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Expectations
June 24 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for your opinion, one sided as it is.
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RHP User
9 years ago
are entitled to their preferences and opinions. Haven't you ever shared an opinion with someone about others? I would assume those opinions are shared privately and should remain that way?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Like most things in life, unless we see or hear things with our own ears and eyes, be very sceptical about information and their sources. I'm sorry OP, but your topic is attacking and belittling in my opinion. We don't know the context of the discussion, other interspersing conversations etc. At the end of the day there is little to distinguish implicature and inference in information sharing . . I'm not going to cast aspersions .... I don't have the whole picture.... how can I possibly have an informed opinion on the matter. I'd say most of us are in that position on this particular issue. Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
A few comments in the past have implied that women on here have been called old or fat . ( myself included ) Im talking about men who dont deem it necessary to find out what a person is like beneath the skin. They belittle people who in their eyes arent perfect. So not an attack...just saying that I wouldnt waste my time with these guys. The nice guys far outweigh the shallow ones on RHP.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have found just as many woman to this as guys. Not good to be on the end of a nasty comment, no matter what sex you are - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Referencing the original post..no one was disrespectful to anyone. It was, as your title suggests...about people's expectations or assumptions PRIOR to, and then attending a meet and greet, or maybe even a first meeting with someone. This can't be all about the guys...because women do it too. I said it myself, and some agreed or commented similarly. I didn't know what to expect.. but the hotness of RHP's advertised pics of people supposedly on rhp, plus the gorgeous profile pics in abundance did have me a little intimidated to be honest. Having said that...I am so glad I stepped out of my comfort zone and attended my first m&g in Melbourne inFeb this year, and a second one in Bris this month. I may just become one of those jet-setters criss-crossing the country for every m&g in the future!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
9 years ago
There were two men who was disrespectful to other women at a meet. They described most of the women at the meet in a very distasteful manner that revolted me. I refused to see them again. Most men I have decided to meet on Rhp are very nice and respectful. My fwbs are gorgeous men. Physically and socially. The odd one or two does not ruin it for the rest of the lovely men out there. I'm sure disrespect goes both ways. it is not gender based but the individual, male or female, who make assumptions, set expectations and cast judgements when their expectations were met or not met. We can't help that. Those are their preferences. We just don't have to include them in our lives and more on.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I too have encountered many women who behave in much the same manner when the single guys at a club or party aren't up to their "standards" although many of these women have an extremely over-inflated ego pumped up by the man/woman ratio on rhp. It goes both ways. Thing is many of these women get a pass due to the fact the men don't want to be thrown to the wolves when the ladies of rhp get togethe so they take it on the chin and move on. I distinctly recall one lady (part of a couple) at a party, despite being far from a million dollar painting herself, telling a friend she could do so much better than her current partner while within earshot of a number of people, along with a few other disparaging remarks. Said woman is a habitual offender, and there are many others like her within the scene, male and female.
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RHP User
9 years ago
... are men singled out? Woman do it as well. I have witnessed it at many of the meet and greets I use to help organise. I have even been talked about behind my back. Do I care..... nope. Those men AND woman are as shallow as the ones you speak of. No difference to me at all.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
That there have been posts about guys on here being disrespectful....even to the point of calling them abusive names....but suddenly its a sin to talk about them. Im talking about the small minority that we have all encountered. The women Ive met and befriended off RHP have all been amazing ladies so guys who make references to appearance are not worth the time of day. In my personal opinion.
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precious142
9 years ago
I have been on this and other adult sites, I have learnt to expect the unexpected......with some wonderful results..... As they say.........Never (ever) judge a book....... P
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RHP User
9 years ago
Let's just say one of these "amazing" ladies you mentioned is the habitual offender I've mentioned in my post so it goes to show it is all about perception.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, you are right. And thats very rude to blow her own trumpet within earshot of her man. Although I was talking about the guys, I do remember one lady in the chat room bemoaning the fact that all the guys who messaged her were "fuglies" and she was getting really fed up with it!!!! Meander, Im guilty of using the "best angle" photos that were on my single profile, I think most of us do, because if I put a pic up of me on a Sunday morning in the old dressing gown with my belly hanging out then I wouldnt be expecting any flirts/messages. My one sided opinion is.....sometimes, good looking people can be ugly and average looking people can be absolutely beautiful. Ive never went on looks alone and gladly, the guys I met didnt either.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
These forums & rhp chatrooms, and social networking sites like FaceBook, are full of people not only with different and varied opinions, but also with differing expectations. It's the nature of the beast, especially when "sex" is thrown into the mix, that there will be clashes of personalities. The result is clearly evident in the many arguments, bunfights, mud slinging and general bandwagoning sessions that follow. We all have different likes & dislikes. We are all hoping for something on here . Some are after "pretty" or "beautiful" people - and of course beauty for one person might not be beautiful for another. For others personality is more important. Some expect, and often demand, that because this is a sex site, and they are members on here, that they are guaranteed to get sex. They have the same attitude of entitlement / expectation, when they go to a swingers club. They pay $100 to get in and expect to get laid for that . It's best to not have expectations at all. If we go to a party, we simply go to enjoy ourselves, have a glass of bubblies and socialise. If we meet someone nice then great . If not , we have a good time regardless. If you have high expectations you are only setting yourselves up for disappointment :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
i am staying out.....
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3SM_Events
9 years ago
Sorry but in my original post the woman in question wasn't belittling her man but my friends, telling her she could do much better than him. She regularly blows her own trumpet but she's not alone there.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Really? I am surprised. But then, I dont often go to parties. Sometimes, when people get a lot of attention on here, it seems to go to their heads. Both men and women. It seems that some people have a different "Online" persona. Whatever, only looking for perfect people is kind of pointless.
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RHP User
9 years ago
out of this
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RHP User
9 years ago
From profiles I've seen (lots more women's and couple's than men's) on here, on which one's are 'most picky' on expectations of meeting a physical standard Couple's profiles, it seems every second one is 'we take care of otherselves' / 'consider ourselves attractive' and then the 'we expect the same'. The 'worst' offenders for 'if you aren't good enough looking, you aren't good enough' by the length of the Flemington Straight. Women's not so many, but still a lot more then men's one's. Maybe those who turn up to meets & greets are different, I haven't been to one, but men are the least '8 or GAGF' type standards here (guys big flaws here are the one of the dicks messaging anything and everything with crude come on's, as long as there's tits and a VJJ involved).
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RHP User
9 years ago
Chicken - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'mango69er' Chicken - Posted from rhpmobile Just smart.
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