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First Meetings
May 13 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I bet I know who is going to say you should meet somewhere where you can get naked straight away. That will break the ice. I bet you $10 you're going to say that! You know who you are. :P xx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Meet him naked at the door!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am not! Jeese. I was going to suggest meeting at a nudist beach... where you can both pretend to be soaking uop the rays in those awkward moments of silence! Jeese.HugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
so am quite happy to just start chit chatting. . Why don't you give him a kiss on the cheek when you say hello and ask him how his day has been?
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RHP User
15 years ago
No really, it does! ... Keep the $10 babe, the coffees can be on you next time! ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ooops I think I may have misworded my bet there. Oh no. :( I don't have $10 on me... can I pay it kind? I think I might be a very busy girl soon. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Stalky and Flirty you both owe me $10. Yippee!Madame Heather - I suck at first meetings. Well I don't mean that literally... I mean come on, I am a lady you know. I am no good at small talk so I hate the first meetings. Particularly when you meet them through RHP as you have already divulged so much "sexual" information and pictures too. It can be a little strange... sometimes.xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
...to first meetings isn't to try to avoid the awkwardness, it's to run with it. Celebrate it. Revel in it.Resisting the awkwardness is like trying to steer your way out of a skid, it's only going to get you wrapped around a tree. But if you steer into the awkwardness, it gives you those precious moments to get some traction and then ease your way out of it.So rather than opening the conversation with pleasantries and small talk, open it with "wow, this is awkward. Let's just take a moment to savour it.'pause.and then..."That was great. So, how was your day?"
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RHP User
15 years ago
just reach over and have a lil grope, what guy will say no to that? and yeah, think he will have something to say back then...lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just meet in the hotel room and if the sex is good then you know you want to meet again!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
take them to a swinger club ,
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi all,Was on this site a few years ago and met a few great people, a couple of whom remain friends to this day. Just rejoined a few days ago. When I first started I also found the whole meeting thing rather awkward. On one occasion I did actually answer the door naked. Believe me there was no awkwardness from that point on. The best one for me though when meeting is to just throw out a comment like 'Hmmm .. you are hot!" while looking them up and down with that look of 'I know what I want to do to you' in your eyes. Only if appropriate and true of course. Or if there is that instant spark, why not a passionate kiss? No need for conversation then. Just a couple of thoughts. Kisses all.L
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think it all depends on how much time you have taken to get to know each other before the first meeting...could range only from a few vauge emails to some very long conversations, trading of photos and the rest. And of course how condident you are...both in yourself and that you've got it right. | Suggestions range from a polite greeting over a coffee...to grabbing each other once you have cleared security at the airport and heading for the first reasonably sheltered alcove where the security cameras might not catch you. | It's your journey...live it. | | Take along a cohiba and flask of vintage scotch for later...in the parking lot.
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RHP User
15 years ago
cos i cant even spell it... they go for a kiss on the cheek.... you turn it into a full on pash... instant icebreaker..take them to the kitchen to get a drink... reaching into the fridsge bend over just so....Then once he's had a mouthfull of drink ... or two... and ensure he isnt mid swallow to avoid an awkward cough spitter and spray... say... "bedrooms this way"
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RHP User
15 years ago
I suppose you could try...unless of course there were other mitigating circumstances. | Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' ... "greedy pube-less pervert???" | | If he has succeeded in his bid for global domination you might want to hit your knees. Anyone in the airport that argued would be dealt with... | ...under the laws of the New World Order. | | The beatings will continue until morale improves.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for all of the advice it made me smile at he least I will take all the advice and suggestions under advisement meeting them wearing nothing but long black boots and a trench coat would that let them know what I want
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'desserts'Just meet in the hotel room and if the sex is good then you know you want to meet again!! As always so practical ! . And as our "other callers have said" meet him naked ......... yum yum yum yum . Oh the thought of dessert naked opening my hotel door naked............ . Brae ......... A fan.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Always meet somewhere where you can get an alcoholic beverage! We have met 1 single lady, and a couple off here, and both times - we have organised it so we were out and having a drink. Always brings the walls down - and you're more comfortable talking about ANYTHING. (Although, possibly helped that we met the couple at a Swingers Club, and so there was plenty - RIGHT IN OUR FACE - to converse about!)
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RHP User
15 years ago
One thing I find is it is best to have only a couple of online chats (with pic exchange - if you feel these are honest) then a phone chat.... if you still feel interested now is time to meet. If you wait too long and spend ages chatting online then fantasies start to get in the way and meetings are never as good.Only once met a guy in motel wearing nothing but stockings and dressing gown - big mistake - he was a real letdown and ended up kinda just going along and having to pretend this was great, in reality i couldnt wait to get out the door. Learnt from that.Ever since I have always met for coffee in public first - I try to choose an out of the way table or better still if they have a booth - and if we start intimate quiet hot chat that equalled the phone call then i might slide my hand under the table and onto the crutch. As a little added incentive I always meet wearing stockings and no panties so if they seem equally interested then leaning forward and opening my legs is usually a great ice breaker. If location a little too public then often suggest out to his car where we can continue some hot chat more easily.
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RHP User
15 years ago
wouldnt it be great 2 have someone like you answer the door at all times..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I bet I know who is going to say you should meet somewhere where you can get naked straight away. That will break the ice. I bet you $10 you're going to say that! You know who you are. :P xx Meeka Love that idea... its the only way to do it! hehe
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