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Flirts from male torsos with empty profiles

July 06 2019

We understand, not everyone is willing to spend money on a premium membership, so being a guest and sending flirts is a way to go for lot of people. But... Most of our notifications are now flirts from guest profiles with no info, no biography, just a torso. It takes time to delete them and it’s extra annoying when same people send multiple flirts persistently. Just to do something different, we decided to actually message one of these guys. Flirt he chose was “I think you are hot, what do you think about me?” Staring at a average dude’s average torso, and nothing else, with no info or self summary, the inevitable answer was “well, there is not much to think about other than a torso, and your profile is empty, so...” This must have hurt his feelings so he messaged back saying “I can tell you about myself and share some photos if you are interested.” “You mean, interested in a torso?” “If you are not interested don’t waste my time.” “Well I think you have wasted enough of ours, mr torso.” How does anyone think that they’ll get anywhere like this? And there is so many of these profiles sending so many notifications everywhere. Does anyone actually give these people green light? Someone somewhere must be saying “yes” to these types that this is spreading like wildfire. RHP needs to implement a new system where empty profiles with one or no photos are not able to contact anyone. Newbies; you’ll never get anywhere like this. Don’t do this. A hint; profiles with interesting self summary attracts us more than a six pack abs photo with no info. For all it’s worth, you can download these photos from anywhere on internet. But you can’t fake a genuine dirty mind with unique personality and respectful approach. Go the extra mile, it’s worth it. It’s actually not that hard to have fun here. It’s just that RHP is overpopulated by certain types that makes it harder for anyone to communicate and meet the right people. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

Why didn’t you just delete ? No you had to have some sport. Says heaps.

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RHP User

6 years ago

they used to have a rule that you had to have info in your profile then they changed it. I tried to change mine so I had no info and it wouldn't let me.Totally agree though, it's a waste of your time. I tried to change mine because I am not interested in playing, just here to read these.

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AnnieWhichway

6 years ago

I agree with your OP. But l have also gave 1 or 2 a chance. 1 proved himself as a great lover. No pic at all. But that just proves your OP that they are doing themselves an injustice in advertising the way they do. Obviously they greatly reduce their chances but they are all individuals and have their personal reasons for doing so. And it's not a problem if they realise this. The problem arises when they don't realise and can't figure why the fuck no one pays them the attention they think they deserve. Self entitlement. Generally they have the entitlement to go fuck themselves

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RHP User

6 years ago

Ouch. I’m also aforementioned ‘torso guy’ (not the one from OP’s post, but one of them!)... I was a paid member in the past & would rather start with a “here’s my torso - I’m not the Michelin man” shot with the hope that someone reads my profile, possibly contacts me if I send a flirt, and gives me the opportunity to go further with more pics & subsequent messages. 🤷🏻‍♂️😎

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RHP User

6 years ago

I agree with Annie.I have met some lovely men who often didn't have any photos. If its too much effort only respond to the profiles who meet your criteria. Like Curious RHP won't let me download photos or change the wording in my profile. Hugs Q

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RHP User

6 years ago

“Why didn’t you just delete ? No you had to have some sport. Says heaps.” Of course had to have some sport, makes life more interesting!

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RHP User

6 years ago

“Ouch. I’m also aforementioned ‘torso guy’ (not the one from OP’s post, but one of them!)” Bigben, you don’t have an empty profile, that’s the difference. You spent time expressing yourself. It’s when people demand attention but give nothing to deserve it when it gets frustrating. Lot of these people don’t seem to realize that couple profiles receive tons of messages, there is no way we gonna have time to ask people one by one to tell us about themselves and show photos. That’s the issue. Yes, deleting these contacts is an other option we resort to but they make up every few contacts in between genuine profiles we’d rather spend time for.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Am amazed at the flirts you get from people with no information on their profile Flirts from guys with no pics and the response I’ll send a pic if you are interested???the ask me blanks are a big fail as well.

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bonefide

6 years ago

Agree, alone with empty male or female Torso profiles are part and partial of this site, so are inactive profiles. Isn’t it about the whole package not whats on the outside. That said. Yes a individual only gets out what they put in. Great talking point by the way.

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Tall74nHard9

6 years ago

That play that game - there are plenty of females who are in the same boat.When I check out the ladies profiles I will not even bother trying to make contact if they fall into these types of categories - if they can't be bothered to put ineven a little bit of effort, what can ya expect from them afterwards ? Also as mentioned above - all "ask me" responses - next ! Tall

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RHP User

6 years ago

...always confuse those of us that aren't making them. Sooooooo I guess if I was going to pump the ratios up or down or otherwise massage them, I'd change the rules of engagement. Easy peasy sleasy. I didn't say that...did I?

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RHP User

6 years ago

I happen to love a good torso pic because I’m an unashamedly pervy woman who gets off big time on pretty much all male body parts apart from the obvious. For that I would rather explore myself in person! I’m totally with you though on the empty profiles. You’re giving me literally nothing to work with. You have ‘ask me’ as information. Ha, no thanks, I can’t be bothered! You send me a message ‘hello’. Our interaction isn’t starting off well. Having said all of this, different people want different things from this site. My profile frequently earns me both lovely feedback and hateful feedback. Apparently I’m both an interesting, articulate person AND a super judgmental condescending uppity bitch (and here I refer you to Halestorm’s ‘You call me a bitch like it’s a bad thing! .... I don’t give a shit, I love it when you call me a bitch). I get so turned on by profiles which talk about being both gentle and rough, profiles that are honest and raw, profiles that give me an insight to the man writing them. I don’t care if there are a few spelling mistakes or grammatical errors .... I’m looking for intent, meaning, passion, possibilities. Funnily enough I also don’t care if there are no photos, as they can always be shared at the right time. I’d way rather no photo than dick pics or pics with other people in it (random sex partners, children, mates). And yes I know this is a sex site and some women like dick pics. And for sure there have been some rather magnificent ones that have had me bite my lip and flood my panties .... but on the whole for me it’s way too much too soon, oversharing and quite frankly probably an accurate representation of the owner! I wish it were mandatory that people write at least something as it does make me wonder about the legitimacy and purpose of their profile. I often think I should start a small sideline business in writing and editing profiles! But then that takes away the unique individuality that lets us either enjoy or moan about profiles!

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