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August 31 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not with a bang but a whimper xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bang, whimper or Gasm
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RHP User
10 years ago
A bit of understanding and empathy goes along way - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My lover who moved far away. Most disappointing: My lover's partner who decided she wanted to leave the world of swinging and was no longer comfortable with him and I meeting either. Freakiest/best: A new lover who just wanted his ex back and couldn't understand why she had taken out an AVO against him after he broke her window and jumped in front of her car... :-(
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RHP User
10 years ago
When the sex side of things fades I still remain friends with my FWBs ..... isn't that what genuine FWBs are? If you no longer what them as a friend either then that becomes tricky. Is that what you are asking OP? LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Worst; by text; "met someone else seeya" Best; She moved interstate so we had a farewell lunch etc. Tip, get back on the horse cowgirl, yippee ki yay !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Still friends with mine so cant offer any advice. Except be honest about where you are coming from and why you have made the decision you have.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...LG. I just wondered if people had a specific way of moving on when the season changed xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Be the bigger person .... always I always think it should be possible to at least be friends with someone you shared something special with, remember why you were attracted to them in the first place, regardless of what else has happened. Generally ending something is because something has changed with you or them and life is full of changes ... it should never be full of regret. Respect costs nothing so be honest and respectful. Just think about how you would feel about what you are saying or doing before you send that message or make that comment ... then sleep on it .... then act how you feel is right.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Best is treating them with respect: face to face and even though you're being honest, which is the best way, you are also showing that you are trying your best to care for their feelings ... Hard and impossible as it is. Worst: posting pics of new person, not talking to just ditched partner and then when they keep on calling because they need to talk, you text them with: move on bitch.. Found something better. How to handle it? It feels like you've been fed poison, you feel like you want to die, every bit of advice you get does nothing to staunch the pain. Time only time heals... Meantime it's the best ever diet. !!! ☺️☺️☺️😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
i honestly believe that only one person I've ever slept with would have any legitimate grounds to feel wronged by the way things were ended by me. I put that down to being honest and having the guts to have a face to face chat rather than the cowardly text or similar.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Nortee' ...LG. I just wondered if people had a specific way of moving on when the season changed xx Sorry to say but I can't really help there. I invest time with my FWBs and genuinely like them as mates, so parting ways has to be a mutual thing, otherwise our friendship is ongoing. I enjoy their company long after the fun has ended. Hope you find a way that you are comfortable with but as has already been said ... honesty and being gentle is the best. Good luck LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
... an 'it is what it is til it aint' attitude in any given relationship. I find the following always helps put things that don't make any sense back into perspective: "People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done and now it is time to move on. Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life." NB: This is titled 'A reason, A season Or A Lifetime, written anonymously and I have since edited the full version.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...that's been my motto all along. Thanks xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I started seeing someone.we even had sleepovers and then about the third time we met he had a full body orgasm..In the morning he had that look on his face and said that he didnt like feeling out of control....that was it...xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
...how sad. On so many levels.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
One decided to go back to his wife and family, I was the deal breaker, but always knew I would be if push came to shove. Shells, I love that saying too, it worked for me, I learnt so much from our love affair and am grateful that it happened.... Another one met someone else and I stepped aside, as to give him a chance to find what he was looking for and he is truly happy nowadays. Again I took so much from this friendship, he took me places I never thought possible, he was a wonderful teacher.... Another wanted more than I was able to give, he deserved more, I was honest and told him so.... I'm still friends with all these men, so I guess it's about being open, honest and communicatng with each other, just like any relationship. I think in the term Friends with Benifits, the key word is "Friends"....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
...you are obviously a woman of integrity xx
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Hugs. Xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
So sad when someone amazing comes into your life and then moves away. But, I've always said and wholeheartedly believe it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Come and go, you just need to take away the positives from the friendship/relationship/partnership. Things happen, circumstances change, people change, people move on, but if you can take something positive from it and learn something, then it was all worth it. Then what you need to do is find new lovers to enjoy, plenty of gorgeous men in here...💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think in the term Friends with Benefits, the key word is "Friends" Nice one Lovinit
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RHP User
10 years ago
if you can get friends or even get friends with benefits but your right being friends before you end so it is equally easy is and would be best (not just looking for fb or fwb nsa or how you look at it i'm genuine tell it how it is don't bullshit don't waste time or anyone else's so there you go have a go as the great ol aussie saying goes lol.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
If it is a no-strings-attached fuck-buddy that I am no longer interested in fucking anymore.
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