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Face Pics
April 13 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
No I won't and don't met without a Piccy the old excuse is oh I don't know how to upload photos ... Well if you can be on RHP and can find your way around this site I bet ya that peeps can download a photo of there face. just my thoughts ,there loss as there the ones missing out on all the fun with us AnnieWhichway you can pop that pretty face on on our laps Ms
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RHP User
10 years ago
As soon as they say "I cant upload pics but Ill email or text you some" thats it. You can always upload pics on RHP, easy peasy. Too well known? Dont make me laugh. We are on RHP for the same reason ultimately, to meet new people and have great sex. Anyone who thinks they are famous on here are delusional. Its easy to upload pics in your private gallery, no matter how high profile your job is. No pics on request, no meet. I gather its a kind of fetish for some people, the sex with a stranger thing, but not for me xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find face pics often quite deceptive so I prefer none 😘Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a lot more functional than the tag system. http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Search.aspx There's an advanced google search function Blindman shared a while ago, with the right url you can use it to search RHP forums quite extensively. ;-) Message me if you'd like the link or use the above url to search Blindman's posts yourself. I met people without a face pic reasonably often, our first meet before RHP being through the newspaper. I never even thought about it at the time. It was worth it. But since then, I also met people for meets and through the forums without a face pic. I know that's not necessarily quite where you're going with it, but I thought it was relevant in the world of face pics, security wise. Most of the time, I was with the Mr though, so the risk was not the same for us as it would be for singles. On the other hand, there were some people with pics we said no to that we thought differently about later. So yes, I/we would meet someone without face pics. Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've fallen for their excuses and met without a picture. On both occasions I felt no attraction and left as soon as it was polite. Neither were unattractive it's just that there was nothing that was attractive to me. Now I won't meet without a face pic on here first.
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
If we are contacted by a couple, we will at some point in time, as for recent face photos of them BOTH, together in the same photo. We make it clear that we will do the same in return. We have found that 9 times out of 10, they either come up with an excuse as to why they cannot get a photo together, or simply vanish into cyberspace as quickly as they appeared, nevervto be heard of again. Excuses are along the lines of. Mrs is ill. Mrs is away on business. Our camera is in for repairs. Our kids are sick. We are very busy at work ......Mrs has given Mr permission to play alone .... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
... my face pics, which are in private gallery. But I don't like to be pushy about seeing others' pics. And, boy, do I take terrible photos. Cameras hate me. Apparently it's not so terrible in person though. Lol! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
And I'm fascinated by faces - you don't need to be a Calvin Klein model, but I find faces interesting. And I want to know who I'm meeting. No face - no meet.I nearly got caught up with someone early on. He did load two face pics just so I could see them, I opened them to see they were face pics but didn't really look thinking I would look properly later - covert op while daughter was hanging around. Anyway straight after that he deleted them and wouldn't load them again. Very sensitive job, has to be very private for that reason - the way he explained his job - it was like he was a member of the secret service. I loved our chatting and then got stood up twice.My kik dings every now and then alerting me to one of his messages and I just delete. Not interested mate! Learnt from you though!
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RHP User
10 years ago
You forgot the budgie dying😇 Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
A picture which enables recognition for a public meeting is a must. Not negotiable.
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RHP User
10 years ago
A face pic is more important to me than a body pic.. I could meet without a body pic but not without a face pic . Excuses are the normal ones.. important job *eye roll* .. phone is broken.. camera is broken.. I'm at work .. I don't know how to upload them..
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Still meet without knowing what the other person looked like, which I call it a blind hookup! But no more silly doing after some unpleasant experiences, back in the day, where I feared for my safety! People can have whatever reasons they hold for not showing a face pic in their profiles and I respect that, truly! But they must also respect that I am way passed my young and dumb age for thrill seek 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I won't even talk to them without seeing not only their face, but all over pictures. I made a comment in another topic thread about 'jigsaw puzzle' pictures, meaning a chopped off picture of the face, chopped off right at the chin almost, the main pictures is a body shot, that type of thing, but they need to come together. I need to see the completed puzzle and I get them to do something else to verify. Otherwise, they could be anyone, and this chick is not interested
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john60
10 years ago
I met a lady once from another site. I had seen her pics and we arranged a date. When she arrived she looked nothing like her pics. I said to her " soooo is the lady in ya profile pics going to join us?" They were NOT her and eventually she admitted that they were a friend. She could not give me a reason for the deception.I really didn't understand, why put up pics of someone else and then still show up?? did she think I wouldn't notice?
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RHP User
10 years ago
With Summer and Soft. I also find faces interesting. I think you can tell a lot about a person from their face. I'm not looking for somebody who looks like a model....it can be something in their eyes or smile I find attractive. And yes their face is way more important to me than their physique.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Before a meet up as most people have said. Even better if the face pic ends up being from this current decade 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Would not meet without seeing a face pic first. I need to be attracted to someone's face to have sex with them - it's probably more important to me than what their body looks like - and I have no problem admitting that (even though according to some people that makes me shallow ). Plus if someone won't show a face pic I see it as a red flag so I use it as a screening tool as well.
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totallygenuine
10 years ago
Clear face pics are a must for me before any form of contact. 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
If RHP was hacked then my dick pics and smily face might be together .... and..... and..... I might get more dates or something? ///? good question but that's my main answer so far.
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RHP User
10 years ago
No pictures of both body and face then no meet.We all have expectations of physical attraction as well as mental, we share our pictures when required and expect others to do so as well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
A face pic on this site is good but ultimately you will only get the real face pic when meeting a person in person and even then the only info you get as in messaging is what the person is telling you How in the hell would you know who they really are unless you are going to see a drivers licence etc which even us would not show anyone ! Get the drift people ? Cyber world, cyber words, cyber photos Only face to face are you really going to see the real face or you could do a video chat ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' When a person's photos are obviously stolen and they insist with passion it's really them in the pics, and the all other websites must have stolen them. stop trying to shatter my belief in the number of porn stars that have tried to contact me. I saw this one woman on here with a bunch of watermarked pics - who else watermarks photos except websites. Obviously taken from elsewhere ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ladies that use watermarks... Isnt that code for "im a squirter?" ☔
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RHP User
10 years ago
In this day and age, many recruiters and HR Depts screen employment candidates quite thoroughly (and not only for high caliber corporate roles) by a variety of means. In the Defence Forces, personnel are vetted in attempt to ensure they are not susceptible to compromise/blackmail. Another reason people may be hesitant is where there are Family Law and Child Custody disputes. It is entirely possible one member of a separated/divorcing couple may seek means to undermine the other to gain advantage in proceedings. I am curious to know, would my own pic make me sufficiently recognisable, or unrecognisable if any of us were to cross paths somewhere?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not a chance. Years ago I made the mistake of meeting someone based off two far away photos of them wearing a hat and sunglasses (god knows why) - I literally walked past him then tried not to groan outwardly when he said my name and I turned around. Don't get me wrong it was a nice lunch and good conversation, but physically I felt zero attraction. If they're not willing to open a private gallery on here (no emails etc.) then i'm not interested. Miss Little xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me I want a face & body pic They don't have to be awesome pics just want to know what I am getting myself into. Yes I agree with Ontology unfortunately there is a need for some privacy whether it is married, work, divorce etc BUT no pics no meet & in most cases I wont trade any more mail. Its the physical as well as the mental attraction, so I need an engaging conversation not just a dick pic / tit or pussy pic...although the girls get a quicker thumbs up Pics for me torso & face (together) I am happy they come on email ...but no excuses and no "oh tomorrow" as everyone says a selfie takes but seconds and if its of you, then what excuse do you have ... no ones asking for your life story just a photo
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
You work for......ASIO. Reconise you anywhere. Should have had the sunnies on.......
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
was a single male who a few months back started the traditional "I'm not getting much action, what can i do re my profile". Many comments regarding his lack of photos apart from his body (sexy)shot and some cock pics. A short time later, he started hitting me up. Saying all the right stuff etc. Wanting to come to melb to hook up. Until i asked for a face shot. He went silent for few days. He then started again messaging. Again asked for pic. He opened his gallery with more cock shots. "Face pic?" End of convo. Never heard from him again. He's still on site (Annie waves....). Guess we will wait for his next moaning thread "no one wants to meet..." Some have no face pics........and not a clue how to get a fuck. Really. Would you go to a bar to pick up and think it would be a good idea to put a bag over your head?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I need to see face pics to know if I'm even attracted to the person or not. Otherwise, it can be a sheer waste of time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
And that's from someone who has no face pic. I have my reasons and I'm not about to explain why. You'll just have to get the claws out and give me a mouth full. But , and I say but , there's no way I could meet anyone without first seeing a face pic. I agree with everyone else in saying a face pic is a must ,and I'm most happy to send pics to anyone l feel is worthwhile, that works OK for me. So no big deal.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've simply offered a couple more of the myriad reasons people may be uncomfortable or wary of making identifiable and/or intimate photographs available for others to view via this media. I'm no wowser or prude, but I am acutely aware there are such people out there who do, for whatever their own petty, small minded, vindictive reasons derive satisfaction trolling, digging dirt, and engaging in salacious gossip and manipulation. The consequences can be enormously damaging. I should point out I am not leveling accusations at anyone here. In my own case, I am not uncomfortable in my own skin, I long ago finished my time in the Defence Forces. My marriage also ended long ago now. I've not long been on this site and I'm still checking out whether this is the thing for me. There have already been many photos of me in circulation in my younger days... It's been an adventure! One of the things about those days though was that you could only be called out by first hand witnesses (hearsay doesn't count) and even then, time would pass, memories would fade, photos would be put away somewhere (and they could not be remotely accessed or stolen) or the photos may have become misplaced (or destroyed). My point is, the future risk borne for the same actions now as then are no longer the same due to the capacity/capability unleashed by the proliferation of "Social Media" (which is broadly recognized as not always or necessarily being so very social, and material posted online never truly disappears as you all know). Therefore, for any and all the reasons anyone might offer, I think it's entirely valid for people to leap in boots first, or to hang back until they're more comfortable. It's up to each individual to figure out how to negotiate an acceptable means of engaging with people. The most important thing is to respect the decisions an individual makes. For one thing, I think this means not engaging in the sorts of nasty messages in reply to rejections (as I've heard about several times in these fora). (Once again, I am not having a dig at any particular individuals here...)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I need to see a face pic before I agree to meet, the person doesn't need to be model material (cause I'm not) but I like to see someone's eyes, not fussed about a body shot. If they give an excuse about not being able to upload one... Bye bye not interested. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Pics are bad! They build a story, and it's just an excuse to allow your imagination to run wild, imagining this and that. I've received pics, then met some of these guys in the real world, and having a real live, 'life like' conversation - it was like pulling a Cadillac up Mount Everest. In other words hard work! So pictures aren't the absolute be all and end all for me. Now, there was the story of this lady (no, it's not about The Brady Bunch) who a long, long time ago now - met a nice man, who didn't have face pics on his profile anywhere! The nice man chatted and chatted, and this lady just accidentally happened, to fall upon a happy snap of him in the 'real live' online world. The thing is though......the nice mans photo didn't look very 'nice' in the real world. The lady, dithered, thought, and thought, and almost cancelled the date that this man had asked her on because of this photo she'd found, that the nice man didn't know about. I must confess though, he was the first and only man that I have ever met who I just absolutely clicked with when I finally met him. And he - looked absolutely nothing like his photo. In real life he was rather handsome. (Actually there was one other man.... who fell into the same criteria - he's a separate story.) It's taught me a life lesson. Never judge a book by it's cover. But more than anything at least I now know what it is I'm looking for.....
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Grouse33
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' was a single male who a few months back started the traditional "I'm not getting much action, what can i do re my profile". I started one of those threads - I guess it's a rite of passage. I had a partial face pic, but have added more as a result of feedback. I guess there's a generic thread I'm supposed to start now about how I'm not getting enough attention EVEN THOUGH I'M SUCH A NICE GUY etc etc
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Scubasteve29' A face pic on this site is good but ultimately you will only get the real face pic when meeting a person in person and even then the only info you get as in messaging is what the person is telling you How in the hell would you know who they really are unless you are going to see a drivers licence etc which even us would not show anyone ! Get the drift people ? Cyber world, cyber words, cyber photos Only face to face are you really going to see the real face or you could do a video chat ? - Posted from rhpmobile I do my own verification, and you absolutely can know for sure. Not sharing on here though. But plenty of guys would know because of my requests. I don't trust anyone anymore, been done over too many times. I put the ball in their court, they can then make the choice. And no, I don't ask for their birth certificate lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I used to put more importance on the body, and to be honest, still look at that first, but I have come to realise how important the face is. No matter how good the body is, if I'm not attracted to the face, I can't get past that. And a smiling face, a happy person I'm looking at, I trust more. Way more appealing. Who wants a sad sack in the sack
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' In this day and age, many recruiters and HR Depts screen employment candidates quite thoroughly (and not only for high caliber corporate roles) by a variety of means. In the Defence Forces, personnel are vetted in attempt to ensure they are not susceptible to compromise/blackmail. Another reason people may be hesitant is where there are Family Law and Child Custody disputes. It is entirely possible one member of a separated/divorcing couple may seek means to undermine the other to gain advantage in proceedings. I am curious to know, would my own pic make me sufficiently recognisable, or unrecognisable if any of us were to cross paths somewhere? not unless we cross paths in jail. What gives with that last picture?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Nothing wrong with putting the self help threads up when the person is willing to listen and change. Too often the OP takes no notice of advice and just ploughs in in the same fashion using the thread as an advertisement. So well done for listening and trying. And good luck in here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...breasts, some like behinds and some like the body of an athlete. I like those things too, but most of all, I like a pretty face. I lose curiosity in a profile fast if I can't see her face. Preferably smiling. Don't want to see ice queens and duck faces, we're not kids anymore 😏
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
He's on assignment. Hence the disguise. No chance of reconition there. No chance of a fuck either
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RHP User
10 years ago
itouch - I thought it was channelling his inner Chet Faker. While I do have one fantasy that involves anonymous sex - it wouldn't be through a medium like this, but with someone I trusted. So no, I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic. I could happily meet without a naked body shot, or a cock shot, though. I have met a man once, who didn't know what I looked like. Was just a random spontaneous thing to do. It was fun for me watching him realise it was me, as he was very nervous until he saw me. Haven't had any exciting excuses either - only working for government or being semi-famous, though, I think he actually said 'instantly recognisable'
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' It's not that hard to verify if it's really the person in the photo you're talking to. For example, I could ask a guy to take a selfie while holding up a Post-it with the word Summer on a it. A guy asked me once for a pic of myself with a pen in my mouth. Makes it bit harder to use stock photos. ;-) Finally I think I'm onto a winner...... With this method, I might possibly get to meet my dream man who's a graphic artist and a dab hand with Photo-shop! :-) Caveat: It's a joke....all those professional users of Photo shop should not message me.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm ashamed to say this but the other day, I was attracted to a guy, getting a good feeling about him/the attraction, until I saw his dick and then it was over nothing to do with size, I just wasn't attracted
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RHP User
10 years ago
I_touch, I don't know about you but I've done nothing to warrant a jail term (and surely you'd not be sent to a men's Prison!). Annie, only assignments have been Legal and Business studies. Disguise? Hat? Beard? Nothing so melodramatic as espionage! Actually, there seemed to me a distinct hint of nastiness in your last message. Hardly necessary. Pepper Rose, I grew my beard in the second half of last year. I put the razor away with the onset of winter and took it up again when the weather got hotter and I was tired of looking like a bit of a scruff. Was the longest I'd ever let it grow. Thought I'd see what it looked like; had not sought to impress anyone. In one of my posts, I had used the words "sufficiently recognisable" (as in: perhaps not overtly recognisable, but not unrecognisable). In any event, if any subletly or nuance on my part doesn't gel with any individual here, that's fine. However, I do think it's worthwhile challenging one's own established views. Certainly there are things I don't understand about people and their approaches to things but I'll try to test my own thinking before I offer criticism. I can match lowdown and dirty with the best of 'em, but there's nothing worthwhile to be gained by it. I think cheap shots are really not becoming.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Chet Faker is one of my fav musicians, and as I live in Hipster'ville, I'm a fan of a good beard, so I can assure you, it wasn't a cheap shot I've not interacted with you, so my comment about "instantly recognisable" was simply answering OP's question, about excuses I've heard. Enjoy
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
No nastiness meant. Just a reference to your beard piccy which by your own words "scruffy" and my reference to it which would give you no chance if you were to hit someone up with it. So apologies for any offence taken.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd posted a reply yesterday which appears to have been omitted. Don't know why!? My omitted message had said (paraphrasing now)... OK, cool. The words people select are often open to (mis)interpretation and I suspect I may be some way along the Aspie scale. Anyhow, confusion resolved. Thanks.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I posted a comment in the dick pics thread about this. I got a message from a guy, profile had dick pic as the main picture and only public picture. Gives me access to his pg, go in and find two more dick pics. Interesting choice. Now unless he grabbed a texta/marker pen and drew a little face on the end of his dick, I figured that's about the closest I would come to seeing his face. End result, wasting his time
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RHP User
10 years ago
I need advice. Now that I'm a paying member, obviously I can message people, but when I receive a flirt with just a body picture, I'm reluctant to then send a message requesting a face picture, for fear of offending if I'm then not attracted. A personal message is different to a flirt in that I've opened communication, started a conversation, it then becomes personal and the last thing I want to do is offend. So I just don't reply but feel bad because they wouldn't know why, would just assume I wasn't interested. Not sure if I'm doing the right thing. They are guests so need me to message them, which I'm happy to do, without this problem. It's the very reason I made the decision to put face pics on my profile, particularly with the age difference, they would have had the same concern with me. I understand though why it's not for everyone, just a bit of a dilemma
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' I_touch, I don't know about you but I've done nothing to warrant a jail term (and surely you'd not be sent to a men's Prison!). Annie, only assignments have been Legal and Business studies. Disguise? Hat? Beard? Nothing so melodramatic as espionage! Actually, there seemed to me a distinct hint of nastiness in your last message. Hardly necessary. Pepper Rose, I grew my beard in the second half of last year. I put the razor away with the onset of winter and took it up again when the weather got hotter and I was tired of looking like a bit of a scruff. Was the longest I'd ever let it grow. Thought I'd see what it looked like; had not sought to impress anyone. In one of my posts, I had used the words "sufficiently recognisable" (as in: perhaps not overtly recognisable, but not unrecognisable). In any event, if any subletly or nuance on my part doesn't gel with any individual here, that's fine. However, I do think it's worthwhile challenging one's own established views. Certainly there are things I don't understand about people and their approaches to things but I'll try to test my own thinking before I offer criticism. I can match lowdown and dirty with the best of 'em, but there's nothing worthwhile to be gained by it. I think cheap shots are really not becoming. So why do you have your scruffy beard face pic, to quote you, as your main picture now, if you shaved it off? Refer highlighted part of your post above
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Yes a dilemma when you finally get the face pic that strangely doesnt match the hot torso pic. What you imagined sitting on top of those shoulders suddenly evaporates. What to do? Radio silence...... Block without explanation...... A nice sincere explanation that you aren't feeling it..... Or Just slip into the conversation that your doctor said it was ok to play because the communicable disease appears to be in remission.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I totally understand people being wary of profiles without facial pics, I have been scammed on other sites which I had just felt. There was something suspicious going on. I would always message someone a genuine picture of my face along with a date written on it to prove its me when communication had started. But I wouldn't post my face on line for the simple reason I have a teenage son and God help me if he ever saw my profile on line...ill be embarrassed!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Refer to Superhero thread....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Yes a dilemma when you finally get the face pic that strangely doesnt match the hot torso pic. What you imagined sitting on top of those shoulders suddenly evaporates. What to do? Radio silence...... Block without explanation...... A nice sincere explanation that you aren't feeling it..... Or Just slip into the conversation that your doctor said it was ok to play because the communicable disease appears to be in remission. I like the last one, way too funny
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RHP User
10 years ago
snuck that one in without getting on your couch
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've seen a few guys that seem cool and I may have only seen a body shot with a dick pick but no face then they show me and I'm like booooooo and stop replying and vice versa face shot then see dick pick and its all over because its either too small or has a weird bend in it and its like nup sorry
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Like the body shot looks 25 years younger than the freshy acquired face pic. How can that head have that body?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' As soon as they say "I cant upload pics but Ill email or text you some" thats it. You can always upload pics on RHP, easy peasy. Too well known? Dont make me laugh. We are on RHP for the same reason ultimately, to meet new people and have great sex. Anyone who thinks they are famous on here are delusional. Its easy to upload pics in your private gallery, no matter how high profile your job is. No pics on request, no meet. I gather its a kind of fetish for some people, the sex with a stranger thing, but not for me xx Wise woman this one :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
had one today with the body public, age shown as 'high range of a certain decade' if you get my drift then the face pic in pg and nooooooooo much older and much older than age displayed
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