a touch of evil?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I generally send something back even when someone is not interested allthough I rarely get any in return but when I do it is allways appreciated. The word is Courtesy and it really does go along way.
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RHP User
16 years ago
mmmmm scottishflower thank you for sharing.....he will need more than weeties im thinking im looking at you boy....id like more than a touch of evil.... mwahhhh roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sheesh. Go for it guys. Flirtatious don't waste your precious time on the rude and immature. If they can't respond with courtesy and respect on site then how will they behave face to face.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Only thing stopping me is Bass strait, cant swim that far. Can you swim thta far Roxy?
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RHP User
16 years ago
get on a damn plane....and you do domina says.....get us a room evilboy before she takes her whip to you roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
But i do luv a good whipping every now and then. have been with a woman like dominat a couple of times. Will try to get to tassie one day soon. Will i have to pretend to be related?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I guess everyone has different strategies. Personally I don't want to start writing out an email to someone who basically would never be interested in me anyway, and from that not even bother replying to me. And by the way, I'm never rude in an email as I feel its a first step so always respectful. Guys that are rude just have no idea, and are even too desperate for the callouses on their own hands! So I stick with the offering a flirt method instead, and if someone responds to it then obviously their keen and I'm not wasting my time in actually writing out an email. But is this a tried and tested way that works successfully? Who knows? I guess some of you girls could shed some light on what you feel is most affective, must be annoying for you all to have to trawl through numerous pointless flirts and emails day after day. Whilst us guys blow the cobwebs off and tap the side of the computer to see if the flirts and inbox are still actually operational LOLAnyway, that's my little addition....keep heart mate, you're so not on your own here :) lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
... any sort of reply would be good, i gave up bein a member, lost count of the number of messages i sent .. got very few replies .... Have fun Everyone!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I try to respond to all messages ..... but by the 10th "do ya wanna fuck" i am kinda over it. And over the 50+ ones also .... how about u read my profile ... i like younger guys . But still i try and respond ... cos well ... it is just manners ..... and i find it hard to be rude ... and you never know .. you just might get suprised sometimes.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'evilboy71'But i do luv a good whipping every now and then. have been with a woman like dominat a couple of times. Will try to get to tassie one day soon. Will i have to pretend to be related? ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha (roxxy quoting Earl) you damn funny boy...id prefer it if you werent related lol.....but you dont mind my two heads do you???? well i hope you make it damn soon its not nice to keep a lady waiting roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am quite selective.....I only send messages to girls who I think will be genuinely interested in what I have to offer......first step is to simply make contact, I am not going to write a long essay about my life story at the first contact.....it is short but polite, and simply prompts her to have a look at my profile to see if we should be communicating....as a result I have a good strike rate of replies.... However, there are 2 instances of non-replies that really bug me....the first is when I get sent a flirt and reply with a message, and then never hear from her again...the second is when contact is made, a few messages are exchanged, and then she simply disappears....granted it is usually after I show my pics - I am not unattractive but I am well aware that everyone has different tastes, so if I am not to hers I think she should have the courtesy to say so, I'm not going to be offended...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it is important to spend as much effort answering messages as the sender spent writing them.So when I get a message from a guy saying 'luvd ya profile wanna fuk' I always reply with 'If you really loved it you would have read it, in which case you'd know why you're now blocked.'Harsh, but fair.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Two heads roxy, i will be able to call that a threesome, even if it is on a technicality. A lady? Would a lady do all the things we would like to do? xxx evilboy (now with 50%more evilness in the same pack)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with you in a way but i refuse to reply to some mail specifically single male profiles saying they want us seeing as our profile doesnt say we want men so they have basically sent us a msg to be (A) blocked/told no not in hell/ur dreaming etc lol (B) to get ignored... yes there is no reason for ignoring msgs unless u got nothing nice to say (but im a bitch so i say it any ways well sometimes) specially when u can make a template for ppl u dont want to talk to all u gotta do is tick the box & send the template or reply & select it & done simple n easy but hey ppl are lazy :P sxclil :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it is rude not to reply to messages but I also get a lot of messages from guys way outside my profile and when I tell them they are too young they refuse to believe me and keep messaging. So I reply to the first one and say thanks but no thanks but if they persist I ignore them. I also get messages from older guys but usually just say thanks (dont mention the age thing dont want to be rude). they at least dont persist. Am I just too nice? (can be naughty sometimes) maybe but I think manners are free so why not use them.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You're hot hot hot! Why would you care baout the ones who dont reply :) i'm sure you get plenty that doI dont even have a pic and i received nearly a 1000 messages and flirts in the first 3 weeks, its literally impossible to reply to all and just so you know sometime guys message me who i am attracted to and i see they have messaged me before and ii dont recall seeing it so its not always about us being rude its just that guys have more time to message :) YOu stay golden :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
The lady is waiting with a whip in hand. What more could you want. And by the way Evil, you have never been with anyone like me!
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RHP User
16 years ago
we are a couple - who are about to break the 40 barrier yet look (in our opinion that is) 35 - however we do respect age requests, and have a good laugh at those who "claim to be our age" yet are weathered around 45 - 50 - I think the trick here is to be 100% honest - and we only get 1 flirt a week - so be it we will find the right couple or lady out there ... anyone want to dance with the devil.... he he ......
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'evilboy71' Two heads roxy, i will be able to call that a threesome, even if it is on a technicality. A lady? Would a lady do all the things we would like to do? xxx evilboy (now with 50%more evilness in the same pack) domina says hurry...so move it...do what the lady says you dont know the half of i want to do to you..... bring on the evil xxx roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
at my sent folder, there is a staggering amount of flirts and messages that haven't even been opened... Explains lack of replies to me. :P What's up with that?
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RHP User
16 years ago
We must admit that it is quite disheartening when you take the time to read someone's profile, figure out that you apparently fit their criteria, send a polite message, nothing graphic, and then get no reply.We have taken to sending a flirt first saying - "If I send you a message, would you reply?" And surprisingly, we still get no replies. Can't for the life of me figure this out..... I admit, my beautiful lady and I are not looking for a lifetime of sexual exchanges, we are just looking for a woman who can fulfill a couple of fantasies.... nothing painful or unusual.Does the fact that we have a large age gap in our own relationship put ladies off? ZM is 25 and I am 37.... I am MJT. Can someone help with a bit of an explanation? Please? We are at our wits end....And also, while I am asking... what is the usual progression? We are new to this, and are unsure of the standard guidelines, if there are any...Thanks,ZM & MJT.
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RHP User
16 years ago
*sigh*Okay, in a nutshell, I agree with Flirt up the top there... We send messages, they get read, and no reply... not even a sorry not what I am looking for. Feel free to have a look at our profile and let us know if we have done anything wrong.... but we think we are okay? Maybe.. lolZ & M.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Have a scout around other couples sites ie sweetiepies you'll find them on forums. I know that you are just starting to experiment but your profile needs more zing in it. The bi women here on this site mainly looking for women only are mostly the hottest here (damn sometimes I wish I was a chick)so they are likeley to be very choosey. Fab
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RHP User
16 years ago
1) Hi sweetheart, Im am so shamelessly transfixed by you. I have been trying to get noticed by you for so long now that the emptiness has my abs twisted. If i watch the screen with your beautiful profile shaded like a steamy bathroom too much longer im gonna overheat and perspire pure holy water cos i have been blessed by an angel. That angel... is YOU! kiss me. forever in debt. pedro Or 2) HI I think you are cute Would love to chat i think we would get along sweet. Vote 1 Pedro Or3) Hi I would love to ride your unbriddled passion and emotion that you have shown in the forums cos not only are you cute but funny honest shameless and FresH baby. Come git it You know who Multi choice answers are so much fun. Safe Choice now!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I hardly send flirts now, most women won't read them and to be honest, the actual flirts are pretty damn lame anyway.But messages, now that is a different story. I sent three types of messages. The first is to someone I would actually like to meet, I read her profile, take note if I meet the criteria (and she meets mine), send off a polite short message - response rate about 20%. The next type is when I spot a profile that catches my eye, but I don't fit the criteria. But there is something in the profile (no not just pics), that has caught my eye so I send of a short polite (yep there is that word again) message congratulating them on their profile. Surprisingly, I DON'T expect a reply back but normally get one, simply because I state I know I don't fit the criteria etc. Some of these have since developed into quite a nice cyber friendship.The last is simply a result of the forums, quite often I will dash of a message to someone who has commented something nice about a forum post of mine etc. I always get a reply here, even received quite a few messages.So maybe if you want to get noticed, post a lot in the forums, I was surprised at the reaction I have got here.As for the ' Hi I'm Mooka, do you want to fuck' messages, never sent one. To be honest, the type of woman who would appreciate a message like that isn't one I would want to meet anyway!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wise words... :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
the first email i ever sent...but it is SOOOOOOOOOOo embarrassing, that i think i will just keep it to myself...lolyep, i've been guilty of sending crass emails, not as crass as some mentioned above...well, i don't think i have...now, i tend to email only people who i see in the forums...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Can someone build a temporary gender/swap machine??......I'd love to be a chick for a week !! I'd love to have the burdon of 1000 interested people in 3 weeks..... and I'd love my counterpart to; A) Feel the joy of owning your very own fully functioning, multi pulsating, override switch enabled - Penis and B) The frustration of an unrequited message/flirt (RHP should install a generic "No"... or "Fuck off" reply button. Yeah, I'm gonna be crushed....but with a smile on my face ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
but then i get no where near 1000 interested people in 3 weeks....damn it but hey id take your penis for the day....id love it...id play with it all day id do alsorts of weird and wonderful things to it....id be in heaven it would be warn out by the time you got it back though...hope thats ok???? roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bendeko,was that supposed to be a pick up line for me or advice on getting replies :-) it really could go either way haha guys and gals, the support and advice coming through is great and to answer a few peoples thoughts, no I generally don't have trouble getting noticed etc... I have a 33% hit rate for my messages which I believe is good especially given the amount of fake profiles that are out there. Most can be picked however. I guess I'm just old school, I used to be into letter writing and so I expect a reply whether it be a good or bad response : it's just polite. As for mail that doesn't get opened, I always think that they're your standard bots or fake profiles that are on the sites. Take care all
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