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Fake profiles
February 22 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
Obviously these people (and I assume men) think they are legends in their own lunchbox. So I wouldn't waste mine time by responding to their fake profile accusations. All the best, hope things improve.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Dont let it worry you too much Megz. You know you are real not fake. Sadly many online still think everyone is going to fall on to their back just 'cause they sent you a message. Even when you have told them you are not interested in them. I like to have a little chat with guys on rhp before I make any time to meet for a coffee and still get accused of being a fake because I wont meet them straight away for sex.
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's called being entitled. A lot of people seem to think the world owes them. I'm just going to point and laugh when life bites them in the rear. Try not to take it to heart. Some people are just jerks. (I should know, I am one... sometimes).
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RHP User
8 years ago
Male ego in particular is a brittle and predictable thing It’s easier for a weak and insecure ego to accuse another person, than to admit a failing of their own It helps to prop up the ego and shield those insecurities Don’t sweat those who don’t meet your standards..... including weak ranting demands... they are effectively screening themselves out DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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LissnJules
8 years ago
We cop it too Megz because of our age gap. People say we are not a real couple. There are many fakes on here but if u are verified then ignore them. Plus if people are rude and accuse u of being fake not worth your time or effort Liss - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
Even though I've met all the people on my friends list apparently I must be a figment of their imagination. I'm a lot of things. Fake is not one of them.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Geeze Megs, how could you not respond to the desperate. Those poor fellas who just dont get a look in, because they're knuckle dragging swamp apes. 😜😁 Black humour at risk of being misinterpreted. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just don't understand that not responding to a message does not give one the right to abuse in any way whatsoever. As a male it is also difficult to comprehend the amount of messages and flirts a woman may have to screen as it seems to be the polar opposite for many males here including myself and perhaps some men's frustrations boil over. Still not an excuse for abuse but a possible reason for why the fake profile accusation happens from time to time.
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RHP User
8 years ago
all us women cop it due to alot of men get pissy because we arent desperate enough to answer all of them and wont put out to all of them. Wait till you get called a slut because you wont put out to just anyone lol. Isnt that what they want in the first place..... a slut
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RHP User
8 years ago
If your profile contained nothing.... But your profile doesn’t suggest that it’s even fake.... On another dating site....lol something about fishing or something...the fakes there are mostly easy to spot...but I must admit some have had me second guessing....so I’ve delivered a little poke something along the lines of :- “Well....these fake profiles are normally easy to pick...but you sir, have definitely thrown even my bullshit radar.....” Or similar.... And it usually ends up with 1 out of 2 replies... 1. A very pissed off woman giving me the third degree... 2. A message inviting me to visit horny goats fuck camels dot com as they don’t feel safe chatting on that site.... Lol Either way I ignore both replies.... But as I said earlier, your profile is filled out...so I can only suggest that it’s as ML says...they didn’t get what they were after and when they wanted.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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twowithnolimits
8 years ago
we too get it from some males, despite the profile, the friends, the functions around town, the forums...... they can't get there heads around 1200 hits a month so you must be a fake if you can't meet this afternoon at 2.00 but only until 3.30 because they are single!! LOL
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just rude and obnoxious idiots. Have never been accused of being a fake. Have the time to message everyone that messages me back though and was stated in my previous profile. I have always been super polite even when sometimes I have been consistently harassed. Mind you my block list was pretty long too as I don't put up with that or someone chucking a tanty because they didn't get their own way. Boo freaking hoo. OntheOpenRange yes entitled certainly covers it!!
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bonefide
8 years ago
Freaky_Fun - fake Mmmmmm yer right
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RHP User
8 years ago
Entitled, obnoxious, illiterate and socially maladjusted. Have yet to have anyone accuse me of being fake. How is it fake to say no? Most fake profiles say yes to everything just to suck in the easy meat not the other way around. Poor deluded buggers having a struggle with life and needing a personality injection. I’ve read some of the shit you girls put up with via a friend, I was shaking my head. Not an once of decorum or civility to be seen. Heaven help the poor sod that accuses Freaky of being fake, would make for quite a topic though. BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
speaking from what I have seen and observed on the net and imo.... your up shit creek when accusations get thrown around without any substance and unless you know people who can back you your reputaion can end up fucked up.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry guys, Hey Stu I cant reply to you in the message centre, says the inbox may be locked but says no recipiants found. I may have to give you my number on here if you reply and hope to god other fucktardos dont ring me too hahahaha sorry to everyone wondering what this post is about lolz
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RHP User
8 years ago
the wrong thing and upset people and have sadly created a very destrutive trail, but fortunatley ( not always the case sadly ) do get caught out because someone has absolute proof about the person and can set things straight. But how the fuck can someone prove that they are legit if they don't have friends or any kind of back up?
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RHP User
8 years ago
of being accused of being fake. I could say the same thing with regards to some believing they have a sense of enlitlement to making accusations based on what they choose to believe because they misconstrue things posted in jest and put it out there, which in the end causes confusion, doubt and misunderstanding.
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RHP User
8 years ago
What Ruby_ Blossam and Midnightblu said Don't be hard on yourself, you have definately done enough, to me those people are deflecting.Not a good look for them and not worth your valuable time.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why would someone bother complaining to a profile they think is fake, about it being fake. Seems like an odd way to make friends. - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
8 years ago
Don't be surprised if you even get blocked with out any contact. Rare but it has happened here and members have asked here it with a surprise. We often assume swingers are open minded. Even if this is true like a normal human they are still judgmental. Open mindness is only related to sexual aspect at the best. It is something like some one may be good at playing chess it doesn't make him a scientist. A teacher may not have same morals in personal situation.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Fake profiles on this site (and I'm not saying there are) they're much better than the ones on another site, which shall not be named. Every day I get a picture of a buxom 22 year old saying she's 46 and the heading "Looking for a Very Relationship". I then either get write me at whatever dot com, or I play along and ask if they're enjoying the sunny Darwin weather (we've been in a monsoon for weeks). When they say "Yes it's been great" I finish with "bye bye robot..." and that's the end of it. Pfft. Comedy value only.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi to you both 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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EveryNowAndThen
8 years ago
megz85g, I imagine such an accusation (you haven't replied, you must be fake!) will in part depend on how much time has passed awaiting a reply, but squarely on the psychology of the original person making the accusation. Sometimes, without a reply, people may try to provoke one, especially if they already suspect it is a fake profile, and often that provocation may be written as a harsh accusatory way. Reading between your lines, it sounded like you may be the type of person who does reply when you can get through your list of other replies. I think that type of courtesy is very important in any community, whether it be sex-related, or car enthusiasts, bug collectors, etc. Having been a paid and verified RHP member for a few months, it's taken me a while to get my bearings and sense of rhythm with regards to messages and flirts, responses, lack of responses. In my experience, even when making personalised messages, carefully, courteously, focused on the individual, I seldom get a reply...ever. I'm level-headed so I don't get upset, but I can imagine how so many people may get upset and negatively reactive. No-one personally deserves such an accusation, but I do think the RHP system assists this situation by enabling fake profiles, unused/old profiles, etc, the sheer abundance of which I myself did not expect to find here. One of the things that would help weed out such behaviour is if everyone replied, as a courtesy, even if it was to say, sorry, but no thanks, enjoy your adventure. I've yet to see this courtesy: after messaging over 100 individuals, my reply rate is around 12%.
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married2aBBW
8 years ago
If you were a fake profile then you would have to be a full time job for whoever is pretending to be you ! Lemme see- there is here , fb , tumblr all with several entries , and I have chatted briefly with you on fb in a group in there as well as a message on tumblr . So either a very very convincing and we'll run fake ooorrrr a real and gorgeous lady , personally picking the latter as you do seem to be a lovely lady to get to know :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The issue with replying with “thanks but no thanks” is again ego driven snowflakes that then feel entitled to an explanation of “why”.... No reply is merely no reply when looking at facts... However it can mean a multitude of things... What doesn’t help, is that men read “hookup with hotties in your area today” and think that women are just standing by waiting for just any cock that throws his dick at her and she’ll come running like her life depends on it....and let’s be honest, most normal men know that that’s just not the way it is.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
They'd see your forum posts which, in my experience, is rather difficult to fake and make it sound coherent. They're just lazy assholes who demand subservience from every person in their field of vision because they cbf doing any thinking. The kind of guys who probably still take clothes to their mothers to wash. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I just wish more people understood that sometimes a little more efffort is required to stand out from the crowd - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
8 years ago
Many reasons as others replied. Some are simply upset specially if most responses have been No. They want to get even by saying something to make you upset. Some believe they are so good that it is favor to you to give you an opportunity. You must be fake if you declined. Some are simply trying reverse psychology to provoke a response. It doesn't work as response is still unlikely to take them too far. The only thing has some chance of working is to accept the situation and politely ask to have a second thought if you ever change your mind.
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rupamohan
8 years ago
Quoting 'megz85g' I just wish more people understood that sometimes a little more efffort is required to stand out from the crowd - Posted from rhpmobile I hope people do understand your wish. I hope they understand equation between demand, supply and desire. They may still choose not to put all eggs in one basket. They may choose to think contacting a particular member is effort enough to come forward and now it is up to the other-side to be able to look into the crowd.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' of being accused of being fake. I could say the same thing with regards to some believing they have a sense of enlitlement to making accusations based on what they choose to believe because they misconstrue things posted in jest and put it out there, which in the end causes confusion, doubt and misunderstanding. I Still get it even after that oh so special post in the forum confirming I am real. But I have a slew of those posts to and from in the forum because I am real and have attended places and events, and met real people from the site. I think it is okay to question a profile who claims to be another forumite in the forum because that causes doubt and misunderstanding.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just press the block button. Plenty of arseholes out there. I’d have to say though, those who do that won’t be here long, so by the time you hit the button they’ll have lost interest and left the site anyhow because they couldn’t find any “real” prospects... nothing to do with them or their approach of course.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' the wrong thing and upset people and have sadly created a very destrutive trail, but fortunatley ( not always the case sadly ) do get caught out because someone has absolute proof about the person and can set things straight. But how the fuck can someone prove that they are legit if they don't have friends or any kind of back up? is follow up on the offers you were given to explain yourself at the time instead of all of them ending up being deleted. Explaining as In why you are posting that you are a regular poster ... AND why the post linking another forumite to it was deleted. That's what I asked about back in October last year. I was first on your thread in support of you as I have been for years... and then... https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/In-a-galaxy-far-far-away-54996
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RHP User
8 years ago
Because they are hornyWant to get your pants off and you haven't responded within 30 seconds. The best part comes when they say the will pick you up in a Hilux. But don't worry , the seats fold down The moment that they understand that this doesn't suit you..................Youll generally get the fake profile routine. But I'm sure there more right? Come on tell us the full story
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