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Friction

September 26 2010

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I have a question for the girls of rhp. How do you stop from getting friction when you’re having sex? I know this may seem like a simple question any many will people will say the obvious answer is lube. But of late I have been seeing some guys with thicker cocks and as a result I have been getting really bad friction from the intercourse because I like it hard and rough & with a big, thick cock this is probably a bad idea... but I can’t help myself. I only have this problem when I have sex with thicker guys but funny enough length never causes a problem. Sometimes it gets to the point where it hurts so much I have to stop but even though I’m tender and sore I will solider on! LOL I use heaps of lube and always make sure to apply more if things dry out but I still find myself getting massive friction that takes a few days to heal & makes it hard to sit down. Is this normal? Does anyone else have the same problem, how do I fix it! Because there is no way in hell I’m going to stop having sex so that’s not an option. Taby.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Never needed the stuff. If the guy is doing the job properly neither willl you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm not sure how to fix that problem but would sure love to meet the guys that have caused it ;) would be worth it I think ;) hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Tabby hun i hate you so damn much right now...i cant even find a man willing to meet and your complaining of friction burn bloody shit girl.... LMFAO all i can say is i have this problem when the guy puts on a condom...i dry out real quick and it hurts like hell if i dont lube up real quick and use a lot of it but anything else i have no idea sorry...have you tried different types of lube, maybe some are better than others? i got nothing really sorry hahaha roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks girls LOL But see I only have this problem with guys that have thick width cocks. Guys with average or thin width I never get friction from. I know it has to do with the whole skin streching thing. But there has to be a way to stop it hurting everytime Im penitrated... Mind you I do enjoy it still its like pleasure & pain lol it just limits the amount of time I can have sex... which for me is bad because my mind and body is saying yes yes yes while the sore part of me is protesting no no no... lol Taby.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i started reading yr question, but then i looked at yr pic and i went pig again. and its not yr looks no fucken way... i mean no offence y r hot bitch and all but you are a softie... the sensual one ...and tab its a good thing girl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I never attempt anything with mrs Rough unless she is wet and ready, which usually means plenty of time down south with my tongue. Lucky for me i LOVE this so not a prob. and we have never needed lube.That said. as i am a builder, we sometimes use the tradies entrance, and no matter how much work you do, this one will never get wet enough on it's own.We have tried MANY different lubes for this and there is only one that works UNREAL-So the lube we use is made by Eros, you will find it at most sex shops. Not cheap, but bloody well worth it!good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I tried to read your question in a positive frame of mind in order to answer it... ... but I got half way through and now Im feeling really turned on. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Perhaps you have a mild latex intolerance?I know I get the same thing...Maybe try the non-latex condoms...see how you go then...although they are a bit exxy.And perhaps try a thicker lube..JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm throwing out there... Could it be the condom? You could have a sensitivity to certain brands? Maybe keep an eye on what type you are using and try different ones, and see if that makes a difference? All I got for you Taby hun...sorry xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Taby.. If the guy is rocking your world.. don't need lube hun! I like it all ways...hard,n fast and slow n gentle.. But if he not rocking my world.. I will stop.. Not getting sore puss for anyone! lolz sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The problem with your water based lubes is that they're absorbed back into the lining of the vagina/anus and also tend to get sticky and tacky after awhile. Try a bit of silicone lube, not much is needed and it makes a HUGE difference. It's way more expensive than basic wet stuff or whatever, but totally worth it. Will polish latex up to a shiny shiny shine too! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ok so some of you are saying I shouldnt need lube? Iv been having sex for just over 3 years now and in that time Iv always needed lube. I just dont seem to get really really wet like other girls do... or so I have been told by a couple of guys Iv been with. Sure sometime I will admit that the guys dont take the time to turn me on like they should but ill also admit that some of the time its my fault because I'm just so impatient & demanding. But there are also guys iv been with that have really turned me on and even then ill still need lube because I dont get really wet... Its weird... Im weird... Iv learnt to live with it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Im with stalky... also tryed to read your post constuctively.. but loss my way when your description of the event got too much.. Now I cant leave my desk until the moment passes or our visiting nextdoor neighbour buggers off... Mr JJ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'taby001' Ok so some of you are saying I shouldnt need lube? Iv been having sex for just over 3 years now and in that time Iv always needed lube. I just dont seem to get really really wet like other girls do... or so I have been told by a couple of guys Iv been with. Sure sometime I will admit that the guys dont take the time to turn me on like they should but ill also admit that some of the time its my fault because I'm just so impatient & demanding. But there are also guys iv been with that have really turned me on and even then ill still need lube because I dont get really wet... Its weird... Im weird... Iv learnt to live with it... Nope hon...not weird at all.Just like some guys have heaps of precum...and some have none...us girls juice up differently too.Nothing wrong with using lube or spit...it all just adds to the fun.Only other thing is maybe this is just an annoying byproduct of your love of thick cocks.Must admit....Im a bit partial to them too...and looooove that just fucked feeling that lasts for days....mmmmmm.JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'taby001' Thanks girls LOL But see I only have this problem with guys that have thick width cocks. Guys with average or thin width I never get friction from. I know it has to do with the whole skin streching thing. But there has to be a way to stop it hurting everytime Im penitrated... Mind you I do enjoy it still its like pleasure & pain lol it just limits the amount of time I can have sex... which for me is bad because my mind and body is saying yes yes yes while the sore part of me is protesting no no no... lol Taby. Ba ha ha ha ha. For a lass who a few forums ago did not want to have kids? Suck it up baby. One sure way to stop the friction is to give birth a time or two.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Definately some girls just do not get as wet as others... Why does it always come down to the guy not doing the right thing, with some of you forum peeps it's blame the guy everytime... lol... Some girls get wet... some girls get really really wet... and some girls don't... it's as simple as that. Just like some girls squirt... some girls don't... Some girls can't even orgasm... (although I like to think that can be changed)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Many have said you dont need lube. IMHO that is downright wrong. Everyone is different - some people make copious amounts of their own, others dont. If lube helps in your case then pour it on! If I can give you one suggestion Tabby - use a high quality silicone lube. We have tried many different brands / types over the years and our favourite of the last couple is a silicone lube called Pjur Woman. A little goes a loooong way and it simply does not dry out. Super slipery, tasteless and odourless as well. Good online shops sell it or you will find it on ebay even. We dont really need lube, but this stuff is so nice we use it almost all of the time. Loving_cpl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ...gee a few weeks off here and the world hasn't changed! Surely all girls get wet and squirt if the guy does it right??? Nah Taby don't worry, go and get some silicone lube and have some fun. Although I would like to tell a little whitey and say that the Pups could get your juices flowing ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    try saliva or spit lol.. natures lube. its what the pornstars use also.nothing but the best for our role models ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Incase us bogans don't 'no' what saliva is? Hehee.... I totally agree though ezy! Watch and learn from the pro's? You said you're demanding, get these porn star sized cock men you meet to start acting like them! Demand they spit on your dry, tight hungry little pussy, etc. Mmm. Could be used in lots of different role play situations...? You look and sound like the confident, dominating type. And maybe trrrryyy and slow it down a bit... 'Little Miss Impatient'..! Lots of foreplay, lots of licking and teasing...that should make the juices start flowing... make these boys work for your hot little ass of yours first! ;) 'If symptoms persist, please consult your local GP. I work in one, and do know that of of women suffer from 'dryness', and it can be fixed by popping a pill! Don't be shy if it's effecting your quality of life.... And the quality of your SEX for goodness sakes girl? No we don't want to have to cut anything short in the name of pain, you are a trooper for 'Soldiering on'... Oh and you are just too cute btw! Hehe..x I've never needed lube and personally hate it. You just can't get a good grip on your clit when it's needed most? No way.. I do cop a red raw pussy after 'sexathons' too.. Not really during luckily, having too much fun to notice maybe? :P. But I once had a smear a couple of days after a romp, where I was left battered by a large penis and numerous other things. And the doc looked at me, then looked again at 'it' and said "There is a substantial amount of grazing on your vaginal walls.". His eyes lit up and he then said... "So you like it rough huh girlie?" No he didn't really, the second bit was made up! I thought I was in the post re. Ultimate Fantasy for a second there ;). ...back to the story, well not much more to it. I didn't want to go into why my pussy was so grazed, obviously he knew!? But he didn't say anything further about it. Phew! So I was just thinking, it can't be too bad for you. Besides the 'hard to sit' down bit... Ouchie! Good luck with those big, thick dicks you poor poor girl, and I hope things improve quicksmart....X

  • xxkinkyfunxx

    xxkinkyfunxx

    15 years ago

    Hey Tabs, while saliva is great it has a very short life span... we use Pjur silicon based lube. it's great for anal and fisting too (winks Sal)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In due course you may find you prefer the thick ones in order to get the friction that you crave. Length can then become more of an issue.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    smells great, 100% natural and multi-purpose :)lilmiss x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Could not AGREE with You MORE Well said My love, Well said!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010'the use it or loose it theory. freudian slip or unintentional pun? lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I agree with Fionabee. Maybe you need to take more time with foreplay hun. But they guys should be making sure you are dripping wet first if they are using addons lol. But also there is a type of dermititus that causes that problem. Wish I was a pussy doc, I would say cum and see me...lol Good luck with your problem hun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'taby001' Thanks girls LOL But see I only have this problem with guys that have thick width cocks. Guys with average or thin width I never get friction from. I know it has to do with the whole skin streching thing. But there has to be a way to stop it hurting everytime Im penitrated... Mind you I do enjoy it still its like pleasure & pain lol it just limits the amount of time I can have sex... which for me is bad because my mind and body is saying yes yes yes while the sore part of me is protesting no no no... lol Taby.