M33
First times
July 31 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh you poor thing! Are you still a virgin or not? I am not sure. I was a late bloomer too. I was 18 & his name was Ken. Wasn't that good ;-) xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
... a lot of women spend years having that sort of sex (i.e. a dick goes in, but she doesn't get to cum), I'd say yes, you lost your virginity.And I wouldn't be too embarrassed about it either. The best first-time stories are the funny ones. It may just take a few years before you fully enjoy its anecdotal potential.But you want to get back in there ASAP I reckon. Maybe a phone call to the girl in question is in order?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Aw Jordan, you cutie. Hmm, penetration eh? I'd say you're no longer a virgin but by Jove, you haven't yet done it properly. Well done on getting it up with two downers in your system though. The sex itself is better without them but the opportunities can be fewer and the stagefright more of an issue. So apart from that and making sure you're not disturbed next time, I'd also advise carrying condoms around with you when there's even the remote possibility of making this happen. And my last bit of advice is to use some fingers and tongue before you go for the main course. You're a really good looking, friendly, fun, well-spoken guy by the looks of this topic and your profile so I reckon you're going to be popular with the laideez very quickly. . To answer your OP, I lost my v-plates when I was midway to being 22. Part of why I was an even later bloomer than yourself was shyness, not having gfs and my former religious beliefs. But like you, the liquid courage helped. It was on the bloody futon in the TV den of the sharehouse, because I had a single bed and thought it would be more obvious to my housemates that I'd had sex with this woman I had said I'd never have sex with if we went in there. I went twice in the same night which then set the bar very high for myself later. Tried for a third time but we overbalanced the futon and ended up on the wooden floor with a big thud a curse word or two. Yep, and the guy in the next room behind the paper thin wall would have had nooooo idea what was going on. . So Jordan, I see you your 19 and raise you three years!
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RHP User
14 years ago
His name was Remia and he owned a purple plastic belt that I thought he was really cool, and it was in a caravan with his mate snoring on the other side of a paper thin partition. It is way up there on my most ordinary sexual experiences list..19 is a pretty normal age to lose your virginity. There's a lot more to sex than penetration, it is learning about women's bodies and all the fun and exploring ahead of you. Now is the time for you to make the effort to find out what women enjoy and learn to enjoy that yourself. Girls your age can be pretty nervous sexually and so making an effort to make it a good experience for them is only going to be to your benefit when they want more..The only reason it is depressing is because you got a taste for it and you want more. Focus on giving pleasure conversationally and sexually and you will find more will come along sooner than you think. .p.s. nb! nb! take note of what Slippery said about condoms....
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RHP User
14 years ago
That would have been horrible. I hope you dont get stage fright from it and the next time you are having sex, it plays on your mind that someone will come bursting through the door. Nothing like a dose of Coitus Interuptus. Not telling when I lost mine. A long time ago and yes I can still remember it vividly. I remember thinking...is this what all the fuss is about? How boring! l Now I know better!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was 14. My girlfriend and i at the time decided we'd give it a go. Twice. And to be honest, it was a little "blegh"...basically we were just going through the motions. Can't even remember if I came...I'm pretty damn certain she didn't!!I then abstained till I was just 18. I remember that clear as day...and I also remember it being a LOT more fun. Moral of the story is, who cares how old you are when you lose it. As long as you're old enough and mature enough to make it as fun and exciting an act as it should be...
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RHP User
14 years ago
My stock standard line right about here would be that I am still a virgin and hope burns eternal...and Irresponsibility, just for the record I am a great conversationalist? | Actually by one definition, I guess I lost it at about the age of 16 with the cute little redheaded girl that lived across the street and I had grown up with in school as a great friend. It was funny...at school we of course did the "yuck girls....ewww boys" thing but as soon as we got home and found the jeans and t-shirts, she really was my best friend. Anyway, as girls do...she started getting those lumps and bumps that caused a few of my own and the natural progression was to play around a bit. I laugh now thinking about it...first just wrestling playfully, then off came the clothes, exploratory hands and eventually oral. Damn, I wonder what would have happened if her parents hadn't decided to move? | The absolute great takeaway from that was that we were friends...and we talked and laughed together about our exploits, even became better friends and got to the "grrrr girls...mmmm boys" stage at school which all of a sudden raised my peer group status by about 50 bonus points. So at the ripe old age of 16, I had a basic understanding of the fact that we could be both friends, confidants and have a hell of a lot of fun. | Now the big one....that was almost embarrassing. At 19, I had managed to establish myself as "legal" at one of the university hot spots (drinking age of 21) and scored an invite to "dinner at her house" with a gorgeous 22 year old uni student. We never got as far as dinner...she ever so casually left the door to the bathroom open as she stepped out of the shower as I had arrived early and it must have been the sound of the blow dryer that put me in overdrive. Here's the embarrassing part...with my hopeless lack of finesse' but 19 year old stamina, as I rolled over on top of her to go for the 6th time at about 4:00 in the morning she just kind of laughed and asked "Are you sure you have done this before....you're really eager". I was smart enough to move up and behind as my eyes give me away when I lie....and boy did I ever. Oh well....her name was Beverly June and eventually BJ taught me a few things I never knew. | We all have our stories and if anything, it's an adventure and a journey that hopefully you will enjoy with every step along the way. Just relax, make a few friends, have a laugh and always remember that you both are from the same planet...it only seems like they are aliens sometimes. | Quick tip? Never ever go shopping with them after you have had a great night of sex.... | ... you will buy them whatever they want. | | I didn't say that...although it's true. Sex makes idiots out of us all.
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jandv
14 years ago
Both 17, I think the first time is always the worst you will have unless you do it with someone with alot of experience. Its a shame that its the one we will most remember LOL Ohwell, Goodluck with the next one OP !!!, Hope it comes soon for you..........
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RHP User
14 years ago
aww that sucks mate... she could of at least let u finish...lol she at least moaned or anything?? me and gf were 12 i think... same as other dude ..it statrs out as kissing ..then feeling then its kissing with no clothes.. then ur gettin head.. then ur in...and 1 min & 30 sec later ur boy cherry goes to the cadbury factory...lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Aw Jordan You sound so sweet and so disappointed. I must have been positively ancient. I was older than you (22) are now he (being 25) was my only lover it was sweet, I'm sure I wasn't his first or only but it was special and he made me feel comfortable. He knew it was my first time and it was so romantic and just perfect. I hope your next time is better, relax
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RHP User
14 years ago
What a thing to happen, especially as it was your first time.. Next time lock the door... I think considering the circumstances you got off lightly..It could have been her dad that busted you!!!. ps Better luck next time babe xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
If it was me, I would've pulled out, stood up and asked the mother if she wanted a ride. That would've been the polite thing to do. Let me rememember. I was 14, she was 12 I think turning 13, but I'm not going to split because she bloomed early and nobody taught her how to shave. It was a set-up, a birthday party for a friend of a friend of hers. There were four other girls, her and I - they though it would be cute to watch us fuck, they locked us in a room and watched through the window. Of course I was damn lucky, she hadn't of had her perioid, ever... and in hindsight I probably should've used a rubber but anyway, the moral of the story is, I didn't give a shit about the spectators, or the fact that I'd even forgotten to pack a rubber. As far as I could tell, she was as medicated as I was. Now, the only thing more embaressing than cumming early, and this is what really made her sore by the end of the night, is not cumming at all. I banged and banged for felt like hours, and pretty sure she got off... but I didn't feel a damn thing except coarse hair and an extremely flat chest. No biggie really... we all get over it eventually.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think now you know what it feels like to be balls deep you better get back on that wagon before the sensation slips into a distant memiore! Shame about the mum butting in... mind you.... I can appreciate it could be difficult for young people to find safe places to have sex if not in their best mate's bedrooms. lmfao. I suppose you wore a condom? hmmm?lolz. I dont have a virginity story to share.... but I will say this... one time when I was your age, I was really off my face and someone got all naked and jumped into my sleeping bag... tried to get off with me.... in a room full of people about the same age... all trying to sleep on this lounge room floor where we had crashed.... and I think I said something like... get off my cock bitch.. if you keep squashing my guts I think I'm going to throw up"... words to that effect... I didnt realise hwo everyone could hear... but it didnt do my rep any harm with the lads. lmfao.HugsStalky < father of teenage daughter.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' HugsStalky < father of teenage daughter. one of the funniest things I have read on forums.....ever!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I went to a fancy dress party as a french maid and ended up going home with the older cousin of one of my friends. I think he was around 26? We did it standing up.....then after I freaked out and made him drive me back to my girlfriends place where I was spending the night. The next day I went to the doctors because I could not remember if we had used a condom. I had all the tests and the morning after pill. Then I went home and cried to my Mum! She cried too, then my cousin who was over here from the UK for her big OE burst into my room where I was talking to Mum with a gift basket her friends had bought her for her holiday...it was a huge selection of flavoured and novelty condoms (on a side note....I discovered later peppermint is the best, and not for the taste but for the tingly feeling!!)On Monday at school I found out that my male friends had gone to his place and beat him up!!!Ahh, horrible at the time, the whole thing was so public and urgh the old guy that hangs around the young ones because to be honest, he is just a bit of a douche!xx Salina
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Initial foray into the wonderful world of sex was at the tender age of 12 with the two sisters (12 and 14) who lived next door to my Nan's after school. It was under their house in a space they used as a cubby. Not at the same time though and neither was aware of the other being with me. Knew what went where but that was about it . Finally the triumph came when I was 32 and overseas on a work trip. Went to a bar with some mates, got pissed and we each took a girl home for the night. With more knowledge of what to do and how, it was much better. Quoting 'slippery_halo' So Jordan, I see you your 19 and raise you three years! So...see your 22 and raise you another 10 and aren't I trying to make up for lost time . ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
i was 18 before i had sex and let me tell you it was the frighting experince ever, but all and all i remember her and i still think she hates me cause i told a my friends what i did and have learnt the lesson never kiss and tell
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' First Guy me 15 him 23 First Girl me 19 her 19 First T Girl me 21 her 25 First T Guy me ?? him ?? get back to me krissy and i can help you find first t guy
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RHP User
14 years ago
Father of teenage daughter! I am a mother of pre teen daughter and reading that some of my fellow RHP'ers were as young as 12 is freaking me out!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was 21 he was 27 and sharing a house with his 3 older brothers. Halfway through his eldest brother barged straight into the room. I'm not sure who was more embarrassed out of all of us. Certainly memorable.
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RHP User
14 years ago
haha, thankyou, those of you who have supplied consolences and your stories. It's wonderful to read... makes me feel like I'm actively and more interactively becoming a part of this community. And trust me... I'm hoping to hop back on that pussy banwagon sooner rather than later =P
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