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"Fixing" yourself up...
June 29 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Best to show him how you like it - you'll both benefit from it in the long run, and if he's anything like me he'll get turned on just watching you touch yourself :) T x
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RHP User
14 years ago
You should definitely slip a finger or two down there and show him what you like. Why wouldn't you? I think most guys like it when you play with yourself.... a lot of the time they seem to put your hand there so you can get yourself off. Lazy pricks :P So I am pretty sure boys don't mind, but I have to admit I sometimes have wondered about this as well so I will be interested to hear what the boys say. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
PBG, I think this is your opportunity to mention mutual masturbation isn't it? lol xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
i encourage mrs NA to play with herself during sex because i want to see her cum... it feels better inside her when she does and usually im not too far at all behind her.i like to give it to her doggy (which she LOVES anyway) and she plays with her clit at the time... or sometimes when im on top and on my knees sitting upright she'll reach down and rub herself...it is goodp.s mutual mastubation = two thumbs up...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I can't answer the Ops question, to be honest, I've never considered why it would be an issue. I have no problems telling someone what to do to get me off and I have no problems slipping a finger down myself. Or, what I have been known to do, grab his cock and use it to wank with! (Seriously, if you haven't tried this, do! It's so moist and soft but firm and just make him hold still whilst you use his member to get off. OK, so it's a bit of a dominance thing, and I do admit to it being a few years since I've done this, but I do remember it being fantastically hot!)Guys sure do love watching a woman wank though.... just saying! Fucking wankers!;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
You wank PBG? Gawd you must have an huge clit. What would you say it's about 2 inches??? heheheI was told I have a innie clit and it's hard to find.... so only fair that I show them. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Consensus. . I agree with Meeks and PBG. And I got a giggle from Meeks and the 'lazy pricks' comment . I have no issue whatsoever with taking matters into my own hands, so to speak, if the urge takes me. . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
As an afterthought ... It isn't always necessarily about "cumming more easily" either. Visually, masturbation is a big turn on before, during or after sex, by one or by both.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You wank PBG? Gawd you must have an huge clit. What would you say it's about 2 inches??? heheheI was told I have a innie clit and it's hard to find.... so only fair that I show them. xxMeeka It my big purple clit.... more like 7 inches!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think it's mandatory. I mean to say... I only have two hands and if I've got them occupied on the others in our little group sesh, well your gunna have to do some of the work if you have a free hand! Jeese stands to reason really don't it! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh struth!! Please don't tell me you strap that on as well?? Hehe. Seriously... guys can't find it.... So im wondering how thats even possible ... I mean It's not like you can keep it somewhere unexpected? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I can't help thinking of that movie "Meet the Fockers" when he is showing them how he milked the cat. hahahaxxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
No, it's in the usual place... a girl told me that. Said she had to hunt around to find it. Or to grab hold of it with her mouth?? Not sure... you know better than me. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
I encourage it, its sexy :P LS
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RHP User
14 years ago
I can assure you that from my own male perspective...it would be most welcome whether as simply a way to heighten your own pleasure or to teach how to please you. The master is a student...the student is a master. | I don't think you have to worry about etiquette or offending anyone...communication and self expression are often the most overlooked although should be the most obvious. | Hint: Some men may even find it exciting to simply hold you in their arms and enjoy the experience of sharing that sort of intimacy with you. | And just a quick question... | Quoting 'Meeka100'I was told I have a innie clit and it's hard to find.... | Not quite sure how to ask this but...have you ever thought of setting up a mirror and taking a look at that rather unusual innie? Anatomy 101 indicates that you might be putting your finger in... | ...where you might not get respect, Urethra? | | Seriously....you could get it put on Google maps and look it up on your iPhone.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well of course the lady should slide her hand down there. Don't expect me to do it... someone's got to be in charge of the remote control... and it shouldn't be the lady! (Happy belated Birthday btw Meeks :D )
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RHP User
14 years ago
If it makes you cum more easily go for it! It usually makes me cum easier watching. Lol Whatever gets you off, I dont think many guys would find it offensive or impolite. (Mr)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Who cares if a guy is going to be offended ? Im quite sure in the midst of things they would have a hand on their dick at some stage.. And besides.. i love sliding a finger down there.. getting even more wet, and making those noises which makes guys go mad.. and then either him, or me licking the finger clean.. it gets me horny, the more horny i get the more fun i am.. If a guy isnt doing it right.. mmm.. yeah ill go for it, get myself to cum, and then work on him.. no point me missing out if his a dud :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'No, it's in the usual place... a girl told me that. Said she had to hunt around to find it. Or to grab hold of it with her mouth?? Not sure... you know better than me. xxMeeka We have the same trouble Meeks luckily enough for me though I had an avid explorer who tracked that "Fucking little Bean" down PMSL (not my words) To answer the OP ...nah I dont think anyone would be too worried or offended unless of course they were very insecure in the first place, and took it as an insult to their experience or lack of LOL. and id that was the case they would come under the heading of "Next" anyway
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RHP User
14 years ago
By that i mean, it's our role to select someone to play with who is compatible with our likes, dislikes, skill levels and a compatible match won't have a problem with this. It's complimenting something already fabulous. Sheesh just taking a burden off someone who is already overloaded keeping me amused. If it makes for a much more intense orgasm i would think that anyone would be pleased to let you "lend a hand". I have had someone "forbid" me from touching myself by holding my hands above my head which was INSANELY hot, i think i nearly passed out from hyperventilation at the time . Nearly killed me but it was fantastic! (please note, this was not coming from an insecure lover, i don't do them; this was in a D/s sense and i adored it)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is it considered impolite for a woman to play with herself during sex so she can cum more easily, do guys find this offensive?Not to me! I don't find it offensive or impolite. I find it a turn on. I would consider it impolite if you didn't show me how to do it so i could tease you with it but that's just me :) And what is the etiquette if he just isn't doing it right? Do you just slip a finger or two down there yourself and show him how?I would try and gently take his hand and guide it were you want it (if that's possible) or maybe just show him one day how you do it. I don't think he would complain or be upset about watching at least for a little while. Have fun
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RHP User
14 years ago
We know where it feels good so no point in trying to get a guy to do something we know we can do better, plus it doesnt spoil the moment.. If a guys trying his best and it aint working, maybe its because our feeling isnt always in the same spot. So take the bull by the horn as they say, and do whatever it takes to get you both there...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like doing it more if the guy likes watching it!xx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
pretty sure a way to a girls heart is through her pussy... If a guy isn't doing it right for you... Find someone who is hahah No need to show him if he doesnt have the simple instinct to do you right ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Not at all - anything that improves the pleasure! Besides, a guy could always offer to lend a hand, if you catch my drift.And if he's not doing it right, guide him into doing it the best way- it wouldn't dent my ego, in fact I'd prefer it to not performing at my best and not knowing it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...to clean my glasses
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RHP User
14 years ago
yer i think it is ok for you to play down there as well i like the feel of it when a girl dose play with her self as we make loveand the more she cum the better it is feels so nice so yer play all you like
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RHP User
14 years ago
I see clitoral stimulation as a must never even considered that would be wrong so hightens sex, i like to reach down and play with him to as he enters is that unfair? I did recently just play by myself for his enjoyment (i hope) and mine whilst he watched I didnt and dont think theres anything wrong with touching.
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RHP User
14 years ago
mmm I love watching a woman pleasuring herself while we are at it ,it turns ME on & if she isn't doing it i'll do it for her
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RHP User
14 years ago
that rather surprises me, whilst the majority of my friends agreed with you guys and gals, some were very against it though perhaps like it was said they simply have self esteem issues :PBBoxox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl'What I have been known to do, grab his cock and use it to wank with! (Seriously, if you haven't tried this, do! It's so moist and soft but firm and just make him hold still whilst you use his member to get off. OK, so it's a bit of a dominance thing, and I do admit to it being a few years since I've done this, but I do remember it being fantastically hot!)thanks for the tip PBG... i got MrsNA to do this this morning and it was VERY good, for both of us......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl'What I have been known to do, grab his cock and use it to wank with! (Seriously, if you haven't tried this, do! It's so moist and soft but firm and just make him hold still whilst you use his member to get off. OK, so it's a bit of a dominance thing, and I do admit to it being a few years since I've done this, but I do remember it being fantastically hot!)thanks for the tip PBG... i got MrsNA to do this this morning and it was VERY good, for both of us...... Wooo! Glad to be of assistance :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl' Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl'What I have been known to do, grab his cock and use it to wank with! (Seriously, if you haven't tried this, do! It's so moist and soft but firm and just make him hold still whilst you use his member to get off. OK, so it's a bit of a dominance thing, and I do admit to it being a few years since I've done this, but I do remember it being fantastically hot!)thanks for the tip PBG... i got MrsNA to do this this morning and it was VERY good, for both of us...... Wooo! Glad to be of assistance :) hehe anymore tips just send them my way
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RHP User
14 years ago
great topic.i think its a real turn on when the chicks play with themselves during sex. its very hot. if it feels good do it i reckon.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl' Or, what I have been known to do, grab his cock and use it to wank with! (Seriously, if you haven't tried this, do! It's so moist and soft but firm and just make him hold still whilst you use his member to get off. OK, so it's a bit of a dominance thing, and I do admit to it being a few years since I've done this, but I do remember it being fantastically hot!)Guys sure do love watching a woman wank though.... just saying! Fucking wankers!;)when i was 17, i was seeing a woman who was 21 and i wasnt very experienced and she used to do this during a long session, first time she did it it blew me away and i luvd it and i still do it to this day :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Bundy there is nothing hotter than watching/helping a woman play with herself. Every woman is different, I hope you don't expect every man to know exactly what tips you over the edge the first time he hops in the sack with you. Is every man you've been with identical? I hope not.Cheers
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RHP User
14 years ago
For us the woman playing with herself is awesome..a huge turn on..isnt that what its all about?having fun and doing what works or is good for you?It show confidence and that the girl know what she wants
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd admit it. I find it mortally offensive. I'm not even needed then.
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RHP User
14 years ago
JUST KIDDING !I love it - love to see it, to hear the enjoyment, and love to helpThere's no bigger turn on than a turned on woman Of course if a man tries it..that could raise some eyebrows...MrA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Clearly I can't speak for all. But the idea of my partner either helping herself, or providing a little guidance in that area sounds fine by me. We can't all be Valentinos with every single partner and establishing a perfect sexual synergy in every part of that encounter sounds almost mythological when put that way. The idea of getting in tune with a partner through extended foreplay or open communication should help break down a few of those pretences. But if a guy can't take instructions, whether too dumb, unresponsive, or just too proud... what's the reason for being with him then... sexually that is? Winks!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
...just how greedy some women really can be. | Quoting 'D_G_T' I couldn't imagine myself needing any clit stimulation..... Rumour has it that you already have one of the best of the best....Lelo is well known for it's quality and effectiveness. without a partner or simply as a way to further enhance the shared experience. That said... | ...why on earth would you ever want garden-variety dildo? | Interestingly, I had a chat with a friend of mine that was having some trouble with pre-mature ejaculation and how he overcame his problem using marital aids...interesting story, as it actually saved his marriage. I will send it to you privately....I am sure you will appreciate the humour in it. | Personally, I don't ever go in with a game plan...boundaries are only ever limited by creativity and mutual agreement, at least that was the cover story I gave them at the Epworth that day so... | ...let's do that again! Ya know ya wanna.
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RHP User
14 years ago
you know what don't worry about what he thinks do what feels good for you that's all that matters
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have no problem watching a woman rub her clit while we're having sex, always a good way to learn how she likes it/gets herself off.Recently while doing anal with a woman I observed the angle/motion with which she rubbed her clit, and then later on I licked her in exactly the same way I had seen. Screams, legs shaking, "I haven't cum like that in years".Always makes a bloke feel good! :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Been with those who do and those who don't....Much prefer those who do play with themselves. I find it a major turn on and also find those that do are a lot more "out spoken".But that's just me, in the end it's whatever floats your boat.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'indi76' But if a guy can't take instructions, whether too dumb, unresponsive, or just too proud... what's the reason for being with him then... sexually that is? Winks!!! And in the very next post like a moth to the flame Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' I have never been in this position where a female has had to masturbate herself to get herself to cum whilst having sex with her...... either I am good at what I do or I am just lucky... So I'm going to go with a) in Indi's post and b) in the one above
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have always played with myself and have found it easier to come sorry guys no offence but some of you just cant get your fingers or other things in the right spot,but most of the time it has been a turn on for the guys or thats what the say LOL.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nobody can make you cum like YOU can ... you have more controll when doing it your self .. most men and women make themselves cum during sex .. so why not do it with your hand too ... :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
and doing the same thing can produce quite different effects (also on the same girl when the mood is different). So some guidance is welcome, especially until you know your partner and can read her smaller signals. You can move the guy's hand or just tell him what he should do differently - but don't give him the impression that he's useless..If you want to play with your clit, you can also ask the guy if he minds. Two girls asked me and of course it was fine with me. We both had good fun.
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