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French Men & Ex's Rant!
February 28 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Taby. That is really a shit experience. His issues tho. You are a gorgeous young woman and I am impressed by how you conduct yourself on this site. I personally would love to have sex with you and I am pretty sure I would enjoy it totally. ;-) That aside, don't let it get you down. The guys like that are not worth it. You are a beautiful well adjusted woman. Go out there and keep having fun. Mr Playfulcouple85 xo
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RHP User
15 years ago
he is a wanker...it doesnt matter if he is french or not............................Chalk it up as experience and let it go.....................Now your at uni you'll have heaps of playmates.................god I miss uni...............
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RHP User
15 years ago
That is one of my absolute pet peeve's...dragging the baggage behind them. It's not just the men...the women do it too, but so far have started in well before the matress got messy. Please...carry on is fine as we all have it but if you have carry on luggage...make sure you leave it at home or check it through. It will still be there when the plane lands for you to pick up. | At some point and if we do become close...all good. We all have a past and friends talk about things that...but not at the front end and sure as hell not during the first time together, but maybe over time and with a more mature perspective. | As to the rest...you just got a box wine. There is no 2010 Cardbordeaux that I would want, and probably not even after it has aged a bit. Then again if it was bottled... | ...I could tell you where you should have put the cork? | Time to make the age minimum 35 and look for Norwegians from out of town.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah.. the french get their reputations as being great lovers... because of french women.... feisty adorable flighty and oh so sexy. Frenchmen are hitching a ride under their peplums. :pHugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
If that were me I would have made him leave I would hate to be compared to an ex gf and he also sounds like he would have made you feel cheap?ha ha luckily I don't really like french men thanks for the tip
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RHP User
15 years ago
We all have some baggage left over. Our past experiences are what shape us into the person we are today after all. So if we have been physically abused, we may flinch when someone raises thier hand. If we have been hurt, it takes a while to get over it. I always ask the guys "How long have you been alone?" It is a very relevant question as it can take several years or more to comletely get over the hurt that a breakdown in a relationship can cause. I dont get compared to the ex......(well maybe but usually in a more complimentary way) although the ex partner is always discussed. It is a guage on how much baggage he is still carrying around. It is not only those under 25 who do this and I do agree with Mr Midnight, not only men. Also plenty of good old aussie guys (and girls) can get hung up about thier ex. Wants to pay a prostitute? Tabby, Tabby, Tabby...too slow girl. I would have hit him with the price. LOL....and made it steep. By the way. Uni will give you plenty of long lovely holidays in which to have fun. Plus many weekends. It is not all about study and not really that arduous.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You seem like a great girl, your posts are always interesting, and obviously you are VERY easy on the eye. Put it down to this guy being a douche. You are 100% right, sex is supposed to be fun, not a weapon. Don't stop the lovin', just stick with your rules. It seems when you break them you have bad experiences, so just don't break them :) Apart from that, have a great rest of your week. Cheers D
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lol Taby what a doofus he was.... he's just wasted a weekend with you !!! . and as for being French and wanting to make love.......pfff he can speak for himself. Im French/Welsh background and I sure as hell dont mind a fuck here n there . his ex sounds smart, he probably spent the whole time with her, crying about his previous ex
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to admit, the propensity for stupidity in younger men is astounding. We can often be found at the local Bunnings, searching for bigger shovels to dig ourselves into even deeper holes.First off, I don't think you should ever bring up an ex, or another man/woman, when you are spending such special time with someone (regardless of whether it's a one-nighter or more). The physical experience is all about focusing on each other, and the moment, and being absorbed in the passion. I feel that the same should go for the time you spend together pre and post sex. If a guy travels to meet/stay with someone like you, miss Taby, he should spend all the time from the moment he arrives until the moment he leaves, focusing on you and making the most of the time you have together. Also, even comparing you to his ex, in bed or otherwise, just shows his complete lack of respect for you. I guess that really it is the young man's failing there, and not your fault at all. I think he was looking for a quick lay without having to be considerate, in which case he should have gone trolling clubs and alleyways late at night.Secondly, and don't mistake my statements for cultural ignorance, but the french men are stereotyped for their misogyny, sexuality and their rudeness. I know they are stereotypes...but honestly, all stereotypes come from somewhere! But I wont limit this to just French men! I know many guys who are just as careless, although your french boy seems to take the cake at the moment. I'd say you could chalk this up to him being immature, arrogant and insensitive. When he gets older, he will be all alone with himself, paying for prostitutes and wondering why women won't sleep with him! And there you will be, passing him in a bar and not giving a second glance!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Obviously from a bad break-up and too soon, but that's no excuse to compare people, spesh not negatively.Hope one of your 'friends' will be able to cheer you up pronty'Hang in there kitty' *wishes i could insert picture*
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry to hear you had a disappointing weekend but don't let him get under your skin, the stuff he said to you sounds too scattered to actually have any real meaning. Some people feel the need to bring others down rather than picking themselves up so the things he said were really more about him trying to make you as miserable as he was than anything really to do with you. Just take everything he said to you and mentally throw it out the window. xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
You are too nice for your own good girl! You should have kicked his arse out of bed as soon as he opened his mouth about his ex! < Please don't lose any self esteem or sleep over a guy that has no idea about life or himself! He really isn't worth it...he is the one with the problems .. not you! < Take a few deep breaths and shake it off hun...you are worth so much more than that! xo xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is so passe... It's boring to hear about all of someone's past problems. I mean sure we need to talk things out but save that for your guy/girlfriends or long term lovers!Personally I find it to be a real turnoff when women start in on me right away expecting me to be like all the men who have treated them so badly. Or when they think they know what I'm going to do before I've showed them what a great guy I am!
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RHP User
15 years ago
France would be ok if it was'nt for the French. Sac Re Bleu! The whole thing sounds twisted outa shape, Oh la la where did you find this Dude? And he wants to pay a Magdele(pro) well of course you pay - for them to leave. Do you really need this in your life?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wanker! Without a lie I will be up visting Hervey Bay in a few weeks visiting a mate who moved up there from Sydney for work..........let me take you out for a drink and redeem the simpler sex.......we cant have some French tosser giving us a bad name..........on behalf of the male sex i am happy to take on the responsibility of giving you a great night out :) You are great......ignore tossers Roguish
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RHP User
15 years ago
Chalk it up to experience and call for "un autre sil vou plait" or next please!By the way, some guys fantasise about being with a prostitute. Others have a fetish about paying for sex. I don't think he was comparing you to a prostitute, merely giving voice to a fantasy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe I need to rethink the profile name. I hope Jeanza!! is still available. . Besides.. I'm german. I just thought if I called myself Helmut Grosserschwanz people would think I was arrogant, lacked a sense of humour and was still bitter about handing European countries back to their rightful owners.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nothing to do with the fact that he is French. It's just bad luck that the 2 ONLY French you got to meet are immature wankers.I'm French and do not feel associated with that kind of behavior in any ways. These guys are needy and can't get over themselves and their past relationships...too bad for them.As for the other comments about French, I just seriously You are georgous and that's all you should know.Have a good week-end Taby.Bisous
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RHP User
15 years ago
This is the same reason I usually avoid women under 25 - French or not!
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