Fantasy Fulfillment

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I haven't really directly achieved any fantasies by seeking them out, most of them have occured by simply going to a variety of different parties and events, and just accepting whatever occurs, and taking part of any play activities I am lucky enough to be invited to participate in. Some were part of the bucket list, some weren't. This can of course be quite a costly way of achieving them. But I do try to contact people directly with specific mutual interests. As for doing any of them again, yes some I'd love to repeat but as I said, generally they've been random "right place at the right time" moments, hard to actually organise specifically per se. But I do have favourite venues to attend which suit certain interests. So far, I've never had a bad experience. Different experiences than expected maybe (eg being in a situation involving bi-male play when I'm straight), or no experience at all (no play or people just not turning up), but no bad ones.

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  Hottie1

  10 years ago

  Of fantasies but I have a very open mind. My hubby's philosophy is 'I'll try everything once' and do it again if I like it, I try to live by that. I will try things once at least (never skat for me though) and decide if I like it. I always have the option of stopping something if I'm really not enjoying myself or am not liking it. If I really liked it, I wont necessarily go looking for it but will be open to it every time. I don't have fantasies because I'm afraid of setting expectations for myself or others that may not be realistic or achievable. I'm a go with the flow (no pun intended) sort of person :) Mary xx

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  hi the biggest issue to fulfil a fantasy is trust. Ive helped a couple of ladies fulfil their fantasies because they trusted me to organise it and be there with them making them feel safe. One was her fantasy to have 3 men at once which I organised and she really enjoyed it and it well really well. Helped a couple of other ladies with their fantasies too and they also went well. A lady helped me with a fantasy. I am basically straight but I had a fantasy of being in a circle surrounded by men and sucking their cocks. A lady helped me at a party by kneeling and sucking cocks of men standing around. This gave me the opportunity to join her. Having her there with me was enough to make me feel safe about what I was doing and it is quite an erotic memory for me. ha ha her husband joked I was better than her which was a good laugh for all.

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  ReyandJean

  10 years ago

  Swinging was a fantasy once. Turned out quite well. There have been a few other things. Some good enough to repeat. WE found we were both too lazy to enter seriously into BDSM, but had some fun with that. We talk about it before, during and after.

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  madotara69

  10 years ago

  Ours are works in progress TwosomePlus And 'often things happen most when unexpected' Mado Tara xx

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