Falling for your Best Friend

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  actually met her?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Ive heard of a guy that lost his best mate,turns out she run 2000 miles  to be back with him,she had lost some weight and and her paws were sore, their happy now...as for your problem, you need to get on a plane tomorrow,dont tell her, tell noone they will only say it's silly and talk you out of it. I did this very thing, i had too i had to know and her boyfriend knew what i was there for and all his piss ant mates but thats me. you know i've been on this rock  for a while now and i believe in the whole soul mate thing, what if she is the one?  your kick yourself for the rest of your life that you didnt ask her. fuck him its about you and her.  if he's a good boy he can jion in later

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I have known her for years, and she has only moved away in the last 6-8 months

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  with me getting on a plane; she didnt come back with me,. dont figure..... it was a stupid idea anyway,

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Go and see her!  By seeing her you will know whether your feelings are real.  Also it would be easier to raise the subject of changing feelings face to face because you can observe her body language.  You don't have to blurt out that you are in love with her.  You could ask her questions about her relationship so you can suss out whether she's in love with the boyfriend.  You could always do the "I've got a friend in this situation" scenario and see how she would approach it.  Sounds like you need to get it resolved one way or another and face to face is the best way.Good LuckWTG

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I think having a day Jar view moment... there are two threads like this.. one says drop her... and this one says go get her. So... there you have it.   Hugs Stalky

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  10 years ago.. i became best friend with a chick via a chatrrom in mIRC. We known each other for yeaaaaaaaars.. but never have any feelings as per se.One day, i drove across to Sydeny, then up to gosford to catch up with her.. and suddenly.. things clicked into place.. we fell in love. Although we were both single so that makes it a bit different from your situation.Suffice to say, she did come back with me to Perth, we spent 8 wicked months together.. and to me.. thats enough to last me a life time.. To this day, we still best mates...Point is. You need to go meet her. Only ONE way to know for sure...

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